#TheLoveHour 

I don’t think Melissa speaks like a woman scorned. I think she speaks like a woman advocating. I recognize it cus I do the same. Folk ain’t always gotta be hurt to speak against the bs.

I used to be a huge fan of a relationship ministry until I realized it was more about grooming you to be a wife vs grooming you to be closer to Christ. It’s absolutely predatory & aiming to appeal to what you’re insecure about or lack. Spot on.

🗣 YAAAAASSS LYS!!!! “Just because your husband is saved doesn’t make him any less of an f-boy!” PREEEAAACCCCHHHH

His apology, co-starring his wife, is reminiscent of whenever a male politician is caught in some sex scandal or affair, and they stand by this stoic, emotionally frozen woman while they issue a face-saving statement to the public.

AUNTIE MELISAAAAAA SAY IT AGAIN!!! married ppl stay outta single ppl business

40:17 The real title of this video should have been "Just Because your Husband is saved doesn't make him any less of an F-Boy."

Liss: “Just because your husband is saved, doesn’t mean he is not a F-boy”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 IT WAS THAT FOR ME!!!

Absolutely!!! It is predatory to “prepare” women to be perfect wives for men who are still unfaithful and abusive

I think that his wife’s presence in the apology was a calculated distraction- probably on his part. Discussion has been more about her than the veracity and emotional resonance of the apology. Speaking in the third person is weird.

Melissa admitting that her full time job would be trolling Kev... it’s my favorite thing this week. Liss is not tryna be the bigger person... she bout to be infinitesimal. I’m here for it.

This is the day I found out Liss is more petty than Kev.... MUCH MORE PETTY 😂😂!!!

I’m not praying for them so im not even gone lie to yall 🤣😭😂 the realest ever. I Love the Love Hour

LISTENNN NOWWWWWWWWWWWW !!!! Talk about these conferences that’s making being single more complicated than it needs to be !!!!! ITS PREDATORY

Melissa’s exit strategy is hilarious! 🤣🤣

Melissa said she gonna troll and get paid. I ain't even mad 😂😂😂😂

Since this seems like a safe space. I will say Kev brought me here but I stay for Liss. I Stan a supportive queen who knows if it wasn’t for her there would be. no. him. #humblehim #showhimwhoooyouareeee

“You got walls up for other people”

The wife said ... you see a bonnet, I see the helmet of salvation. 🤷🏾‍♀️

So I have to agree with Melissa and Kevin when they say that have no clue how to help single people navigate the current single experience because they've only known each other. My mother (may God bless her and keep her) has been with my father since she was 12 years old then married him at 16, that was 46 years ago! She constantly gives me advice that would make me the perfect prey to an absolute monster(Like Chris is to Paige MAFS). In other words I appreciate that these two understand that they have no experience in the current dating world and choose not to act like they have all of the answers.

Yo...kev don't think this is funny! The fact that Melissa came up with a 10 point divorce vision on the fly...he's rethinking life right now. 🤣🤣🤣

I hope everyone has voted for KevOnStage for the NAACP Image Awards there’s only 2 days left!

It's also our patriarchal society that tells us there's something wrong with a woman if she isn't married....

Damn Liss has a whole exit plan. Kev looks shook. You have been warned sir 😂😂

It ain’t love when intimacy is given to another woman!!!! This is truth!!

I was talking out loud during this episode bc I get sooo irritated with so-called relationship gurus who target women. Then, here comes Melissa addressing all my issues!😁👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

It is not a wife's job to defend her husband's bad behavior in an attempt to save his image - especially when it exposes her to unnecessary scrutiny and public humiliation. A husband is supposed to cover (protect) his wife. PERIOD!

And we alll trolls right with you Liss Liss! I watched this on Patreon already, and watching it again, you know, in case Kev ever lose his DAYUM mind and we gotta squad up on dat azz!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I feel like he purposely had her dress down to provide some sort of excuse as to why he cheated. He is a classic Narcissist.

Have y’all though about doing a show like The Real with Melissa, Dani, Angel, and Rebecca? I think it would be an amazing show with different viewpoints!!

A WHOLE ENTIRE WORD!!! Minute 25:05 „In these scenarios where you say you love me, but the measurement of love is how I'm willing to put up with your mess?!“ 🤯🙌🏾

SLOW CLAP for Melissa on the gems she was dropping for this episode 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Melissa said, “The condescending narrative infuses a message that you can’t live a full happy complete life as being single and so you need to be working toward this end (of marriage)” “It is predatory to capitalize on the feelings of the single women who we have socialize to aspire to marriage and exploit those feelings for profit it is predatory” “Just because your husband is saved doesn’t make him any less of an F boy” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I am over the devoted wife standing by her man holding his hand while he apologize for his foolishness. Cause I have NEVER seen a man sitting beside his woman holding her hand while she publicly apologized for sleeping with multiple other humans. KEEP THAT SAME ENERGY, MEN!

I laughed so hard for Melissa's pettiness 🤣🤣🤣 please give Josh and Rebecca mics in your videos because they add so much more hilarious commentary. I know it shouldn't be funny but the way they egged on Melissa's pettiness and trolled Kevin. 🤣🤣🤣 Love the dynamic between you'll. You can see you'll have a great relationship even outside work with some of the inside jokes

“I have to be petty. That’s gonna consume all of my time.” - Melissa aka Missy, 3:16

Chile the Derrick Jaxn story has morphed into something deeper, darker grimier and just plain uglier than a husband cheating on his wife. I consumed some of the wife's IG content and had to immediately sage my spirit and look at a comedy show to get back right!

"I'm so happy I found you even though I found him wrong" 😅🤣😂🤣😅🤣😂 Melissa meant Errrrrrrrrrr WORD about that hypothetical break-up! Meanwhile Kev sittin there tryin to figure out what gift to give her just bc its Wednesday.

I just told someone we all made the mistake of assuming he was giving advice from the point of view of the good husband but actually it was from the point of view of the man he was telling ladies to avoid. That man was him.

Kev believe it...... don’t cheat on her 😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 She is for real Melissa doing a Tyler Perry movie 🎥 🍿 she done did the whole movie Acrimony 😂😂🤣😂😂😂

IF THIS EPISODE DIDN'T DO NOTHING ELSE ON TODAY, IT PREACHED! DO YOU HEAR ME WHAT I SAID!? I DETECT NO LIES IN NAAN PART OF THIS EPISODE!

Thank you Liss!!! I hate when i get lectured about my singleness! I appreciate my singleness and will take some advice if needed but everyone is different and most importantly these are different times.

The blood of Jesus doesn’t absolve you of accountability, yes Liss...speak on it!!!

Mrs Kev is 🔥🔥🔥 A SERMON!

If I could like this video 1000 times I would. Women are often taught and encouraged to date and love a man around his pathology, while being told she needs to be a laundry list of things to make him happy. This is why most divorces are initiated by women, that kind of life isn't sustainable for two human beings trying to love each other and get through life as best they can. In terms of men giving women dating and love advice, I think this is because many women have internalized the belief that men know better, and that finding the right mate is about needing to understand men. So, who better to help with this than a man? I don't agree with this, but this is how many women think. I was a Dating + Love Coach for 10 years, well before many of these social media gurus popped up, and it always surprised me how many women flocked to the advice men were giving. I always thought men should be talking to other men about dating and relationships, but they don't talk to single men because they aren't listening. All of this is exacerbated by the fact that there are so many black women who are single and don't want to be. And people take advantage of this deeply painful, complicated struggle.

Kev: Have you thought about this?!? Liss: No! This is what’s in me. 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣

When Lis spoke on how its predatory that we socialize women to look at marriage as the goal then exploit their feelings about it for profit....i shouted....you better preach Rev Dr Mrs Kevonstage.

I almost feel like Derrick was anticipating this becoming public bc if I'm not mistaken he had a WHOLE book ready tht he was marketing while filming his so called accountability video.

I’m with Liss I’d look better than I’ve looked in my life. And my husband would be holding my hand so I wouldn’t smack him.

What I dont get is, if he protected his wife from the world for 4 years, when things were 'good' and she would have been susceptible to the trolls of the internet,...why would he bring her out and the height of something like that, and expose her at this point. Why didn't he protect her when it mattered most?

This is why I stopped following Ashley Empowers and Heather Lindsey. I cant stand the pandering to the single women. Stop trying to sell me Jesus by telling me if I love Jesus I can get a husband and be a high earning house wife. Girl goodbye!

I watched the "Stand by your man" apology. I focused on the wife and she looked empty, afraid and depressed. I can't imagine being her right now. If she stays or leaves, my prayers are with her.✌️

This class of petty is top tier! EVERYTHING 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Thank y’all for keeping it 💯 on not giving singles advice👏🏾👏🏾 my married cousin have been married since high school as well and when they be trying to tell me something I be like this 👀 Wait! What👀 please 🤫

Lol I agree.. My husband and I have been together since we were 17 and got married at 22 and we are now 30. I tell ppl all the time if you want to talk about marriage I’m with you but I can not talk to you about singleness bc I have never really been a single adult.

Melissa explaining the cruxes of Infj rage at the end is EVERYTHING to me. It really would be bad for Kev if he cheated on Liss.

Come on and preach, Melissa! 🗣 PREDATORY!

I totally agree that there are often conferences, books and conversations about how women can be better girlfriends and wives but no conversation about how men can be better. This topic has been a challenge for me for years and frustrates me. I believe that these conversations and presentations are predatory. Women are expected to turn themselves inside out, identify all the red flags, be a sex kitten and have the highest moral standards. If she doesn't fit the standards she is judged and treated poorly. While men are expected to just be themselves without judgement.

It's "you can have the kids" for me. Heard you Liss! LOL!!!!

I am here for ALL of Melissa's trolling and petty energy!!! YAAASSSS!!!! THE EPIDEMY OF CHEAPER TO KEEP HER!!! hahahahahahaaa

This whole episode had me talking to my phone. Yasss y’all. They was talking, preaching, & teaching.

I love the way the Fredericks interact. It has been a pleasure to watch them grow over the years..

"Are you available? Yes." Liss' energy is everything

"Collateral damage" 🗣 THAT PART!

I'm actually howling over Melissa's creativity at the end of this episode LOOOOL too funny! The narrative sounds wild and I'm here for it LOOOOOL

Auntie Missy is in full effect!!! 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋 I laughed so hard 🤣

Kev just sitting there listening to Melissa’s pettiness plan was hilarious. Mans had to ask hold on now have you thought about this. This a little too real right now 😂😂😂😂

Melissa-the-troll is so hilarious. That was a fun segment. When they go low, we go lower.

I agree with you Liss, the burden of the relationship is ALWAYS placed on the woman and women have been conditioned to take that responsibility even if/when we know it's not warranted. Also yes, there is a book Power of a Praying Husband...but men don't read it, and you never hear about it. Hm... something else women are responsible for (or take responsibility for) but don't get credit for... the husband's spirituality...whew! I'm tired boss...

Melissa is preaching here! I often tell people women can't help if they get married or have children, but we can control if we are good people. It's ridiculous that in the year of our Lord 2021 women are still considered self actualized only when married with children. AND some of the relationship gurus stay putting the onus on women to not only be a "worthy" women but we have to tolerate and fix these men.

You’re right MKOS, it is definitely Predatory!

Just a small note - Yes, there is a companion book to 'The Power of a Praying Wife'. it's 'The Power of a Praying Husband', and is part of the author's Power of Praying series. But I get what Liss is saying.

I know that’s right Liss! Petty Labelle 👊🏽👊🏽

Melissa wasn’t playing! She had a full plan! I would hate to see what she came up with if she thought about it! 😂😂

Can we collect an offering for Liss? I’m a man and I can definitely support what she is saying.

Melissa straight up preached! Thank you for having the boldness to tell the truth!

And then the red carpet was a beautiful celebration 🍾😍

Thank you Melissa! Married people stay tryna tell us how to live when they got married as babies!!!

Liss! One of my favorite episodes by Liss, she spoke hers and I agreed.

The current mistress just said on another TashaK video that she just slept with him on last Thursday. So he's still cheating on her.

Amen i don’t do the advice. I’m just trying to make it through my own relationship. I am not a counselor. I have a degree in minding my own business.

My good sis Lissa went in and I love her for it all the more. So many good quotes and a perspective that I personally align with from men targeting women to give relationship advice being predatory, to saying you love me but giving the intimacy elsewhere, to saved men having the ability to be f-boys... *queue applause*

I'm with Melissa, I would be acting out 😂🤣 except I would get married again to a man that has everything my EX husband is insecure about.

It was the slide down in the seat for me when you spoke them cold hard facts Liss! 😆

This woman is hilarious "I sleep fine... I troll all day and I clock out" 😭😭😭 She said "I'm so happy I found you even though I found him wrong" SCRIMMIN

Listen I was hollering and shouting at the screen! Liss went in on this topic 🔥, she's in her bag. Her saying women are groomed to be wives & it's predatory, felt that in my spirit - I love this podcast 😃

Predators seek out weakness. And then exploit. Melissa hit it directly. 🎯🎯🎯 Oh he gave good advice. So good, you can literally replay it to point out his current behavior and manipulations. Melissa troll rant at the end with the peanut gallery was chef’s kiss 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I had to watch it twice.

"I have to be petty that would take all of my time "🤣🤣🤣🤣

I miss this doggone podcast..I mean just gems!

What got me is the number of times they brought God into his change of behavior and then their healing. I believe it for her, but I am going to have to see him continue to walk with God for a long time to believe him.

Auntie Liss had a whole sermon today!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Together, the Fredrick's are hilarious!!!

From what I've seen, men online are not into self improvement videos (outside of working out, and p i m ping) so advising them on relationship doesn't bring $$

THANK YOU, Melissa for being considerate and honest about married people giving advice to single women. I have had these same thoughts over the last few years. I would also like for married people who were not abstinent when they were dating their future spouse to stop trying to convince single people that they should still uphold "purity" in dating even though the married couple themselves didn't. They are on youtube telling women to do something that they weren't even able to accomplish.

THANK YOU!!! I hate when high school sweethearts try to give dating advice. Always have.

He owned it. Even though they said it was her idea to go live, I don't think she was ready but he probably said we have to hop on this damage control. So she said alright, let's get it over with and just did it. I don't think they should have went in on her either.

I'm here for all of it Liss!!! "He can be a church guy and still be an F boy!!!"

Melissa's look at the party was PERFECTION. Also, after that unbelievably hilarious rabbit hole she went down, she can no longer claim she is not creative.

I don't know how Melissa deals with this man "quarter chub" 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣 I can't

The way Melissa is preaching!!! I am in absolute agreement!

This man just slept with someone last week. He probably should have handle this in private instead of trying do damage control. I feel bad for his wife, like he really made her look like Paige. I can only imagine how she is feeling hearing about more women as recent as last week.

Melissa you speaking the “truth”, yes!