Kev called it a “snort” of cocaine. Not a line. 😂 I don’t do coke but the way y’all speak of drugs and dances carries all of the parent energy I’ve ever seen.
What kinda dumb question is "Would you brag on your wife if she wasn't a size 2?" Bruh, but she IS a size 2 so that is the wife he chose and therefore the wife he will brag on! People ask the dumbest hypotheticals that prove zero points. Let him be in love with his beautiful tiny wife! He highlights WAY more about Melissa than just her beauty. On👏🏾A👏🏾Regular 👏🏾Basis!! Anyway, Happy anniversary y'all!! ❤🥰😘
People are weird. That's like saying "Congrats to my husband on his promotion", and people say "Oh would you congrat him if he was unemployed." Chill out and let that man love his wife.
People ask because she's in shape and he is not. Women are held to a way higher standard of beauty. They are expected to accept men looking any kind of way but they can't gain weight, have a bad hair day or breath wrong without criticism.
Kev: "Is this coffee or cocaine" I'm sooo glad Liss is in a great mood (even when she hit the 'YAH"...hilarious) absolutely love this episode!! Happy 16th Anniversary & cont'd blessings....
This episode is so doggone good I had to pause it and call my therapist to start my sessions again. I’m so proud of you guys and I’m proud to be a supporter!
Happy anniversary! It will be 20 years for my wife and me on July 22. Yes, it is hard work. And yes, anything worth having is hard work. Think about the things you have been given, and the things you have worked for. I'll bet big money that you love and appreciate the things you have worked for much more than what has been given to you.
As someone who has gone (and still is going) to therapy, I highly suggest it. Whatever trauma that has happened in your life, though it’s not your fault you went through it, it is your responsibility to heal from it. Help yourself to avoid that pain to keep hindering you from having joy and peace in your life. That’s not to say you will forget what happened, but those traumas will not define who you are. Pray that God guides you to the right therapist. Also, do this to avoid generational trauma. Break those chains! I promise there’s a light at the end of the tunnel.
Lauren Luv my therapist was through word of mouth, however I did check certain things about her such as what was her subjects of expertise, her background from a spiritual standpoint, credentials, etc. Think about what type of therapists would you feel most comfortable with. Example: Would you prefer a man or woman? Would you prefer someone of the same cultural background or does it matter? What type of counseling do you need (family, coping with rape or sexual abuse, weight issues, marriage, etc.). In some cases you might have to work with one therapist for one topic but another therapist for a different issue. If so, your therapist should be able to recommend someone who has more expertise than them on the subject. It make take a couple of tryouts to find the right one but remember two things: 1) They are there to guide you in the right direction for you to make peace with your trauma and how to be a better you, not to solve your problems. 2) Please take it seriously. If you not willing to speak your truth and listen on how you might need to improve you wasting your money. Hope that helps! 😊
I like a woman who don't like compliments because as a guy I don't see a point of them. If you know you look good, why do you need or want anybody to tell you
I had a glory tear 😪when Melissa said thank you to Kevin after the laugh at the intro🤣. Then deep therapy and interlude with yah🤣. So good, so good❤. Happy anniversary to you both congratulations and well done to growth, and reflecting our lives👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Lis trying to dance is cute and funny 😂😂😂. Y'all remember when when Zay and Jo tried to teach her how to do the shoot dance 🤣🤣🤣. Great episode btw, marriage is no joke!!! As much as I love my hubby, it's a lot of work
40:55 hit me TOTALLY DIFFERENT! Me and my therapist just talked about this... Pray for me y’all & for my hubby #marriedfor4years #collegesweethearts #BLACKlove
Yayyy I’m so here for this 💕 I just love y’all! My husband and I celebrated 13 years this May and have been together since we were 18 lol we are both 35 now
Thank y’all for this for real! Even though I’m single, I’m learning so much about what marriage looks like and the vulnerability it takes to grow within it. ❤️❤️
I love super funny super goofy Melissa! and it was so sweet to watch you guys give each other all the compliments and acknowledge how you have been there for each other ❤️❤️
This episode was great! So many things that my husband and I go through were mentioned. I’m definitely interested in individual/couples therapy now. Thank you for this! Oh and thank you for all the laughs today Liss! The coffee high, We Are Them, the Yah...😂😂😂 Bless your heart!❤️
I laughed so hard the first 10mins of this video. Mel "high" is the best thing ever! And the two of you for the love of God, no more guests! I love just hearing the both of you talk and dive into your relationship 😫😫
Such a powerful conversation. Counseling for the free free!!!🤣🤣🤣 I loved how the conversation flowed. You guys have learned sooooo much in 20 years to the point where you are able to EFFECTIVELY help others. Married or not. Thank you!!!
Happy Anniversary Mr and Mrs Fredericks! I thank you for these invaluable lessons that you give. You are teachers, you give us a lot of your time and you give us portions of 'you.' Keep God at your center and may the Father bless your union.
This was such a pleasure to watch💕🌸 All the things you guys spoke about are things that can be applied to all relationship and are just so informative. Keep up the beautiful work 🌼
This reminds me of “soul care “ so much . You start to realize how much ur past effects ur present! Then u worry about how much ur screwing up ur kids !
I appreciate you two so much. There's been a part of me that's deeply, deeply regretted some of the things my partner & I have navigated over the past 8 mos. Like, why did I pray, why did I ask him to do anything different, why did I ask to grow? But.... These things we've navigating with frustration have always been there & they've always disrupted us at key moments when we wanted to move forward. And the way we handled it was always far worse than the actual issue. So, I'm learning to handle things differently & so is he. And we've never met these versions of each other & it's difficult to relearn how to talk when we didn't really talk in the first place. To expand in my expression of love when I don't handle newness as well on the inside as on the outside. And his newness?? But ignoring his truth wasn't going to help us any more than ignoring my truth would. And we're also handling things that we don't have a format or model for. This is us. And I'm mad about it. And I'm grateful for it. And I'm thankful for y'all. And it's worth it.
Congrats 🎉🎊 on your Anniversary!! I’m not married or close to it, but I’m taking 📝 Thank you for being REAL!, Love the chemistry between you guys 👏🏾👏🏾💙
49:32 Kev's facial expression and Liss's non-existent dance ability will have u cracking up!!! Liss and I are white women trapped in a sister's body when it comes to these latest dance moves
This was a good one. Thank y’all for sharing and for being true to who you are. The love and care you both have for self and each other is seen. Wow. Okay, my allergies are setting in...I’ll leave this right here. Just saying. 😭❤️
