Theory of a Deadman - Not Meant To Be [OFFICIAL VIDEO] 

"I can't give you what you want and it's killin me...." That is such a knife to the heart feeling.

Can we all just agree that Theory of a Deadman is one of the most underrated rock bands? However, they had beautiful songs, and this is my favorite

7 years of giving everything I had, only to be told it wasn't enough. Why can't I be enough to be loved as I am?

Don't matter what people say, the alternative rock and post-grunge ballads are truly amazing songs, dispite of the intention of selling. And this song is one or the greatest rock ballads I ever heard. I think this is the best song of Theory of a Deadman Reminds me when I was in love with my best girlfriend. I give her everything, but she never pay attention to me. This song reminds me so much of her. And even we still been friends and I have a new love still crying to this song.

don't it hurt like hell when you realize something that you desire so much is "not meant to be?" but hell.. who doesn't like a good kick in the teeth every now and again? next....

Nothing like a song about the final stage of grief.

Anyone back in 2020 for this beauty😭

"But I'm caught between what you're wanting from me, knowing that if I give that up I might just disappear" I feel this.

THIS SONG REMINDS ME OF HOW HARD SOME RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE EVEN WHEN SOMETIMES THEY SEEM EASY, IN THE END WE ALL HAVE OUR UP'S AND DOWNS THAT'S WHAT MAKES IS HUMAN.

Nobody wins when everyone's losing

“Nobody wins when everyones losing” is the most complicated sentence ever.

This song helped me out so much last year, went through a bad break up. Still helping me this year. It's an awesome song. Means a lot

am I the only one who's here because this is a good song overall?

just ended my relationship and now I see her with a new man so fuck life music's all I need

My younger brother committed suicide last weekend by overdosing on something. He was found with headphones on, presumably listening to something. This is his youtube account. He made a playlist containing 6 songs that was edited the day he passed. This is one of the 6 songs. With the method he used, he was dead after about 30 minutes, probably unconscious around 12 minutes. I like to think that it was peaceful for him with his music on. I love you Myles, I'll miss you everyday for the rest of my life.

It's funny how I listen to all these songs from my childhood, and now that I'm an adult, they resonate so much more.

I hate how a random song on your 1000 songs playlist that you've heard a hundred times suddenly means something. This is one of them.

This song is for anyone who's going through HELL NO MATEER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE SOMEONE

This song is by far 1 of the most underrated songs out there, no doubt.

This song came out when my marriage was falling apart. I'd ball my eyes out everytime I heard it but I loved it! I can now listen to it without any tears, thank god! I absolutely love this band. Great in concert too! Huge crush on Tyler!!!

always wondered why many talented bands that make good music are always underrated.. So unfair.......

These guys write some really great songs gotta say!

My ex fiance has mental disorders that are all perspective based and this song sums up the reasons I had to finally leave her. It hurt because I know they were not her fault and she couldn't help it, but I just couldn't please her because of how her mind worked. Its been three years and I still cry when I hear this song. I really am sorry, Maggie, but it was just too much.

Cant believe im still listening in 2021.... Ive been your fan since 11 years ago !! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Tyler Connolly, please keep giving the band the recognition they deserve! You have an amazing voice but also a heavy accent so give you're band members the airtime they deserve. You guys are great so keep doing what you are doing. Theory of a dead man is a band that deserves more recognition!

I went through 3 days of hell, trying to figure out the band name and the name of the song but now I know. I was like I know it starts with a th...so maybe its 3 something. I kept seeing 3 doors down and 3 day grace and I'm like close but nope...then I went to list of Canadian bands and scanned until something looked familiar and here I am. WORTH IT! Memories T_T

This is such a great song and hits home for me. Got me through some hard times and I found a reason to still love this song even though bad memories are connected to it.

Can't believe in 13 years I've never heard this song. Great tune!

I really like this video. I think the old saying "music can speak to you" really applies here. At it's core, the song is about acceptance, which can be a hard thing to grasp. I especially like how, at the beginning, they appear to be fighting in the house, whereas near the end, they're hugging. When I saw the window curtains rise up, it reminded me of bed sheets and the comfort they can bring, which I felt symbolized the comfort one finds in acceptance. Aside from that, I love the song. I rate them both a 9/10, but that's my personal taste/opinion.

i remember ending my 4 year relationship, I was devastated. but now I realize we aren't meant to be.

“Nobody wins when everyone’s losing” thats 2020 lmao

My life, it's too short, to live like this

11 years into my marriage and this song has more and more meaning. It also reminds me of my first love. Probably because that's his brother playing guitar in the background.

this song matches my last relationship perfectly. she was an emotional vampire no matter what I did it wasn't good enough for her. there was always something she wanted from me that i couldn't give to her. whenever she texts me I out this song on to remind myself not to respond

This song makes me smile, and cry, and to want ,and to reject.

It's never enough to say I'm sorry It's never enough to say I care But I'm caught between what you wanted from me And knowing if I give that to ya I might just disappear Nobody wins when everyone's losing It's like one step forward and two steps back No matter what I do you're always mad, and I, I can't change your mind It's like trying to turn around on a one-way street I can't give you what you want and it's killing me And I, I'm starting to see Maybe we're not meant to be It's never enough to say "I love you" No, it's never enough to say I try It's hard to believe that there's no way out for you and me It seems to be the story of our life Nobody wins when everyone's losing It's like one step forward and two steps back No matter what I do you're always mad, and I, I can't change your mind It's like trying to turn around on a one way street I can't give you what you want and it's killing me And I, I'm starting to see Maybe we're not meant to be There's still time to turn this around Should we be building this up instead of tearing it down? But I keep thinking maybe it's too late It's like one step forward and two steps back No matter what I do you're always mad, and I, I can't change your mind It's like trying to turn around on a one-way street I can't give you what you want and it's killing me And I, I finally see Baby we're not meant to be It's like one step forward and two steps back No matter what I do you're always mad, and I Baby I'm sorry to see Maybe we're not meant to be

These songs will never get old...this holds back a timeline that was more valueable than anything in this world...im so proud that i belong that from era where songs like these were made....

Awww no.....I'm crying now...this is exactly what my son (26 yrs old) is going through. And every time he decides it's best to break up, she comes running back to him. Girl, you're like a daughter to me, stop this mess before you lose him.

2019 and here I am again.

Dedicated this to my ex husband when we were married. We divorced, he died. Hits home for so many reasons.

have not listen to this since i was 11 im 17 now and i now see a totally different meaning to this.

It's been years since I've heard this song... I need to start listening to ToD again.

11 years old still a banger

I've had a realtionship that ended exactly like this

i have yet to find a theory a deadman song i dont like

that double neck for 4 frets though 😂

This song has such a deep meaning to me.

Im convinced that Theory of a deadman doesn't have a bad song

To be honest, this band is what got me through my trip to a mental ward. I'm crying because I never knew who I was hearing during my music block, but now I've found my saviors

this song brings back the sweetest memories and a river of tears...

One of my all time favorite songs. Brings me back to a great time in my life.

I’m still listening to this and loving it so many years later. This is my favorite band from my college days.

i spend 17 years with 1 person. He left me . Every day killed me. 5 years later I see im better off. His lost. I just got to see truth. And how strong im

I love this song. Its perfect for what im going through right now.

I was suffering from major anxiety disorder from past 1 year. This song always kept me going.❤

Learned the hard way people should be held accountable for abusive behaviors and narcissism. There is no point in begging them for anything.

Just went and saw them in concert and they were amazing brought back so many old memories

This song always reminds me of a boyfriend who eventually succumbed to his drug addiction. Miss him dearly 🖤❤️

One of the best rock songs of all time.

It’s taken me 18 years to see it ain’t meant to be. The best thing out of it is a beautiful son that gives me a reason to keep pushing forward.

How is this 10 years old already?!

After all these years this still good song

Anyone can interpret this song and compare it to a relationship, but I resonate with it because it reminds me of the Toxic relationship I have with my Mother. I’ve spent all my life trying to please her but I’m never enough for her. I’m turning 24 soon and I believe it’s time to do something for myself , I will always be thankful for having a mother but i wish she would understand that i was meant for so much more than what she thinks of me.

One of my favorite songs. His voice is amazing singing this.

All their songs are kickass and always will be

This song made me realize it was time to leave my horrific marriage (and nine years later, I’m grateful for it)

I love the drummers energy and style and attitude, that's unusual for me

*28 million views and 14 years and still a favorite!*

After all these years, this is still my favorite song from these guys!

My fiance of 3 years and I called it quits about 2 weeks ago. Man and this song :(

Nice... 8 years later i'm back to this song... but at least now i know that this feeling is not here to stay. Stay strong out there its only temporary!

I forgot how much I love this song!! Brings back memories, and I would love to see them in concert again.

I haven't listened to this song since 2008 when I was 10 years old. I can't wait to see them live in Calgary! This band is such a big part of my childhood.

Remember hearing this as a 13 year old just enjoying the music..here we are now listening as an adult able to understand the lyrics.. Man how times change. Theory Of A Deadman was one of the reasons I got into alternative rock music before pop completely took over the radio

I love these guys! I hung out with them at a concert a while back. I love Tyler. So now it's getting me thru a 20 yr marriage that's broken.

Man, i feel this song to the core, i cant believe someone else will feel how i feel to the tee.

I am the kind of dude that listens to almost all type of songs, and I gotta say that Theory has really nice songs!

this song never gets old!

2019 still can't over this song

“It’s like tryin to turn around on a one way street”- you don’t no how hard that really is til you try it.

I was in a 2yr relationship and everyday was a battle I had to end it :( this song is what I sent to him

Amazing SOOOOONNNGGGGGH!!!!!!!!!!!

My top 20 , I'm 59 .. Yeah a great song

Great band. Tyler, he's got a great voice.

This is the real meaning of music. Lyrics are meaningful and the band is perfect. Thank you for making my childhood great back in the days and greetings from adulthood life, respect.

This song is so underrated! It brings me way back💜 my heart is forever is in 2009

That soprano on "And I" is everything 🔥🔥🔥

This sums up how miserable being with a narcissist is. Give everything and you disappear. Its a dark existence.

When I was in high school I loved this song. My fiancé left me a week ago and somehow I stumbled across this song and this shit means so much more. The crazy thing is I relate to every word 100% i really am starting to see that it's no one's fault there's just too much going on that showed me maybe really not meant to be.

Some relationships aren't meant to be.. sometimes we have to kindly walk away and heal. 💚💜

I like this song and helping me through my break up. Someday I'll find someone better who will love me the same

There is never a pain like the emotional pain of leaving someone you love.... I'll always love you and our unborn baby no matter what happens 💔

Still my favorite song since 2010

Honestly a sad song. Yet very true. Last relationship I had was, well it seemed like it was, perfect. Seemed we both gave everything to be with each other and in the end, the past always wins. I don't understand why people can't leave their exes in the past. The present is what matters, not the past. Found this song to describe basically all the emotions I felt during the breakup, and still do.

Finally getting to see them in concert after like 7years. Can’t wait. Like every song they have is awesome

It hurts to have the words to this song be so true. I've been married 17 years and can't ever make this man happy, gave him 5 kids, run his whole business, the house, all the kids school stuff, he's never woken up with a single kid in the night and yet there is nothing I can do right. He's always mad and I can't ever make him happy and it really is killing me. This song feels written for me.

I love this song.

one song I can never forget

Guess I'm one of the lucky ones. Married 25 years this years. There's hope for ya fellas.

I’m in this situation now. It’s hard to be with some who won’t see wrong in what they are doing. Looking me in the eye and have no conscience