The VERY Complicated History of Women with Short Hair

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Yes, women had short hair before the 1920's! But there's a lot more to the story than that. Come learn with me!
Please do check out Not Your Momma's History, she's fantastic: / @notyourmommashistory
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Sources:
“Femininity, Crime and Self-Defence in Victorian Literature and Society: From Dagger-Fans to Suffragettes” By Emelyne Godfrey
The Delineator Volume 98, 1921
“The Hairdresser’s Journal”, March 1863
“Old English Peasant Costumes: From Boadicea to Queen Victoria, Suitable for Fancy Fairs, Costume Balls and Bazaars…” By Marie Schild
“The Arts of Beauty, Or, Secrets of a Lady's Toilet: With Hints to Gentlemen on the Art of Fascinating” By Lola Montez
Godey's Magazine, Volumes 62-63, 1861
“Representations of Hair in Victorian Literature and Culture” By Galia Ofek
Shannon Selin, Coiffure à la Titus shannonselin.com/2015/05/coif...
“Jane Austen and Her Times” By Geraldine Edith Mitton
“Historical Wig Styling: Ancient Egypt to the 1830s” By Allison Lowery
British Library Blog, “A Hairy Subject - Secrecy, Shame and Victorian Wigs” blogs.bl.uk/untoldlives/2013/...
Smithsonian Magazine, “The Secret History of Buying and Selling Hair” www.smithsonianmag.com/histor...
Kristin Holt, “Victorian Hair Augmentation” www.kristinholt.com/archives/5010
“An American girl, and her four years in a boys' college” by Olive San Louie Anderson babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?i...
The Los Angeles Herald
Khanya Mtshali, “The radical history of the headwrap” timeline.com/headwraps-were-b...
“Resistance and Empowerment in Black Women's Hair Styling” By Elizabeth Johnson
“Slave Hair and African American Culture in the Eighteenth and Nineteenth Centuries” Shane White and Graham White, The Journal of Southern History, Vol. 61, No. 1
Helsinki Art Museum, Ellen Thesleff www.e-flux.com/announcements/...
“The Power of Women's Hair in the Victorian Imagination” Elisabeth G. Gitter
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SHOCKING HISTORY: WHY WOMEN OF COLOR IN THE 1800S WERE BANNED FROM WEARING THEIR HAIR IN PUBLIC” bglh-marketplace.com/2014/07/...
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“Little Women” by Louisa May Alcott
“Les Miserables” by Victor Hugo
Not Your Momma’s History- Cheyney McKnight
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@dialiaga 3 года назад

"Your womb will shut down and you won't be a woman anymore" Me: Promise??

@edwardhisse2687 3 года назад

😂

@koffee_1024 3 года назад

as a trans person pls let that be true

@staytuned2L337 3 года назад

@@koffee_1024 it'd be the biggest blessing, wouldn't it?

@zorgnax 3 года назад

Omg if only 🤣🤣🤣

@tumblebugspace 3 года назад

*Misogyny illustrated.* Who made you hate the female body the way you do? Disgusting.

@holidaywednesday4069 3 года назад

I was a teenager in the 80s, and all the coolest guys (metalheads, burnouts, etc) had long hair, and the coolest girls (punk and new wave girls) had short hair. I can only suppose this is why I tend to find long hair to be masculine and short hair to be feminine.

@theaceofspace6110 3 года назад

Wow, I thought about the same thing!

@urania3652 3 года назад

Same haha

@Vickiluv 3 года назад

Same here!

@floatingsara 3 года назад

Generation X there, too ! I remember the feeling, and I miss it a lot too. Now I find "undercut" super cool, I guess for this reason

@ericatheempress6698 3 года назад

I wasnt around in the 80s but I remember thinking some of the guys in bands like Motley Crue and White snake were women at one point( as a child)

@crittersinblankets 3 года назад

"Sexless Amazon" is my gender now thank you

@shinekitten7669 3 года назад

samee i heard that and was like hello yes i'd like to be a sexless amazon please

@camillajefferson386 3 года назад

I've failed university so many times already but that alone made me want to go back.

@BlueberryDragon13 3 года назад

If I need to choose between this and "white and soft", me too. I'm not a marshmallow.

@UnreasonablyNiceEE 3 года назад

I love it!

@Mecharnie_Dobbs 3 года назад

17:29 When did Amazons get sexless? They were sexual in aincient times. I thought they only cleaned that up when they started appearing in Wonder Woman comics.

@dudebrohoneybun5846 3 года назад

"gender and lesbianism reasons" is going to be my new go to

@chandranelson2772 3 года назад

Me too! I’m going to take a bath for gender and lesbian reasons. We’re going to the movies for gender and lesbian reasons. For gender and lesbian reasons, we’re having spaghetti for dinner. It can be used for almost any situation. Btw, I’m bi and my wife is a lesbian trans woman, so this works so very well.

@pumpkinlyd4409 3 года назад

Surely those things are both add ons, I am many things before I even bring up my gender?who i want to bone, in fact don't think i've ever had a convo with anyone about who I fancy and want to have sex with, I mean, that's subject to change right? I'm not boxing myself in.

@waitingforwonderland6036 3 года назад

same

@georgerrr9185 3 года назад

@@pumpkinlyd4409 you're so brave for posting this. /j

@pumpkinlyd4409 3 года назад

@@georgerrr9185 ewww no no it's clearly brave to say one is taking a bath for gender and lesbian reasons...

@od3910 3 года назад

I do like that men making up weird reasons to bash women's choices has been around and continues to this day. And by like I mean I'm fucking tired

@delmarchipperson2049 3 года назад

Women are harder on women than men ever could be. Men get uncomfortable around all the bashing and are surprised at how mean women get. Men just don’t care as much about women’s fashion and styles. You sound dumb.

@AM-nf1yw 3 года назад

@@delmarchipperson2049 Your point is highly debatable, you tried to disregard a logical generalisation with a sweeping, exaggerated one and calling it “dumb” (great debating skills by the way). The original commentator(I’m assuming) was not just talking about “fashion and styles” being bashed, as you say but also interests. For example, girls who like boy bands e.g. One Direction get absolutely slatted by society as a whole. Think of Twilight, BTS and even certain colours and how there is disdain towards them due to how they’re associated with girls and women. Furthermore have you ever considered that “women bashing women” is a result of things like internalised misogyny? The crab in a barrel theory?

@yorak6793 3 года назад

@@delmarchipperson2049 Oh, please. Men treat any woman who doesn’t look fuckable to them as sub-human on a daily basis. Just because you turn a blind eye doesn’t mean it’s not the case

@missteriouskitty 3 года назад

Especially knowing that, historically, western medicine focused its studies almost exclusively on male patients. The hypocrisy and misogyny in claiming medical problems from women doing traditionally male activities is staggering.

@iknowthatyouregayfireflies9992 3 года назад

@@delmarchipperson2049 please. Men have so much to say about women, even their bodies. And go as far as to saying that women should adhere to what they find attractive. Sure, women can be very hard on others, but so are the men that expect very perfection from them. Men said corsets were good, then they would say corsets are bad. The list goes on.

@zhisu2665 3 года назад

misogynist will insult a woman because they think their socks are too masculine. it's just weird how a lot of it hasn't changed.

@socialanxiety9153 2 года назад

You sadly speak the truth

@breadmiIk 2 года назад

Indeed.

@sodium_and_scales 2 года назад

It's sad to see people of any kind do that. Like, wtf, it's just socks.

@L0rdOfThePies 2 года назад

Hate that it goes both ways too, can't people just wear clothes? Clothes dont have genders

@msmlolmanpolybrige0335 2 года назад

@@L0rdOfThePies true, men and women should be able to wear suits or maybe dresses or whatever the fuck they want

@BobR4NT Год назад

I recently turned 80. When I was a little boy I got very confused when I learned that male lions have long hair and their mates have short hair!! Kaz, you are so smart and have so many gift!s! I am grateful to you for sharing them with us. I am grieving the recent death of my wife and your programs are a nice distraction as I love to learn. My wife would have also enjoyed them.

@NurseKat-3893 Год назад

I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you gentle hugs!

@EdeYOlorDSZs 3 года назад

Why does the algorithm exactly know what kind of content i want to see

@pleasedontbiteme1117 3 года назад

Cause YT is spying on you 🤖👾🧔🏽

@pumpkinlyd4409 3 года назад

You want to see this stuff? But there are documentary, sick stunts , funny cats and people falling over...who wants to see a another video of some grandiose individual.....hmmm

@nwk6598 3 года назад

@@pumpkinlyd4409 dude, why are you here then? 😐😑

@pumpkinlyd4409 3 года назад

@@nwk6598 Because the algorithm doesn't show what a person likes it shows what it wants you to like.

@marsukarhu9477 3 года назад

Good for you then! Unfortunately doesn't work for me. They're always trying to push all kinds of Kardashian-sh*t even if I never ever watch those celebrity gossip sites... WHY???

@stratovolcano7813 3 года назад

This was really interesting! Short hair in the west being tied to poverty is fascinating considering butch lesbian used to be considered a working class identity. And also idea of same gender attraction being inherently gender non-conforming... lot of concepts here are still painfully relevant LOL.

@MadameCorgi 3 года назад

Butches often struggled to find employment in the early 20th century with is a factor also

@phosphenevision 3 года назад

Gender being a social construct it often includes many aspects of life throughout time that we forget since we live in a time where we are trying to expand the meaning of gender. Like, women didn't vote so voting and political life was gendered, certain trades were gendered, all many other things very strictly gendered. For a woman to do a lot of things that were outside their gender meant trying to pass as a man to be able to do so. There's a lot of stories about women taking male identities in order to inherit land for example, when the parents dont have a male heir and women are legally not able to inherit. It's also interesting to think in many non western cultures your job was more defining of your gender than any other thing, so if you were male but did child rearing you could be considered a wife, or if you were a spiritual person for your people you often were seen as a third or other gender since it's a special role.

@DylanRomanov 2 года назад

I think the 80 and 90s were great for women with shirt hair, it was seen as fashionable. I’m glad roles are being reversed or tossed out all together. I’m trying to grow my hair out I want it to touch my back.

@lavendarcrash2941 3 года назад

So at what point did studying and bike riding stop shutting down uteruses? Because I'm high-key upset mine kept stubbornly going.

@Butterflier00 3 года назад

word.

@floatingsara 3 года назад

I guess at the same time when bike riding stopped making people stealers, swindlers and burglars. Yes, riding a bicycle used to be a was very suspicious thing, some doctors said the experience of speed was toxic

@ahhh4117 3 года назад

I think maybe during WWII??? an educated guess tells me that car factories were used to make non-cars and thus a shortage and a need for alternative transport now that carriages were out of use?? Just a guess tho

@user-bh1tb9em1q 3 года назад

I think to affect uterus you at least got to have a PhD degree

@DrewLSsix 2 года назад

We're you riding a Harley or a Honda? That buttery smooth Goldwing aint shutting anything down sadly.

@Frog888 3 года назад

*has a headache and a sore throat with a pixie* some dead old french man: "I knew it"

@hannahmoorehughes 2 года назад

me, reading this with tonsillitis and a buzzcut 👁👄👁

@WouldntULikeToKnow. 2 года назад

@@hannahmoorehughes hope you feel better soon!

@michirukaioh4014 Год назад

In my case if I wear my hair too long, it takes more time to dry and that makes me more vulnerable to colds, that is why I wear it not that long (like the character on my profile pic).

@xJuliaGrimesx Год назад

In the 60s, my Yugoslavian grandma was abandoned by her husband because they couldn’t get pregnant (obv he was the reason and not her). She then cut her hair off and bought a one-way ticket to Berlin with it. To this day she loves telling this story about her empowerment through selling part of her beauty.

@bubblebubble7494 3 года назад

What I learnt today: 1) Victorian woman: *breaths in a way men dont want her to* Victorian men: your womb is gonna shut down, your no longer a woman 2) This musst have been incredibly hurtful for Afab folks who wanted children but couldn't have them

@invisiblebutaintblind6582 3 года назад

I hate to sound stupid, but you never know everything... So could you please tell me what "Afab" means? And how to pronounce it? Sorry...

@dkannapan 3 года назад

@@invisiblebutaintblind6582 Assigned Female at Birth

@hideakisorachi3953 3 года назад

@@invisiblebutaintblind6582 I've seen people mostly pronounce it like "ay- fab"

@toxicsugarart2103 3 года назад

It’s still like that to an extent. I recently saw a post where a bunch of guys were commenting on a picture of a muscular woman and telling her she wouldn’t be able to have babies and assumed she had irregular periods. The audacity of men never fails to astound me.

@ohnoitsthenoooo 3 года назад

You know that woman isn’t a bad word right? Stop calling us afabs. It’s hella misogynistic

@whyisthomyorke 3 года назад

~Patiently waiting for my womb to shut down~

@bubblebubble7494 3 года назад

Oh yes

@myrtle1234 3 года назад

It is by no means that simple. The hormones driving your menstrual cycle are also fundamental to making neurologically significant compounds essential for brain health. More tears have been shed over wishes granted than wishes denied.

@whyisthomyorke 3 года назад

@@myrtle1234 true but every body is different, some people find immense relief and the end of their cycles

@storytellingsnek5255 3 года назад

I've gotten buzz cuts sevral times and same.. mine is still going... ugh

@juliee593 3 года назад

This video was an eye-opener that explained a lot of stereotypes that still exist today. Very interesting, thank you for making this!

@myrtle1234 3 года назад

My father loved short hair and women (his funeral was primarily attended by women, so many women, of all races). None of the decades of comments on my pixie short hair bothered me because of my father’s early, consistent celebration of my beauty. He made my mind bulletproof.

@reneenayfabnaynay5679 3 года назад

@@myrtle1234 that's awesome! All little girls should have father's like yours!

@reno8494 2 года назад

@@myrtle1234 that's amazing. My parents went full rage mode when I cut my hair short lmao. I can't wait for it to grow longer just so I can cut it into a boy-ish cut.

@hayashi5763 2 года назад

@@myrtle1234 so,what made you storng was male´s aprooval not you will. nothing new or special.

@TheLunaTicexe 2 года назад

That is so powerful and I’m glad your father supported you.

@Rahshu 3 года назад

I remember getting flack for being a guy with long hair when I was young. It's weird how much people get bent out of shape over something that really should be a personal choice. Ironically, woman seemed to love my flowing locks and often wanted to touch it, play with it, braid it, when all I wanted was for another guy to look my way. Sigh...

@stevejauncey3086 3 года назад

I've noticed men are adopting long hair myself included. I also paint my nails. I've noticed women like my nails and treat me different. I don't get any negative reaction from people. Most men in my town either have shaved head or short hair.

@ah5721 3 года назад

I'm sorry I'd be one of them and want to know your hair care secrets. Its so out of the norm that men with long hair can be attractive or we feel like you are more feminine so you are part of the tribe.

@stevejauncey3086 3 года назад

@@ah5721 I tend to wash my hair every three days and let it dry naturally in a heated room. I don't use a brush but softly use my fingers to comb our any knots.. I think that's it really. My hair is halfway down my back. I visit my manicurist once a month.

@ah5721 3 года назад

@@stevejauncey3086 your hair must be glorious ! I used to have hair halfway down my back. After a bad breakup I finally chopped it to a style i hadn't had courage to do and cut my hair to a bob. Never looked back grew it out a n.bit but i always feel more myself with shorter hair.. I miss it sometimes but the maintenance for such thick hair is a nightmare and it gave me headaches

@Myrope 2 года назад

Isn't that always the way it goes?

@YasminCarli 3 года назад

Everybody thinks I'm lesbian because of my short hair. The hairdresser even refuse to shave my neck because it's less "feminine". With boots and short hair, as a recent graduate psychologist it's insane how people go make judgments becsuse of my hair and clothes. With curly hair and violet stripes I don't really care what they think.

@aabe1189 3 года назад

Ah, short curly hair is the dream.

@Autumn1988 3 года назад

I love my undercut and favour dungarees. People have assumed I’m a lesbian (and have made derogatory remarks - not that being a lesbian is an insult!) however I’m heterosexual

@birritan5479 3 года назад

When the homophobia whips back around and hurts straight people too

@ah5721 3 года назад

Find a good black barber. They know how to do curly hair and will give you no side eye cutting your hair show them a pic and they will help you! I go to a black barber for my short hair and he does a fantastic job!

@amansliondraq4960 2 года назад

I love girls with short hair

@emilyredbird7497 3 года назад

Honestly, as a baby lesbian, seeing footage of those victorian butches brought tears to my eyes. It's incredibly validating to see that we have always existed (also, some of those were quite dashing). I'm making a 18th-century-inspired LARP costume for a harlot character, and I was so worried that cutting my hair short would ruin the look for me. This was twofold the video I needed today! Thank you so much!

@unbatheduncle 3 года назад

What is a baby lesbian

@emilyredbird7497 3 года назад

@@unbatheduncle Yes, what Luigi said :)

@eazy8579 2 года назад

Hope your costume goes well, and I bet the short hair would work great with it, perhaps with the Coiffure al a Titus; it’s period appropriate, and it looks cool as hell

@emilyredbird7497 2 года назад

@@eazy8579 Aww thank you so much

@eazy8579 2 года назад

@@emilyredbird7497 great! I bet it looks awesome

@katherineheasley6196 3 года назад

I was intrigued by this as a straight woman with short hair. I've seen some of the most ridiculous rants from men about short hair on women, like it's a deliberate dig at men. Nah, bro, my hair's just troublesome, and it's a lot easier to deal with short. But just for you, I'll cut it shorter. It's fun to know the history.

@moon_card 3 года назад

OMG REALIZASHUN So having short hair as a woman could classify you as thethird gender, a.k.a. fairy. THAT'S why in the present women's short hairstyles are called pixie cuts. It all makes sense now

@sitara7664 3 года назад

this is kinda obvious but yeah another way to call someone gay is to call them fey (idk how to spell it hehe)

@unicornsprinkles8964 3 года назад

@@sitara7664 do you mean calling gay men fairies? Cause that’s an insult

@heidih3048 3 года назад

@@unicornsprinkles8964 "Fairy" was used in the same way "queer" was, as a disparaging reference -- so, in theory, "fairy" doesn't *have to be* insulting-- it could be reclaimed, just as "queer" has been.

@iknowthatyouregayfireflies9992 3 года назад

@@unicornsprinkles8964 I a gay guy actually like being called a fairy. Not all gay guys do, but I do. There's just something about being referred to as a magical being that can be malevolent, benevolent, or both, that's capable of incredible things. Like having an effect on plants and maybe weather, or being able to lure annoying people to their doom. It's just wonderful to me.

@supernova622 3 года назад

@@iknowthatyouregayfireflies9992 i love this

@Sleepygraveyard 2 года назад

It was so funny when i cut my long hair and all male friends thought it was their duty to vocal their disappointed by saying I LIKED IT MORE BEFORE, like there are still men who believe their opinions on our looks are the most valuable, I find it adorable

@yltraviole 3 года назад

The "Coiffure a la Titus" is such a good look. Highly tempted to bring it back. All these short-haired women looked great.

@supernova622 3 года назад

The look at 3:40 is *chef's kiss*

@hannaciszewska554 3 года назад

Gosh, a girl with short, curly hair... swoon worthy. Too bad mine's straight as unboiled spaghetti

@robinchesterfield42 3 года назад

I know, right? The whole time during that part of the video I was like "That's so CUTE! That's ADORABLE! Why would people not like this? We should bring it back!" :D

@houseofbl1914 3 года назад

Fr like I’m very tempted to cut my hair like that

@allgodsnomasters2822 3 года назад

There's like, A LOT of lesbians who still wear their hair like that, its very similar to the illegal Irish Rebel haircut called "the Glib"

@mybubbles5552 3 года назад

I’ve had long hair my entire life and this January I finally decided to shave my head bald. My family told me that I look sick and I can understand where they are coming from since my grandmother had cancer and lost her hair. It was fun and liberating to shave all my hair off but I don’t think I’ll do it again. Also, while bald and going to college I got pregnant so lol the womb did not shut down.

@MissCaraMint 3 года назад

Yeah my dad hated my shaved head for the same reason. I can understand since we have had several cancer deaths in my family, but at least to his credit he never made his dislike super known utill I actually asked him why he didn't like it.

@AtheistEve 3 года назад

Did you give your hair to a cancer charity?

@saladman420 2 года назад

I shaved my head 2 years ago and honestly it really was liberating for me too, i did it bc I thought eleven from stranger things was really cool with a shaved head, I got a ton of compliments too

@terryt9833 2 года назад

Same here, I shaved my head after a shitty haircut and everyone asked if I was okay. Like yeah dude, I'm not Britney, I just wanted to get rid of my godawful pixie cut. NGL I kind of enjoyed looking like Furiosa.

@vilwarin5635 3 года назад

Short hair around 1800 was also a political statemen, at least in France. Lots of noble women were imprisioned during that time due to their political afiliation, and their hair was cut, either to humiliate them, or because lice and other pests. Women outside started to cut their hair to show support to those imprissioned, or at least, that is the story I read

@maryeckel9682 3 года назад

Hair was also shorn off before one was guillotined, and a certain messy short crop was called "À La Guillotine."

@marianna6572 3 года назад

i shaved my hair once and people from where i live started assuming that i've been caught and punished by my boyfriend's (don't have one) "official" girlfriend. they were assuming right away i was someone's mistress because of a haircut lol

@kimifw58 3 года назад

Which country is this?

@marianna6572 3 года назад

@@kimifw58 brazil. but i can't say it for the entire country, i'm from a poor neighborhood in rio de janeiro.

@Strawberry95shortie 3 года назад

Should’ve went with it and made a fantasy up jk

@momo-mo2yb 2 года назад

Caralho que horror, imagina pensar assim só por causa de um cabelo mano 😰

@citlaliargueta3306 2 года назад

@@Strawberry95shortie I would probably do that it would be fun

@mirandak7242 3 года назад

I still can't get over the fact that you sewed an entire Regency outfit yourself... I wish I had that raw power

@THATGuy5654 3 года назад

The way you explained poor people selling their hair, and rich people wearing it- that gave me a uniquely bad feeling. A very visceral and uncomfortable depiction of capitalism as cannibalism.

@ah5721 3 года назад

It still happens. white women pay for Russian hair , black women pay for Indian or Asian hair. There's a small documentary about it. Its nothing new but it is unfair that the people who sell it make an enormous profit vs what they buy it for.

@victoriadiesattheend.8478 2 года назад

What bothered me was the dude who couldn't wrap his head around all the young women selling their hair. He thought that "female vanity" would keep them from selling it, never once considering that *starvation* might eclipse our desire to be attractive to men. What an absolute DONUT.

@aminulhussain2277 2 года назад

Eat the rich.

@serpentinewolf7085 2 года назад

Doesn’t bother me. Money is money.

@eldron29-a54 2 года назад

Still happens. The hair of expensive wings and extentions is harvested from the poor.

@Urza. 3 года назад

I cut my hair from long to a bob, it looked good on me but everyone around me was upset that I cut off my “Barbie doll hair” 🙄 I tried not to feel anything about it but it was an everyday thing in my workplace, I didn’t look how they wanted me to look and it effected my self esteem for a bit, I liked how I looked so that’s all that matters. It’s really annoying to be basically told I’m a doll to another person. I gotta look pretty, not comfortable.

@allgodsnomasters2822 3 года назад

Oof

@unexpectedspider 3 года назад

same thing happened to me,, it's horrible.

@ah5721 3 года назад

Mom and long term friend said they missed my long hair and that I looked better with it. But they don't have to deal with my hair everyday and the heaviness of it. Its thick and very heavy - gives me head aches so chop chop often.

@serpentinewolf7085 2 года назад

That shouldn’t have happened to you. I personally don’t look good in a Bob, but some women look amazing. I am rocking a buzzed back though.

@wowanothercookie 2 года назад

It's really annoying how comfortable people feel telling you how they prefer your hair. My family mostly got over it but once in a while I get to hear how they miss my long hair.

@eypu999 3 года назад

That’s interesting. It’s also interesting to see how a short amount of time was responsible for a gender stereotype and creat a new gender rule! In the Arabian peninsula all genders worn long hair, and they always worn them in braids. You also can see the difference before or at the start of interacting with Europeans and after that, men (unfortunately) hair was changed from long to short(not by force). School didn’t allow males to have long hair either (by force). For the first time, hair was assigned to a specific gender and now a 100 years later I have to convince my family that came from THAT culture that hair styles were never gendered. Where’s the anti westernization attitude when you need it? 😩

@axoltl5462 3 года назад

Y E S.

@houndoom1234 3 года назад

Omg it's the same in Chinese culture. For over 2000 years cutting ones hair was considered deliquent and disrespectful to one's parents for both genders. In the Qing dynasty, han chinese men were forced to cit their hair to ahow submission to the Manchu ruling class. It wasn't until Westernization that these gender norms were enforced.

@dataexpunged6969 3 года назад

Same with India! Not only our men used to wear their hair long, but also wore bottoms that were long skirts. Even to date whenever people need to re-enact a historical event, they wear that tradional clothing, but God FORBID men nowadays grow their hair or wear skirts! I feel so sad..

@allgodsnomasters2822 3 года назад

Oof, keep fighting the good fight fuck the west and fuck gender constriction

@milascave2 2 года назад

when the Puritans started out. in England, most men had long hair. They had short hair, and were called "The roundheads."

@GDMiller419 3 года назад

Tignon was also imposed to distinguish extremely light-skinned/"passable" Creole women, both enslaved and Free Persons of Color, from the white women around them.

@blueaspenmeadow3862 3 года назад

The vibe this videos giving off reminds me of a mix of Ask a mortician and Karolina Żebrowska, it’s amazing:D

@littlebean1519 3 года назад

It's funny that all us of seems to like the same kind of videos , and ask a mortician and victorian fashion are weirdly conected, don't you think ? 😂

@igor-yp1xv 3 года назад

Totally!

@z.kaminska130 3 года назад

Meme mom and death mother!

@TheUchihaRin 3 года назад

Another person of culture, I see

@liyre4189 2 года назад

I get AreTheyGay vibes, a young queer kid being super excited about LGBT+ history and sharing it with a small but dedicated and also extremely gay community

@KaylaNoelle1 2 года назад

Long hair on women is really heavily fetishized by conservative men and I had long brown hair to my butt for years. So I dyed mine half pink because conservative men claim to hate unnatural hair colours, well they lied. So I cut it to my shoulders and kept it pink, they still won't leave me alone. I'd get a buzz cut if I didn't like having somewhat long hair so much but I doubt even that would help me so why bother? Maybe I'll just get a feminist fist tattoo or some cool silhouette of Lillith with horns.

@whoami8752 Год назад

Changing your appearance just to not be attractive to conservative men? wtf? they still wouldn't leave you alone? why do you still think they fetishized long hair?

@nikkiyoung89 3 года назад

I cut all my hair off about two years ago and I love it. Mainly the same reasons as you do, my hair is curly, frizzy, and heavy. I still struggle with how society and the other gender perceive me. Probably from years of “Women are suppose to have long hair and are only attractive with long hair” being beaten into my brain. Great video!

@FunSizeSpamberguesa 3 года назад

There's a weird sort of ageism re: women and hair length. My hair is nearly down to my waist, and I and other long-haired women in my general GenX age group often get told some variation of, "You're not 18, cut your hair" -- usually from other women, oddly.

@ah5721 3 года назад

@@FunSizeSpamberguesa thats weird. It used to be in many societies you had your hair up in a updo so that ment your a grown woman until the early 1900s. When I was a kid in the 90s women were told to cut their hair shorter because long hair aged them 🤷‍♀️. You do you and have what ever makes you happy. I've had my hair half way down my back and in a pixi.

@LillaIgelkotten 3 года назад

I was also about to comment on the ageism of short hair. Usually women in my country would start cutting their hair short from their 40's and on, with the same excuse that "long hair makes them look old". But if a girl wants a short cut, she gets questioned. Isn't it self-contradictory?

@Saforra99 2 года назад

Same! I thought "all men liked long hair" (it really does sound silly now, but that's what I thought up till 10 years ago when I cut it :) ) I had just gotten married + admitted my desire for a pixie cut to my husband -- he said "Go ahead -- all the women in my family have short hair *and* I'm kind of tired of kissing a bush" ;) haha. But defs so much easier to take care of! Then wanted to shave my hair off completely -- just to try it out -- and I did! So cool + fun to try out! I was amazed how breezy my head felt just walking :) -- and I got several compliments on my head shape (who knew? :P ) As a grade-school teacher I intentionally waited till the last day of school + then cut it that evening so it had some time to grow back, but it was still pretty short by the end of the 6wk break (Germany). I therefore made sure to wear earrings + a ribbon around my head for the first week, just to help the kids get used to the new look. Funny story: A 6th grader asked my why I had a ribbon around my head and another 6th grader answered "As a decoration!" I responded "Well, that makes me sound like a Christmas tree, but essentially, yes :)" Thanks for a great video! I learned a lot + very much enjoyed it

@egl_aa 3 года назад

This channel is going to blow up. The algorithm hath shown me the future.

@dolfuny 3 года назад

The algorithm has hit me with this video

@prince_nocturne Год назад

As a cis man, I have the opposite issue. I started growing my hair out in high school. Now at 38, it is still long enough that I recently got 6 inches cut off and it's still down to my mid-back. When I first moved from the north to the south, I got 18 inches cut off (and donated to Locks of Love), and it was still just past my shoulders. I've been accused of a lot of things as a result (and some other things like chosen profession and being single for almost 20 years). I even had someone once threaten to beat me with, and I quote "my own faggy hair." I laughed, since I also have a black belt, and they were half my size and half drunk at the time.

@freakytostadacartoon Год назад

Im now 18 and started growing my hair. People make critics because my haistyles are "femenine", like I use scrunchies claw clips and my hair is a one lenght curly shoulder lenght but you inspire me.

@prince_nocturne Год назад

@@freakytostadacartoon Guy, Girl, or anything in between, long hair is awesome. Where it as you like, however you like.

@prince_nocturne 11 месяцев назад

@@user-sz9jp7lv7i If you mean am I attracted to it, then it depends on the cut. Some are better than others, and some women wear it better than others. I'm not a fan of the bob for example, but a shorter pixie cut isn't bad at all.

@prince_nocturne 11 месяцев назад

@@user-sz9jp7lv7i Well, first step, you probably shouldn't be getting your styling tips from randos on youtube comments.

@shantanupanda1650 3 года назад

So you mean to tell me, that powered wigs went out of fashion, not because of the rebelliousness of the regency young generation, but because of a TAX

@michirukaioh4014 Год назад

As many things have been created, like attics and dormers to avoid paying taxes for buildings with over X amount of floors or rejected, like tea consumption on the States, all because of taxes

@creepling_ 3 года назад

so if so called "inverted" victorians were called fairies,,,, is that why they call short hair on a woman/afab a pixie cut??? *mindblown*

@gnostic268 3 года назад

I'm Native -Lakota and there is a strong cultural tradition of long hair in our communities for both men and women. It's a long story with hair having been cut during residential school days but I have almost always had short hair. My mother did too My hair is long, thick and fine so it never cooperates. I also have an extreme dislike of my hair getting wet in the shower or pool and then feeling it stick to my upper back. I will always have short hair because it makes me happy and comfortable.

@L0rdOfThePies Год назад

Ah fair, my hair is very heavy when its long so i prefer to have it short, having comfort in yourself is the most important thing imo

@zombelladonna 2 года назад

I'm surprised you didn't mention the story where the lady sells her hair to buy her lover a watch chain, but her lover sells his watch to buy her a hair comb..that story always made me sad when I was young. Also Bernadette Bobs Her Hair by F. Scott Fitzgerald.

@sewgeekdesigns9113 2 года назад

My favorite description of frida khalo:”she showed up at the family picture with slicked back hair and a men’s suit.No one said anything because they knew that’s how frida was.” And as a queer person I said it should just be that way.

@emilybarclay8831 3 года назад

I prefer shoulder-length bob hair. It suits my face shape and it’s easier to manage. Long hair is fun but mine is so thin that there’s not much I can do with it. Am yet to experience fevers or tooth pain lmao

@weliveinasociety4629 3 года назад

I like the same cut but for opposite reasons. My hair is really thick and a bit curly and it'll start to hurt if I keep it too long. Any shorter and it becomes harder to manage. I'd shave it all off but I'm pretty sure that would literally kill my parents lol

@emilybarclay8831 3 года назад

@@weliveinasociety4629 my hair’s weird, it’s really straight and smooth but for some reason it always ends up getting tangled, but the tangles aren’t visible, it’s like the hair locks together lol. It’s just waaay easier to manage when it’s short or medium

@weliveinasociety4629 3 года назад

@@emilybarclay8831 RIP I would hate that. hair is crazy, like it can be so fickle sometimes lol

@emilybarclay8831 3 года назад

@@weliveinasociety4629 my hair being thin and yet also heavy also means the slightest gust of wind has this bitch going all over the place lmao

@weliveinasociety4629 3 года назад

@@emilybarclay8831 lmao I can relate to that one 😂 can't put the windows down in the car without being a safety hazard, sometimes even when I have my hair pulled up

@mariacori9500 3 года назад

"Have you ever encountered the Les Miserables fandom?" Me, overobsessed fan who accidentally found this video on the Barricade Day: *nervous laughter*

@karoliinalehtinen6701 3 года назад

This was so well research and interesting!! I'm Finnish and I can tell slightly more about Ellen Thesleff, since there seems to be more info available about her in Finnish. She was probably in love with an artist named Edward Craig, but they never had a sexual/romantic relationship. There's no record of her being interested in women, but personally I'm still convinced she was queer :D She also dressed in men's clothes in her twenties.

@KazRowe 3 года назад

Wow, that's fascinating! Yeah language barrier was a huge issue for me with Ellen Thesleff. Thanks for the info! ^^

@karoliinalehtinen6701 3 года назад

@@KazRowe no problem!! :)

@evanwiggleswade1176 3 года назад

She was also born into a liberal family and received a lot of encouragement and acceptance from her father both in art and general lifestyle, and later found similar people in Italy's artist circles. Her mother was worried about her reputation thou. I find her a very interesting character, her art isn't so much in my taste but she had such an interesting life.

@ananananabop 3 года назад

Great video! Really interesting topic. It’s amazing how, even today, cutting your hair short as a woman is seen as subversive. Albeit to a lesser or higher degree depending on where in the world you are. If you have long, beautiful hair, some people get actually mad when you cut it! It’s baffling to see. The shorter you go, the angrier they get. That’s a cool societal trick.

@wynngwynn 3 года назад

People actually got mad when I cut mine (or really upset). It was really kind of insane. I loved it, but everyone else had so much baggage with it, it actually gave me a complex when I was actually really excited about it. It's really fucked up.

@sketchbookmenace 3 года назад

I want to get my hair cut short this summer... my mom acts like she doesn't mind but I can tell she hates the idea, which makes me want to do it more- I'm sick of my long hair tbh.

@MissCaraMint 3 года назад

@@wynngwynn Interestingly when I shaved mine off (down to 6mm) lots of women would casually come up to me and tell me that they though I was super brave. It was an interesting experience too. It made me think "is this really something I should be considered brave for? It's just hair right?"

@nutella7162 3 года назад

I wore short hair since kindergarten and girls wouldn't even speak to me. Because they saw I looked different. Admittedly I live in a very conservative country, but still... I had a good reason too (not that you need one anyway). I don't what the hell bothered me so much about it, but I hated the sensation of something "heavy" on my head and it touching my shoulders and face. And around 6th grade I let it grow to try to fit in. They acted like I was a different person, saying things like "omg you finaly did it, it was SO ugly before, now you actually look like a girl". After a period of good old self hatred I am now graduating college with my pretty little pixie cut :)

@unrulycrow6299 3 года назад

I was 9 the first time I got a bobcut, from long 3b hair and my maternal grandma cried because she thought it'd never curl again lol however, short hair in itself wasn't much on an issue because short hair were already common on my mother's side for some generations. My mother has been rocking pixies since her teenage years thanks to that. I'm currently going the opposite way after 5 years of bobcut, by aiming for "as long as possible" for the sake of Edwardian fashion and fancy Gibson Girl looks.

@Jo-sg8qb 2 года назад

I was quite a tomboy but my parents, in most were very open minded, did not let me have short hair. As a teenager, mid 90s in germany, my best friend cut my hair, she sheared it down to 4mm. My father did not speak to me for over a week, my granny said "you look like coming right out of a concentration camp". my mother, who sported pixiecut in her 20s, just cried. Later say said, they gave up on my heterosexuality that day

@magoghair 3 года назад

I have short hair,and have my whole life. People have miss gendered me, and assumed I was a lesbian, just because of my short hair. It sucks, but my hair is super fine and looks stringy long. It looks better short. Has nothing to do with my gender or sexual orientation.

@howdyitsren 3 года назад

as a nonbinary lesbian, the idea of someone not seeing me as a woman with the most minor action or fashion choice is kind of a dream

@thatsdisco 2 года назад

hard same ♡

@dandeliondew 3 года назад

Wow, what an incredibly well researched video with photos and exploration across class and race! I also appreciate you bringing up slavery and hair, something often overlooked. The 'excepts' and 'not always' didn't detract from your point, but added so much more depth to your argument, just like the many layers to historical reality. :) I've learnt a lot!

@durianninja2464 3 года назад

The dandy fashion is EVERYTHING

@entitled_little_cat 3 года назад

It just clicked that "pixie cuts" are probably called so as a reference to the term "fairy" for women with short hair... Now I want one even more 😎

@theaverageglasses6197 3 года назад

Kaz: "Powdered to *shit* " Me: This person speaks my language

@user-fy4uv9wb7o 3 года назад

to her credit though, Lola Montez was a crusader against the poisonous chemicals still being used in cosmetics in her time, so that was cool of her (read this in Face Paint by Lisa Eldridge)

@F0xtastic 3 года назад

"you womb might shut down, and you're no longer a woman" Me: [pauses video, subscribes]

@natalieb1978 3 года назад

this gives me such "history repeats itself" vibes with the whole tiktok trend to go bald

@mp_1231 10 месяцев назад

Dude. I was in the mood to study this exact topic. Random. Thank you.

@gribop6508 3 года назад

“Everything is powdered to shit.” Me: instant like and subscribe 😭😂

@availanila 3 года назад

I have short hair. As a kid I had long hair that I regularly cut to a buzz cut for fun. At twelve I got sick and had about seven surgeries in about two years and took heavy medication for almost ten years and my hair suffered beyond belief. Needless to say, I can't grow long hair anymore.

@kristen2693 3 года назад

You've been though allot. You are very beautiful!

@ah5721 3 года назад

If you are trying to grow your hair there are many ways to do it from your diet to what you put of your scalp. Madam CJ Walker the first female Millionare said something like "your scalp is like soil , you need to feed it. " feed your body well and your scalp and it'll grow.

@Waspinmymind 2 года назад

@@ah5721 re read the paragraph. Literally re read it. You can’t be this dense.

@TarrareZekori 3 года назад

SO underrated! You're amazing and so interesting to listen to. I hope those thousands of subscribers and views will come by soon xoxo

@summerdais325 3 года назад

Toward the end of my grandma's life, she shared many previously unshared tidbits about her. Born in 1915, she passed in 2012 at age 97. I was a natural athlete, as was my dad. As it turned out, so was my grandma. She RAN TRACK in school!!! She wore short hair and was, as you said, told that running and short would render her infertile. Grandma went on to have 4 children and to hide much of these less traditional traits. She saw my excitement for what she shared, divulging more about her earlier years. She had a wonderful, loving marriage to my dad's dad. He died of leukemia 10 days after developing a bloody nose that wouldn't stop and subsequent diagnosis. My grandpa died in 1965, when my dad was 25, which was before his marriage to my mum in 1972. Her obit shares a lot about her life, but it didn't make mention of her marriage, AND DIVORCE, of a man who abused her. I was terribly concerned of being rejected by my Christian grandparents when I decided I had to divorce my abusive, pastor ex-husband. She wept and told me of her marriage and divorce. L married her in 1970. He, too, didn't believe it was a problem to divorce an abusive (partner) or, evidently, to go on to remarry. Y'know, it's only upon writing this that her and my dad's remarriages REALLY hit me. I have stayed single for the past 13.5 years. Time to take a page out of her book and move on with life AND LOVE. Had she been born later, I believe she may have gone on to champion for LGBT rights. When I came out (still figuring things out), she said she couldn't quite understand, but many in her time couldn't understand her. Live and learn, she said, except, apparently, where technology was concerned. That new fangled technology was impractical and out of her reach. 😂 So, this grandma was one of the short haired girls, by choice; the other was a short haired girl due to complications after Scarlet fever. Thank you for this video.

@heidi-so2ds 3 года назад

100% agree, cutting your hair short can be so liberating. i cut my hair in a buzz cut at the beginning of this year and at first i thought i might regret it and be stuck with short hair for so long but i really loved it and i think i will stick with short hair (shoulder length at most) for the rest of my life

@emilienweerts1492 3 года назад

15:57 I might just be drunk, but b o y the idea of referring to myself as a faerie as a nonbinary gay man sure is becoming very appealing 👀👀

@thatsdisco 2 года назад

fucking go for it!!

@KikiYushima 2 года назад

I was someone that had cut my hair off shortly after I graduated high school for gender reasons. I'm AFAB but identify as agender and wanted to appear as genderless as possible. However, a few years ago, I wanted to do an hombre dye of my hair so I needed it longer. I'm a naturally curly girl and hated my textured hair all my life. But, last year, I fell in love with my curls and haven't touched it since. It's weird to have such a loving relationship with my hair after I hated it all my life. Plus, I realised I don't owe anybody androgyny unless _I_ want to display that way. Cutting my hair helped me accept myself, but growing it back out also helped me accept myself in different ways. It's funny just how connected to identity can be and often is for people.

@L0rdOfThePies Год назад

Gender is what you make it my friend! Curls are beautiful:-)

@Stevonniewolf3113 3 года назад

There was an artist who painted his muse, his wife's maid, as a noblewoman in a painting.

@darabounds6671 3 года назад

Chopping off my long hair was incredibly liberating. Truely, a blessing. This video was awesome and I learned alot.

@spameranne 3 года назад

This video is rad and your regency duds are most excellent! apologies for the 5-month tardiness -- the algorithm clearly ain't shit.

@AbsolXGuardian 3 года назад

Somehow it almost feels nice to know that I could conceptualize myself as and be seen as a form of non-binary in the Victorian era, even if it would be stigmatized and criminalized. I would be pretty pissed that my uterus never ended up shutting down.

@ArtByEmilyHare 3 года назад

I never in a million years imagined that I'd ever choose to have short hair, not just short but mega close crop. I was SOOOO attached to my 'crowning glory', I had lots of curls and folks often would refer to me as 'the one with all the hair' if pointing me out in a crowd. I used to feel like I needed big hair in order to balance out my body which wasn't petite and delicate. When I turned 40 (5 years ago) I decided to stop dyeing my hair and at the same time went to get a super short haircut to cut out most of it. The first cut they gave me was awful, I looked like a country vicar, then I found a good hairdresser who gave me a nice pixie cut. I now cut it myself (using clippers) and i LOVE it. It's SOOOO useful having short hair, I don't have to worry about it getting in my eyes, I don't have to tie it up and i don't need to get my roots done anymore! What was really interesting from doing this though, was the unexpected side-effect of feeling more 'me' than I'd felt before. I'm not sure why, but I think I 'hid' under my hair a bit, or was too attached to it as a part of me. Now I can't imagine having it long again, mainly because of the maintenance! I love your video, it's so fascinating!

@maryeckel9682 3 года назад

I'm chuckling in sympathy at the "country vicar" image. You look great and happy!

@ArtByEmilyHare 3 года назад

@@maryeckel9682 thanks! Yeah I’m very glad I found someone who fixed it. It was that awful thing where you walk out of the hairdressers feeling deep embarrassment! lol

@howtowithelizabeth7513 2 года назад

I’m thinking of doing a pixy cut to but I fear I’d look like a guy I’m going to make up my mind next year it’s to my waist and a pain to wash and brush I don’t care much about the cosmetic look but I dread being mistaken as a guy instead of a girl I’m looking at how convenient it would be to have it that short but I’m dreading on doing it then regretting it afterwards I’ve never had it shorter then a short bob I’m also overweight and I don’t think it would fit me that well 😕 I’m wanting to donate it and I want it as long as it can be I’m just stuck on going super short or not yet it is hair and it will regrow (then poke the $hit out of my eyes and drive me crazy that’s why I haven’t had bangs since I was a kid) that’s another downside of going super short for me 😒

@ArtByEmilyHare 2 года назад

@@howtowithelizabeth7513 I always thought that I'd look too masculine with short hair but it's weirdly been the opposite for me. I'm not petite or elfin at all and the idea that this haircut was only going to suit small pixie like women was blown out of the water when I finally went for it. Heck, if you hate it, you can just wear headscarves or a wig for a while till it grows through. I had a bob for a while but I actually prefer the pixie to the bob (on me). Also the big bonus is being able to wear HUGE statement earrings which always got hidden by all my hair before! I don't think there is any reason that you would look like a guy with short hair, unless you're dressing in super masculine clothes etc - even then, does it matter? I don't think short hair is inherently masculine, it's just our culture thinks it is. It's just practical hair. I can tell you I have not looked back and wouldn't want to have to fret over 'bad hair days' etc again with my long hair! You might find like i did, if you do chop it all off that you love it so much you don't grow it out. Just be sure to find someone who knows how to cut short hair, not the woman who did my first short cut (who had previously been cutting my shoulder length hair). She had no clue and once she'd started i realised this but it was too late. ended up going to a different hairdresser to fix it and ended up with my pixie cut (now just cut it myself!). (I realise enow i've just repeated a lot of what I said in the first post, sorry!)

@Agaettis 3 года назад

Bless you!! There is not near enough information about women and short hair in history! Thank you!!

@verogoss 3 года назад

I have very long hair (to the waist), they are bread most of the time, but when I were them loose I can sense people staring. I understand why it was considerated something private. and also it is so annoying when they are loose, if I bend to catch something on the ground they go in my face all the way to the ground!! And when I lay down and want to stand I sometimes ''step'' on them with my elbow!! really I don't endure them loose very often

@YouTubeSupportSucks 2 года назад

I shaved my head after my mom died and wow did people treat me worse lmao. It was super convenient though, and very fuzzy, but I just did it because I didn't have the energy to deal with my hair while I was grieving.

@fishieandco 3 года назад

The late-19 century male impersonator Annie Hindle & her 'wedding' is an interesting person to research if you're interested in historical queer people & their relationship with hair.

@nicolacallahan 2 года назад

I would amend the title to "The VERY Complicated History of Women with Short Hair in Europe and the United States" since that is what the video focuses on. You did touch on the fact that this video wasn't cohesive of every country, but this would clarify it a bit better, since folks in the US and Europe are treated at the default a lot. This is a cool video, and you did a great job researching it!

@infamoussphere7228 3 года назад

This is excellent! I've had short hair since 2009 and I'm interested in history and historical fashions. I've often had the thought "if I want to do any reenacting I'll probably just end up reenacting as a dude" because I'm not willing to change my hair (I'm also not that tempted by all the undergarments, given that I can't even tolerate wearing underwire bras, so reenacting as a dude still seems more tempting.) But of course people would have had short hair at various points. The short hair is great for me and I never want to go back. I'm of the mindset that everyone of every presentation should try short hair and long hair at least once in their life to figure out what they like, because at the end of the day it's not a permanent decision (obviously it should be one's own choice, not like, a haircut or sumptuary law forced on them.)

@gimmeyourankles 2 года назад

this video was awesome. all my sisters decided to cut their hair, and for us it's been a ride. some people love it, they say it suits us (even our grandma liked it and decided to cut hers) and the some hate it - mostly man - and say we won't attract men and that they don't understand why since "LoNg hAiR iS sO mUcH pRettiEr" well i see this as an absolute win.

@hayashi5763 2 года назад

show them a pic of Marylin Monroe or Elizabeth Taylor,or even Sophoia Loren in the 50´s. You wil have much fun!

@meowzaio 3 года назад

i can't tell if the book of women's beauty is actually about women or about pizza dough

@OnlyMusic16 3 года назад

This is incredibly well-researched, well-spoken and entertaining. I love deep dives into obscure topics like this, and it was done in such an interesting way! Thank you for enlightening us about this!

@jazzedaboutcheese 3 года назад

The intersectionality of this video is *chef's kiss*. New subscriber over here!

@clarandie 3 года назад

loved this video!! was very interesting to learn about how the Victorians viewed gender

@clarandie 3 года назад

also i love your regency outfit!!

@ivechang6720 3 года назад

An interesting point considering the context. When I had my medically needed hysterectomy I was forwarned that according to certain criteria I was no longer a woman. That was for people with wombs, functional or not. So yes let's talk about the many many ways our varying societies try to dehumanize anything other than straight sexually functional males and straight functional womb bearing female (sexual function need not be considered for females.)

@ah5721 3 года назад

A hysterectomy doesn't make you less of a woman, that's the most ridiculous thing I've heard in a while! If that was the case my mother and mother inlaw would be genderless despite having boobs, vaginas and liking long hair a feminine looks/ presentation.

@ivechang6720 3 года назад

@@ah5721 IKR? That was just silly imo.🤷‍♀️ I included it because it can be subtle when and where it shows up. It's there though.

@boyinblue. 3 года назад

I remember when straighter hair got super popular in the 2000’s I was told several times as a little girl that my hair would “look better if it was straight” I’m so happy I never used heat tools on my hair, it’s a lovely dark blonde and mildly wavy. I can’t imagine how those trends affected women with 4c hair or just a corse texture in general. I still remember walking through the school hallway and it was the first day in years I had worn my hair down (I always held it up in a pony because I thought I didn’t look good with it down) some girl was walking with me, she turned looked at my hair and said “have you thought of straightening your hair” I said something along the lines of “yeah I might try it” and it then took me another 8-10 years to wear my hair down.

@oldop3635 3 года назад

I'm in my 30s and just cut my hair short for the first time other a yesterday. It was far more liberating than I expected and rly cant imagine going back to lengthy hair in the future. It truly felt like a breath released with that first snip. I'm glad your video popped up on my feed during this time. It was very informative. Thank you

@ah5721 3 года назад

Thats what happens when I try to grow my hair out . It feels okay for a while but after I chop off again I feel like myself .

@Dasjania 3 года назад

You deserve so much more popularity and exposure. Such a well-researched and fun take on something that is a part of daily life. I want more!

@igor-yp1xv 3 года назад

Never expected that I would find a 26 minute video on women wearing short hair so damn interesting!

@indipindy16 3 года назад

this is actually fascinating, im glad youtube recommended this to me.. you're so underrated!

@shyannevasquez5257 3 года назад

I think this video makes a lot of sense to me now. I never understood why my parents saw me expressing the desire to cut my hair when I was younger as masculine. To me, it was just a change in style and, as I have very thick, heavy hair which can really get hot in the summertime, a relief. In fact, when I finally cut it, they asked if I was transgender. I think, to them, A woman’s worth is so inextricably tied in her outward appearance that having short hair confuses them.

@AliciaNyblade 3 года назад

I never understood why women in eras past would bemoan the loss of their hair: "Guys, it's HAIR. It's going to grow back eventually. What's the big deal?" The explanation that short hair was once associated with imprisonment, enslavement, and poverty puts those strong feelings into context. Thanks for teaching me something new today!

@Lilas.Duveteux Год назад

Also, for me long hair is one of my few vanities. Most women like to make themselves look pretty, and long hair is for me less maintenance than nails or makeup.

@AliciaNyblade Год назад

@@Lilas.Duveteux Same. I love having long hair; it's one of the things that makes me feel feminine.

@rancorohfour4137 3 года назад

The way you addressed the content in the beginning was truly brave, from the heart, and a great thing to do.

@lyztho 2 года назад

I came across your channel from OFMD and I just wanted to say you have quickly become one of my favorite channels as I have been watching in the background at work. From the outfits, to your spoken cadence, to the mix of visuals and plethora of sources to back it up! Thank you for all the hard work this undoubtedly takes to give each subject the attention they deserve. I have been struggling a lot with my hair (and gender Identity) lately, and sharing this video with my parents has helped me bridge the gap a bit in their understanding.

@carb_8781 3 года назад

i'm 15 and from romania all of my old family members and neighbours started calling me a boy All The Time. it got so fuckign annoying but people my age only had compliments

@dracofirex 3 года назад

Instructions unclear. Womb has not shut down, still bleeding.

@RoxolanaTheArtist 3 года назад

This is awesome! Love seeing the visuals too. Thank you!

@NovelNobody 3 года назад

I sat down thinking I'd just catch the first half of the video that was in my recs while I ate dinner and then I couldn't turn it off- this was so interesting! Also your outfit is absolutely 5 stars

@jerrihadding2534 2 года назад

I just discovered your channel and I can’t understand how I haven’t found it before! I will be 72 in August and I majored in Women’s Studies at the University of California in 1984, in my mid-thirties. I am loving your perspectives! Also, I am bisexual and have had long term relationships with both women and men. I have been married to a Swedish man and living in Sweden for the last 23 years, after having moved to Germany with my German female partner and living with her there for ten years. Please continue to educate us!

@kathleencandelaria4106 2 года назад

Some girls/women just do not want to be bothered with their hair. I remember being 9 years old and so happy because my mom allowed me to cut it short. Curlers are annoying. I hated picture day at school. She would put my hair up the night before and I couldn't sleep with things.

@mistydlove.5512 10 месяцев назад

I just very recently came across your content here on RU-vid and could not possibly be any more excited about it! ❤ The "topics" and subjects you focus on happen to be alot of questions that I have had myself and have yet to find information on besides what I have seen in your content. I genuinely admire how inclusive you remain throughout every single video you have posted. You tend to answer questions I may suddenly have as you're talking- as though you're somehow reading my mind. Lol. THANK YOU for all your hard work you so obviously put into all of your videos!- I truly appreciate it greatly!

@hollynotholy 3 года назад

Can I just thank you a million times for making this video and citing so many sources? Thank you. Thank you a bunch.

@Werevampiwolf 3 года назад

God, part of this brought back memories of "but mommmmmm, I need to cut my hair short, I'm in a shop class, it's a *safety* thing" [is actually a butch enby]

@FunSizeSpamberguesa 2 года назад

Around the age of 12, my daughter wanted a chin-length cut with undershave, so I found a stylist I trusted to actually *listen* to her -- because in my own sad experience, too many stylists do what would look best in their opinion, not what you actually asked for. It turned out really nice, but I had so many people ask me why I "let her butcher her hair." Um, what? It's *her* hair. Apparently the idea of not controlling your child's hair is just foreign to far too many people. She's in her 20s now and still rocks that cut -- and apparently still gets flak from older people who can't mind their own business. Conversely, my hair is down to my waist, and I refuse to let a stylist anywhere near it -- the last time I visited one was 8 years ago, and instead of a trim, she started to hack it off to just below my shoulders, because "women over 30 shouldn't have long hair." I got up, took off the cape, told her to get her head out of the nineteen-fucking-fifties, and walked out. I then had to find creative ways to hide the chopped bit until it grew out again.

@ABCQTBREB 2 года назад

thats still long hair. This video is talking about "boy" haircuts, above the ears.

@talitharosanna946 2 года назад

Really interesting, thoughtful video. It was a real eye opener to so much and in so many different areas. Please do more videos like this! Also you look incredible in your regency outfit, my jaw literally dropped at the full length shot!

@cesameseason 2 года назад

this was the first time i came over your channel and this was honestly such an interesting video! i cut my hair short about two months ago, really did not know about the long history it had had and the different reasons people wore it! im glad you talked about it!