Young people are allowed to change and evolve as much as they need to until they finally end up living the life reflecting who they are intrinsically. I don't think that's super offensive.. she's just a human who's lived through this drastic change in lifestyle going from a college student to a massive influencer. it's more nuanced than reducing it down to a "switching up."
Yeah that was obvious from day 1 if you watch early episodes they talk about how even in hs Bri switched up, then college same thing and when Bri was alone in NY she recruited Grace basically because she had no one else. Now we only know what is given from the podcast but seems like Bri just uses Grace as a last resort when she has no one else and then when things are going well, well Grace gets kicked to the curb.. They are still super young so time will only tell how it plays out but the track record isn't good lol
it is clear from even a casual listener that bri ditched / drifted away from her best friend because of her new celebrity boyfriend. her talking in circles about wanting different things as if that isn't a direct cause of changing yourself for a guy.... we support you Grace!
The entire episode summed up: Bri continually repeats, "We both were thinking the same things and not communicating. Thinking we hated each other. That's it." Grace agrees halfheartedly, repeatedly, because it's more than that and as usual she is more invested in the friendship and more heartbroken. Watching this made me realize how emotionally immature Bri is. The fact that she just keeps saying, "It was so funny" when Grace was clearly really anxious about the entire situation. It wasn't funny, Bri, you just can't handle the situation/conversation.
Exactly. Bri did so much more talking than Grace and spoke for both of them and you could tell it wasn’t was Grace was feeling. I was really sad for her. Bri is a shitty friend who dropped her lifelong best friend for a dude.
I’ve sat here and watched and stayed silent until it gets to the part where Grace teared up and I can’t keep quiet any longer. It’s obvious Grace cares about the friendship more than Bri. It’s sad and not fair. If my best friend was on the verge of sobbing I would have done so much more to make sure she was okay. I also wouldn’t have totally dumped my bestie for some guy who’s cheated on the last 2 women he’s been with when my friend and I were living our literal dream. Bri you take advantage of Grace’s loyalty and then throw her feelings aside and she deserves a better friend. I’ve loved you both but truth is Bri needs to be a better friend.
@@mamarmst it’s the worst feeling ever. Z & B will end and then she’ll come crawling back to Grace and Grace will love & accept her because SHE is the good friend in this equation. I used to love them both so much I’m so sad 😞
I don’t think it’s fair to make that assumption based off social media. We do not know these people in real life. It is impossible to know everything that’s going on with them based off social media.
Because she’s doing it for her “bestfriend” who is the bad boy. I guarantee the only reason Bri met with Grace was for her to clear her name, and try to stop the hate
it really sucks that grace got left in the dust and bri was mad at her and still invalidated her in this conversation, like grace was practically grieving a friend🥺
Grace has been carrying this podcast, if bri wants to go solo then cancel it tbh. Why is grace the only one showing up in person to BRIs podcast studio
i completely agree with all the takes on bri invalidating grace and taking zero accountability. not to mention grace is the one in the studio doing the podcast every week, bri is a three hour drive away but can’t actually come film the pod? ridiculous
Wait I just realized that- they were literally together last night but couldn’t be together in the studio for a heavy convo like this when Bri isn’t far.. smh
1. Bri may have started this podcast on her own but I personally started watching for grace so please give her some flowers. 2. Bri needed Grace as much as the opposite, gaslit her into thinking she was the most important person in the world to her just to a abandon her and call Zach her “best friend” that shit hurts. 3. I really wish Bri could stand accountable for hurting Grace and just apologize, this episode was a hard watch…
the just omalley pod needs to happen for this summer !!! she can tell us all about her life on the road, her party life, funny influencer stories, etc. Grace go on cancelled and just trish alone so everyone can hear the real you!!!
I think people could tell that there's a shift in the vibe. We have all been in Grace's shoes and most of us have been in Bri's. When you fall in love it's easy to feel like this is everything, and right now it is. But, you'll never have the history you do with Grace. I'm 37 years old, been best friends with the same person since i was 12. We have been through this over and over. Remember what you two have and how rare it is to find that person. Don't let a relationship change you so much that you lose her.
Oh shocker everyone was right. Bri just lied on bffs too saying that the fans were crazy. Lol how does she have any fans left? Her letting Grace take the blame is wild when everyone who had been in this type of friendship knows the real reason lol. Bri only cares about how this is affecting her PR-wise. Poor Grace. Also Bri growing up doesn’t mean ditching your entire life and personality to follow a man around 😂
I mean she’s right, people are kinda crazy for the assumptions they’re making as to why they’re going through a rough patch. Especially people that are supposed to be their fans.
@@CTLee420everyone said the vibe is off the energy is off ……and we all got gaslit by Bri and told we’re stupid and crazy for feeling that way and now flash to today where guess what we weren’t wrong we were right so let people feel how they wanna feel in these comments you don’t know these people any better than we do so let us be
@@CTLee420 called us crazy and insane in the bffs podcast this week just to turn around to do this and in one of the last couple episodes the insanely stupid comment was made but I’m not gonna go look lol
I’m wondering what Zach and Grace’s relationship is like as well. If Grace and Zach were super cool, one would think that Bri and Zach would invite Grace to come out and visit in certain cities to be apart of the tour and hangout. Seems like an easy fix for besties who miss each other.
Bri would never. She wouldn’t even talk about it when Dave tried pressing her when Zach unfollowed her and Grace on Instagram. Can’t make her bf mad then she won’t be able to follow him around and live in that giant house
Sounds like bri got a new boyfriend and completely ditches grace. Grace then becomes upset with Bri and distances herself. Now Brianna is gaslighting Grace and saying well you were mad at me and being bitch because I was a bad friend so now I’m gonna be mad at you for being mad at me.. Bri needs to take accountability and realize she changed and ditched her best friend after getting into a relationship. Of course people do grow apart and can do their own thing but you should never be that girl who abandons her friends after getting into a relationship. Bri didn’t make an effort to keep their friendship alive while also balancing a relationship. Grace is upset and misses her friend. Also says a lot that Zach and Grace never talk or hangout and Zach unfollowed Grace. Clearly they don’t like eachother.. that doesn’t help the rift either.
It isn't "growing and maturing" if you're doing the same things the other person is doing still the only difference is you're not doing it together. Bri is not better than Grace.
It’s blowing my mind! Does she not see these comments😭 I just really hope she realizes shes throwing away her relationships for one rich narcissistic man.
I do think it’s important to note that throughout all of this, Bri had Zack to turn to. This sort of fight (as someone whos gone through it) is so much more difficult for the single friend. There’s a big void left while for the person in a new relationship, their life can still feel very full. Bri got two dogs and a cat and a new relationship and traveled the world, and I’m sure for grace it felt like nothing new came to her the way it did for bri. It can be so difficult to course correct after a fight like this, hope they can find ways to continue to prioritize each other.
Be an individual. I feel like you just morph into any relationship you get in. Grace has been there for you for everything. Don’t take your friendship for granted.
Girls like bri can't do that. They just become extensions of their boyfriend bc they have no identity of their own. It's pathetic and sad and hopefully she actually "grows up" and gets much needed therapy to figure out why that is.
I’m never one to comment on anything on here but Bri, it is extremely unhealthy to drop everything in your life that is your foundation for a relationship ship that is toxicity codependent with Zach.
“You guys are crazy” “you people are so annoying” bri about her own fans when asked about a rift in their friendship. The next pod it’s confirmed the fans were 100% right lol.
Have seen the comments? Those are not fans. Like grace said, if you’re a fan of her you should be rooting for their friendship. The people coming on here just to hate them are weird af for that
these mfs are notttt fans😂 the way everyone knew NOTHING abt the actual situation, except for lack of chemistry in recent episodes, yet were spamming grace's comments talking shi on bri as if that was supposed to result to anything lmao #1 hater and instigator behavior and if they are fans and claim themselves to be, they do deserve to be called crazy and annoying😂 u know damn well
I honestly feel like they need to call it quits on this pod and I never thought I would say that. The spark is gone between them. Bri has definitely made it clear where her priorities lie. Grace deserves better:(
Typical Bri. Taking NO accountability. Pawning the whole thing on Grace. You can tell there is a power imbalance and why grace is saying what she’s saying. Bri saying she’s maturing, stable, and doesn’t want to party is insinuating Grace is the total opposite of those things. Just be real, Zach hates Grace. And changing your whole personality for him is more important than Grace.
@@katiedanielle71511 deserves better how? They’re going through a rough patch like all friends do. I think people need to stop making assumptions into facts.
Bri was just on BFFs saying there was no fight and everything was fine. Calling all of us annoying and wrong…. And we were right? She’s still downplaying it in this…She has gone completely psychotic, wow.
You all are annoying and wrong hahaha THIS HAPPENS TO MOST ADULT FRIENDSHIPS you aren’t them. It’s a natural thing sometimes for 2 people to grow apart due to different wants and needs in that time. Just sh go live your life. I promise you, caring this much about social media influencer friendships will ruin you
can’t believe Bri took no accountability and let Grace call herself and asshole & blame herself oh wait, i totally CAN believe it because bri does it time and time again! boa gate, stealing merch designs drawn by independent artists, the list goes on!
Omg troll 🧌 did you even listen they both took accountability for not communicating w each other bri is in a diff era and so is grace it’s ok to want diff things y’all hate on bri but watch her weird
@@alyssapooletablethe only people that took that from this podcast are Bri haters… people with logic and without a biased hatred for Bri, did not get that from watching this pod
Barstool needs to give Grace her own pod with full creative control. She’s the real reason most of us watch and seeing her do a solo pod just confirmed it! Give the people what they want!!!
Wow what a way to say Bri takes no accountability meanwhile Bri’s been calling us freaks and weirdos for thinking they were fighting for months and guess what they were………..also weird that theirs no mention of the giant boss baby elephant in the room…….team grace always
I love you bri but girl…you can’t just sit there while Grace is blaming herself for things and be like “yeah so the only issue is Grace was just upset that we didn’t spend 24/7 together anymore and that’s totally healthy and normal to be apart”. Yes it is normal is have some time apart but it’s SO CLEAR that Grace is not just upset about not being together 24/7. You cut her off multiple times in this pod and spoke for her and put words in her mouth when you can tell she doesn’t agree 100% with what you’re saying. Please take some accountability. I watched this pod since it was just you alone - but this is hard to watch. A simple acknowledgment that you’re both at fault would go a long way. You say you both just assumed things about each other, but not that you both take responsibility - instead you’re letting Grace take the fall and painting the picture that she was jealous and needed more attention. Obviously this does not concern me and idk yall but seriously, this is painful to watch. Not sure how everyone besides you can read graces body language and tone 🙃 love you bri but please take some responsibility here.
Bri is such a loser. Grace will thrive! Zach will cheat/dump her ass within the next year or two (like he always does) and coming crawling back…I’ve seen this film many times before 😂
"Grace just doesn't want this life and I do!" Brianna....we all follow a guy around once or twice. Yours just happens to be really wealthy. Grace doesn't have the same privilege, and you won't forever either. You didn't need Grace anymore and left, which is fine, but don't gaslight her.
Bri has no accountability and basically blames Grace for the reason their friendship was off. I wish she gave Grace a moment to truly explain how she felt. I feel like for Grace it’s more like her best friend forgetting about her and following her bf wherever he goes.
Exactly. I think Grace feels awkward saying how she really feels because she's grateful for the opportunity to be on the show and to work at barstool and she knows Bri thinks that Bri is A and she is B. But Grace needs to realize how popular she's become in her own right and embrace that confidence
Yep. Grace is the true shining star in this dynamic. She’s original, funny, and humble- she will go much further than Bri in the future. I think them drifting will actually be good for Grace to pave her own way.
It felt like Bri was just word vomiting to keep Grace quiet. This breaks my heart. Speak your truth Grace. Bri will regret this so much if her and Zach break up.
I've never seen someone with the ability to take ZERO accountability for their actions the way that Bri does about everything. Feels like so much gaslighting on her end
Bri is such a narcissist lol “I didn’t want to ruin my exs life anymore” “i started this podcast on my own” “I am growing up” no you literally hooked Zach Bryan and you are a glorified groupie lmao
can Bri recognize that maybe she moved too fast in this relationship and is prioritizing it time and time again over this friendship???? THAT IS WHY Grace is upset.!!!!!!
@@Beccajade-hd7do I sure did, did you? They said they met at a beach within walking distance to Bris house and it was cold so they had to get in the truck. So why didn’t they just meet at Bris house from the beginning? It seems shitty to not invite Grace to her house to have the conversation instead of a cold beach.
@@St99748 right and then Grace said she was able to see the new house! And at the end of the conversation they were talking about hugging in the yard saying bye and people were driving by taking pictures of them….
Bri once again taking zero accountability. Zero apology towards Grace but what’s the point when she’s going to continue to follow the serial cheater around and ignore her BFF and give zero effort to her one job!
I feel like I just watched a full episode of Bri gaslighting Grace and also saying their friendship hasn’t been working out because Bri has “grown up” and Grace is still stuck in the partying phase. I didn’t know following your brand new bf on tour all year was growing up
Bri said it for what it is, in the past Grace was part of her relationships with her boyfriends per Bri’s own words, “it was like a thruple”. But now with Zach, it’s not like that anymore. Healthy relationships don’t have you ignore your friendships especially those that have been in your life since day 1. It’s pretty obvious that either Zach doesn’t like grace or Grace doesn’t like Zach or both. That’s the tiff or tension and that won’t go away unless one breaks up with the other or they work it out. I’ve seen this happen so many times in my own life. And I feel bad for Grace who feels like she’s losing her best friend. Also Bri shouldn’t feel like she has to say yes to all of Zach’s tour dates etc. it’s healthy to make time for your friends and have some time apart from your boyfriend. And if your boyfriend is upset for that then he obviously has some insecure/controlling problems. I really hope they are able to work this out.
No matter how good of a friend- if your reoccurring relationship problem is your overbearing best friend… then that might be the problem. That doesn’t mean grace is a bad person but bri has never had a chance to love someone without feeling like she had her bestie tagging along then that’s her business?? The discourse is so weird. I’m sure Zach will be just a phase to bri but bri ain’t never had a phase without grace so let her do what she’s gotta do, it’s her life not ours! If you’re a real fan you support grace on her own and believe in her come up without bri. And if you fr love bri you’d be able to see from the jump she’s been anxious asf about this type of lifestyle and has constantly gone back and forth finding herself (as we all should as ladies in our 20s, we’re all trying our best !!) . If they love and support each other regardless of the phase then no one should have anything to say ❤️ they’re both gonna kill it in their futures and its exciting !!!
Just sad what this podcast has become. You guys used to be so real and ever since Zach came in the picture, everything is just surface level. If you can’t be real I don’t think it’s worth doing this anymore
Yes it’s normal for your friendship to change but it’s not normal to not tell your bff how you feel or give her a heads up, but downplaying it and making Grace seem like she’s overreacting over something “normal” is not right
Bri had so much potential and was in an upward trajectory and threw it all away for a guy…after noticing a pattern I had to unfollow her and stop watching the pod (even though I love grace). I could never be friends with girls like Bri, ultimate pick mes who need validation from men and can’t stay single. Grace has been carrying this pod for a while now while Bri is off being a groupie gf. I hope grace takes off as a comic and finds better friends. Bri will prob try to marry zb and he will leave her like he did his first wife. This is the last episode I click on, I won’t even watch it all bc based off the comments I don’t need to.
Really felt like Grace took responsibility for the entire situation when in reality she had done nothing wrong besides not talking about it sooner. Are we all glossing over the Zach unfollowing Grace online? This is when shit started and since then Bri has manipulated and flipped everything around. Most of us girls have had friendships with girls that have done this.
This just seems like a desperate attempt by Bri to make everyone like her again…..that was a whole lot of talking for her to say nothing …..the day that girl takes Accountability for anything will be a miracle in itself……..not a redditor or whatever the hell y’all keep blaming negative comments on just a used to be fan
Love them. I’m getting the vibe grace still isn’t being fully honest with how she feels to bri, but I hope they make it through and grace deserves love so much! When she finds someone it will be a game changer
Bri does nothing but follow ZB around and changes her personality for him, isolates herself from everyone else, and is acting like it’s growth? She is so delusional..??!
It’s so sad how clearly one sided this friendship is. Bri blaming grace for the issues as if she didn’t just completely drop her for the new cool thing. While yes priorities change life changes healthy relationships allow for you to maintain both. You don’t need to spend every second with grace or with Zac you can just make an effort to speak with both. Grace you deserve better it’s sad you can’t see that but it’s true.
Bri switched up her whole life when she started dating Zac. And I bet O’Malley will be there when he inevitably kicks her to the curb because she’s a great friend…it’s also pretty obvious Zac is possessive and was jealous of Grace always being around
Love bri but I feel like she’s so out of touch with things that she does(unintentionally) to hurt people who are there for her most.like grace is taking accountability for her wrongdoings but Bri is just shrugging it off like she did nothing. Even if it wasn’t her intention at least acknowledge and apologize you made your friend feel that way. Just bc you get in a relationship doesn’t mean your friend will just be there bc you’ve always been friends
Bri never takes any accountability. All she does is talks in circles. Her head is so far up her own ass. Bri has changed so much for the worst over the past year. I feel bad for Grace, this friendship is one sided. Grace should have her own podcast.
Bri gives 0 fucks about anything but her life and what goes on in it. Feel for you Grace. Think it’s super unfair and I really loved bri but I don’t stand for this shit. Sorry gets me heated that someone thinks they aren’t playing a part in someone else’s sadness.
This is honestly pathetic. Bri is wrong. She isnt growing up, she changed her entire personality and life for her "famous" bf who publicly talks about how shitty he is to his partners. Very funny how she started hating New York when she met Zach.
It's not just about their friendship, it's also a professional relationship. Grace is in NY holding down the fort, having to stop what she's doing to come into the office. Remember Dave let Mean Girls Pod go when they said they didn't want to come into the office - yes there was more to it, but I'm sure that hangs over Grace's head as she lives paycheck to paycheck. Bri gets paid a lot more money and then of course has ZB $$ and his Pop songs to carry them through :)
It sincerely feels like Grace has always lived in the shadow of Bri and Bri just doesn’t care enough to build Grace up to know she’s good enough to stand on her own. This is a decades long pattern that got them both through middle/high school and now followed them into their careers. Grace may not know how to do it without Briana or thinks all her success hangs on her relationship with Bri. Bri probably also likes the dynamic because she *always* will have a friend no matter what is happening guy wise. It’s super sad to see. I watched the Out and About Live stream and it was clear that Grace feels less than, not appreciated and not as loved as Bri and that’s NOT TRUE. You deserve your own light instead of standing in Bri’s shadow I PROMISE this community wants to see your shining!! 💛💛💛
Please explain the reason why your “best friend for life” does not follow your boyfriend? And he doesn’t follow her? Think the answer to that would explain a lot more of what’s going on in this friendship.
It seems like Bri has made going on tour and being with ZB 24/7 her whole personality? Every other thing she puts out there is ZB related. So she definitely is more to blame than Grace. She ditched her friend for her BF. And she thinks she's this mega celebrity, buts its only because shes with an artist whose blowing up right now.
Nope I don’t think so. Things would not be the way they are now if he liked her, she would be included way more in their lives. It’s starting to seem very obvious that Zac is trying to get Bri to keep her distance from Grace behind the scenes.
I think that bri obviously deserves to live her life and do what makes her happy, but i for sure think grace is feeling a little blown off. She’s had a new boyfriend within 1 month of like her last 3 break ups, and has even spoke ab how she struggles being alone which is very obvious. Even when she’s “ alone” she still has a boyfriend for the past 3 years. THEN Got with zach ASAP after her last boyfriend , now is with him 24/7 nonstop. I’m sure it breaks graces heart. always being the single , lonely friend & treated much differently. It’s not bri’s fault grace is alone, but it’s still really sad / hard to see her go thru this. it’s obvious
Right like if that was my friend and I saw how hurt I made them feel, even unintentionally, I would feel awful and be right there with them and apologize or at least acknowledge the reality of what my friend is experiencing as a result of my actions. I love them both but it’s sad to see like you said. It comes off as though Bri just doesn’t care and that obviously would be so hurtful to anyone in a friendship to realize about the other. I hope Grace realizes what a good friend she is and that she deserves that same care and love
Hard fucking watch not once did o hear Bri say sorry ab how she made grace feel… i started watching for grace and i will always support her . She needs her flowers
1. No one is following you Brianna or cares to see you. They follow Zach and want to see his house. The same house that you won’t see finished in 2 years. 2. Brianna takes ZERO accountability. This isn’t all grace’s fault, you ditched your friend for a temporary man in a love bombing relationship (that’s why it’s moved so quickly, that’s not normal.) 3. Brianna, you are not growing up or stable, you’re following around your boyfriend and ruining your other relationships. 4. There’s a reason Grace doesn’t like Zach… 5. Brianna is a HUGE narcissist. She’s a gaslighter to Grace. She does not support what Grace does. Its also was no coincidence she brought up solo pod when they were fighting. 6. This is definitely the preview to the friendship break up.
Isn’t is soo messed up how her definition of “growing up and maturing” is basically by taking digs at Grace and calling her immature. Like growing up and maturing doesn’t JUST mean to cosplay a cowgirl and follow your boyfriend around lmfao. You can be mature / grown up and still party.
bri is not coming off as genuine lately in even the way she’s dressing it feels like she’s in costume or something and it makes me sad. doesn’t match her aura. i hope shes doing okay and not feeling the need to hide her true self :/
Well I think it’s clear from these comments that Bri and Grace are no longer going to share anything about their personal lives/ friendship anymore and I don’t blame them one bit. This comment section is awful, you all need to go touch some grass
@@moh4842 I agree! not sure how you got that I’m super invested in influencers from that comment lol quite the opposite actually. A lot of people here in the comments sure seem to be though lol
Lmao going on tour with your boyfriend is not growing up or in a different stage……she’s doing the same shit she’s always done just dropped Grace to do it with thumby
It kind of rubs me the wrong way that Bri does more and more podcasts not in different places. Yes I get it still “works” with her not there in her person, but… it’s your job? At least a little more often? Everyone else makes it in. (except dave but he is the literal big boss)
