RU-vid recommend me your video and I am soo soo thankful, really great stuff mam. btw, I was wondering do you need an editor for editing your videos mam?
You are one bloody strong woman to be able to hold it together through that video! I am thinking of you and your family and I will pray that the trial continues to help your dad. PTSD is a tricky one, I’ve had it for about five years now, also due to a hospital admission. It’s something I will probably never get over but I’ve accepted it and am learning to live with it. I think of you often, you deserve happiness. Thinking of your lovely mum too, keep sticking together through these hard times. And not to forget James as well, with him you can get through anything xx
Thank you soooo much ❤️❤️ you are so kind!! I can’t believe how many people have experienced PTSD from a hospital experience, it’s scary! Have you found any techniques that work really well for you? I’m still yet to go through the main part of therapy yet so I might learn some new strategies to make it easier! Thank you so much again hope you are okay ❤️❤️❤️
@@bethgallery1140 honestly, the only thing that has me helped is time passing. I've never actively dealt with it properly, I think it's just life's distractions that have helped shift my mind elsewhere. I know that's not a helpful answer but that's how its been for me. A major factor for me has been moving out of area, as I no longer have to go to outpatient appointments in the hospital that triggers those bad memories. I go to a different hospital which has really helped - don't get me wrong I still get anxious from PTSD but not nearly as much. That's not why moved out of area, but it certainly did help avoid that sense of overwhelming dread when I attend appointments xx
Goodness Beth what a traumatic few months you've had! They say bad things happen in 3's so that's you done and dusted. Let's just think that everything will be more positive from here on. Thanks so much for opening up to all of us as I think we can all relate in some way or other. My mam died suddenly from lung cancer during covid and she was my best friend. I had to watch her die on video call and I think I had an element of PTSD after that, literally had to force myself to connect my TPN as I was just constantly emotional. Time is definitely a healer though and you will find that too. Prayers for Alan and your precious dad Xx
Glad to have you back and glad you are getting help. I have some medical ptsd from my gastroparesis journey also, it’s been over a year since my last admission so slowly working through that. In some positive news, I got married in March, our first dance was to the best is get to come from Tom walker after you shared it on TikTok. My husband resonated with it much like James did in relation to supporting us through these horrific health struggles but having hope that the best is yet to come 💕
I am sending all my love to you ❤ you have been through so much. You really are amazing. I’m so so sorry to hear about your dad, sending him lots of love too! Your videos have massively helped me feel so much less alone with things I am struggling with health wise. I am awaiting my tilt table test next week as well as gastro referral for ongoing stomach issues and watching you videos makes me feel like I’m not alone as being unwell has been so isolating. Please know you make such a difference in and are so loved! Xxx
Oh Beth, I’m so very sorry your dealing with PTSD too. My friends heart stopped for 4 mins after a serious allergic reaction to half a walnut. She also come out suffering with PTSD because of it.. To be Frank, you went through hell in hospital and we are so lucky you made it. We don’t always realise what effect it’s having on our body and just get on with it. Your very strong and I’m sure with lots of support and help will learn to manage it. My friend tries to keep her mind busy and practice’s relaxing techniques. This helps her. I’m sure you will find what helps you and take all of the help you can flower 🌸 thinking of you and big hugs 🤗 xxxxxx ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much!! 🥺🥺 I’m so sorry about your friend, I’m so glad to hear she was ok!! How scary! I’ve tried a few different techniques so far but i feel like I am still yet to find the right one 😂 thank you so much again ❤️❤️❤️
Your so very welcome flower 🌸 It’s whatever works for you Beth. Even giving out a scream to get it out or crying. Then start to concentrate on deep slow breathing. Everyone is different but that’s what I’d do and sometimes do lol. Big hugs and take care of yourself xxxxx❤️
So happy to see u bk posting again Beth. I missed ur vlogs . I'm soo sorry to hear abt ur daddy. I hope the trial works. I can empathise with u abt the PTSD of being in hospital. I was in hospital over 10yrs ago and I too suffer from PTSD , from that time. Ur soo strong Beth ❤ x
Thank you!! I’ve missed posting and speaking to everybody!! Hope you are okay ❤️ urghhh I’m sorry to hear you also struggle with it, I can’t believe how many others have been through the same thing! Xxx
Edmr really hard but so worth it. I few thing pstd. It my life. And one relive a lot it so hard. But edmr kick butt and tired no feel good. But so worth it sorry happened to you sorry your dad got so hard. It hard loss you love in a 11 mouth I loss 3 family members. And it hard and it time have surgery and same day one. But despite being meds in my for uti. The end mouth surgery I loss mind uti. And didn't know dog was. I could die. And on may thing pstd. Hang in there things get better
Its good to see you again. I completely understand about having PTSD..dreams n thoughts of still being in the hospital. I too was in the hospital due to a cancer diagnosis. I had surgery n 2 weeks later was having complications n had another surgery n longer hospital stay. Its been 5months n i still keep thinking about that cancer n hospital stay n my brother passing from cancer in 2020. Unfortunately i haven't found a therapist but im glad you have talked to someone about your current issues. I'll pray for your dad, sorry about your friend. Thank you for sharing cause now i know im not crazy n your long hospital stay was enough to have PTSD. I hope you can work through this. Take care❤
So happy to see your beautiful face! Every Sunday I check to see if you have posted a video. You are the only medical RU-vid channel I watch. I just feel like we could just sit and have tea in real life together. Your grounded and don't put on for anyone ♥️. Give yourself grace, don't be too hard on yourself. You have went through some of the toughest challenges in the last year that many people don't go through in a lifetime. I have medical PTSD. If you ever want to talk. I'm here!! I will be praying for your whole family but especially your dad. ♥️ I'm so glad he got into the trials tho!! Been wedding planning like I had committed before and it is so overwhelming 🙈😅 too many choices lol. Take care of yourself first but I hope to see your face here next week! ♥️♥️
I’m so sorry you’ve been going through such a tough time 😢 always here for you ❤ I lost my dad 16 years ago (I was 18 at the time). You’re right, parents are just always there and you can’t fathom a time when they won’t be. Wishing your dad stays symptom free for as long as possible xx
I used to work with your mum and just wanted to say I think you're amazing. we can be our own worst enemy. You have been through so much. The best thing you can do is be kind to yourself hun. I lost my dad in my early 20s and he was ill with kidney issues before and you have to stay positive. Do whatever you need to. If posting like a journal on here helps then great or writing things down does then do it.
You are so kind, thank you so much ❤️ I’m so sorry to hear about losing your dad at such a young age, life can be so unbelievably cruel. My brother has got me a book where I can write down my thoughts and feelings and some sort of goals for the upcoming weeks which seems to be helping a little with trying to stay focused, thanks so much again ❤️❤️❤️
@bethgallery1140 that sounds like a good plan. Just don't be too tough on yourself with your goal setting. Maybe start by writing down 3 things that you've managed to do in a day. That can be such a small thing but if you sit down at the end of the day, it's really positive. Please take all the support you're being offered as that will help. Oh and I love watching your videos 💕 😊
