I started listening with someone else in mind, and ended up by the end questioning myself and realizing I can do all of these things too so that other person isn't my problem. I am my problem. And I plan on working on that.
If you have been a people pleaser in the past, disconnecting from everyone is a good start. Learning to keep your mouth shut and not come across as either needy or overly friendly is a plus too.
Emphasis on the overly-friendly one. Literally learned the hard way not to be nice to new employees at work they will mistake it for friendship and makes it super awkward when they realize you aren't interested in being friends with them.
I have tried to stand up for myself but standing alone. Isn't a nap? I am a female who is 65 years old who is trying to fight that for everything that was taken from me. My civil rights have been walked on for years since the day I was born. I have been reaching out for accommodation. I carry a heavy duty medical issue that has been left undone. Because they sent all my medical papers elsewhere and all files. Please. Is there anyone out there who might be able to help God bless you? And thank you for letting me hear your programs. This means a lot to me. It also opens stores to my heart that there are people out there. That might be able to help God bless you and thank you so much.
Everyone has their opinion and deserves to have it, but harsh feedback is cruel and not stoic at all. If someone needs assistance or a change be honest but kind, don't be deceitful in how you provide aid. Jealousy is an evil trait to possess. Value your own life, I like that philosophy.
Criticism is abusive and controlling hypocrites will always tell people what they want them to hear. Basically, they have gotten away with it for decades of lies and deceit including those who steal cheating the lie, you expect me to put up with examples of people violating other people and taking advantage of them. I don't think so. If you're speaking for them, you're helping the perpetrators commit more crimes against people who have never done them any wrong, but try to turn them in the right direction. You can't until they stand up. My act like civilized, adults and talk to each other with respect and to resolve problems. Not sit there and turn one against the other. By followse accusations of others who influence these issues goes beyond the point of corruption and out of control power.
I've learned to not judge People when i first meet them. Who you are Really meeting at that Point is there Representative. The real Person will show up later if you continue a Friendship and Interactions.
Criticism is those who don't like themselves will take it out.On the others because of their own situations in life hey cause injury to others because they don't like herself
To have one single narcissist is exhausting, but I got three of them, plus a manipulator and a victim. I left the place. They destroyed me, physically and morally. I'm recovering. I wish, I'd know about narcissists before!
If someone is expressing themselves in which ever way they choose. Why are people judging them. Does someone doing what they love threaten you? Why so threatened by their happiness? We are free to choose. Personally I don't have time to judge others I'm just trying to live a good life and do things that stimulate my brain. Don't hate others because you're not free enough to truly grab life by the throat
I have been with a Narsasitic person who manipulative person at work and told my friends about her behaviour. But l found it was controlling my thoughts so I meditated for weeks then I got my own answer. I go to work earlier work logically & avoid breaks away from her.
Why can't people accept people for who? They are then try to change them. Others have expressed herself. Not everybody has the same expression. I understand those but sometimes people can be cruel for not accepting you. As you are a spread rumors if you don't associate with them or they assault you in any way they can. There's gotta be a solution to those who buy late. Others who don't even know the others. By different outlets, everybody is not the same person. They were raised differently. In life, different people come from different parts of the country. And cities, why can't you all accept each other for who? You are and not try to be so cruel or judge others for their own outlooks. Because when you do, you're only judging yourself by what you say to others. The things you tell others about other people is not about. The person you're talking about. You are actually telling others that you are. Stop being somebody who hypocritically violates others rights for I have never violated you. I have tried to help others in need. I'm finding out. You can't because they missed. Lead you to believe in everything about them. Due to attention and jealousy, let's see who wants what you have. So they robbed us blind because of it and earn they're own money by working. I have worked most of my life. Since I was a young one. I didn't mind. I liked working. My grandparents were really sweet and my parents. But when someone does you wrong in your ownfamily or the rehiding something? They have not told you about your personal wife. They never loved you to tell you the truth. At's hurt, we do not need to lift the past of our o. Parents for today is a new. Life for all of us. Make God bless. You follow your heart and your dreams because you're all living your reality. You will also learn from your own mistakes. You will end up stepping in your parent's shoes snowing. It's going to bite you 1 day.Ou will learn from that mistake.When your own children do to you what do you have done to your family
This is wisdom. I'm learning and I'm learning that I can only change my inner locus of control, VS outer external locus of control and this is very difficult to relearn and rebuild inner boundaries that child traumas and people pleasing and sacrificing ones self worth to gain approval from exploiting forces. These are very good to see how we are being manipulated and how we are trapped in cycle of abuses, trust and respect broken, and worst case that victim mentality makes us feel powerless, doomed and caught in with others feelings over ones own. Learned helplessness when csa especially and complex ptsd - can't control ones life based on early childhood memories that are deeply influenced beliefs that have been deeply ingrained for 18 years with patterns of beliefs that aren't healthy. At 60 it's still empowering to feel good that one can relearn, rebuild, and rebuild ones life sentence and possible improvement s that is challenging and this could truly make life better and pass on good information about life's goal to mental and healthy beliefs that positive impact oneself from negative views that imprison humans. Love this philosophy. This has helped my whole mind. Thank you. Very powerful.
Definitely these ppl are dangerous, can destroy you from inside out...emphatic pple are their favorite meal... please love your self more than the other person 💪..once you goy your power back it could be fun for you but not for them..lol
sadly we learned who 2 of these devious types are the last two and a half years. since we couldnt change anything concerning how they treated us we decided to let then prove who they really are with their own actions and words... recording them was the only way to protect our hearts and minds from the way they lied manipulated and behaved... then we asked (and told) them to leave. we ended up being the bad guys in all of this... and since they involved the extended family for thier lies its caused us to just pull away from them all. we are sleeping better now that they are gone.. sad that they cant see how distructive they really are.. and the recording.... we tucked it away just in case they tried any further crap.
This video is incredibly insightful! 💡 The way you’ve applied Stoic principles to identify and understand those who don’t merit our trust and respect is both thought-provoking and practical. It’s a valuable guide for maintaining healthy relationships and staying true to our values.
My ex wife wearing short sexy dress to a Bible study to use the excuse see was being sexually learned to go to a different church weaken as if I couldnt protect her onlynever
