You know anytime someone calls attention to the breaking of gender roles, it ultimately undermines the concept of gender equality by implying that this is an exception and not the status quo. -Knuckles the Echidna
That's the thing these women don't really want equality, they want supremacy where they are in control of everyone not just men only but over other women who don't agree with their ideology, and for a real gender equality activist would fight for both genders and not for one particular gender only.
Note: We constantly hear about how men are terrible, psychotic, abusive, manipulative etc. from these people, so clearly the answer should be helping men's mental health resources which are bare bones and faulty, right? Yet the moment we try to do that, suddenly it's a bad thing for 'taking focus off of women' and 'acting like men have things so bad'. It just sends a resounding message to men: "if you aren't useful to us, we want you to suffer and die miserable"
They want to push the idea that men are terrible, psychotic, abusive, manipulative etc. because of masculinity and misoginy. This way they can ask money from Governments and UN to teach men and BOYS that mascuilinity is toxic, that they are ticking bomb, privileged and need to support women and feminism to be decent beings.
Yeah, funny how men are psychotic, abusive, and the other stuff you said that I'm too lazy to type, but women being EVERY SINGLE ONE of those things is socially acceptable... male privilege is grand
If white people don't get a white history month, why should black people? (I'm hispanic, I believe either everyone gets one or nobody does, same goes with gender mental health
Feminists then: we want to be equal to men by voting and working beside them, not being chained to the kitchen popping out babies if we so choose We want both men and women to be equal Feminists now : KILL ALL MEN WE CAN REPRODUCE WITH OUR OWN BONE MARROW SO WHAT OUR BABIES ONLY LIVE FOR 2 WEEKS WE ONLY CARE THAT THEY'RE ALL FEMALES. we laugh at men who show emotion other than anger all men are pigs they all want to do things with women, even boy babies it's SA if a male baby is breast fed
Hope all gets better for you man, you have my blessing, just never lose all hope. Its a deep hole, but one that you can get out of. Once you do, you'll be a wayy better person than before, stronger, kinder, more disciplined, etc. Just know, there is light at the end of the tunnel. And its a bright one! Take care man.
_"Men get mental health awareness, women most affected."_ It's always interesting how they keep going on about this alleged "Patriarchy" when both society and the law are quite pro-woman.
Of course they keep going on about that. There is a reason why there is a saying that goes something along the lines of: "Give a woman a finger and she will take your whole arm." They get something out of cryin patriarchy and now they want more and more because "Oh noooo, I got catcalled while wearing a super low cut top that almost revealing my nipples I just want the right to wear what I want without people looking at me waaaah waaaah." meanwhile they are the ones being toxic towards other people, including women. :V
It does exist, just because you don’t wanna acknowledge it doesn’t mean it isn’t there lol and it affects _everyone_ negatively, men and women alike, just to a slight lesser extent to men. It’s kinda why men’s mental health month is a thing that is sorta needed at the moment
@@vaccuumhelmet521 "men rule and control the world, but for some reason men also are affected negatively" yes this makes sense The mind of a wahmen / worthless simp creature everyone
Yeah and imagine being a woman after a divorce. They must have it so hard with custody over their children, the child support payments coming in every other week, the majority of the value of a home and other assets they owned. Terrible. God forbid such a tragedy to ever happen to a woman.
I used to laugh at the "fatherless behavior" jokes, but everytime when I see threads like those, I am reminded at how true and rampant that statement is
my dad has been in jail for a large part of my life and i do get to talk to him sometimes when he calls but it is really annoying when people think calling someone fatherless is a good insult, if you think that you got many more and worse issues than the person without a dad
Man hate is celebrated but calling women out on their crap is seen as unacceptable. S/o to all the hard working men and fathers out there. Don’t let these idiots ruin your day.
They don't know how to be happy, and are so wrapped up in themselves they can't figure out how to be happy. So they blame others and find excuses for why they're not happy. Remember, fellas, what you want in life is results, not excuses.
you're not gonna be happy as an activist for anything, since you're fighting to have something you want happen, and it hasn't happened yet (those feminists are defo more mad than a typical activist though)
The fact that that woman considered leaving her husband over a 250k salary is so ridiculous. the average is like 25k a year. That just goes to show how spoiled this person was growing up.
"Also, arguably, men are more egoistical and might think less about how their death will impact others so they're less likely to push through for the sake of everyone else." I'm 19 and I work in Hyundai factory to feed myself, my mom and 2 siblings, and literally the only thing that stops me from offing myself when both physical and mental stress smash me down on my knees is thinking about my family and how hard would it be for them if I was gone, so idiots like this really get under my skin sometimes.
Yeah that's the weirdest part. Every woman I know personally generally being chill and awesome... but then everytime I see one I don't know, they are acting in a psychotic manner that makes it really hard not to assume things about the gender. I guess it means we both cultivate relationships with good people, so that's positive? But overall it's depressing.
Bitter broken Ho3s that’s what they are. The women who have the most to say about men are the ones who been used and tossed to the side because some man thinks they are headaches. Now these women are on rampages proving the point why men don’t take them serious
That's why I fear for the future. Guys without much female interaction can quickly become hijacked by all this shit and start assuming the worst of all woman. The way I see it is yes some woman have been assholes to me in my life but you know what? Just as many guys have been assholes same with white people Asians black people ect. If I hated the immutable characteristic of everyone who's ever been a dick to me id hate the whole world and everyone in it. Sweeping generalizations are generally stupid most of the time and people should be judged on a person to person basis.
It's funny how every woman I personally know (maybe with the exception of one of my sisters) is an amazing person but the nebulous blob of internet women are filled with the most petty, hateful, ignorant and punchable people alive.
That's why you mostly find them on the internet, they don't have a life. My sister is one of those. She literally sits all day in front of her computer, spewing shit like the one above. Undatable of course.
It's simply a daily reminder of how many people there are in the world and how the internet doesn't at all represent the mass populace in every respect
It is funny to someone to think that women are the ones that push through and think everything is their own fault and posits it as a good thing. In the meanwhile this same behavior is touted as toxic masculinity in men as men think they need to be self-sufficient and asking for help is a bad thing. Double standards...
Women don't do the most dangerous jobs. I have never seen a woman builder or plumber, electrician, sewer cleaner etc, they ask for equality but don't what those jobs
It is always like this. Women oogle men ? Empowering. Men oggle women ? Rape culture. Women love fighting sports ? Empowering. Men love fighting sports ? Toxic Masculinity. Women being housewife ? Misoginy. Men being house husband ? Progress. Women going to male strip clubs ? Empowering. Men going to female strip clubs ? Objectification.
@@skootergirl22 women want cushy office jobs (that they usually monopolize) to pay as much as men who handles 'dirty' jobs and machines that could get them crippled
@@imnotahumanimamoron42069 crazy people are actively frankensteining the straw men they keep on making and it's tiring for the rest of the normal people
As someone with ADHD and autism, I was mostly bullied by other kids a lot and didn't say anything because the few times I tried, said students would act innocent (An equal number of boys and girls), and the teacher (mostly women, one bad one in particular) would disregard what I had to say. So I learned that "professionals" were either stupid or didn't care, I couldn't cry when I was upset, I couldn't show any form of frustration because I'd be the one punished, so I was pushed to at one point consider committing die. Yes I had to fix myself, but I later found people who helped me a lot, taught me self care and became my biggest support network. I wish I had known the things I do now sooner. Edit: Nine months later and thank you for all the support, things have been up and down but I'm still here despite it all, it's nice to see some decent people are out there
My man, I feel ya on that front... At least, to a degree. I'll admit, I've never had it _that_ bad, but it has gotten bad at times. Feeling like you could never fit in, was one of my common issues as well. Glad to see you got better though.
these women are just proving WHY men also need a mental health month, because we also have our own problems. The more we help eachother, the less murder-suicides/regular suicides we'll see.
The study he pulled isn't even accurate too. Many other studies have shown mothers kill their kids far more than fathers. Especially single mothers And that's not even including the genocide known as abortion
its crazy how sexism against woman in the past used to be a huge problem and now they're the ones being sexist, its ok when its a joke and everyone is ok with it but its obvious they actually believe this
@@kayef5724well that may also be because men in mainly America, (not sure about other countries which are luckily male dominated, and seem to be doing fine) have the highest suicide rates. All the more reason for a men's mental health month, tbh.
@@Sukharno2121 No? Women younger than 30 are probably more likely to be unconditionally loved by society than those who are older, and even the older women are still loved exponentially more than men of the same age. It's not until us men grow to an age like 70+ that we get loved unconditionally and that is only because we are old.
"...women will exhaust every possibility before giving up," Is that why feminism directly claim discrimination without considering other possibilities whenever there is a gender gap ?
"What do men talk about with other men?" Well last time I talked with my friend he and I debated wether or not we thought Edward The Confessor was the last Saxon or the first Norman King of England.
I'm 26 and I have yet to meet a woman near my age worth the effort. I've stopped trying since the last time I was used. My ex cheated and tried to baby trap me with a pregnancy scare, and tried to date 5 other people within 2 weeks before doing any test. She was all gung-ho on child care and making me pay for it regardless, not taking any responsibility. I bought 4 tests and left that lunatic once I knew she got 4 negative tests. My trust with people on an intimate level has been shattered. It wasn't the only time I was screwed over, but it just tops the cake, and thank God it wasn't worse.
Is why you never have sex until you know its the right person and a keeper. But at this point its harder to find because society has indoctrinated many women into believing men are the cause of all their problems and they have hooked onto that narrative. And because there are so many like that today it makes finding the ones that arent a challenge and many give up on even looking which is the fall of society in the long run. Wokeness and feminazism will be the death of western civilization.
well good women, are the women who stay married in happy marriage until old. now , tell me how many of those couples you know.. and that's the % of success we men have to find a decent woman. Im 41, i don't even know 1 of those couples, unless its already very old people who are together since 50-60 years, and everything was better and different back then. Women nowadays are incapable of love and empathy , meaning relationships for most of them is either sex, or just a way to get by cause they don't want to be alone, and will "settle" for the guy they will never love because the chad they want never wanted them back. Making the marriage a shit, like 99% of marriages out there.
One of the main characters of my upcoming novel franchise was born in June, aka Men's Mental Health Month. I picked this month specifically to showcase its importance. So for women to make it out to be a one-up contest sickens me and makes me ashamed as a woman as well as a person.
Remember, nobody shares blame for actions of others simply because they have something in common. Especially with there being billions of people that share that particular trait.
don't you dare feel ashamed as long you understand that not all men acts like assholes and not decide to treat man like shit solely on the fact they were born male then you have my up most respect keep doing well and overcome any challenges you might face
Most of these women that are in the internet forums is because they don't have IRL friends/family that's why they're unhappy and incredibly toxic. They're what the internet calls a femcel.
Many of us faced discrimination since our education. Our sisters got much more praise and love from parents than us boys. They ended up confident and successful. We ended up feeling unworthy and sad.
When a lot of us men just want to be held from time to time and supported with affirmation. That's all we need. Give a man enough motivation and love. We will move mountains for you.
Affirmation is a hard thing to come by for men. Oh you got a career in manufacturing and increased your base pay by half again in a little over two years? Thats because youre a privileged man and not because you busted your ass. (Yes I'm projecting)
bro i would honestly do anything for a women that wasn't crazy, could work with me to admit we both have problems we need to work on, and not divorce me for all my money and the kids at the first sign of struggles in our marriage.
@@Maverickgrindstar i generally just go on the weekends to post when i'm streaming, and checking updates from the few people i care about. outside that i just dont feel the need to give twitter any attention.
When these absolute monsters are dying old and alone because they're such miserable crones that nobody wants to be around them, somehow that will be men's fault too
When a woman is depressed, people will come out of the woodwork to help. Men with depression will suffer in silence, then people will act surprised if they snap. Women also use tactics in self-termination that can be easily survived, while men choose more effective means
That first story reminds me of a lot of karma stories where the man suddenly makes less, the woman leaves him for "better", then the man starts recovering on an insane level while the woman who dropped him gets dumpstered by life only to come crawling back to beg for another chance.
Happened to one of my friends. Thank God he talked to us before responding to her text. She was young and didn't know how good she had it, she missed him...golddigger.
Yup. It has been overshadowed by everything else now, almost as if its not important at all. Every gender struggles, yeah, but facts are still facts and men have been taught to be macho, never show emotions, etc. To me, showing emotions is probably the most macho thing to do, as well as the most human thing to do. If anyone of you struggle, know that there is at least someone out there thinking about you and caring about you. Don't be afraid to call a friend, your parents, or just anyone to talk to them about something.
@@Sherfieethere's a limit to how much emotion you should show as a man. A guy who just complains and cries over every little thing isn't macho at all. A stoic guy who talks about his emotions without losing control is a true gigachad.
@@krulak292complaining isn't showing emotion. It's just complaining. Showing emotion means admitting that something makes you feel in a certain way and having the balls to ask for advise, help or just company. Pretending stuff doesn't get you isn't being a giga Chad. Understanding what makes you feel in certain ways, without losing yourself is real strength.
@@hombreg1 Complaining is literally showing emotion?? What are you on about? Complaining does NOT MEAN you're asking for advice either. And not like you can't complain. I was obviously talking about excesive complaining. Real strength is aknowledging what bothers you and fixing them. Just understanding your feelings ain't shit.
@@krulak292 Way to twist my words broski. Thanks for showing why men don't even want to show emotions anymore. Stoicism, btw, is the act of "it is what it is". Stoicism CAN be a good thing, but it can also be a bad thing. Never showing any emotions whatsoever could make you seem like an emotionless husk and in return you can possibly forget to show emotions at all, and whatever. Emotions like happiness, sadness, anger, etc. Through my life I have had hardships where I have done nothing but feel down, depressed, like it is the end of the world. And what happened then? I talked about it and people saw how I ACTUALLY felt. So don't you fucking come here with the "mimimi only chads never show emotion" "mimimimi stop showing emotions", boomer. You're so fucking disgusting, all of you who do that, you dick on a stick. There is no limit. Be yourself regardless of what gender you are. There's no point in having to feel like you can't cry, can't talk about your own feelings, emotions etc. So yeah, maybe I'm not macho, but I am more human than you ever will be!
In terms of mental health, I see myself as a waste of oxygen, and I sincerely hope my end arrives soon. Wish for it every day, as the first words out of my mouth when I wake up and all I can think about at work. But even then, I still recognize that I'm above people like this who are so numb to the suffering of others. It doesn't give me hope for my own life, and certainly not hope for humanity. But even as worthless dreck, knowing that I'm a better human than these monsters makes me feel a little better.
The fact you fight to function without tearing anyone else down to make you feel better makes you more valuable than a great many people on this planet
There's this song by peccatum... "some suffer to the point where they grow numb. Others are so numb, they deserve to suffer." That's the only thing that comes to mind
This just illustrates how far some people are willing to go to try to prove how immature, insecure, and shallow they truly are. Accountability is the way to reverse some of this. They should take their own advice.
Feminists: women are oppressed and repressed in this country! Also feminists: *say whatever the hell they want without even the slightest fear of repercussion
As a member of the male gender it is sad that people are dissregarding our mental health. We are all human for ffs mental health is important for everyone
I think it was less than a month ago when a "woman/newly made man" whined somewhere saying that "guys don't talk to each other or give each other hugs" and that being a guy is "lonely" And now when people try to do that, we get "Men don't need their egos stroke."
Yeah. Like, there's even a book about it. A woman pretended to be a dude and joined a bowling league. Tried to live life as a man. She was horrified to see how poorly women treat men, and how much men rely on the communities of friends they do have. She sadly committed forever sleep later on. Still, her point stands. I love my bros. I'd take a bullet for em if I had to.
I've always found topics like this triggersome and hurtful as of late, since I've had the unfortunate experiences of dealing with women like this irl. Once upon a time when I did have woman friends, a lot of them used me as a shoulder to cry on when crap hit the fan or them in their lives, but immediately decide to end our friendships when they get hurt by some other man...so because of that I somehow get grouped up as a "piece of shit man" too. And now with this internet timeline we're in and women (some, most, idk) using it to proactively devalue men...it overall just makes me feel like I should just feel ashamed for just existing. Also doesn't help that I have a past record and history of un-aliving feels and moments for being born into a family that never wanted me in the first place...so yeah. DISCLAIMER though, I'm fine from watching the video. I'm just stating that these topics can be triggersome...usually, but at the moment I'm just super vibing and catching myself from going into some type of venting lol. Have a good one Hero, and Happy Men's Mental Health Awareness✌
I would like to tell all men out there that your mental health and well-being is just as valid as anyone else's. I'm so sorry for any women out there who believe that their mental health is more important than anyone else's just because of gender. Society has made it difficult for men to express themselves emotionally or mentally, but please know that I hope you all who are struggling have a wonderful day and that one day it will get better, even if it's just a little bit at a time. You deserve it ❤
and thanks to women like you is why a lot of guys keep working and improving themselves, because we don't need a car or that to be motivated, we just a need "i love you" and "i know you can do it"
yes same!!! as a girl im ashamed on behalf of all of these dumb feminists. to all men, i hope you know that showing emotions and reaching out for help isnt weak. men deserve love and appreciation >:(((( everything gets better in the end and feelings are never permanent, no matter how depressed, anxious etc. you feel rn, it will end. anyways i hope all of you have a good day
You know it’s kinda sad how June originally being men’s Mental health months gets completely forgotten under the shadow of Pride month it’s getting too much
This person really tried to say more women attempted sudoku in "less brutal methods", which basically translates to "attention". Being less lethal in a sudoku is literally counter intuitive because the lethality is THE POINT. I'm legitimately unsure if that person even realized that they had just argued that more men actually try to go through with it while more women do it for attention. But yeah these people blaming men for everything while saying men don't take responsibility for anything is just so weird. This idea that men are more viewed as victims in society is equally weird. Women tend to be viewed as the victim, even if they are actively the aggressor, and men seen as the aggressor even while they are being beaten on or viewed as weak for letting a woman beat on them despite being vilified if they were to fight back. It's a legitimate struggle to get people to care about a guy's mental health. They are shamed if they don't show emotion and try to be strong because that's toxic, but also shamed if they show weakness because they aren't being a man. Both those positions often being pushed by the same people. Most of the year women are viewed as frail victims who can do no wrong, it really shouldn't be an issue to have a month to recognize that men are people too and can in fact feel and hurt like anyone else.
@@maymarine9658 It's almost like.. Women who do it, tend to do it for attention, rather than ACTUALLY offing themselves. Meaning they won't end it, and instead choose to use it for internet goodgirl points to get their daily dose of victim attention. Meaning it's fucking pointless and they are the same people who have the nerve to tell us to "man up" while they cry about all the bullshit they cause.
Terrence Popp, a streamer who focuses on men's (and particularly veteran's) mental health, is someone to look into for any men dealing with these issues. Through humor and personal advice related to those issues, he's saved to date over 500 lives. Popp, btw, is US Airborne veteran dealing with the after affects of his service including PTSD and TBI (Traumatic Brain Injury). His videos on those topics have helped more men than can be counted and even pulled many back from the abyss.
My father died when I was in my 6th grade. My mom single handedly went on a study spree for 2 years and got a job as a teacher for special children. We're a family of 4,amd I'm the youngest, my other 2 sisters don't even have a job but even in that tough situation, we pushed through because of my mom. NOW my sister got a job, my mom got transfered to a nearby place where the commute is 20 mins, it used to be 2 hrs before. My other sister also got a job, and we're good. All thanks to my mom, she'll take my years and live longer
what has that to do with anything? Its not like your father was a useless person lol, he died -.- your mom did what she should have, she did absolutely nothing special to be honest, nobody forced her to make 3 kids. When you do you have the responsibility to grow them up,. be it a man or a woman changes nothing. So what's so good about a woman doing it is what im asking? If your mother died your father would have done the same.
These people are weak. It's the only way I can describe it. How else could explain feeling the need to punch down on an entire demographic that is admitting it needs help? Pathetic weakness of character, moral fiber, and mind. If you need help, whoever or whatever you are, seek it out. There is no shame in it, indeed the humility of admitting one's limitations is the strongest character trait I can think of. Survive the ordeal with the aid of others and be ready to pay it forward. Survive because in doing so you can serve to correct the course of another where you might have stumbled. And if nothing else, survive just to spite these useless monsters navel gazing maliciously in their internet covens.
I didn't seek help for my issues until I was almost 32 because of what you just said. I turn 35 next month and Ive found peace and calm for the first time in my life
Hey so I'm a mental health worker and prospective psychologist, I think a lot about this stuff. What kinda happened over the past few decades is that, unintentionally, American society has formed a "stereotypical victim" and "stereotypical perpetrator". An unfortunate side effect of this is that perpetrators who do not fit the stereotype are ignored, and victims who don't are dismissed. I worked for a while in ABA therapy, and as a guy you have to be extra careful about how you carry yourself around the children. I myself followed even more strict guidelines than the RBT ethics code, in order to protect myself from allegations. Unfortunately, this did not stop several parents from taking one look at me and not wanting me working with their children anymore. But the women I worked with often skirted these rules, knowing they were far less likely to be the victim of a false allegation. The stereotype is that perpetrators of molestation are male, but there are plenty of female perpetrators, and the stereotype ends up victimizing innocent men and allowing female abusers to get away with it. This stems, again, from the broader problem; men are stereotypically the perpetrator and women are stereotypically the victim. There are other examples, including male victims of female spousal abuse, sons abused by their mothers, and most egregiously with male victims of s---al assault and r--e. The answer, however, is NOT to become a men's mental health advocate. It's to become a HUMAN mental health advocate. Firstly, it emphasizes that the reason men's mental health matters is because they are human beings, as we all are. And secondly, as the 20's bring a new set of challenges for American society, we risk just forming a new stereotype; female perpetrators and male victims. The emphasis on female societal challenges, while motivated by justice and having a good outcome for women, is what caused the stereotype in the first place, and we shouldn't make the mistake of forming a new one in it's place. So yeah, the best way to fight for men's mental health, and the disparities men can face in certain situations, is to focus on being a HUMAN mental health advocate uwu
the whole reason it exists is to rasie awareness that men too can suffer from mental conditions. I"m a man and i suffer from PTSD anxiety and Depression. and I'm not ashamed to say so. out dated forms of masculinity don't really matter to me. what a real man is, is someone who will stand up for what is right. and treat others with respect. simple as.
@@krulak292 uh huh, no. old school masculinity is, oh men can't show emotions, they have to be strong and silent. they aren't allowed to enjoy things that might be considered girly. that's old school masculinity. today masculinity is about being the best person you can be. it's ok to have emotions. and it's fine to enjoy something other men would frown upon.
@@crimsondragon1794 that's not even masculinity. That's being a good person. What you described in your first comment is literally Stoicism lol. That's over 2000 years old. It is traditional. To say what's good masculinity you need to talk about features that men posses more often than women. Not just some general things. Masculinity to me is standing up for yourself, being brave, well spoken, gentlemanly, stoic and protecting what you love. And men do have to be strong. While it's okay to be weak, it's not okay to stay weak. Calling this toxic is absurd.
@@krulak292and the ability to fix problems. I just soldered the cord on my grinder at work back together because it got frayed. Most guys my age that I know can't even build a shelf
Women who legitimately think like this have never had a male friend; I can't imagine they would think or say things like this if they had a man they had complete platonic affection towards. Really, whichever gender you are, have at least one friend of the opposite. I have just one, and I see her as a sister, I love her so much.
1:51 if i go on that post rn and i dont see everbody saying for her to leave that dude to trick her into being in a bad situation, i will seriously be disappointed in reddit
Because questioning the "community", even if the question isn't derogatory, is bigoted. Apparently. There's a reason I've never gone to a pride event despite my mile wide strike zone.
What’s the point anyway, it literally just a bunch of gays walking down the middle of the street anyway nothing interesting unlike the 4th of July parade where there are at least cool cars, and other vehicles in the mix.
sad thing is not many people talk about this or as often enough. i didnt even realise it was men's mental health month and now the months over. the month dedicated to spreading awareness is failing to do the most basic and fundamental thing it set out to do.
Damn I didnt even know this month existed. Also Ive had a girl try to tell me that the shit Im going through dosent even compare to what she had cause she has cut herself and I havent, to which luckily I heard the bullshit in, Cause everyone has different levels of shit they are able to go through, and just because Im able to do with more shit than you and no go down that low, or do something else other than cutting, dosent mean that your better. Both are bad honestly, but just hate when people push their own beliefs of weither or not your in more pain than them.
Yea I don't get why it's always a competition, "I'm way worse off than you so you shouldent feel bad" or you know we could hold eachothers backs and suppourt eachother no matter what "little" problems are affecting us all? I just don't understand it at all man. We all have diffrent limits, diffrent sizes of plates of food for each person.
I went into group therapy and met another guy with crippling anxiety. He had only been affected by it for less than a year and I've been fighting it my whole life. It never even crossed my mind that mine was worse than his because Ive been fighting it longer! We both got excited to meet someone who truly understood what our struggles were and swapped coping strategies
I wasn’t even aware a month about men’s mental health existed, I was too busy isolating myself from all forms of society (except RU-vid) to notice. I should get out more. Also; history repeats itself, as it always has. Soon men won’t be able to vote! (I’m Joking, but I am worried)
To all the boys out there, talk to your homies. Let them hear you out. It's alright to be vulnerable and open, and never let anyone tell you otherwise. ANYONE.
Fun fact: my bros have been WAAAAY more emotionally supportive than ANY girl Ive ever been with... but its common knowledge that women are more caring and compassionate
@@MaverickgrindstarYeah, they are more Caring and Compassionate towards you if you meet their standards lol, if you don't meet their standards No women is going to show you Love or compassion.
2:18 (Referring to background footage) - that's what we like to call a "Target rich environment" - you don't even need to aim well, you're going to hit something
Shout out to my dad for the fact he did alot to help my mom during times when i was being born then when i was diagnosed with a health issue, he helped my mom take care of baby me till i was able to eat solid food and wasnt screaming at my moms chest cause eating and drinking was so painful due to my acid reflux. I still have flare ups to today and i apperaciate everything my dad does. He is amazing.
If men need a mental health month or a man has a mental health issue that's the opposite of an ego... That's the acknowledgement they have a problem. That exact comment 6:00 is one of the biggest reasons why they self delete. And the exact opposite is happening. They think they're a problem for others and to not be that they exit out. It's the absolute worst thing you can say... Completely psychotic.
it is kinda morbid, but i remember listening to a comedian once who was talking about the self end rates between men and women and further went on to say while yes women attempt it more and yes by less lethal means, that just adds another thing that men are more successful at and proves that men are willing to go to a much further extent no matter what they are doing to get results. mind you this also includes men working jobs that are far harder and more dangerous.
I personally work a great deal more hours than my wife as her job doesn't allow for any real overtime and mine does. When I come home I still have a family so just sitting around isn't an option, they need me. I get on average two to three hours a week to myself that sometimes is spent on chores. Does it suck? Yeah but that's what you do for family. Does my wife ever complain about the patriarchal nature of our relationship? Hell no! She knows how good we are compared to other unhappy couples. Now if I could get a week or two off to go camping with my sons...
