@Buck Cerin A simpleton is a stupid and or gullible person , there is nothing stupid about those two in fact Daniel is a certified genius; if you are going to label please use the proper labeling.
@Buck Cerin I know what you meant the moment I read it. Yes, they'll never have to worry about the troubles of other peoples(non-autistic) lives, like economic policy, interest rate hikes, crime statistics etc. They will keep their innocence forever, and that is a joy that not many people get to have. Good luck to all of them, they are all so sweet together.
They treat each other like how most couples should treat each other...Always a kind word. I noticed that Daniel said "Ok" when she said she did not want to empty the dishwasher, she wanted to empty it together. He was like, "alright". How come most guys can't be like that?
@@chellym8 Calling grown adults cute or adorable is demeaning full stop. You don't see ppl talking about attractive people in this way. Also you can say fucking dude no need for the * lol
Michael Kite i know right! I have been with my husband for 20 years and he has never done anything even remotely as romantic for me. He shows me he loves me in other ways but these guys are soooo romantic!!
I've just discovered this series...and I've been grinning from ear to ear. With all the shit happening in the world today, this is such a relief from it all.
Rory is killing it with the gifts man. If my husband made me a picture frame with a cute pic of us in it I'd die! The locket was super sweet too! Coincidentally my husband has Asperger's syndrome as well. He actually ran away from me on our first date because he was so nervous lol. I had to chase him down the street.
Yes, I don't like them being called "undateables" because what they actually all are, are classy people who are open, honest, kind, sweet and courteous. Once upon a time everyone was so nice on dates and if people returned to being kindlier creatures, we'd all have happier social lives.
In general when watching a show, always think about the narrative the director is trying to push and what bits they edit out to try and fool you regarding a certain topic.
@@chris-hu7tm I work in an industry that provides services to people with developmental challenges so that they can work and live a community inclusive life. I oversee the programs for my clients and as such, meet with them, and their support teams, and monitor their progress. Yes, they have challenges and many have behavioural issues that they are constantly working on, but I can tell you with certainty that they are just as lovely in real life as they are on the show. Don't be jaded.
@@rotpeter9148 Behavioural issues is harder on them, than others. Sorry if you see it as a nightmare, they don't do it on purpose you know. Regardless of their disability they're always honest, always sincere, and that is quite often, heads above an "abled" person's ego and propensity for passing themselves off as something they are not. Funny that you used the term "special", as that's the term I use when describing an asshole. LOL
@@rotpeter9148 No, I did not miss the point. I had no desire to enter into a disagreement at 2:00 in the morning. Not worth the effort really. Just enjoy the show and stop being a pill. I'll tell you what a lot of people with developmental challenges have that an increasing amount of abled guys don't have, is good manners and the genuine desire just to be nice to people.
My eldest son is autistic. I was told he would loose his reading, speech and never leave home, work or marry... He has lived on his own for many years and although his people skills were lacking as a child he grew into a fine young man who is living with his love and helping her get her degree. My son is 7 feet tall and 450 lbs, shaves his head bald and has a beard ZZTOP would be proud to own! I had no idea he was dating so I was very surprised when his girlfriend and he had me over to tell me they were moving in together! She is a beautiful young woman who completes him in so many ways! They are so happy together! There is someone for everyone! I feel blessed to have been along for his journey into adulthood and look forward to the future
Don't let doctors put limitations on your kids! Never tell them they can't do something, always encourage them to aim for the stars! We are parents to special children...Einstein, Leonardo davinci, and several other forward thinkers of our time have been autistic, imagine if their parents had said "no" to their dreams? Find their strengths and a school that will focus on those instead of trying to force them to learn like everyone else. Sometimes its just getting them away from all the distractions a classroom brings to allow these gifted children to shine
I reckon its mostly because of their disabilities, they dont get the opportunity to hangout and turn into fuckwits with the riff raff they just have responsible adults looking after how they should be.
Rhys: “I’m on a date with one of the most beautiful girls I’m the world. I feel like a winner already.” OMG! Did you hear that? That sound were my panties hitting the floor. He is smooth as butter 🧈
As a single lady looking for love myself, this show brings me so much joy to know that there is someone to anyone out there, we just have to open our hearts to all the possibilities
This show needs to be called how you should be dating!! Every couple should go through this much “trouble” and appreciate the date they are embarking on with as much enthusiasm. Not to mention the excitement of a committed relationship. ❤️
Julia I have autism and most people can’t tell. I was the captain of a competitive cheerleading team for 5 years and that requires skills that most people wouldn’t assume someone with autism would have, like being a leader, confident, and athletic.
Julia my some is autistic he has amazing linguistic skills and is humorous but he struggles to understand what he feel or others feel just because he’s out going doesn’t mean he is normal
@@timbelcijan9858 Yeah I did read your whole comment, and I'm fully aware of the context. I still think you're being too harsh with your analysis, and saying "I hope he doesn't read this" doesn't make it any better. I appreciate your point of view, and I even agree with you. But I think the idea behind the original comment was to build him up not break him down.
These young men are so incredibly sweet. They have been raised so well and a girl matched with them would be so blessed. Average to high intelligence men could learn a few things from them. Good luck to them all! Life is so beautiful with love in it 🤗
i watched the first episode about 5 days ago and ive been binge watching every day since 😭😭 this show is so wholesome. the people in it are so interesting! it reminds me that there are good/beautiful people in this world ❤️❤️ don't see much of that in every day life. really needed this show to remind me of the beauty and craziness of loooovvveee
its really amazing that people with disabilities could teach the rest of the world how to respect show lovely names of endearment to eachother ......theres no tainted crap in thier heads like the rest of the world ......lily excuse me a moment ....at door my lovely fiance my god im JEALOUS how much pure love and they wont cheat like slime buckets i met
These lovely people have various difficulties classified, labelled and diagnosed but way more importantly they exhibit wonderful qualities that 'normal' (whatever that is) people should aspire to. Loving, open, grateful, kind, honest and true.
i have no idea why theyre called the undateables. they have more fun, more life and more heart than anyone i know. no one goes after anyone anymore with the respect and passion that the people in these episodes have.....we're the undateables.
They don't show the struggles. Talking to a nice bloke for an hour does not reveal the suitability of the said bloke as a dating partner. Lots of stuff they don't show us on the show.
You know that "normal" people can find people with authism intimidating sometimes right? Having authism having less of a filter making you a more genuine person is both a blessing and a curse. Sometimes being very genuine can land right with some people but then others will think you are too weird and reject you. Authistic people have a harder time keeping jobs or finding jobs to begin with, because being sociably capable is somewhat important at a job. I have heard stories of authistic people that got fired not for their poor job performance but because they were not sociable enough... And the same goes for relationships too. You can be the most sweet and lovable person in the world but still none wants to date you because you are just too socially awkward. So while I'm glad that some of the participants have found love finally I can still see why they are on this show to begin with as I know the struggles of authism myself and that unfortunately the world tends to reject us alot of the time. There's something called "masking" in the authistic community and it's pretty much the artform of tuning down or hiding your real self and pretending to be normal to fit into society. It just goes to show that alot of authistic people always feel like they can't be themselves and feel deep stress about never letting the mask slip, cuz that can have bad consequences such as losing their job. And you can never ever say you have authism at a job interview then they will reject you on the spot. So all these comments praising them for their genuine and kind natures, like if you knew even a fraction of how much the world has rejected them in their lifetimes it would not be so sweet anymore. In the real world being genuine and too kindhearted will be a curse. While being a liar to fit in gets rewarded.
@@fathisuleiman1225 what meaning did I not understand? What are you taking about? Because the only dating style that's valid is yours? If you consider yourself undateable because you are picky, that's up to you. People have standards. If you don't, that's yours. Don't force others your own standards. And guess what, you can't fall in love without that checklist. Unless you mistook lust for love. Sorry to say, I consider myself very dateable and quite attractive in the dating market. If you put yourself lower than these people (clear reason why they're harder to date), you really are very unattractive (personality or appearance? Your pick). I can see why you call yourself undateable.
So nice to see some of them have managed to find long term relationships. I hope Lily and Daniel have a long happy life together they seem like a match made in heaven.
First of all, I'm not the one who created a show called the Undateables, that in itself is suggesting that there's something wrong with them. I'm making fun of stupid, virtue signaling comments that aren't true but make you feel good about yourself.
British 'reality' shows are SO much more intelligent, informative and interesting (dig the alliteration) than US shows, which usually include lots of gratuitous sex...many have sex as the focus of the show....that, and now, even WORSE...politics & attempted social engineering/psychological conditioning. God save England as well as my America.
American here! I love British television, I watch it more than ours. However, they did create love island so I think its just more about where you look
These couples are all so kind and authentic with each other. No posing, snarkiness or game playing. If only we could all be as genuine as these people.
It's easy to tell when the guy likes the girl because he'll just come out and say it but if the girl says she likes him it's no guarantee that she actually likes him as more than a friend.
OMG I used to live in Brighton, it's still my soulmate city, and now I think about it Daniel fits in PERFECTLY! No one would find him remotely strange cos everyone there is mad bonkers and eccentric! It's the best place in the universe :-D
