THE TRUTH behind WILL SMITH and JADA's Family SECRETS! Willow and Jaden TELL ALL on their childhood! 

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“Because I say so”, has saved plenty of souls. Kids can’t handle all those decisions the maturity needed, they just don’t have. That’s why there are laws to protect them.

Jaden looks sad, BROKEN, Hurt and confused and angry, depressed for real.

Something was off with Jaden energy towards Jada, not sure what but there's a disconnect.

They treated them like adults because they lost and didn’t want to take the time out and raise them is all plus y’all give will too much credit when in reality he is just as broken as jada because he came from an abusive home

I don't have any children yet but but I know for a fact that being a parent is a challenging job because each child comes with different needs and love languages. What works for one may not work for another but you are one person that has to learn from each and every child and adapt over time, which can prove challenging and unsettling. You could be doing everything in YOUR book that you think is right and still not meet your child specific emotional needs. It's a hard knock life for us!

Dang Jada is a street hustler! Now I see how she manipulated August!

Will needs to stop kissing Jaden in the mouth, that isn't funny, he dont do that with his elder son so why with the younger, smh, not right.

It really saddens me to see babies being pushed beyond what they should be doing, God sees your pain Jaden and Im praying for your spirit and soul to be lifted high. Continue being wise, brave and strong man you are.

I’m a let’s sit and talk parent. I feel like when parents say “Because I said so” they missed the opportunity to educate their children on life., which is exactly what I realized my parents did. They taught me nothing. I learned everything through trial and error and I never want my daughter to experience that. However, I do understand that she’ll have her own challenges to deal with but I want to be available for any conversation she wants to have.

I think Jada kids was abuse also is something off about her kids.i don't know how young her daughter was I saw a video of her laying in bed with a white guy she looks 14. it just look a little odd that Jada would allowed her daughter in that bed with that man it was a little weird.

i love how you pause and teach others from your perspective!

Who’s here confirming the tea from 2020?

I got emotional too. I really enjoyed this Red Table Talk. Thanks for sharing.

Some mistakes there's no returning from. Like having a boyfriend and having sex at an early age. Moving out to early. Allowing them experience drugs. And when a parent say I rather they do drugs at home, or with me then in the street. This to me, is the craziest mess I've ever heard

I love how you showcased what they spoke about and tied it with your experiences and views 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💛💛💛

Jaden look so over them. Like he ain't with the facade

Jaden side eyeing Jada🤔

Jada needs close the red table talk , they all need therapy

Now look were this kind off parenting has led this family smh

I was raise with because I said so. Never being a loud to make a decision on my own without it being a family discussion on what I should do. So it was really hard for me as a mother of two in my mid twenties to make a decision for myself without second guessing if I was making the right ones. So I started making my own decisions and just sticking with what I felt was best for me and my babies. I never told my 2 loud "because I said so". I would explain why I didn't want them to do something(or too do something)but I would also allow them to explain why they should or shouldn't be able to do something. I let them think that they changed my mind because they made the right argument (or what have you). So they both stated learning at an early age sometimes right and sometimes wrong decision making process. And I always let them know they where(still are)the best things I ever did in my life and I thoroughly enjoyed every minute with them. Nothing I wouldn't have done for them. For that matter still would do for them. And to dance, laugh and love life. You always have ups and downs it what you do about them or handle them.

I definitely was a “becuz I said so” parent. I was a single parent, working two jobs, I didn’t have time to explain everything. I did create something called “Mommy/daughter day,” where I paid full attention to her and we did things she wanted to do the whole day, she still remembers those days and says they were the BEST! Plus, I let her use her sick days from school the way she wanted, since we never got sick. We’d take s sick day off and turn it into a shopping day at the mall. 😂

When you have no rules over your children they grow up to resent you when things go wrong and they get hurt because you as a parent didn't protect them. All that Freedom and they're still very unhappy.

I was definitely a "because I said so" parent and I have no regrets.

Agreed! Me n my only kid r tight. I believe its because of the wonderful communication I raised him with. I’ve ALWAYS allowed him to make his own decisions because that’s what life is about. He’s 19 now❤️

11:43 time stamp is That West Baltimore shit..West Baltimore born and raised in THE streets where I spent most of my days.

Jada's words in the end brought tears. My children,mother as well as myself are in that stage now

I was raised with the "because i said so"and i do see the communication problems with my parents.

I feel like Jada and her mom's parenting styles are two extremes of a spectrum. I think Jada gives her children too much freedom, where as Jada's mom didn't give her enough and seemed controlling. It's important to have an open line of conversation. And as children grow up, I think parents needs to graudally give them more responsibilities and freedom, BUT at the end of the day, children need to be guided. Although Willow and Jaden are "still here", as they said, something about them seems off psychologically.

If it's any consolation, Willow Smith that song Whip My Hair help save my life. I am a 54 year old woman, who had hair and in 2000 May of 2012 found out that I had cancer and lost my hair I used to listen to that song before it happened and I used to Whip My Hair whenever I was going through something and then when you was on Oprah you said it's not just whipping your hair but it's an attitude so when I lost my hair I realize that I can still shake my head around with my Whip my hair because my attitude was to fight this cancer and not let it take me out, I'm 53 and I still listen to that song when I get down and I blasted loud like my attitude towards cancer is I'm kicking your butt I'm whipping my hair, I am Brenda Watson a woman is old enough to be your grandmother who listens to that song and every time I get down two fighting cancer I had to cancel the first time a year and a half later I got cancer again and I lost my hair again and I play that song Oh my iPod with my hair like no matter what people say if you going to make it it's the fight as hard but I still with my hair so even though you went through something it empowered me and it still does and I'm still in the fight of my life because even though cancer-free the doctors recently found something in my chest you know what I say to that I can't worry imma praise God and Whip My Hair to thank you Willow thank you Jada and will for having such amazing children that can help others even when they don't even realize it I say blessings blessings blessings to you Willow and your family thank you for the song it has empowered me

Rich ppl problems. The avg 15 year old isn’t making enough money to go out on their on.

There's no perfect parent. No matter what we do our kids will have their issues to bare. We all do! No one's free from having issues and struggles.

This was so deep 🤔 I was raised in the 80's with strict parents. I hated it but as I became an adult I thank my father bc I figure out why he protected me. I raised my daughter the same way. She did not like my ways but hey I didn't allow her to spend the night over people houses, I had to meet her friends parents, visit their homes b4 she could play with them. We had to go to church. When she got to middle school she wanted to do everything. The answer couldn't be yes all the time but now she's 20 in her 3rd year in college been on the dean's list the whole time. She goes to different cities preaching to children about the Lord. She told me, I hated how strict you were but now I understand why you were protecting me. So every parenting is different. Is up to the children how they going to turn out. I use to tell my child, you have one life, only you can make it better or screw it up. It will be nobody fault if you decide to follow behind idiots. Thank God 🙏 she decided to take the right path. Bottom line prayer and faith is all you need. It's hard raising children in this cruel world 😥

I see thru all that then kids ain't happy jada ain't happy and it's sad

Interesting but I cannot relate to Jada’s parenting style. And even with her giving her kids all this freedom and money... something seems off in the kids. But what do I know... I don’t live in that world.

“Because I said so” didn’t bother me, it was more of a norm than anything.

I do agree with Will & Jada to an extent, but I would *never* let my son move out at 15, even if he seems mature.

I allow my son to have a voice, but right is right and wrong is wrong. if we have a conversation and he still trying to make the wrong decision.... He will get the because I said it.

I’m in college, 23 yrs. Honestly I always thought that super old school parents enjoy the power dynamic between parent and child. In my opinion, those kinds of parents hold their power over their children because it’s what their parents did when they were young. To me it’s a very destructive and sadistic pattern that eventually causes their children to rebel more and possibly become very narrow minded in the future.

I like to explain but nobody is moving out at 15! 😂

At first I was very judgmental of both Will and Jada about their parenting. After watching this episode I get it! Their children are very intelligent and they seem to have a great relationship with them and to me that's so important in this day and age. So I say hats off to them both!

Unconventional Methods For Raising Jaden & Willow was Will & Jada Choice .... However , I Wouldn’t Have Chosen Their Method .... 😞 I Agree With Her Mom 😍 The Brain is Still Developing ... Come On Facts Please Use Common Sense ...

Jaden always looks defeated and broken down .

If their grandmother wasn't there the kids would've been out of balanced. I agree that yes explain yourself to your kids however letting them make every decision on their own, knowing it won't go well for them. It's about balance, I tell my daughter why we can't go outside right now and explain why. But I'm also going to be strict to certain things when it comes to some of her decision if I know it will not go well I'm not going to let her do it.

Jaden up here cursing in front of his mom and grandma. Nah couldn't be my kid

I agree with your point of view. I do the same with my children. I also explain that children always have a choice, even when they’re children; because they can choose to not listen even with parents who say “b/c I said so”. I just explain to my children that although you have a choice, making poor choices comes with consequences. I’m there to guide and offer a more experienced opinion but you have a choice to listen or not. But I wouldn’t allow my child to move out at 15.

Ultimately, both Will and Jada Smith did the best that they could have. Just like any other parent. No matter how “different” their parenting styles are/were.

I agree with some of their parenting style and some of will's law of attraction beliefs. However I'm not too sure that jada kids are as well adjusted as she thinks. It's great to let your children make choices for themselves but also be right there to guide and teach. I don't believe in just throwing them out into the world without educating them first and still being there to offer guidance. Those kids still need parenting. I dont like that jada is treating them like her job is done as a parent. Congrats on your channel growing so fast! Love your point of view and videos❤

Jaden's eye language to Jada says something .. I dnt want to assume, but it seems like something unspoken

I try to provide my daughter explanations that she can understand at 4. But when I realize she doesn’t want to understand, and she just wants her way I have to remind her that my way goes. And being that teenagers brains are literally still developing, I would never let her move out as a teenager. I don’t care how “mature” she seems. Biology still has to run its course. I really don’t like some of The Smiths parenting choices girl...

When you know that no matter how your kids turnout they will ALWAYS be financially secure, you can raise your kids like that BUT for regular folks idk how well this would work. You have to instill a "work ethic" in your kids or the world will tear them up and spit them out. Just my opinion.

Some of Jada's methods sound very Scientology-ish.

Jaden looked like he was so over it.

I understand both sides of the discussion...but my mum went old school on my ass😤 LoL

Being raised old school and raising children in this now today's time, there has to be a balance between both. Old school instilled values. Raising children today takes alot of patience and prayer. I'm not saying prayer as a cliche but because there are so many different spirits around children (pedophile, mental illness, and even murders) prayer is really needed. School shootings are becoming the normal. Legally children are minors until 18.

This was very deep... This is why I waited to have children because regardless of how hard to try to correct the mistakes done to you, your own children will have other mistakes done to them by you. This hit me hard !!! loved your take on it too.

I'm a middle ground. If I tell the children don't go outside they know I'm going to say because I'm the Mom and your the child. But if they ask why they can't play with there friend I'm going to explain it to them. But once I explain why, they know I'm not giving them options, no means no

I'm old school,and this is blowing my mind.

People are forgetting if Jada was a middle class mom all of this would go out of the window. Because you woudn't have the funds to give your teenager their own apartment or home. This stuff comes into play when there is little to no stress about money and you have money to burn... in other words privilege.

There is a reason why kids don't raise themselves. There is a reason why they don't walk straight outta the womb into the job agency. They need to grow and learn. You can't let them raise themselves! You need to teach them life skills, and part of those skills is being able to respect authority and follow instructions. They'll question that authority and those instructions on their own, you don't need to teach them that. But give them the tools to survive before you let them have at the establishment.

I wish my mom had that mindset like Jada or something close. At 16, my mom decimated my career choice. I had just moved to a new school and environment. My 1st time living with her since I was 3 and I've wanted to be with her for so long. This was abt 10yrs ago. To this day she doesn't know the impact that had on me. I tried to tell her a few months back but she wasn't receptive. The past couple of years I've been climbing out of my stagnated state. It took me awhile but I'm moving forward.

Am I the only one who sees that these children are broken, money and talent or not? The industry comsumes people and takes their soul and these children were fed to the wolves... Now sip on that☕

I don’t think Jada’s parenting style is as smart as it seems like they’re tryna make it out to be.. that’s partly why her kids out here doin whatever today. You can talk to your kids without putting them on the same level as you and if kids knew it all and were able to make smart decisions on their own then God would’ve have given us parents...

I love your recaps. I am a little of both. I will always explain to my 5 year old but at the end of the day I am the parent and she is the child. I feel like the Smith's parenting style works for their lifestyle. Your average 15 year old doesn't haven't the means to move out. I do agree with her when she says you have to let your children make their own mistakes so that they learn from them.

I didn't like how Willow talked over her gma, Adrienne. That to me is poor parenting not to mention cursing in front of her. The gma coming from a "well off family" then getting addicted to drugs but being functioning sounds about right in line with the crack epidemic. When Jada talks all I hear is someone retelling a story based on how they want it to be perceived. This just seems ridiculous. Saying cus I said so is meant for a child to be reminded of their place. To take it any other way is simply being entitled. Kids and most adults are not owed an explanation cus everything doesn't deserve one.

Jada is crazy as hell....The point of being a parent is to raise your children and until you COMPLETE THAT JOB you need to keep them in your house under your roof....Smh HOW are you so open to let your MINOR children make choices for THEIR LIFE but NOT open enough to share YOUR STORY & HISTORY with your children....NOOOOOOO She wasnt transparent if her children had to hear about her PAST in the streets.....Smh😒😒😒 I love me some Jada too but this is OUT OF ORDER....Sorry but its the TRUTH. WILLOW went through that because her parents DID NOT KNOW HER....Hands down. Parents have to build a relationship with their children making SURE they feel COMFORTABLE coming to TALK to you about ANYTHING..... IF you cant go to anyone else in this world YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO RUN TO YOUR PARENTS & KNOW THEY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU🏆🌸

NO parent will be the perfect parents. NO child will have the perfect childhood. We are not perfect people, so it is impossible that to achieve this. I would say that I am a combination. I like to explain, but there are times when I know they are trying me - so it becomes because I said so, end of discussion. But we no have the safe zone. It's a time when you can say what you want how you want. It's the only time cussing is allowed in the house. But you still have to be respectful, but other than that on in, if you need to. When the safe zone is closed, it's closed until next time.

Wow😲 , amazing!!! I explain things to my children & always have, but, parents need to be parents & not friends!!!

I'm a BECAUSE I SAID SO with a line of COMMUNICATION , kids need structure and a balance, I don't like when you tell a child to do something and they're questioning you WHY?😑 In my opinion they should not even reached that point to say WHY because you give them the authority to question you and as they get older it gets worse, (seen it so many times). You can tell a child to do something and explain to them why you told him to do it before they even ask, especially today's kids that are so out of control because discipline especially verbal discipline is almost non-existent.

And folks believe that Jada & Will are off beat parents yet they let them move to the beat of their own drums. Neither kid has drug & abuse charges it’s awesome!!

I think their parenting style is good! Because when I was growing up my mom was pretty much the disciplinarian and what she said goes and the cuz I said so line would be thrown around. I have a 3 yr old and me and my bf parent him good. We explain things to him and we are constantly telling him how amazing he is! Growing up my mom never really told me I was good at stuff. My parents pretty much doubted me gave me low self esteem so me and my bf always boosted our sons confidence and tell him he can do anything he sets his mind on! I don't ever want my son to look bad and think wow my parents hated me ! I wish jadas show was on RU-vid or cable cuz I don't have Facebook!! It looks like a good show.

I explain myself too. I can’t just say no and not explain why. It just seems wrong. The deserve an explanation “because I’m afraid you will get hurt” because you need to do it this way” because it’s easier this way” etc etc...almost always about protecting them.

Like I talk to my kids but still at the end I make the choices just I explain why

I love A Low Down Dirty Shame!

I think on the face of it they are well balanced, articulate individuals and perhaps that's all that matters? I can't say I can relate 100% with Jada's parenting style; I tend to take on a "because I said so" stance with my children after I have explained SEVERAL times and they refuse to listen. Each child is different and thus needs a different style of parenting. My children are not mature enough to make such life changing decisions (some decision making is required for their personal growth. I do encourage them to reason things out). Her children also had a very different environment. For the most part, being wealthy, having security and/or being chauffeur driven allowed her children to have a lot of freedom (and that's wonderful for them). I can't allow my 14 year old son such privileges (as much as that breaks my heart) because many black boys are being inducted into gangs or killed in the our streets.

I respect giving kids choices,but a child can’t make adult decisions so it’s all about good balance, I can ask my child what they want to wear, watch on tv or what to eat , but moving out at 15 no not happening! I’m not passing judgement it’s just my opinion! Im a protective and attached parent , I also believe that trying your best is key that’s all we oughta do for the kids there’s no hand book that tells us how to be a perfect parent or kid ! So if it works for them so be it! It’s def a different style of parenting that I’m not completely use to! And the cursing 🤬 in front of my mom and grandma won’t ever happen and I’m 23 ( I just don’t curse tho)

Great commentary! I get your position. However, there are moments when “Because I said so is relative. If I tell you to “stop,” because I see the car coming and you don’t can save your life. You feel me? In that split second between me saying ‘stop’ and you asking me “why?“ can mean the difference between your child living or dying in that split second. So I’m saying that they are both relevant. Finally, my grandmother and many women of her era were married at 15 and their husbands were 18. Soooo age is also relative given the experience and circumstances.

Good morning, Candice!! Congrats on 65k!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

I have a 13 year old daughter. It gets harder when your kid is a teenager. In their minds, the whole entire world revolves around them. I want my kid to be respectful to adults and not question them. Her classmates didn't learn home training and they disrespect their teachers all the time. I give my daughter options, but not TOO many. That girl is almost taller than me and she's a karate blue belt. I have to put some boundaries on her. She's not going to walk all over me.

"This ppl are crazy!" Yes mam !

I don't agree with this. I believe in open communication with my kids (which I didn't have growing up), but kids still need guidance.

This is one my favorite topics you cover. :) I love their family table talks. I have a young son, almost two, and I will definitely be taking some Jada’s and Adrienne’s parenting advice. And life advice. I can’t agree more when Jada said that parents need to learn to forgive themselves more often. That every child will have their own burdens to bear.

Nope. Don't agree. Bible says train ur child in the way they should go. Not let them make their own choices.

I definitely enjoy the TEA but I think I come here just to hear Candices' soothing voice during work lol

Willow so beautiful! ❤

Welp, that parenting didn’t work for Jada’s kids though 🤷🏾‍♀️ patenting styles is based on the type of kid you have. It is so important to get to know your children, individually. That gives you an insight on what parenting style approach should be taken. Letting them “run wild” at an early age isn’t good though. The child will feel like they don’t have anyone who actually cares for them. All fun when they are young but, it really hurts them in the long run.

I just realised I’m drinking tea like your pic (note: drinking, not sipping). I enjoyed this and your commentary. Especially the parts on children making mistakes while children, and not at 30. My God. At the start I was like ‘I said what I said’ all the way, but I realise that, as pointed out in the video, it leads to a child not being able to share stuff with their parent, which is so dangerous and detrimental to the child-parent relationship. And Jada’s point about adults coming into parenthood with their childhood traumas couldn’t be more true. Definitely something that needs to be recognised, acknowledged and acted on/managed by an adult that becomes a parent.

I love the way u do your channel !! Good job 👏👏👏 I stay tuned in...

Their well spoken & poised children. So with that being said, they did a job good parenting! Great discussions on this show.

I really liked the point of letting children make mistakes while they are children...

The down side of parenting your children that way is that once they go to school and other places outside of home people won’t treat them the same.... also they have money, their experiences are wildly different than people who don’t have those resources.

Because I said so is different from them telling you what they will and will not do. Children need to be raised and directed. So I don’t agree with Will and Jada. We have to parent our children with what they need not what we missed. Definitely a balancing act.

It’s 6am And I’m ready for daytime ! Tea time !

"IT WORKED" PERIOD! Gr8 job Will & Jada, Grandma🤗

this ending... had me in tears... I just had my first born... and I have so much to bury and burn from my childhood that it haunts me to think I may pass some to him... so much pain is held between my mom and I... I am so resentful of how absent she was in my life.... and just trying to address that so that my son can have a relationship with her... the struggle is REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you for keeping up with this!! And I Verbatim said that entire scene on low down dirty shame. We didn’t have cable and that was a regularly watched vhs tape in our home.

Jada is a Scientologist... never forget.

That's why it is important to teach your kids about God and try to live a Godly life. Yes, nobody is perfect and we all to have and will have our own burdens to bear. That is why God will be and is there with us through our burdens.

Thank you. I have to watch that episode. It answered and soothed a lot of issues questions and confusion about my childhood and parenting. Thnx💝

Your voice is so calming , love this channel