There is No Competition... She Said What She Said! 

My hat is off and I salute a fellow almost 60 year old Veteran with an advanced degree. We did good and we look even better! The game is over, we got the medal 🥇 and are at home sipping wine!🍷

Life is a stern teacher; first you get the test THEN you get the lesson... IF you survive walk proud! Thank you for your service!!!!

Thank you sweetheart for telling these children what's going on. 😊

that’s insecurity coming out of these young women mouths.

No competition at all! Shout out to the seasoned women out here looking beautiful!!! Making it look easy and honey I'm taking notes!!! Absolutely LOVE this!❤

That's right! Nobody is trying to compete with you we are trying to teach you the game.

This is what a real boss lady looks and sounds like. Listen and learn you youngsters.

Most beautiful comeback I’ve ever seen. I salute you!

Love it! Thank you for your service to our country both by serving in the armed forces and educating these young women!

55 and a big AMEN! Despite all that life has thrown at me, I managed to survive to this age. The competition never occurred. I was out here living a life and wracking up those memories before they were even a twinkle in their momma's eye!

And She said What She Said.... BOMB 💣

We need to stop competing with those who should be our allies.

Thank you baby. It needed to be said. Thank you☺️

😂 That's right. Everyone isn't interested in being a cougar. Preach!!!

I *think* these young'uns are unaware they are trying to compete in the wrong arena. While they stand around admiring their own (one-dimensional) youth and perky ...things, WE are carefully gathering the experience and life experiences, education, accomplishments, wisdom, understanding and beauty that maturity brings.

Damn, she's the Gray GOAT. And she's right, mature women prefer mature men; in other words, we like a secure (mentally & emotionally) man who seeks out experienced, wise partners, a partner who is EQUAL to him. Definitely not interested in some dude who chases the babysitter.

Compete for what?🤷🏾‍♀️ Jobs? Im HAPPILY retired Working for other ppl SUCKS Running a foot race? WHY RUN WHEN YOU CAN WALK OR DANCE OR SIT DOWN? 💃🏽🧑🏽‍🎨 I know they dont mean compete for men. We know thats funny cause men dont care. Im 68 and they will never stop pushing up. Young men and old alike. I love to compete, but i only compete with ME. Seeing younger women doin the darn thing inspires ME to be a better ME. We who were trained to be soldiers in the US military only compete with ourselves to be the best Americans ever. We kicked the door open for younger women after those before us cracked it for us. Dont let the media pit us against each other. We each have our season. Watching young ppl turbo spin is very entertaining and fun from the sidelines. I rush to do, not one single thing. Youth is wasted on the young. 😂💃🏽🧑🏻‍🎨

There is NO competition between older and younger now. A lot of young ones are lost and have so many issues now. No way to compete with that.

I'm almost 70 and all I have to say to young women is enjoy your beauty while you still have it, act like a lady if you want to be treated like one, USE your common sense and intelligence in ALL THINGS (especially when choosing a man!), don't let your heart run your life, work hard and make your own money, and don't expect somebody to rescue you, you have to rescue yourself.

SAY IT.i am 66 and we don't have time for that type of foolishness and we aren't making time for it either.younger women please grow up

And…we are self sufficient don’t depend on anyone. Bravo mama….retired veteran here also!!!!👏👏👏

THANK YOU!!!!!❤ I am her, she is me! Marriage, career, children, 6 years post-secondary education, multiple languages, gardener, chef, grandma, dog mom, baker, I clean my home and toilet daily, laundry regularly, self -care groom daily, never smoked a cigarette or marijuanaa day in my life, never done drugs, I'll be 55 next month and HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY!... Younger women just got here and have a LOT to learn. WE are a reflection of what they want to be, that's why they think it's a competition, they'retrying to keep up but can'tand never will. We're just living life gracefully and doing what needs to be done. We've already won! 🏆 Bless you for spelling it out.❤

Please tell the children. Thank you. And thank you for your service!

TELL THEM SISTER, SURE YOUR RIGHT.

I always trip when they think that. I’m like, “Who are you again?” I’m too busy living my life to even notice you.

Hey my Sister ❤you couldn't have said it any better. One veteran to another. Bless you my Sister 😊

What you said.🎉❤🎉❤facts

Yassssss, 👏🏻👏🏻I love that. "There is no competition, we've already won!" 🥂

That is the BEST clapback I have ever heard. Sock it to ‘em sista!

Damn!! I love her. Disabled USN here. Two degrees. Many countries. Still reading and learning. Turning 56 and loving every day.

MIC DROP ! wake up, youngsters!!

Why the heck is there any competition in the first place? We're all on the same team ladies.

i could not love this more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Amen to everything this amazing woman said xoxox

Hooah, you go girl! Thank you for your service!!!

Say it again for dem heauxz in the balcony!😊🙂😉

Speaking facts and educating this younger generation. Amen!!

YOU BETTER TALK, SIS!!! 🤣🤣🤣 53 YEARS YOUNG AM I💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 I thank you for your military service...from a retired Army Veteran to my sister-in-arms! I 🫡 you‼️❤️🔥💯GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏾

She said it gracefully,in a way, that you should understand, don't get eggs on your face.. beautiful beautiful said, thanks you..

Yes ma'am! As a fellow veteran, i appreciate you and the "break it down to parade rest." 😄 As a fellow woman, i also salute you on your win at the game of life❤

Period!!!!!!! Don't come for us if you're not ready for War..

And said!!! ♥️♥️loving auntie!!!

Amen!! You are one beautiful being!

I'm in love! Thank you so much for the WISDOM AND TRUTH!!

Yes ma'am! ❤

Now that is how you put the LA&W down.....

De-am. That was a clap back. Yes sister veteran!. We have degrees, children, life experience, and wisdom. Whoever she is, she felt that all the way down to her innocent ignorant little toes.

Love what you said! 😊

This woman does not look 60!

I'm happy to be an older woman now. You younger ladies you get on with your lives and get things done.

And she is gracefully beautiful....

"and break it down to parade rest!" I was waiting for the knife hand.

Thanks for your service and Tellin' it the way it is!! Love it!

Total respect for older women that could be our mothers …. We don’t even .. unfortunately… arrive even to their little toe! What an example and a model they are ! ❤

Amen to that beautiful lady!

I LOVE IT. THERE IS NO STRONGER TRUTH. 😊❤😅

I’m 42 ain’t no competition here baby been there done that

Thank you for serving our country! Blessings🙏🏽🌹🌈💕💫

OMG its nice to hear from a strong Black woman ❤ you are my hero 😊

There is absolutely NO competition what so ever. You got it going on my dear. You have the smarts, the world knowledge, the life skills and so much more. You also sound so confident and so well put together!!! Just amazing. A lot of women today need a man making unreasonable amounts of money because they need a maid to care of their life as they have little or no idea what to do.

Thank you girl!!! That’s absolutely right! I have earned every gray hair at 65 and wear it proudly! When the younger ladies quit dying their hair to look like mine… then we will talk. Teachin them the game is right!

Exactly. I’ve always said, if I didn’t have my husband of 38 yrs, Heaven forbid, I’d stay single & just enjoy our six children & their children. Been there, done that. 😉👍✊🤙

I LOVE this lady! Im a 76 year old white grandma, and this beautiful lady is right on!!❤

Woo! You are my hero! And thank you for your service.🇺🇸

All I can say is…..SPEAK MY SISTA ❤❤❤❤❤

Lady, you tell those young women!

If that wasn't a read, there has never been one. Congratulations on your accomplishments in life.

To me, few things are dumber than sh!tting on the people you will one day need unity with and advice from. Since I was a child, I thought "age-shaming" was something dumb people did, people who lacked common sense. One of the reasons why so many men see women as disposable jokes is because of the insecurities that women put on FULL DISPLAY when they compete over DUMB THINGS! Its 2024, and all an old, broke man has to do to get a hot young woman is to tell her that older women "can't compete with her". They LITERALLY just listen to what a young woman thinks she has and they use that to get, keep, mistreat, and discard her like the immature, insecure *joke* that she proved she was. Throwing other women under the bus is classic Pathetic Pickme behavior and karma loves to pick them, because they RARELY learn their lesson. smh

Humility is a prime facet of wisdom ... braggart.

😊 AMEN TO THAT SISTER

I love you Sis! You’re awesome😎💪🏽

Life and wisdom ❤. Thank you lovely lady

Nuff said my sister!!!!!

I just turned 50 last month and I absolutely LOVE it. There's nothing better than knowing you've earned the right to be who you are and where you are in life. There's nothing better than having control of your life, your peace and your finances. I wouldn't go back to my youth for anything. I'm my greatest competition. Envy is for the foolish and the weak. So many young women put their value in the wrong things and people instead of investing in themselves from the inside out. It takes a knowledge of who God is and who you are to navigate this world, or you'll forever be defined by this ever changing society that doesn't value you at all. I was told as a child, "Walk into a room with your ears open and your mouth closed." You can't hear a damn thing when you're running your mouth. Be quiet and listen sometimes. You miss so much when you're always wanting to be heard and never want to listen. Good luck young 'uns! You're going to need it.

We’ll talk yo talk. About time someone said it

Exactly, been there, done that!! 👩🏽‍🎓 ✈️👩🏽‍🔬💍👰🏾‍♀️🏡🤰🏽Resting in my soft life, minding my own business, and doing me…🧘🏽‍♀️ 58 years of life!

Theeeeey aaaaall FORGET THAT THEY TOOO WILL GET OLDER. 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Exactly!

Just Surviving to 60 You've made it. Congrats Lady, You've earned it.

The smart play is for a woman like this. I'm 44 and would prefer this caliber of woman than a younger woman. Ma'am, where are you?

Preeeeeeeach my Sista! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Love You!

What a great lady (stressing “lady” because when a woman is also a “lady” that makes us real men feel life is good)!

You can't compete where you can't compare!

I love her, she's amazing! Yes we already ran the race, and we are off the track. From a greatgrandmother.

AMEN 🙌🏽

Right on!!

Here's to hoping young women were appropriately inspired by this and taking notes, instead of being worried about a game no one is playing but them.

This is my first time hearing this, you are right,O.G.my sisters, tell it, educated, them, ,...

The young woman was inadvertently revealing her insecurities and inadequacies... she'll eventually conquer them... it takes experience to gain strength and wisdom. Wisdom is not the amount of knowledge one acquires, but of which knowledge to acquire.

You are beautiful inside and out. God bless you

Exactly!! I’m 55 and I know my worth and value and I don’t entertain trivial people, matters and conversations. Elevate baby’s keep growing. Blessings

😂😂😂❤ well said,, and only GROWN WOMEN will understand the facts that she just shared !

Ok. Then!!@

Yikes!!! 😝🤣😝 After all of that, “You’re just waking up!!!” 👏🏽👏🏽

It’s a one sided competition then - only the young ones are competing against themselves - as an almost 70 years young woman - I really am not interested girl! Great post! Power on girlfriend!

Damn!!!!

👏👏👏👏👏👏 facts

I can only say thank you, I'm 76 I've been there done that. I could never said it as eloquently as you did. Again thank you.

Beautiful I love you say it to the young ladies in the back

You go girl, I loved this and it true. I know because I am 77yo.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

PREACH!!!!! ❤❤❤❤