Start interpreting "hbu" as "what do you want?". 3rd DM killed his own momentum by answering a question with a closed statement. Always remember, the one who asks the questions controls the convo. "hbu" is a question. If you are asked a question you must answer, answer and redirect with another question. This is the basics of communication. In the case of women, unless she really fucks with you, which you'd likely not be in this position in the first place, you cannot ask a general question like "what are you doing tonight". I'd rather respond like, "I'm good and I hit you because there's a movie in theaters ___. Come watch and let's get food." Something in this ball park, more specific if I am in the situation myself. 1. I want to have direction in what I'm asking for. 2. I want to let her know my intentions for the night. 3. I don't ask a question, I tell her to come. She can say no still, but by not asking it as a question, it appears like you've had this planned out and it's very intentional that you thought of her to DM for this night out. There's a lot of girls out there. It's easy for me to go through my phone and message 40 girls "Wanna go out?" You can even get charismatic or charming with her by saying that the movie you selected made you think of her in particular, etc etc. You primary objective as a man is to be convincing, not necessarily to convince. The way I speak is very "convincing" to women that I am a man, that I am a leader, that I know what I want and I will ask for it. Whether they will be convinced is their decision, but it is equally my decision to focus elsewhere once I've realized there is no further progress to be made with my agenda. There's always false positives with women, they rarely know exactly what they want, but "No" is explicitly no to me and so I immediately would have stopped a convo after "absolutely not". Ty teaches this from a pride point of view, don't devalue yourself by begging, for me, I lack quite a lot of pride, so I make up with my goals and focus. I want to go out and get my d*ck wet, therefore this girl is wasting my time in that effort when another girl would have said yes in two replies.
depends on where you're at in life rn, if you're on the come up, stick w 1 then get more as u progress in life having multiple girls when you're broke is dumb
