Skhotheni 😭,just admit and don't run away from what you did n not justify it. Monde be honest about yourself n how you feel exactly. Hope you both heal and be fine.
There’s so much love and respect between you too.I wish Monde could take time to dig deep and uproot any issues that cause anger on his side,I believe that anger and lack of problem solving are the main issues here.Anger is a thief, it can steal more from him,Also it takes two people to ruin marriage, if Gogo can also work on issues of concern that Monde raises..These two could go far!!
Skhotheni cheating IS cheating mama, it doesn't matter how he said it or ukwenza ini. You are still married to your husband according to home affairs, and anything you both do outside is called cheating. Both take accountability. Beautiful episode 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌🏽
Soze, there’s no excuse for a man who comes home at 6, there’s no way your can control your anger to such disrespect. When you decide to get married, you decide to commit yourself to someone else. I think Monde was still growing up, he had to go through that in order to find who is. He also needs to learn to handle stress. Akayi etshwaleni now cause his learning to deal with emotions after the tragic events. All in all he comes across as a very genuine person. Hope he finds himself and finds peace. But he’ll be fine moving forward.
I strongly believe these two are still in much love with one another and deep down they know the marriage still stands a chance. The inky problem is that they didn't know how to deal with their son's condition so much that it drifted them apart.If they can seek God's intervention in their situation everything is highly fixable.
I fully understand Monde’s frustration, lowkey this is just painting him as the bad person and Tumi is “innocent” . Lapho they were both wrong . Praying for a fresh start for Monde . Super happy for Tumi too 🤷🏾♂️. Yeah neh
Ooooh Tumi🥺 so selfless and always taking everything light, admitting to your faults and taking accountability🥺❤ wish the both of you well, maybe after this major self-discovery and growth, love will find its way back home, I am praying for " Fate"
i have so much respect for you guys. when its not working out cut it off before you become toxic and even harm the children. breaking up and being able to be in the same space like this is doesnt mean people should go back together.
Broke up with my baby daddy because he lost his parents at a young age and it affected him like Monde. We are good co-parents and I still love him but I know we are better off apart.❤
Gogo Skhotheni's BF right now can tell that girl will be leaving him to go back to hubby the chemistry is just too strong, and she said she wants the old Monde back and if he can give her that trust me shes a gone girl, shes still madly inlove with bab'Shange
Joh, Sorry guys!! No words can make you feel better especially now but just try to accept. Monde is not okay shame, he can't even hide his tears😢 you can even hear from how he speaks.
Yazi if we have to be honest. Monde went through alot kulomshado and mentally no man can be okay. The scenes when Gogo wanted to take a second husband, can you imagine what he went through as a man even though is was just meant for content just for uGogo. I can’t help but feel for him. Social media can be brutal along with its people. Check on those who say, hai mina I’m fine I don’t care. Deep down they hurt. I also believe he still wants his marriage or rather would have done anything to make it work now that his eyes are open. But his also hurting
Wowooo you guys don't make me tear . What really happened. God when are you gonna stop taking from me. 😢Oh Monde this really hit me hard. Why can't you get back together coz you look good together and you are best friends.
I’ve never listened to podcasts with Monde.. his voice got calmness.. nani nje ninoTumi… I think you guys understands and speaks about deep conversations…
I think they both are good people who made their mistake like all of us remember there is no excuse for physical abuse except when you trying to protect yourself,but Tumi is so forgiving about it
If like this would be nice to have the two of you discuss marriage for young people because the are a lot of young people who think they know what a marriage is and from your mistakes,us young people can learn from…I personally heard a lot of things that I can say made me realize something in my relationship.
I think you guys should agree and accept that you have cheated on one another. By the way I love your maturity. The fact that after everything that has happened between you guys, you are still able to see the positive things amongst you two. I love you guys❤
My son behaves exactly like Liana and he never met his late brother because he passed on 3 years before he was born he sleeps with his photo everyday without fail
Your energy as well as your personality were incompatible but, for the fact that you achieved soo much together! Your marriage is made in heaven, you belong together. You both should go back to your vows then you will remember why you got married. " for better or worse" those challenges were meant to happen to test your faith. You both need to heal first then hold each other and build your beautiful marriage together ❤
Keep comforting her,my aunt had 2 girls who where very close n one passed away she also had health complications when growing so the remaining sister after she lost her sister she use to do all that,dreams, talking about her sister, wanting to go to God n all that.she got counselling now she is good n grown up Keep loving, supporting n being the fr her she will come alright.Glad u put Ur difference aside and facing this together Big up❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loss and grief is not easy to navigate. I respect you both for being able to even still sit together and talk about it so honestly . Mina I am 'no body 'nhe but you two are not together by mistake. Yenzani uxolo nibuyelane . Kunothando lwangemela la. Jesus Loves you and may He comfort you and your families.
I cried ekugcineni you know I'm happy these two souls are in a good place and on a healing journey,the loss of Boyoo and the marriage heartbreak 💔 May God touch and cover all of you and Liana plus the family that sorounds you, and the entire house of Venting Podcast ❤❤❤singabantu sisemhlabeni kindness is rare once you see it on anyone embrace it regardless.... enkosi Shange noGogo
I understand what Gogo is talking about and i have the same problem in my relationship. I expect my partner to keep his promise when he says i’ll be home at a certain time & i’ll never sleep until he is home. Shame to them they don’t see anything wrong
May God give you strength Monde,you have been through the most shame.Losing parents at a younger is very painful snd traumatizing which affects our entire life
Thank you guys for opening up to us❤. What i have learnt from this is that never skip a stage in your life. communication is very much important, always be yourself and communicate that with your person.
Ncooooh this two are soul mates it might take years for them to realize and put everything behind but eventually is gonna happen.. May God and thier ancestors bring lights to them. As for Monde you are doing great keep on venting, keep on fighting that inner pain the child hood traumas you will get better version of yourself. TUMI keep wotking on yourself as well you both doing good. Liyana sithembe wena little cutie to atleast make this two see that they belong to each other.
Yhooo hay guys nina nikhulile for real. Mina i still struggle to even look at my ex husband. Kudos to yur co-parenting guys i see yall coming together ngoba i feel you are meant to be together 😂
All i see is, these two are still inlove but unfortunately sometimes love isnt enough to sustain a relationship..anyway big ups the both of you,such maturity❤❤❤
uTumi uyabathanda abafana yoooh😂😂😂 nawe Tumi ngabe uthe ukulinda kancane mamaz, through this conversation I can safely say the guy you claim you are in a serious relationship with IS A REBOUND😂 .Monde is "THE MAN" we know he still loves Tumi kodwa he seems like he has moved on, not to say he's got a stable girlfriend but with himself, he's at a safer- peaceful space... Congrats Monde🎉🎉
I loved ,adored and respected you guys you are the best and good parents to your kids l wish this to anyone....hopefully 1 day you will be back together......To Monde you are such a gentlemen
