Soul Prospers I know this is true just working through the pain of betrayal. I was vested with a pure heart and how someone can be so selfish and malicious doesn’t compute to me.
I was in a toxic relationship with a possible narcissist off and on for 2 1/2 years didn’t like the person I became . She didn’t value me she said things to me about our relationship that it’s not going anywhere and I stayed and never had the nerve to say anything about her hurtful words
It's so hard!! We we're together for seven months. He lost his job and I broke up with him, he came back after three weeks. We got back together had a wonderful weekend and now he's ghosted me for 11days. I'm so heartbroken!!!
You are so right He Did it for me Thank You JESUS if they knew that Everytime they left and every unkind word God was making me stronger and stronger they wouldn't have did it❗❗❗❗❗
“When God takes people out of your life it’s for your protection. When he brings people into your life it’s for your blessing or your elevation.” 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
YES.DISRESPECT HUMILIATION GOSSIPING BACKSTABBING EMOTIONAL ABUSE. VIOLENCE. SHOULD NEVER BE TOLERATED RELATIVES PARENTS BOYFRIENDS .WHOEVER.. GOOD ADVICE.
AMEN! When someone treats you in a dishonorable fashion when all you have done is treat them honorably-Release them!! It's pretty much that simple ain't it folks!? Thanks R.C.!
My dear sister,@@DeborahRose2885 “Consider ALL hardship as discipline” the scripture says. Dying to self, we put no confidence in our flesh. And neither did Jesus but nothing was wasted. He learned obedience by the things that He suffered. In fact, He came to die. And... all who live godly in Christ Jesus endure persecution. He gave His life - and we give ours. No one took it from Him and no one takes it from us. That’s not what it looked like though. It looked like “they” won. But Even this played into an eternal plan in spite of the false and popular narrative that “they” perpetuated. Truth? A grain of wheat fell into the ground and died - and rose again out from every tongue, tribe and nation to rule and reign with Him forever. “Winning” may not be what your life looks like as His did not at superficial glance. But you are leaving a legacy of faithfulness and ultimately you will share in the inheritance among the brethren - that “brother” in particular whose name is Jesus. And those who claim to be something they aren’t will fall down at your feet and be made to acknowledge that you are greatly loved and that what HE says you are has always been the truth and finally is being put on display with no one around to contradict it. To God be the glory!
@@kendragambrell4800 Praying that God gives you the strength to let go. Love yourself to much to keep holding on. Know that you are valuable and you deserve better.
HOW DID YOU LET GO....IM STUCK IN THIS TYPE OF MARRIAGE WITH NO FAMILY AND NO WHERE TO GO...HOW DO I LEAVE AND START ALL OVER AFTER 20+ YRS OF JUST ME AND HIM
I’m gonna send my narc just this He told me god brought him to me I believe it’s the devil now and I’ve emotionally detached from him and his defo got new supply as his being awful these days but we have a ten month old Loads silent treatment this week and then stone walking when questioned about his days off 🙈😂 Absolute demonic souls trying to take us good hearted empaths I’ve woke and he made it possible What a lesson but a lesson I must accept is Gods will and be brave and walk with the lord Thank you Jesus for helping me out of this 🙏🏻 and giving me a chance to repent and change the. And habits and things he made me do 😢😢
@@jodowsett6938 Amen! I feel your sincerity all the way over here. I pray for your deliverance and your safety over you and your baby. Yes sometimes the Devil will send people. Spirits recognize spirits. Energy feel energy. It is real. After my divorce my ex broke down and acknowledged I was the BEST gift from God. Unfortunately he was broken and my love couldn't fix him. Sometimes as women we play "Build A Bear". We can't build a man or fix him. He has to want to change on his own and begin the process of facing his demons that he has been carrying with him for years. Then he has to seek God before he finds a Wife or favor with the Woman of his heart ❤
@@drsheresebrigham2409 they say when you pray to God, the devil is also listening. So we have to pay still practice discernment when dealing with people. Sometimes you don't begin to see a person's true traits until 3-6 months and by then, we think we're in love.
Danae' Tolbert, love it also! A word for my own heart. "And she didn't call, and she didn't call, And she......didn't call, and she didn't......! I thank Pastor Blake's for those inspiring words! And thank you, for the reminder!
I was finally ready to let go of a person that was a huge part of my life ( IN MY MIND) for 14 years!! Let him go and immediately implemented NO CONTACT in Oct 2017. First 2 mths was challenging, but after that everything began to change. I finally knew again what peace felt like! In every way! My balance was returning and my skin and body began to change unbelievably!!!! I began to feel this new sense of confidence and motivation! I can write from now until the end of the year.. but I will not! lol. I am just happy and sooooooo grateful for all this newness. I am so grateful. The most beautiful thing I discovered was finding myself again!!! LET GO OF ANYTHING OR ANYONE THAT NO LONGER SERVES YOUR GREATER GOOD!!!!!!! Celebrating 2018 and beyond!!! New Follower! Side Note: Robert Blakes is hilarious!!
I am there right now! 2020 i want to be posiive. 14 years relationship, 9 of them he started to drink and using drugs. Last 3 years he is extremely doing this more. He is the love of my life. So i sufferd...try so often him to go to clinic. Now i have kept my door shut. Have said only when you go to our md and clinic, then you are allowed to contact me!!! Then i will give you all the support you need. Ofcourse he is trying coming here...but i say no! Beginning of this year...1,5 month....i do feel more calm. Hopefully i will feel alive again further in the year like you. I hope to let him go he will find himself and change... i have giving my hurt and problem to God, only he can change him. We will see what is going to change
@@juneo7 tonight he came again... said he misses me..pf. looked sober. Later told me he had one beer. When he put his lips on mine my lips felt lightly numb. Think he used bit cocaine.. he said he didnt... he never does what i want him to do, being normal! According him he wants relationship, same way we had... i demand he comes sober, to show me he is serious. Ofcourse as soon he noticed i will not having sex with him and said to come totally sober etc., he lost interest! He wanted to go home! Again i said show me you are serious by coming here normal. But he felt offended and frustrated because i am not willing to have sex with him. First show me how serious you are by come without alcohol etc. And who knows whats happening then... always say tomorrow i do it. Or an other time. No no... at the moment you come...now i want to see it. I want to make love....but not at this way. Plus....i am tired being played. Told him you hurt me very much many times, if you dont love me, stay away!! If you do, show me you really love me. But his mood changed because i was not willing to have sex. So it is clear what he wants. He have to do much more effort. If he doesnt....then i know enough. Although sometimes i think i am stupid, i long for physical contact...should i use situation or not? But everytime i feel blocked aswell...thinking of all the Hurt he throwed me in. Time will tell
My dad was killed two months prior to my birth, ( I don't need pity) never had a father until now I am so blessed; thank you for your wisdom and knowledge.
3 points: 1: Dishonor has the propensity to kill you, if you don’t let things and people go. 2: Disengaged, when people are disengaged in/with you: LET THEM GO! (Proverbs 18:19) 3: Disrespected favor, is the equivalent of spitting in one’s face. (Luke 15:11-17) Let people go so they can find themselves. Loving them from a distance.
sar1na7 😂😂😂 he made me laugh! I know that's right! I wish more men were as honest because if that's what a woman wants she will not waste time on a man who doesn't want that 😕
Nonu Frenz I watched that video so many times just to hear him repeat that lol. It's so relatable because I have done the same thing except I didn't get the happy ending that Lisa did (not yet anyway). But I will wait for him patiently, dealt with enough lil boys.
We all come with flaws, we are to love unconditionally. However, when those persons we allow in our presence are not edifying, they do not have our best interest at heart, it is time to LET GO!!!! When one is in your corner, they want the best for you, they will not hurt you, the treasure/value the relationship. If you feel off balance in any relationship, forgive, love from a far....WALK, NEVER LOOK BACK. Look to the future, TRUST IN GOD!!!!!
Your reply is SO true! I am 62 years of age. I sincerely wish I had known about Pastor Blake's teaching before ever having had 5 failed marriages. From the age of a teenager through to the age of adulthood (and on)...The world needs to hear these Profoundly, Spiritually-Annointed Teachings of: Pastor RC Blakes SELAH!!!
@@sharonclark9236 I am 54 and wished I had heard this a long time ago. One day I woke up and realized how old I am...and still struggling with some things. I needed this word tonight.
Amen I have let go blocked and deleted my ex narcissist it's been 2 years no contact. Just as I'm listening to your word I got a text from my Spam ... yes it's the devil himself texting me after all this time!! Trying to block my blessings. YES I LET GO.
Victory! God just letting you know that His way telling you to let go might have hurt you for a short while, but you trusted God and you survived well.
"I'm a firm believer if you do right and you mean right if God takes people out of your life it's for your protection. And when he brings people into your life it's for your blessing or your elevation!" Amen Pastor!
KiKi Renee Yes ma'am.....that will block your blesssing & keep you distracted by playing with those demons....praying on your downfall...I've been so peaceful....Amen🙏🙏
Amen brother. I had to let my daughter go. She dishonored me and continued to do so even after she was gone. She tried a few times to reunite with me, but her attitude toward me was still dishonorable. I cut her off for two years, and she finally changed her attitude towards me. Now, we are working on developing our new relationship. It was hard, but I totally understand what you're saying and it is truth!
I think we all go through our rebellion faze kinda like the Amish let there children do there rumpsringer they give their children have a taste of the world before they settle down and raise their families.
I always say, sometimes you have to retrain a person how to treat you. And the best way to do that is to let them go and not deal with them. Glad you and your daughter are trying to reconcile.
Thank you for affirming that letting go like you did DOES work. I'm a 78 y.o. mother of three "average" black sons that I reared, educated, and protected into adulthood. Now that I'm old and alone, they don't speak or visit even though they're in the same city and have cars, and my grandkids. I was an intentional mother, and had to be dad, too, my husband sent money, but did not pick them up or spend time in their childhood. From my 30s until today, 2023, was there when they needed legal (civil, marital, as I was an attorney) questions, and kept overnight (while they went on 3-month interval vacations for over 15 years, and/or financially and_or scholastically encouraged all three as best I could afford as a retiree. THIS POST AND BISHOP'S WISDOM PUT SOME STEEL RODS IN MY BACKBONE. I WILL STOP PICKING UP MY PHONE the once or twice a year AND instead TEXT THEM TO "LEAVE ME A TEXT MESSAGE: HOW MAY I HELP YOU? please leave a detailed response and I'll contact you at my earliest convenience," and go get a spa day or go see a movie. r got angry with my son, and so she punishes me I worry for my tiny boy. His dad makes excuses for her to me. Thank you for the encouragement of your remarks and I wish you and your daughter supernatural healing.
True, I wasted half my life; only 44-year-old but end giving someone 20+ years and we never even got married; I'm the one that evenly kept ending up in & out hospital trying to hold on.
+Moonlit Balcony God has truly been Blessing since I let it go (for Real - no contact) about 2 yrs; I have experienced several episodes and times of Peace that surpasses my understanding to the point it was a little scary but at the same time Wonderful and has definitely not been as much of a struggle as I thought it would be. God will definitely Bless your Obedience.
+Moonlit Balcony God has truly been Blessing since I let it go (for Real - no contact) about 2 yrs; I have experienced several episodes and times of Peace that surpasses my understanding to the point it was a little scary but at the same time Wonderful and has definitely not been as much of a struggle as I thought it would be. God will definitely Bless your Obedience.
It will be ok in the End.. I wasted 2 very precious years with him at a turning point in my Life.. Was buying a house and i thought we'd do it together and once it happened, we didn't happen.. The Bless thing is I still bought a house and moved on.. it Just hurts that i waisted so much time waiting on him to change, i could have moved on and been dating someone else who was more serious about us.. Now he wants me back but i don't believe it's real, just more Games.. Jesus take the Wheel!
classyt20f7 Many fornicate and get married and live lives blessed by God. We all fall short of the glory of God. The issue is individuals giving their bodies to the unworthy and noncommittal. Yes, it’s great if two people wait until marriage.
God, I release everything and anything that dishonors you and/or myself!!! Radical clarity!!! Make room for the right people, places and things!!! Hallelujah!!! Deliverance!!! Wisdom!!! Discernment!!! Peace!!! Amen!!! And it is so!!! So it is!!!
When a husband watches porn and neglects his husband duty in the bedroom, after the wife explains how it hurts her as a woman and a wife and how its affecting their marriage is a dishonor....im done and thia message is what I needed ..thank you
I am not religious.. I've had no direction in that aspect of my life but the things you say mean so much and are so relevant that I had to comment.. Thank you for your helpful words...
I'm speechless....I've been fighting this demom for 27 yrs, everything you just said, i've said. Thanks for confirming that it's not all in my head. This is so deep, i'm numb
Thank you for this pastor! I was with a widower for 15months he treated me badly until I just decided I was done with him! Changed my phone number and won’t talk to him when he approaches me,now for over a month! You have proven to me I did indeed do the right thing! Love to you and Lisa!
I'm so sorry! I've seen where someone tried helping & became a scratch post/ door mat. Most humiliating thing ever. Work on being a sincere suppport system..There's blessings on the other side of letting go
TheKapias Cruel and disrespectful treatment should never be tolerated by anyone. You are not there for him to take his pain and anger out on: regardless of where it’s coming from. You were there to be a companion, confidant, and to share love. You did the right thing by leaving.
I had a friend that become so comfortable with abuse, it was like watching an addict on drugs. I wanted to help her. But it seemed as though no matter what I did I was just enabling her. I had to let her go as a friend in hopes that she hits rock bottom and wakes up. I hope she finds happiness.
Even with toxic family members who constantly put you down. I'm tired of being judged ! When they need you then they expect you to help them? You need to put limits on people and their manipulation!
I needed to hear this today. I've been wondering if letting my husband of 15 years go was the right decision. But he was dishonorable, disengaged and most definitely disrespectful. Check, check, check. And I'm out!
I am so glad The Lord got rid of several people who were toxic and negative. Thank you Lord for this opportunity. Not worth it to lose your destiny. I am loving myself so much more...
I've been married for 9 years and my husband cheated on me for 3 of the years. I have put in work for reconciliation and I didn't even do anything wrong. I believe in marriage but hearing this word makes me think twice. He isn't doing the bare minimum for affair recovery. He still has contact with the affair partner but swears it's nothing. He says she owes him money so he is just collecting it. I don't believe any of that but I know God isn't pleased with divorce. But he is refusing to meet any of my needs. I'm at the place where this video is saying Let Him Go! Thanks.
FunIs 41 you gotta get over that i'm not for divorce spell. Your lowering your self worth and esteem over man who is just tolerating you, ?? it's sad to read. The word/ bible excuse divorce on the account of adulturous acts. That says alot
Kara Wilde @Funis41 The Bible is clear about situations that are legal for divorce. Sexual immorality (like cheating) is one of them; staying in contact is inappropriate. He is supposed to love you like Christ loved the church. I hope you have found peace in your situation but hope that you do not feel guilty if you choose to leave a man who is dishonoring his vows to you. Hugs.
I dont go to church and havnt been to church in 30 yrs but i would come to your church eagerly every sunday and participate. This is different from the usual jumping up and down
i just started to listen RC Blakes. His videos made me strong to begin the process of leaving this demon i am currently letting go. i pray God gives me the strength ,
This is an eye opening message, especially raising children in this day in age. Social media and reality television is broadcasting false hopes to the youth with messages of superficial materialism. As a black family my husband and I came from nothing, our children live lives that I could only imagine of when I was young. It’s challenging to know what’s too much sometimes in terms of wants vs needs. I don’t want to raise spoiled children.
I was in place mentally and emotionally that conflicted with my spirit; so I would see this video but I could not click on it because I wasn't ready for its message. But this morning I had the courage to receive the message I needed to hear. I have let someone go recently that was a toxic person and my spirit is now at peace. Hearing this message was food for my spirit as I move forward on my new journey. Thank you so much pastor Blake's for allowing the Holy spirit to flow through your message to me.
This is especially true when it comes to family members and people who we think are our friends. A person who will lie will steal, and will probably kill if it came down to it.
This video is confirmation from God. I’ve been married for 8 years and together 18 years. Found out he cheated 2 years after we got married (5/4/12) and I forgave him. Now 7 years later I finds out he’s cheating again. Not with 1 woman but several. God won’t even allow me to continue this relationship. He keep showing me signs of his disloyalty. I’m so over it and moving forward. I know my worth now. Divorce it is. Thank you for this message pastor. It was much needed.
Preach Pastor! I kept my ex husband around after divorce because I thought we could co-parent. He always talked to me disrespectfully. I kept excusing it as his wife. I said I don't like being talked to that way. It got worse. He started calling me the b word. I was devastated because he would not stop. Last year he strangled me. I had a heart attack as a result. I still can't believe he turned on me like a mad dog. I truly loved this man and thought I could trust him but he was not the person I thought he was. Now the D.A. is involved. He sat in jail for weeks and could even go to prison. When a husband dishonors you, get away.
I hope you are doing well. Had to let my ex go weeks ago because he strangled me 3 times in front of my child, kicked my door in. Wouldnt leave my house. Knew him for over 10 years. Thought I knew him tried to show him how to be an adult and talk his problems out but im done. Hes older than me. He has to want to change on his own. Im done! Best wishes to you my love!
Praise the Lord...I needed this! This was the best teaching on The Prodigal that I have ever heard. Thank you so much for sharing. God has used you tremendously in my life over the last year. 🙌🏻💕
Oh Jesus! he said, "When you begin to dishonor me, I release you. There is nobody in my life so important that I am going to let you dishonor me..not when I have lived honorably to you". Ever since I took on that mantra- I have been completely at peace with myself and my life. My relationship with God has improved, my focus and my self worth all increased the minute I stopped lighting myself on fire to keep other people warm.
This message came just in time. I just got up and walked away from a situation. I often wonder if I made the right decision but every day it gets easier and I'm learning to trust my gut. Should have left before but I was too busy holding on for my own selfish reasons. Praise be to God for giving me the strength to leave.
This message is so speaking to me. I'm understand better and the tears has stopped. Thanks Bishop for sharing your messages. I thank God for you. God bless you
Preach Bishop!!! I refused to allow my daughter to dishonour and disrespect me in our home! She’s grown now an doing well. But when she was in high school I put her out my home for that very reason!! It was hard and my family didn’t agree with my decision but I did what I thought was best!! 🙏🏾💯
I let go ...and had lunch...life has been better ever since. You get to a point where you get tired...and if they were really jacked up...the heart don't hurt.. you become extremely grateful. Been 6 yrs and I'm so grateful. Good word.
Due to spam, I sent a group message that I was changing my number. I then asked everyone to respond if they wanted the new number to respond that they wanted to stay in touch . The “one” special person that I wanted to respond, not only read the message, but never responded. This message further confirms that I will not give anyone time where I’m not appreciated. Thanks Pastor.
AMEN! I soo needed to hear this! I'm leaving soon. This man will dishonor me no more! Interesting how he can demand total respect and yet give so little of it in return. Thank you, RC!
Thank you. And, a parent is sometimes the one who is dishonorable and needs to be let go of and loved from a distance by the adult child. I've recently come to realize there is a big difference between "caregiving" and love. Love does not continuously hurt.
Thank you. I really needed to hear this today. Letting go is hard and I am having a hard time with it, but I will get there. I went no contact over a year ago, but my mind still goes there.
Wow! Thank you for confirming my beliefs. I agree, "I don't stay anywhere where I am dishonored". I know my worth, I don't have time for lies and deception. Know your worth.
I needed this message.. It's never to late, lol.. But, I had to learn the hard way. Thank you God for this man of God, blessing us with thq Word!!! Be Blessed ☺
Some days I have a urge to listen to certain pastors and today I said to myself let me go listen to Bishop RC BLAKES. This was one of the first videos I’ve came across years ago and it’s saved to my playlist and I often come back to listen to it and other’s videos I have saved too❤
