They Remember Their Lives Before Birth! Answering Your Questions! Fireside Chat W/ PreBirthersPart 1 

Dont attach yourself to the pain and sadness, attach yourself to love and happiness. You can choose.

Sounds like the whole system seems flawed to me. I couldn’t imagine taking a test and not being able to remember everything or anything and then being expected to pass the test. Although some may pass the test most won’t. The fact that we have to keep coming back over and over again and maybe done it hundreds of times shows that the system or the idea of incarnating in order to learn it’s not working we’re obviously not learning because we have to keep coming back over and over again.

Akerke blew my mind ! Much love ! 💙 This discussion is so valuable!

This moved me to tears. Please do another Q and A. How do I stick it out being alive. When I suffer with so much loneliness in life?

These two are my favorite guests of all!.such deep understanding. Thanks to all for this conversation. Much love.

I feel like, anyone who has experienced giving birth to a child, might have an inkling of how one can want something very much, fully intend it with a whole heart, and still feel in the actual experience, that you would do just about anything to get out of it, because you're so immersed in the suffering of the present, that you no longer connect with the intention that brought you to that moment, or the outcome of your labors in the near future. In that situation, it's both incumbent on those near at hand to assist the labor, and also a fully supportive kindness, when they insist on your continuing the labor, fully engaging into the process you're in, even if you're crying out for it to please stop. They may even need to address you with some forceful sounding admonitions, for your sake and the sake of what you're trying to achieve, even if you've forgotten what that is, for the moment. I think it's possible that the seeming harshness in how some people recall being forced to come to their bodies, might be more or less in that same spirit of a labor coach. 🤔

This world needs more conversations like this. Much gratitude to you three!

Thank you for this beautiful conversation/Q and A. Each one of you contributing with their very own insights and wisdom is creating a beautiful, vivid picture of life and what it's meant to be. Thank you to all of you!

“The human personality portion of the self” - what a great way to put this Christian. Listening to this is very enjoyable. Thank you so much to the three of you. What a great time to be “alive” 😀, the technology is surely helping us seeker folk 😀

From my memories and experiences, I would say that we are here to diffuse the Love that our higher Self is to this dimension. Anyway, the idea that we are separate individuals, separate souls etc. is what keep us away from seeing reality and feel the Love that "we" are. The "I" doesn't exist and once we experience it here permanently, we can share that Love with "the others". There isn't free will because there isn't an individual, it's all the Self, so just trust the moment, enjoy life as much as you can and don't judge yourself or others for past actions, because nobody has choice, everything appears spontaneusly.

You all expressed yourselves very clearly and what you all had to say resonated with me. I particularly liked how Christian explains what we are and why we are here, he does it so succinctly that makes it easy to understand.

OMG I just shared your interviews with these two with my sister, the stars align for me as always 🤣 lots of love and appreciation for all three of you!!!!

We have been given the opportunity to practice being love/loving even though we have been stripped the total knowing that we are loved or that we ARE love. This way we can become independent lighthouses for love to shine, we can feel ourselves as the full creators of love. - this is what came to me when I was listening to you talking. Really inspiring, thank you 🙏💜

Loved this! It resonated so much and I wish there were people in my area who thought and felt the same way. Thanks for sharing! :)

Love this!!! Thank you for all coming together. 🙏🏻❤️

I don't have pre-birth experiences like y'all do, but I have had spiritual experiences in this life, and hearing you speak of your memories fills me with such peace and community. I have felt alone most of my life in that I haven't met others who have the knowing that I do that God is there and exists and loves us, and that we are all connected and one through God. You three know this, and it makes me feel connected again listening to you, so thank you for sharing what you know with us. :)

Awesome discussion! I learned sooo much. I have learned the most about love during the most challenging moments. Can we love in the midst of a hateful, selfish, indifferent world....yes we can.

Thank you for this discussion. I also been listening to Dolores Cannon lectures and finding out about these 'new' information, grateful. But at one point i also feel frustrated because i see you guys as this special chosen-one beings. You can go astral, have past life memories, received answers from 'the other side', talk to spirit guides so on and so on, while most of us, can't. I do envy of what you guys have. I been trying to say hello to my spirit guides and got no answer 🤭 So yeah, liberating knowledge, but in a way made me feel more trapped.

I could listen to Christian all day. His book is akin to a daily "Word" for me. Thank you all for being here together and tellin it like it is. (I feel like I have to sing a Jason Mraz song!)

I find it helpful to remember that without time, our experience of this reality is immeasurably tiny.

This is so inspiring especially with what Arke has to say!

Man! That was jjjuuuiiiccy!! 😍 Very, very good stuff!!💓

I love the "lightbulb" moments that these discussions can bring. Even though I have my own experiences, there are certain things that I take for granted because they basically feel "second nature" to me. When they spoke of transparency & telepathy being the normal state, I was drawn to think about how whenever anyone has tried to lie to me or manipulate me (for whatever reason) I would always be aware of it. When I was younger I would naively be very blunt about it, "why are you lying to me?" Sure, they would usually deny it, but I would say "You're lying to me right now by denying it. You can't lie to me, I always know". Once I made it quite plain, what usually followed was these people would tell me random lies for the sake of testing me out. It became quite tiresome. As I've gotten older, I've learned to be slightly cagey or smarter with exposing lies. Sometimes (depending on the situation) it can be best to watch the lie unravel rather than face it off. Anyway, thanks for bringing me a little self realisation. 🙏💗

Beautiful! I totally resonate with all of you, and transparency is where it's at.. Thank you so much for these videos! Love is all there is...

I came across a while back,in the Way Of Mastery material,that one act of forgiveness eliminates a thousand years of suffering.So I forgive,and forgive,and forgive.Life gets easier and better.It's already been communicated to me that this is my last life on earth,I know I'm here this time to awaken myself and others spiritually,embody and teach spiritual truths,and to prophesy and prepare for the ascension and polar shift

This is beautiful ♥️♥️♥️ thank you to you all ♥️

Thank you 3 young people🙏 I am 65 and it gives me so much hope to hear this authentic discussion by human beings in human language...the Spirit of Love and the Universe coming through you. Coming through you through RU-vid (which was not around when I was your age)...technology accessible to all humanity around the globe. High frequency good vibes coming through cyberspace. I feel sure we are, have and have had this Spiritual "technology" native to our souls on "the other side" as well as in ancient advanced civilizations on earth. Thank you🙏 Bless you🙏

I don't feel like I volunteered, I feel it was forced. I don't choose to be in 3d anymore so the free will kick in here .... my free will is saying bye bye to this dense gross physical matter.

Thank you for making this. Everyone is so well spoken.

Oh my gosh, I love this gentleman. Well said sir. An amazing podcast LOVE COVERED LIFE! Score!!!

i'm done with this planet, i am NOT coming back again !

Excited to hear your message 💫

Absolutely loved this. Thanks 😁 😊 🙏

He said.......full knowing is absolutely self evident when you are there......this is truth.......I received a full knowing that I have always been and will always be.

3 Beautiful Beings with beautiful sharing. I have Christian s book and it is amazing.

So glad you did this topic. I listen to many podcasts and videos and even I, myself, was thinking wow is that true? What if.... So, yeah, I am super happy you've shared your perceptions. I trust this. It is explained very well.

I treasure each of you, your heart and courage to share your experiences, you open my mind and soothe my soul thank you so much

🎁Question to the panel: WHY do you believe SO MANY souls are brought into families that abuse and neglect them as young children???? Sexual, emotional, mental , and physical abuse. Why would souls intentionally neglect and abuse little babies and young children???? Even dogs and cats don't do that.

DESIRE IS WHERE WE ARE STUCK

Wow what a great video and format

This was wonderful 👏 ❤ thank you

Thank you all for this discussion. I understand how challenging it is to put these thoughts, feelings, and experiences into language, and I truly appreciate your desire to share. These are beautiful seeds to sow When I think about why we've chosen this existence, the easiest way for me to express it is not in the context of coming to learn about love, but rather a matter of (our pure consciousness) imagining, or remembering (outside of time) a life and all the love, longing, pain, and fear within it, then choosing to experience that life. Like remembering or imagining or tasting something that hasn't happened, then having the desire to make it happen. In human experience we do the same all the time when we imagine, and plan, then take steps to bring what we've imagined into reality within the context of time, and space As True reality is beyond the limitations of time, the line between idea, and memory is simply a matter of choice. By coming here we've made the choice to live out Our imagination This is how it feels for me Much love ❤

Love you brothers and sisters ❤ 💙 💕 💗 💓 Thanks for your perspectives 🙏🙌 #SAVESOIL

Thsnks for addressing this question. It’s very important and I agree with all of you- I remember agreeing to come, AND once here, wanting to go back, lol, but my guide reassured me AS A BABY, that I chose this incarnation and may try to reject it once In human form. I know I was very sick with a mystery illness at that time, what I understand is I was trying to go back but knew I would do this and the reassurance helped me to survive and carry on with my life path which I CHOSE TO DO. I actually interacted with my guide and knew her immediately - it was her SMILE. Yes, pure energy Beings can smile- A genuine loving being who I recognized immediately wanted me to know “it’s ok, you’ll be fine”. I have always felt a strong connection to my guide and higher self and the Creators, and collective. The very next day I completely recovered - it’s odd but I have had this memory forever, and my mom and dad confirmed how sick I was and how worried my parents and doctor were because I couldn’t keep food or liquids down and they were just about ready to admit me into the hospital when I made a sudden remarkable recovery. I only learned about that incident in my early life because I asked my mom if I had ever had any odd illness as a baby that I recovered from. This - in my mind, was just more confirmation for me; that what I pretty much already knew- had happened.

Very analytical approach! I appreciate all that you three said. Makes me think with what Arke said, we already know love before coming here. But here we are somehow ‘separated’. Thus I think it is an exercise for us, like testing if we can still jump those hurdles that separate us with each other here on earth….to still be able to exude that same love across the veil. Maybe that’s what trip us….not being able to exercise that universal love, due to the earthly, egoistic impressions we see.

What beautiful wisdom. Thank you. 🏵🙏🏵

Remember, a different version of you exists in the minds of everyone who knows you.

Melissa, I have loved your channel for a long time now. You consistently have these wonderful, insightful interviews with excellent, well-spoken guests (even though we sometimes lack the language to describe the metaphysical). I’m here hoping to find out what happens next, and this current life changes about what is next. I’m hoping everyone gets their version of heaven, for me, at least something progressive where I could live this life again with more understanding, more opportunities, and more unrestricted platonic love (a twin, perhaps).

Akerke is pure light.

It's easy to love when everything is perfect. I can see how love would be made more perfect being "put to the test" here on earth. Even our earthly relationships grow and strengthen when we go through hard things together.

What beautiful souls you all are ❤️ .

Thank you all! I have been listening and agree with all that you have said. I am seeing in this plain the diversity of it, the uniqueness we see here. I mean all of it, pain, fear, ego all of it, we can only experience here and it is possible or has been, with the vail. The love that we are sees the beauty and potential for creation and choice we do not have on the other side because we know we are all one and love. I think of a stadium of people at a sports event. So diverse individually yet as you take in the entirety you see some different colors, shapes but more of the common cohesive colors, it’s beauty and its ability to be move as one acting together, like in the “ wave” they often do. To participate in this on a creative level is a gift of love, which we are and which we get to rediscover in diverse and different ways in each incarnation. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

Thank you Melissa, Akerke, and Christian. I feel certain what you three are sharing is benefiting humanity on both sides of the veil. There is collaboration between this side and the other side of the veil and what you are sharing will accelerate that loving collaboration. The more conscious awareness on this side of the veil of the intent of God/Source the more opportunity we have here to act in accordance with that intent.

Good job, all three of you!😀

akerke always amaze me ...clear open my mind💕

Thank you all guys. it was very educational video. Cpl months ago I talked to some1 about our purpose and why we are here on the Earth. When I was young I knew somehow that God / Creator is love. But as one of you said it's very difficult to put all into words. Many of us know a lot but we can't explain it well. I can't wait to see other part. Thank you 💞💕

Messages from Home! Thank you só much 🙏💝🌬🌸🦋💗

Maybe I can understand it this way. I play music, and as I practiced and practiced and played and played through the years it became more and more apparent to me that all the effort, all the hours of practice were a process of bringing spirit into matter, spirit merging with matter, infusing matter. I became aware that I wanted to do that practice for my whole life. There was no end. It would always be a process, a spiritual practice, becoming more and more that merging. So when I thought of the afterlife and remembered people saying that they heard music and how it was so beautiful beyond beautiful, already pure indescribable spirit. And I thought how absolutely amazing it would be to play music in the afterlife except..... the process would already be finished. It would already be it's own perfection. There would be no effort followed by the wonderful freedom and depth and ecstacy of each breakthrough where there is an instrument, and the body being the other half of the instrument, and the breath bringing it all through and it all becoming more and more of what it truly is..... something like that, it's hard to describe. But yes, when I think of music I begin to understand.

With any shape or kind of grievances our light is covered by clouds and cannot see.

Understanding is, IMO, more valuable than knowledge. Wonderful discussion. Thank you. Uni-verse= one song. Language is so limiting, but music is transcending. I generally think of music as the Language of my spirit. ONE ❤️

To expand on the great answers to the second question: Here we become generators of love vs merely residing in love. This is what drives universal expansion. The trick for me with having stumbled countless times, has been to walk effectively in an unconscious world. "effectively" has many angles. To be compassionate. Relieving someone's pain is not always compassionate. It is the pain they have chosen, and do you want to deny them what they have chosen. But to be there with them in kindness, and perhaps show them an alternative, but they must ask.

I remember being in the light. It was burning hot but so comforting. I think we come here to keep the fire burning. ‘Before light there was darkness’, before creation there was darkness. We have to come to experience the dark to make the light shine brighter

Why would we come to remember about love if we are love at the core?Why we just didnt stay up there in higher dimentions and just be love ?It doesnt make any sense the human experience.

we had gain all these knowledge over millennia, and we still had not completely map out these knowledge. I know I sound ridiculous, I had pass 6 perfect life time to map out these, and right now, I can not even put them into word. I did finish the map, and I am sure blown away when you look at these map.

YES WE Are All One with Different Choices And it Does Make Sense - that We All Here for a Purpose Could be, Until We Recognize & Learn How Treat Each Other Like a Circle ⭕️😳

Thank you so much for the discussion. I know that all of this is true - it resonates with me just as much as with Melissa and her guests. What I still can't work out - and I suppose I'm thinking of it from my "limited experience" here, is why I would have agreed to come here, if my soul knew what it was going to be like. I just don't even know why I am here. If I was being asked today - that is 3D James and all that that represents, then it would be an emphatic no. The very idea of coming here and having to forget everything...who thought that was a good idea? Our souls have the entire universe at their disposal, and can create/do/be anything that they want - and this is what they came up with? You will have to forgive me - it just makes no sense to me. As we say herein Australia: It's like someone is having a lend of us - as in, this is someone's idea of a joke, but nobody here is laughing. Thank you for attempting to answer the very tough questions. I look forward to part 2. Much love and best wishes from Australia.

wonderful this video comes.

When it comes to learning about love, love has more than one aspect. Compassion, how could we fully understand and embrace the compassion aspect, if we didn't ever have a reason to have compassion for others? Understanding about compassion enables us to truly care about each other, and to be joyful when the beings we love are doing well. Loving others unconditionally, how could we fully understand and embrace unconditional love, if we didn't have the wisdom that shows us how conditional love compares to unconditional love? Respect for others, how could we fully understand and embrace having respect for others, if we didn't have the wisdom that shows us how important and meaningful it is to have respect for others? The above applies to other altruistic qualities such as appreciation, gratitude and humility. I believe it is a mistake to assume that our Souls knew everything automatically. Love, wisdom and freedom go together. You can't have one without the other two. Our Souls needed the freedom to find out about love in their own ways. The entire universe includes the wisdom we gained through our lessons.

The trap is separation that we are not one. Dominant mind is Ego(world) instead Christ mind love that’s why we are awakening.

Another thing I have heard of us that we can carry our insecurities from our previous life in to this life. I mean that is grossly unfair. Why should I have had to carry the insecurities of a previous life in to my own. Why should I have to deal with their shit.

Thank you yiu guys answered silver of the questions i have had for so long

Love your show.

DO LOVE YOUR WORK THOUGH

God told Neale Donald Walsch that life isn't a school and we aren't here to "learn" but to evolve, experience, create and decide who we want to be as a soul.

I just love you guys. That’s all.

I'll remember reading a book with translations from Upanishads verses some years ago - they were talking about similiar stuff: About how to be in this world and what to do (as a soul) when you die so your dont be pulled automatically back into a new reincarnation here on earth. They were describing it as some sort of "trap" for souls ("trap" is not the exact word).

I tend to have simplistic explanations, but in my view an incarnation is kind of a training facility. If you live in a perfect environment, it is easy to be perfect. But if you come here, where nothing seems to be perfect, then it is much harder to be perfect, to love everything, to know everything. In this sense we do not learn love, but we apply it under harsh conditions. And we know that also here that you can be perfect in theory, but not in practice. If an athlete only trains in best conditions, best shoes, best balls, best grass, no wind, no heat, no cold, no stress, he/she will never perform in a competition (just as a metaphor). And I guess that is also what people mean that we are here for the experience.

Love = Energy Energy = Love Energy cannot be destroyed We are energy - This feels profound, but also obvious in hindsight. Time to do me some thinkin'...

I think the question or resistance we all can have to this experience is just that. If we are this all knowing, all encompassed love and freedom, infinite knowing and connection, transcendental awareness of the ALL, why would we then need or want to come and do this.. It can seem totally contradictory, unnecessary and just, wrong. Personally, however frustrating and difficult a question it can be to consider and ponder as I have much, I feel it is apparant that, for reasons we each can sense, we still do choose to come and it is somehow a need, want and must for a further growth or awareness. Or maybe just to break up the infinite of bliss back home 😅

Thanks for this 🙂- I'm probably one of the people who's been mulling over these questions (at least responding to someone else's comment on the subject in another of your videos). I actually have a question for you guys - what do you think, or do you have any pre-birth knowledge about the existence of multipal time-lines in an incarnation. I'm thinking of some of those weird tales where people claim they've jumped into another dimension, where their life is kind of the same, but with some major either personal or more general historical differences. If we're multi-dimentional and if quantum physics is correct, then we could not only be living this life we percieve in the here & now, but we could also be living all sorts of different lives, according to decisions we might have made or not made, or the outcome of a major event that could go one of many ways. Also, if time and space don't exist in the higher realms then we could also be experiencing ALL our incarnations and their multipal time lines! 😵‍💫So if there are potentially many multipal yous out there, do you have any awareness of this in the pre-birth planning? I do have a couple of pre-life and just after my last death memories and I know we do choose our families and plan major events, but I think we have to allow for perhaps infinite variables that could take us on a different path and so onto another time-line. Sorry if none of this makes sense!lol It is a bit mind-bendy, but I hope you know what I mean! I'd love to know what you think about this and if you 'remember' that this is a phenomena and did your soul have knowledge of this before you were born? Cheers 🙂

Thanks, a lot!

Hi I love your videos but when will part 3 be available? The link leads to a private video?

On the other hand..after listening to this..The Alien Interview with Airl may as well be REAL!😳

Would be nice if titles of part 1 & part 2 are the same - easy to link..

34:53 wow....to experience! Love that 🥰🙏

A complete stranger directed me to this site and I am blown away. I have pre-birth memories also. I also had out of body experiences as a child and I was always excited to go to bed and sleep because I could fly and I could go to so many places. I couldn't recognize most of these places cuz I was just a kid so I described them to my mom so she knew what was happening to me. I am 67 years old and I have never ever ran into anyone who has memories like I do. No they cannot trick you they cannot force you and I remember the person telling me we can't force you but. Then explain how I had not been going to any seminars I have been not going to groups I have not been doing all the things I was supposed to be doing to prepare my soul for another trip to earth. I did this on purpose because I am no way wanted to return but I don't remember why. You can be manipulated and you can be guilted into returning. I don't remember what I chose but I remember standing in front of screens and they moved from left to right different people different scenarios in their life and I got to choose my mother. I want to be sure to explain that you are not given all the information about this person you may see them at a young age like 15 or 18 so you don't know what what kind of person you have chosen or what they will go through in their lives. You have the desire to help the person you're being born to because you want to do all that you can so that you don't have to come back again. I don't remember what I picked out but I was told that I had picked out too hard of a life there was too much trauma and I would not survive it. While I was a stubborn know it all little spirit and not surprisingly that's how I was as a child in this life. I remember being so happy there. It wasn't heaven but I was happy because I was not on Earth and I have no memory of any previous lives. I don't think I wanted either. So this same person came back to me and said will you accept help from Jesus, and the stubborn self-absorbed me said no and I want a promise that he will not interfere with my life I can do this myself cuz I don't ever want to have to do this again. I don't remember when I remember but I remember being about eight and telling my mom that I was very sad and she said why and I said I don't know why but I just feel like sobbing. She said to go in my room and sit on my bed and think about it. I came back out and I said I know what it is I'm homesick. My mom knowing what I was going through said well good now you know. Hoping I would put this together. I did not. I said how can I be homesick this is my home. So there was the periods of out-of-body and I stopped doing that cuz my mother told me not to tell anybody what happened at night time because they would think I was crazy and in that. That scared me so bad I never let myself leave my body again. There was so much more to my story including meeting my husband as a child up there. But I will stop here I am so glad I found you guys. My guide or whoever it was that was preparing me was right. I've had horrible losses and Trauma in my life I now have PTSD, depression and anxiety. So now I find myself at a very important time in the history of planet Earth and I think I was supposed to be of some help to someone but I have been put through the ringer and feel scared and used up. I also had or have episodes of knowing what is going to happen just before it does. In Reading what my cousin say on Facebook I now know that it runs in the family. Again, I'm glad I found you.

Are we in a reincarnation trap? YES! In fact I can't think of a more apt description. Over time you wake up to the fact that you and everyone around you is in a prison that they keep coming back to. You live your life well without wasting any time trying to find a way out of this as you grope your way in the dark eventually you will pick up a piece of something off the floor and you remember that it's the same thing you passed a month or a year ago. That all this time you've been groping aimlessly in the dark, crawling along the edges of only where you're allowed to go. You then remember you were here before and that all your life this is the only place you have ever been or ever will be.

Thats beautiful.......We are not learning about Love......We are remembering about Love.

Exactly 💯

Hello from Brazil. I am so interested in this subject.

What I don’t understand is if we are good enough to be in heaven with God and our soul family then why do we want to leave and come here. Aren’t we already perfect to be there? Why do we need to learn lessons?

Everything is in the present moment. Even the idea of the incarnation trap. Choose your vibration as best you can more and more.

Our incarnations look more like an endless cyclic process without going anywhere unless we awaken to our nondual divine nature at some point and exit this cycle. As the Buddha said, we are trapped in the wheel of samsara. But the samsaric deities who run the material-astral universe project (notwithstanding their unconditional love) want us to believe that we are on a path of spiritual learning and ascending and our incarnations have some meaning and purpose, so they are currently setting up this new New-Age religion on Earth to keep us engaged in reincarnations. NDE experiencer Richard Allyn says that he remembers being through thousands of incarnations, but it does not look like he became very advanced soul or got close to graduation. If this is a learning school, then that seems to me a heck of a slow learning process. To me it looks more like an addiction to virtual reality games and to endless cycle of more and more thrilling experiences. In a way, our incarnations are akin to drug trips where we get into very distorted ways of perceiving the reality but plenty of thrilling experiences (including plenty of bad trips), and I'm not sure it's a healthy way to learn and grow spiritually. The real problem is not even the suffering that we experience during our incarnations (even though it is a problem for many of us here), we can deal with suffering. The real problem is that incarnating and living in mind-fabricated virtual realities with distorted dualistic perception while believing that they are real is self-deception and self-delusion, it's basically a lie and a hoax. How can we learn any good from lies and delusions? It's like learning from drug trips, it's a very unhealthy way of learning. I think it actually does more harm than good because in these incarnations we reinforce our habits of dualistic perception and our egoic thinking patterns. I believe there is a better way to learn and grow spiritually by staying sober, finding out the ultimate nondual truth and staying true to this truth without falling into these drug-like self-deluding dualistic incarnation trips.

I like coming here. Have been many times.

17:27 - On projecting our state up and outward yes, it's a common philosophic concern. Being here it at least seems that having an identity at all leads to Darwinian game theory, multipolar traps, fundamental inequality and hiearchy by the reflexive nature of differences in any parties that interact. The other problem while we're here - occult/esoteric phenomena are extremely deceptive, even when they aren't comingled with fraud, and I remember Andres Gomez Emillsion a while back not only talking about the possibilities of Darwinian game theory and potential 'cooperative superclusters' but the notion as well that a lot of contacts could effectively be parasitic, ie. other forms of consciousness trying to colonize our planet remotely. Thinking of how biology works and how much we mirror biology it's quite persuasive to go that way.

According to what ive surmised from NDE's is that we only reincarnate because of what we still need to learn and we choose our own selves to reincarnate, that's what i gathered so far.

Learning how to love...❤️

reincarnation just seems like torture to me. i really hope all these stories are true but im not a big fan of reincarnation unless its really really helping something on the other side.

Nobody is ever forced to incarnate here. people just sometimes like coming here for whatever reason. I would call it habitual and possibly even could be called addictive rather than a trap. I've been gone for a long time and this is my first incarnation back here in a very long time. And it may be my second to last ever in an earth reality like this. I definitely want to be back for the last part of the transformation, and then some of the post transformation reality to enjoy what we created though I don't consider those the same kind of incarnation because the world is significantly different at that point.

Some really great comments about trying to describe the impossible that we call love. My own view on being tricked into coming down to Earth is no we aren't. All of God's worlds including Earth and all other physical worlds have free will. We can always say no or better yet yes. If we can develop unconditional love here on Earth we can express it any where else. From what my mom told me I was a very unhappy baby/young kid. She expected me to bail out up until I was about 7 yrs old. I suspect that is because subconsciously I knew what I was in for this life and wanted nothing to do with it even though I agreed to it before hand. Spiritually it has been very rewarding, physically there have been very few rewards.