They Tested If The ALPHAS Would Cheat... (they do) 

i hope this is the first comment he sees

Hey he could go on by claiming twitch chat is the gf

Why u delete my comment cmon gunner u cool guy

And be straight 😂😂

Yikes

hes a tool bc he doesn't always do the dishes but that's their biggest issues💀

I was actually thinking it would be so funny if there was just one couple where the guy was just completely normal upstanding dude but then the girlfriend is just a total psycho who thinks that he's a tool because he has a female coworker or something

By the end of the series they pull the uno reverse card and become the tools

Like his gf is pissed because he said they'd been dating for 1 year instead of 1.5 years

That was pretty much josh last season

It's not like I have an Asian fetish. LMAO

"I like asians so much that I start to pre even seeing the colour yellow. Also in unrelated news I may be banned from being a schoolbus driver."

That was insane. Pretty much an instant classic lol

That voice started warbling and eyes went wild. I knew he was writing his own eulogy...at least he doesn't have an Asian fetish.

He just stumbled over "you're ugly" 20 times and never found a way out. Then his brain was like "oh, asian fetish". Dude couldn't have shown his true colors more clearly if he tried.

The dude tasked with editing down the footage: this is my nightmare

Imagine the producers gave them a team-up challenge straight after therapy (not the next day).. while most are still crying. 💀

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​@@A_Ducky "Collect as many tears of your crying girlfriend as possible" Sounds good! xD

@@DaijDjan Lmao 🤣🤣🤣

A good, well trained therapist almost never tells a couple to split up. They may steer in the direction saying they don’t think this person is willing to forgive or that person is willing to change, but it’s generally accepted that couples have to come to the conclusion to split up on their own in order it to truly be a healthy breakup for them mentally

@@shaungraen3892 you can't educate these people, they think "therapy" is something everyone needs, what they want is indoctrination to their way of thinking, which they insidiously pretend is some kind of therapy

Completely false. They may push for resolution rather than cutting off for a bit, but if little or no progress is being made, or its made clear the relationship wont work, they will VERY much recommend you split. Sounds like you've had some experience with malpractice. ​@shaungraen3892

@@tortellinifettuccine they will flat out tell you when something isn’t working, when they think no progress is being made in one or both parties, and in severe cases such as abuse they may privately tell the abusee to leave the abuser for their safety or stay with family for a while. Is there some cases where a therapist may tell you to leave your partner? Sure. I’m not saying it never happens. Therapists are human at the end of the day and if I see another human struggling solely due to their partner I may have enough after 100 sessions and tell them they’re destroying each other; however a therapist is much more likely to say that they don’t believe they have the tools to fix this marriage, than they are to say “that’s it. Break up right now.” Relationship therapists are there to give you tools and suggestions to improve a relationship, while also working through the underlying issues that caused problems in the first place. They’re not there to be your friend that says “girl dump him” because you guys fight a lot. At most they’ll use suggestive language indicating they don’t think anything is helping, and help you to your own conclusion that you should leave. Thats not malpractice, that’s smart and intentional. Theres a reason why there’s so many awful relationships where one partner should leave but never does; because simply telling them to leave does not work. You could be their mom, best friend, or a professional, you still need to lead the horse to water and explain why drinking will save their life before they’re able to drink themselves. Forcing the horse’s head under water may force it to drink, but you’re causing more damage and the horse learned nothing for next time.

@@tortellinifettuccine I just wrote a long response only for RU-vid to not send it for some reason 🙃 I’m gonna try to shorten it this time. Wrong. A relationship therapist’s job is to give you tools to work through your issues as a couple, while also working through the internal problems that caused these issues to arise in the first place. They may say when the believe someone isn’t trying, they will 100% call out who they think is causing more pain or putting in less effort, and they’ll even say when they believe they don’t have the tools at their disposal to save this relationship. they’re not your friend saying “oh girl you need to dump him” because that doesn’t work. There are so many relationships where one partner needs to leave for their own mental or physical health, but when told by their closest friends and family to leave, they still stay. No, it’s not malpractice for a relationship therapist to not suggest breaking up, it’s intentional and smart. You can bring a horse to water, but it has to drink on its own. You can force its head under water and it will probably drink some of it, however you’re causing more damage and the horse learned nothing for next time. Thats how they “suggest breaking up” Obviously in cases of abuse and other extreme cases the therapist is much more likely to suggest a breakup themselves; because at that point it’s a major safety risk for one or both of the individuals, but past extreme cases, therapists are seldom supposed to suggest breaking up outright without using very leading sentences so you come to that conclusion yourself

I’m no psychologist but I think seeing how much their girlfriens hurt is like putting a mirror in front of their face to realise how much of a piece of shit they are. Except of course the one who got eliminated who refused to admit his faults until the very end.

Def guilt cries

"Babe, you have to understand... I really really... really didn't think you'd find out."

Jesus Christ for real

It reminded me of the mean girls scene where they get up to say who was hurt by regina 😂

I'm not trying to do the Spartacus thing guys, I really farted...

I’m Radio Rebel 🙋🏼‍♀️

​@@Jessie_Bee I WAS ABOUT TO SAY THAT LMAO

He has a good point that he likes her as a person and not a check list of features but he really drove off the bridge and into the lake when he said “Asian fetish.”

That’s still a burn though honestly telling a girl you don’t care about her looks is a heartbreaker

@@Shoulderpads-mcgeedude rolled a 1 in charisma and speech

@@Liqohdepending on how you say it, it’s “your beautiful but I would love you no matter what and even if you weren’t you’d still be beautiful to me, it’s just a bonus that you actually are also 😍" something like that yeah, call them beautiful but also that it doesn't matter but then also that they are beautiful again

Yeah they were funny bad, especially Josh the winner, but these guys are straight up horrible

It's car crash TV, I'm liking it

Agree 😅

It was physically painful

NAME T SHAW. GET RIGHT. OOGA BOOGA

Misogyny is a hellova drug

Therapeutic intent isn't the same thing as moral judgement. Basically if you want to encourage a certain behavior you give a verbal "thumbs up". If you give a "thumbs up" to honesty and admitting their behavior then others will follow suit. If you call out the first guy and shame him, no one else will talk. So if you want the guys to talk calling them courageous is pretty clever. It's a pretty standard line for anyone opening up in therapy really. It's not a therapists job to pass moral judgement over anyone. I may have missed it, but I don't think the women were actually called bitter and that they lack forgiveness. Just that they were in pain and that one of them expressed anger which is also not a moral judgement of their behavior.

I've been thinking the same thing. Last season at least half of the tools seemed to at least care about their partner enough to try. These guys just seem like they almost all actively HATE their girlfriends, or simply view them as an accessory rather than a person.

@@artisseriechickenFor real. It feels like they actively sought out the worst people to up the drama, but you gotta have someone you kinda want to root for. But here, I just want all of them to break up.

@@joinsidekeIm rooting for steroid man just cuz he seems like the least worst.

@@yourex-wife4259and on this show, the least worst is the most best.

bob it almost took my life

He absolutely did it to seem like the winner in that exchange. Literally only did it to make himself look better. And the "he cries, she doesn't" perfectly shows who the real winner is, too. She's been over that shit for a while, he has to come to terms with her not being there to fall back on anymore. In terms of which couple should break up, they were pretty much #1.

This show constantly gives perfect examples of manipulation. Him breaking up with her was meant to be a power move for himself - he was trying to make himself look less vulnerable and the only way for him to reduce how humiliated he was for losing the show was to try and make her feel responsible for the loss of their relationship. Fortunately she was done with his shit and didn't even shed a tear - we could see who the vulnerable one really was at the end

That man was not dating teenagers bc he was interested in being held accountable and improving

At least she is free of him. Someone had to cut the cord. She was not gonna so in the end she is free

Imagine if the producers made them do a challenge immediately after that session 💀

Nah, that'd be reality tv gold. The show that ended filming on episode 2 because of too much material!

“this is progress” 😦😦

Fr these people dont NEED these abusive realationships whys she so insistant they always stay together

@@fella420cuz thats the show and she's not actually interested in their mental health but rather a dramatic show, i thought that was pretty obvious lol

@@fella420I don’t think she’s good, but her job is to try and help these couples work together and move forward as a couple. You’re not going to go to a marriage counselor and have it end with the therapist saying “girl, run,” because you came there to have someone help heal your relationship, not tell you if you should break up or not

Yeah she's more of a couple's therapist then an actual therapist.

oh my god I totally forgot about that show! core memory unlocked, Gunnar would live for it

Oh I LOVED ladette to lady that was cooked

Its part of what makes them tools frr 😭 normal dudes think thats weird but tools ofc theyre surprised it aint more girls

Makes me believe show is fake

Yeah I think gunnar might be missing the point that you don’t get sent off tool academy for being the worst person to walk in, you get sent off for being the worst at putting in effort to try and save your relationship

I think he had a good message but just every single word he used was not the correct one. I felt like I was watching someone slowly fall down stairs

@@Shoulderpads-mcgee More like falling down the up escalator because there was no end in sight to that fumble 😂

I would’ve said bitch that’s what you think bring it on

“therapeut” is wild

@@charliewegnerim crying that comment back was gold

I mean...yall have a weird view of therapy. Therapy is not fun. It is not a good time. It's extremely difficult and uncomfortable

​@@whatever3145where did they say therapy was a good time or fun? They're just noting the strange use of language

Do both at the same time. Get your cardio in while you laugh.

Hope you get well

Hope you get well.

Get well soon

wishing you the best!

Apparently she is, but she plays a fake therapist on TV.

I've heard "failed abortion" before, which makes a little more sense.

Yes very 🫣

unironically yeah, i actually think its pretty cool how the bars are oriented to look like a semicircle. also skin piercings (ones on flat skin) are hard af to heal, literally every skin piercing ive tried to get rejected 😔

It's almost as if he's a hillbilly 😮

IKR

This was what, mid-2000s? It was generally understood to be a cultural thing, not a racist thing. Never said it was right but it's unsurprising.

nah breaux. get him IN

But he did a fun little cheer 🥺

Pro tip : make sire media volume is always off at work. Ring tone hardly matters, but oh god if you accidentally click something or if an app decides for autoplay a short youre fucked

This is iconic I say you own it

You deserve only the best

Good for you for breaking it off and not desperately trying to fix it on reality tv lol. I hope things are better for you without him

I'm gay for gunnar

​@@djtoxicdhgSame

@@djtoxicdhg I'm not gay, but same. lol

Think this was like 2009 if I'm not wrong

@@Mr.PDF_File okay? I still consider it early 2000's since theres like the same style & i'm more so meaning theres not shows like these like super dramatic

@@karisgaines These days people would think it's too exploitative, societal standards changing has made Reality TV go from exploiting the contestants for drama to exploiting the viewer's emotional connections to the contestants, that's why everyone's got some silly ass sob story in a modern Reality TV show