The truth behind raising children with autism

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On this episode of OnePath, two fathers of autistic children discuss what it’s really like. The two fathers, Aiman and Faraz, discuss the challenges, trials and learnings they have developed throughout their journey in raising autistic children.
00:00 - Introduction
00:31: Ho did you react when you realised your child has Autism?
02:38 - What is the greatest lesson you've learnt in raising an Autistic Child?
03:44 - What is the biggest fear you hold in relation to your Autistic Child?
04:46 - Is there anyone you are grateful for in helping to raise an Autistic child?
08:26 - Has your faith helped you in raising an Autistic child?
10:36 - What is you number one Supplication for your child?
This is the first instalment of our new series “My Path” where two people in similar situations from different backgrounds sit down to discuss the underlying challenges they face.
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@haywareerin266 3 года назад

I got a autistic child it's very difficult but I say alhamdulilaah every single day and pray to Allah to make it easy for me

@FrankyAnyone 3 года назад

Maasha allah walal me too, I have a little girl who’s autistic and non verbal it’s an emotional rollercoaster but at the end of it I’m grateful that Allah has given us a gift that will strengthen our emaan, give us patience and will humble us 😊

@asmaabdi1237 3 года назад

My Allaah Almighty make it easy for all of you brothers and sisters who are raising children with long-term conditions Ameen

@humbled3747 3 года назад

@@asmaabdi1237 ameen

@madina4284 3 года назад

@@asmaabdi1237 ameen

@FrankyAnyone 3 года назад

@@asmaabdi1237 Ameen

@josephdemaree8401 Год назад

I’m autistic myself. I used to do so much autism advocacy and I worked as a special needs teacher in a church as a Christian. Now that I’m a Muslim I want to find a place where I can help people with autism again

@muslimah42 Год назад

This is amazing. Im a convert myself and my son has been diagnosed at 2. He is almost 3 still non verbal. Its being really hard on me I cry myself to sleep worrying for his future. May Allah bless you and give you the means to help this community.

@rebeccaimanscott9194 3 года назад

I am dyslexic and my mom give up work for two years to help stay in mainstream because it wasn't easy but my knew something wasn't right because I couldn't read. It was tough love it is the reason I can read and write because my Jamaican Queen Mother helped me Alhamduillah for my mom.

@ferhanaismail5203 2 года назад

Maa shaa allah 💞💞💞

@sweetstufff 5 месяцев назад

What a great mom. She did a great job and so did you, mashallah!

@kingdomgirl4life 3 года назад

As autistic person i find it is a blessing because I see the World more different than any other person even though I have hard times to handling my emotions but I know my Mum Dad & my Brothers & sister & my other family members will help me

@Princessaffo 9 месяцев назад

@@oldcandleshow can people like u be so negative

@sma4301 3 года назад

That brother's last deep breath tells how heavy this discussion is. May Allah grant all their requests and ease their burden. Amin.

@garciajero Год назад

absolutely , there's an endlessness/eternity to autism which is really hard to frame in your head , This was a really insightful video , and altho I'm not a fan of faith , makes me question if this challenge is worth facing on my own.

@faezadavids2705 3 года назад

Maasha Allah, What a beautiful, honest, motivational talk, by these two Amazing Dads To the Single Dad, may Allah make it easy for you, and put good people in your path to help you. Thank you to both of you for being brave and opening up about your struggles, May Allah bless and reward both of you abundantly, Ameen

@rebeccaimanscott9194 3 года назад

My big brother baby son has Autism but they are very very very very loving children always smiling Ma Shaa Allah.

@TubaAmiri 5 месяцев назад

I have 2 beautiful autistic kids alhamdullilah How is the babies doing ?

@NS-ru5gl 3 года назад

I was diagnosed at 19. 12 years later and lots of hard work and I have improved so much alhamdullilah.

@fatimaceesay9274 3 года назад

You are amazing the way you are. Lots of love from a mum with 3 autistic kids 💜💜

@dandan3567 3 года назад

@@fatimaceesay9274 is autism from parents that are genetically related?..like first cousins

@Aysh_khan_i 4 месяца назад

Hey, I need some help to understand it. If I've to help a baby with autism what should I do?? How I can help them?? Any idea?? Please help me

@Heyehyeyeyey11o11o 4 месяца назад

Diagnosed with autism?

@zebakhawaja Месяц назад

Peace be with you ❤️

@husainmohd6377 3 года назад

What a strong commitment, no words can decribe this sense of love. Ma Shaa Allah.

@Only_Islam_is_Truth313 3 года назад

I invite everyone to listen holy Quran recitation from India 🇮🇳💓

@Psychologist_Eugen_Fitzherbert 3 года назад

Omg this is amazing. I recently found out Im autistic and I am also finding my way to the prophet Allah in recent times. Perfect timing!

@saykom6573 3 года назад

Huh wait you can control your autism. Not being rude btw

@wafflxchanog 3 года назад

How can you control it not being rude sorry

@kastriot8675 3 года назад

may Allah SWT bless you with Jannatul Firdaus

@hydragons 3 года назад

@@saykom6573 coping techniques exist, high functioning autistic people exist. Can't be controlled but can be mitigated a little depending on the person and their environment.

@Salma_xx 2 года назад

You found out meaning? Is autism can be something latent? Did your family not know or notice?

@Misipi98 3 года назад

As a speech and language therapist, I really appreciate this video 💯

@daffaamaliaputri8271 3 года назад

MashaAllah thank you One Path Network for making this video. May Allah grant The 2 amazing Dad and also the other autism parents jannatul firdaus, allahumma ameen.

@TheLatiosnlatias02 2 года назад

*Anyone who wishes to learn about the prophets (peace be upon them), here are those!* *Prophet Adam Alayhis Salam: Father of Humankind (Glorious Guides - Stories of the Prophet)* *Stories of the Prophets Paperback - 30 Jun. 1994 by Sayyed Abul Hasan Ali Nadwi* *Life of Muhammad (S) By Muhammad Husayn Haykal (Re-Print)* *MUHAMMAD, MESSENGER OF ALLAH: ASH-SHIFA Paperback - 1 Jan. 1992 by Aisha Bewley* *The Pure Ancestry of the Prophet Paperback* *Our Master Muhammad ﷺ Vol.1 Vendor Imam ʿAbdallah Sirajuddin* *Our Master Muhammad ﷺ Vol.2 Vendor Imam ʿAbdallah Sirajuddin * *The Life of Muhammad Hardcover - 5 Jan. 1989 by I. Ishaq (Author)* *Muhammad: The Prophet of Islam By Allama Abdul Mustafa Azmi - Maktaba-E-Qadria* *Children Around the Prophet: How Muhammad raised the Young Companions Paperback - by Hesham Al-Awadi* *Khadija: The First Muslim and the Wife of the Prophet Muhammad Paperback - by Resit Haylamaz* *Aisha: The Wife, The Companion, The Scholar By Resit Haylamaz* *The Wives of the Prophet Muhammad: Ahmad Thompson* *Links regarding to events after death* www.zawiyah.org/PDFs/Starter%20PacksEnglishWeb.pdf d1.islamhouse.com/data/en/ih_books/single/en_al_Jannah_wa_An_Naar.pdf (from Page 45 - description of Janna ul Firdaus) *Sins and Their Punishments Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah.* www.abukhadeejah.com/the-belief-of-ahlus-sunnah-in-the-testing-of-the-people-in-their-graves/ *The Keys To Jannah - Published by: Imam Ahmed Raza Academy* *Benefitting The Deceased: Good Practices of The Prophet & Companions - Mohammad Sajid Younus* *What The Living Can do for the Dead (From Classical Sources) - Shahrul Hussain* *Heavenly Ornaments (Bahishti Zewar) By Maulana M A Ali Thanvi*

@sanaahamdan3768 3 года назад

Thank you Onepath Network for this video, SubhanAllah being an Autism parent, this video hit home for me. May Allah bless these children and give us parents the patience and understanding to raise them

@atiya52 3 года назад

Aameen

@madina4284 3 года назад

It’s so nice to see fathers talking about their children and life, mashaallah

@mohammadissa7487 3 года назад

May Allah reward you. I have autistic daughter. You described everything I felt in the beginning and still to this day. Keep the faith. Walla Allah is great and he provides in ways you will never realise. My daughter is now 10 years and Alhamdulliah she is doing so well. And beyond what thought she could ever be. Alhamdulliah May Allah give you patient and understanding.

@Deen1011 3 года назад

I needed this the most. In a world full of people not understanding your struggle, you give up speaking on the matter.. This has given me support in a way that's made me realise I'm not alone. It's like they are literally speaking my mind & mindset. Alhamdulillah. All I ask is, is all of us pass & enter Jannah through this trial. Ameen. What this video has made me realise is... I'm honoured to have an autistic child. What an honour. What more do we want for our children, than entry to Jannah without accountability.

@sweetstufff 5 месяцев назад

This brought me to tears. Thank you for sharing and grounding us to our faith. I have an autistic child and I am struggling to cope with their diagnosis even though I already suspected years ago before the diagnosis, but it doesn't lessen the blow. Even my iman is getting tested and shaken and I have all the typical "why me" thoughts. Thank you for reminding us that Allah is always taking care of us and guiding us.

@stepstojannah8173 3 года назад

Subhan'Allah Our beautiful Deen Allah's wisdom behind everything how he trains us to be patient Alhumdulillah May Allah تبارك الله و تعالى keep you brothers strong in your emaan Alhumdulillah we have a goal Jannah

@riderbuu1 3 года назад

May Allah give all of the people who are going thru tough times ease. Ameen.

@taimur74 3 года назад

My 4 year son is autistic and I really needed this

@rehanabegumgfrt9666 7 месяцев назад

Asalam u alaikum brothers and sisters I have 3 children with special needs Alhamdulilaah, my 2 children have autism, my youngest daughter has severe cerebral palsy -she is 15 years old mashaAllah this month and she’s tubefed and possibly lifelong wheelchair user, she has never ever sat down by herself and never stand up and never ever walked in her life and her dream and wishes is to walk one day in sha Allah like all her friends and siblings, and no me and my husband aren’t related. Me and my husband are both carers. We have to be there for all our children 24-7 as it’s very hard, but Alhamdulilaah for everything. Please pray for all our children and the whole ummah, thank you sir for this video , the fear of dying and leaving our children alone is scary but we all have Allah Alhamdulilaah

@samaferguson3191 3 года назад

rabbish rahlaha sadraha wa yasirlaha amraha wahlul uqdatam min lisaniha, yafqahu qawlaha. dua for speech - the dua of moses

@emaadstoys7449 3 года назад

SubhanAllah what a beautiful video. I could identify with everything that the brothers talked about. This child is the ticket to Jannah inshaAllah. I like to think that Allah is testing us. And He never makes you suffer more, if you cannot take it. The fact that my child was chosen to be autistic I'm sure brings him closer to the Almighty. And the fact that we were chosen to bring up this 'gift of Allah' is something that I cant even describe.

@gurya 3 года назад

Such a wonderful video. Jazakallah. I have a child with special needs and he is the biggest blessing in our life. Please produce more content like this

@Autismcureforbianca4 3 года назад

Masha Allah thanks guys for making this video❤️. I have a daughter with Autism who went through the same thing, Alhamdulillah with plenty of dua, and a lot of therapy Insha Allah it will get a lot easier as they get older. I pray that Allah make it easy for you and you’re family, and give you the strength to stay strong Ameen.

@thoughtsinc6345 3 года назад

man OPN on fire these days with raising these issues :) May Allah bless you for your hard work!

@jamesc9853 2 года назад

Brothers watching this remember that the hereafter is better and more enduring. Without a doubt allah the most high will reward him for his care.

@garciajero Год назад

I'm not a muslim but as a parent of an autistic boy this video was really reassuring to watch , it's a hard path that we're on.

@AsmaTaj-kd8tl Год назад

Motivational conversation, my son is autistic, I can understand the situation, we are sailing on the same boat..

@fahiimae7336 3 года назад

Masha Allah. Amazing Dads! You’re are trying everything in your power to help your children be independent and happy , leave the rest to Allah as you doing it now. Allah always has the best plans for us. May Allah bless you and your family

@peacenow6618 3 года назад

May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!

@sz9054 7 месяцев назад

Thank you brothers, may Allah reward you, your spouses and your children for sharing, currently going through it with 3 year old daughter

@peacenow6618 3 года назад

Jazakallahu Khayran Ahsanul Jaza

@AishahAlii 8 месяцев назад

This video brings all the SEN parents hope. Thank you for that

@Aslaan1 2 года назад

My niece doesn't speak or understand a word. It made my sister's life very complex and hard. Raising such child is living a different life. But still Alhamd_u_Lillah for everything.

@muslimah42 Год назад

I understand you sister so much as im living the same experience.

@user-zy4qc6wy2o 3 года назад

Ma sha Allah May Allah grant them more strength and bless every effort they make for their children.

@stepstojannah8173 3 года назад

Subhan'Allah when you think about being in jannah seeing the majestic face of our Rab تبارك الله و تعالى just makes any problem insignificant الله اكبر

@fatimaceesay9274 3 года назад

This video is amazing.May Allah reward you for raising awareness around autism, as single mum with three children with autism I am very grateful for this video. 🙏 Alhamdulilah a positive mindset and recognising the blessings help keep me going.

@samigarnett2 7 месяцев назад

As a parent to an autistic child, it really hit me hard that these men had the same fear I do: what happens to my child if me and/or his mother are not around? May Allah grant us ease and patience Amen.

@hunniieable Год назад

As a Muslim speech and language therapist I love this video and will be sharing it with other families I work with ❤

@mohammadnasir9841 3 года назад

hello there i would love if you guys could upload all your videos as podcasts. Keep up the great work guys

@ameer-ch2rw Год назад

Just remember this is just a test for us, this life is temporary. ALLAH gave us these special children to care for and treat well. Remember this is our ticket to Jannah. People might feel sorry for us and look at our children different but on the day of judgement these children will go straight to Jannah inshallah and hopefully take us with them.

@Jasia-bh7ou 3 года назад

These are well raised men by their mothers .Subhaan Allah 👏👏👏♥️♥️♥️

@mistypotion4419 3 месяца назад

The sleep problems is the hardest 😢 may Allah make it easier for the kids and parents alhamdullilah.

@yislam786ify 3 года назад

🤲MāshāʾAllāh this video moved me so much. May Allah swt reward you all in this test.

@Oulaya96 4 месяца назад

Pray for my 2 autistic son’s. AlhamdulilAllah for everything

@uzmabhat109 3 года назад

Jazakallahu Khair 😊

@dayumboydayum8461 2 года назад

Allah does not burden a soul with what it cannot bear. My brothers you were made for this and I wish you and your family all the strength, the courage, and success to fulfil your duty.

@ovobegzinoii51 3 года назад

Alhamdulilah all children with Autism will go to Jannah.

@Cc-qc9wn 3 года назад

Thank you for this

@peacenow6618 3 года назад

That's so beautiful

@kunafeh 3 года назад

Wonderful and informative video mashaAllah! Feedback: The transition audio between the questions is very spooky and can potentially be changed for further videos.

@mimmss6556 2 года назад

May Allah Almighty reward these brothers for keep going for His Sake. May The Most Merciful grant them strength and high imaan and grant all children with autism with progression, success and happiness. May Allah The Most Merciful grant them the highest rank in jannatul firdous.

@taiyabach5342 8 месяцев назад

My 3 year old Isa is autistic as well. May Allah make us easy for allnof us❤

@abbasduman6963 3 года назад

I think a short introduction at the beginning would give more information to the person

@hirazaa 2 года назад

yesterday only i came to know that my child is also autistic , he is 4rs old. Pls pray

@bsctasg5955 3 года назад

Assalam Alaikum Wa Rahmatu Allah Wa Barakatuh may Allah bless you my brothers and grant you health and happiness to you and all your families you opened my eyes to such a world i was barely noticing , my Allah answer your prayers and ours and reward us all for our patience

@maryamgaj2215 2 года назад

May Allah make it easy for all. May Allah be with all the children who have ASD and other learning disabilities Ameen.

@ibrahimafridi202 3 года назад

Nice 👌

@joumana1275 3 года назад

What a beautiful series Mashallah, soo great to see Islamic channels really broadening into these spheres

@ayabdulla 3 года назад

My sister in law have just been told that her son (my nephew) by his teacher, that he is showing signs of autism and he needs to be assessed by a specialist. Insha'Allah Allah makes it easy for our family. Ameen

@fatimah9202 3 года назад

If the child is under 12 years of age, please take a glass of water, listen to Surah Rahmaan by Qari Basid R.A. and say Allah in your hearts sincerely thrice, and forgive everyone. Then make duas for the children, and drink the water. Because the parents are genetically linked to the child, like a double sim card. This should be done 2-3 times a day. Insha-Allah the child will get better. If the child is older than 12, put the recording on, for the child to listen, wether they are able to pay attention or not. And make the duas and intention as above, and give the children to drink. Both the parents and children can also listen. This theraphy is practiced in many hospitals in Pakistan, with great results. If you Google online you will find it. May Allah bless your children with shifah and reward you immensely.

@mariyamnassar 3 года назад

❤

@GreenGc8 3 года назад

May Allah make it easy for them

@reciterrahma3276 3 года назад

Let’s frequently seek forgiveness from Allah because nobody knows what will happen in the next minute Astagfirullah wa atuubu ilaihi🤲🏼

@yaseene5349 2 года назад

This video is amazing subhanallah

@MATHPRO.OFFICIAL 3 года назад

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@Shadows4_life 3 года назад

Ameen😭😭😭

@mindyjent6003 3 года назад

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@mindyjent6003 3 года назад

I relate to this so much

@MoHaMed-M-FaWzY 3 года назад

Nice

@yourstruly1357 3 года назад

Mashaallah

@Monothiest247 2 года назад

How do you know if your child Is autistic or just speech delayed?

@haywareerin266 3 года назад

Subxaan Allah

@freezone..9347 3 года назад

May allah grant you all health and happiness bro.. mashalah. Enshalah neshoofhaa a besutiful bride enshalah 😍 allah yaahfthkok 🤲

@unbiasedcommentary 3 года назад

Subhanallah....

@reanbarazi6615 3 года назад

Suhallah

@MATHPRO.OFFICIAL 3 года назад

👏👏👏👍👍

@Memorize-Quran-With-Me 2 года назад

Camels milk: salam all....can I suggest giving camel's milk to young autistic children. You can order online. I did some research and found it to be reccommend for autism. Also try ruqya and cupping. Please I would like to have a meaningful discussion regarding autism and camel's milk. Somali community drinks camel's milk in somalia...autism is rare there. The Somali immigrants to other countries with limited access to camel's milk suffer autism. Any one have advice??

@sumayahsmith8797 3 года назад

Sydney needs to create a greet and meet for Muslim’s who are autism parents!

@abdinasirhersi2938 3 года назад

We need *mothers version* of this conversation.

@ZaynVos 3 месяца назад

Salam alaykum, does anyone have knowledge about autism and ADHD? I'm diagnosed but I feel doubt about it concerning the way I got diagnosed. Also I don't really know what it is.

@VeganTrove 3 года назад

💚💜♥️💛💙

@thevjrecords7866 3 дня назад

I wish there was more Islamic speakers would talk about have a autistic child I just find out about my oldest son it’s so hard after 8years I wish I could help him more then I can I wanna know how could I help him more

@corielake828 3 года назад

Thanks for putting out this info with Islamic perspective. A lot of info out there but little coming from Muslim parents.

@sweetstufff 5 месяцев назад

Is there an online support group for Muslim parents of autistic children?

@authentichadiths5979 3 года назад

I invite you all to listen to Hadith narrations

@haywareerin266 3 года назад

Asalaamu calaycum Jumaa Mubarak

@uzmabhat109 3 года назад

Wallaikumasalam

@strangestranger8532 3 года назад

Facts that i come across about autistic children.. 👉 * Before doctors called them autistic children but later they realised that these are specially abled children, (i know one who scored 90% in school) * Allah send big mercy❣️ on the family which has special children.. (u may or may not be able to see the mercy) * WHO reported most of these children around 70% did not get justice in this world.. ✅ * Dua 🤲for these children by me is may Allah guide them to be one of the righteous believers, Allah is testing them also, even if they had special brains they are in test weather they kill an Ant or show patience.. * Shaitan is continuously misleading these kids and their parents, so don't end up committing SHIRK, for a believe life is not about living but dying as a beleiver..

@user-sy3ix3qu7e 3 года назад

Salam alaykoum, it’s hard work to go through this for parents the cure to autism is the Quraan teach your child the quraan it’s the book of lights and Allah swt said “We send down (stage by stage) in the Qur'an that which is a healing and a mercy to those who believe “ there isn’t a type of illness that Quran won’t heal of course by Allah permission also make duaa and insist in your duaa to Allah. best duaa for Shifaa ‏"‏ أَذْهِبِ الْبَاسَ رَبَّ النَّاسِ وَاشْفِ أَنْتَ الشَّافِي لاَ شِفَاءَ إِلاَّ شِفَاؤُكَ شِفَاءً لاَ يُغَادِرُ سَقَمًا ‏"‏ O Lord of the people, grant him health, heal him, for Thou art a Greet Healer. There is no healer, but with Thy healing Power one is healed and illness is removed.

@Only_Islam_is_Truth313 3 года назад

I invite everyone to listen holy Quran recitation from India 🇮🇳💓

@Theoneandonlyearthhuman 3 года назад

Take the advice of not posting personal stuff, dont take it as "dont tell me what to do" there is harm and positives in posting everything and understand where everyone is coming from.

@moogdoog8348 3 года назад

May Allah swt protect your children. These childhood vaccinations that we give our children are damaging them.

@blaineyeamlak 3 года назад

Actually they don’t. They keep them alive and defend them from serious illnesses that could hurt them.

@Only_Islam_is_Truth313 3 года назад

I invite everyone to listen holy Islamic speech from India 🇮🇳💓

@user-iq3lv3ek3l Год назад

❤️💜🤍

@Theoneandonlyearthhuman 3 года назад

His ex must have been a narsasict, why isnt she more involved in the child's life

@wiam1301 3 года назад

Only Allah knows the difficulties everyone goes through some people are must stronger than others!

@moonofmorning8563 3 года назад

Inhone confirm jannati hain confirm jannati hain nasheed gaye haina???

@passionatelearner17 3 года назад

Please brothers beard is something to be honoured please, please please 😢 I know you are good Muslims ماشاء اللہ

@zebakhawaja Месяц назад

The first sentence/verse of this video ❤

@MrsReshoe 3 года назад

May Allah Swt Guide you all. Keep blessing you with all that you need. Safety, Imaan, Rizq, guidance, strength, health, ... Amien ya Rabbal Alamien. 😥😭🤍❤💚