Ok but sameee only my “ex” best friend (we’re still friends ish) can speak at a pace my brain likes and she’s one of the only ones who can understand what i say the first time I say it
you're super pretty and I love how real you kept this video. as someone who also lost a lot of weight, it definetely is like plastic surgery, to me, it took me a while to get used to my "new" body, I kept dressing like I was 55 pounds heavier for a good while. also, it's true that weightloss ABSOLUTELY does makes it all better, people who say otherwise are lying or never went through it themselves, it helps you so much. what I've noticed besides no more knee pain is that people started to be nice to me, before they were kind of dismissive and rude, sometimes I would even feel like I had an invisibility cloak on, or they would also think I'm way older than my actual age. now people compliment me and are nice, and I'm talking abt strangers not even friends or family. it also increases your confidence for sure, do it for yourself and no one else, the rest will come on its own💗
thank you sm!! and thank you for telling your experience too! fr the most INFURIATING thing is when the people who've never been heavier go on and on about how wanting to look a certain way is fatphobic or wanting to lose weight is fatphobic.
@@anotherhuman9071 girl your story is so inspiring!, I plan on losing weight because I am tired of judging myself to other skinny girls so if you have tips I would love to hear some!♥️
"Didn't solve everything, but it makes me feel better." I feel that... When I was a teenager, I thought that being skinny was the solution to all my problems. I lost a lot of weight, but I didn't love myself. I worked that, and I'm so happy with me rn, but being skinny is not the reason
Losing weight what I found the most shocking was the amount of men that would go out of their way to pause and hold doors open to me… it’s like such a weird detail to notice… idk
that’s because of your face not your body. i’m slim and have a good body and have always had a naturally good slim body, but also always had an ugly face, and i get treated the same way that heavier people are saying they do
Okay I'm not gonna say ur body WILL change, but it can! I was really chubby in 2020-2022 bc I want done with puberty but now I'm slimmer in some areas!
When I was 13-14 I used to be way heavier and bing eat all the time. By 15-16 I naturally slimmed down without doing anything or cutting foods. Sometimes it’s puberty/early teenage-hood.
Omg i love your pace of talking😭 and this is my motivation to start taking workout seriously cause WHY TF AM I LITERALLY ROUND AND AN ASYMMETRICAL FACE I STOPPED TAKING PHOTOS OF MYSELF CAUSE THAT AND MY BODY😭 when few years back i felt confident from within, now i don’t. All the academic stress is real
@@Angel-fv2iw I lost weight in the unhealthiest way possible since I was being basically b*llied. I would not recommend doing that because I’ve developed an eating dis*rder and had great hair loss because of it .
i’m at the stage where i’m starting to see people treat me decently, i still want to lose another 17kg but i’ve already lost over 20kg in the first year (april ‘23 - april ‘24) bc i’m aiming for 55-53kg. i’m also glad i actually found cheekbones under the baby face i had 😭
it’s annoying because i began to lose weight because i wanted to fix the way i thought before it spiralled into something bad, it helped me but it also is quite upsetting to witness in real time that when people say you are treated better when you’re skinnier is true
I LOVE YOUR WHOLE ENERGY!!💗But yess I do agree with all the things you said but personally I still binge eat and still kind of insecure of my body but not as much as before.But I am on a healing journey and life been so peaceful!🫀Anyways love your energy and ur smile💞
omg im so grateful u showed up on my recommended- i love how u get straight to the point and i love how u speak to mea s if youre a friend.. its rlly comforting :)
My self esteem has been very low for most of my life due to constant bullying. I lost 15 pounds since last year, but I have to constantly remind myself that I'm actually losing weight due to my brain telling me that I'm still overweight. Best way I've reminded myself is by wearing clothes that used to be tight on me last year or by looking down and realizing that my double chin is gone. It's still something I'm getting used to.
girliee i love your whole energy so much, the way you talk, your laugh, the way you tell a story, everything!! love this video, and wishing you all the good things in life
I HAVE JUST COME BACK TO UR CHANNEL AFTER SO LONNG AND OMG IM GWTTING FLASHBACKS OF WHEN U HAD THIS BEST WEIGHT LOSS MANIFESTING VIDIEO AND OMG IT INPSIRED ME SM I LOVE THHS OMGOMG GONNA BING E WATCHING UR VIDS AGAIN
AWW YOU'RE SO PRETTY i lost 40 pounds (i still gotta lose more) and i still sometimes have issues with buying clothes that are too big for me because it just doesnt feel much different LOL now i got these big ass shorts i have to wear with a belt dude i look like mickey mouse
@@Raya-fm2mz Thank you so much!! Honestly for me it was working out in my room every day and cutting out harsh things like alcohol and junk food. It was rly hard at first, but finding alternatives to the usual things I ate ended up being easier than I thought! I will say though, one cheat day a week saved me from going back to eating everything I ate before lol! I think we all deserve a treat once in a while c:
@@triplehearts914 do you have any alternative suggestions? im really struggling with cutting back in the dieting part of it, but im super determined to lose the weight 😭😭😭
I am a Man and Have Lost 90 ish pounds and yea its Amazing what it does for your face its awesome. But it is rough getting rid of that old mentality of being fat and unattractive but I am getting there slowly lol. You look great well done my friend.
im on edtwt and there was once a thread from an oomf who's from korea. She said the exact thing that her mom says that weight loss is the best plastic surgery.
Girl edtwt and all that stuff is not good for your mental health pls get off of it and refrain from looking at it. U don’t need that negativity girly. Jesus believes and thinks you’re beautiful❤️. Turn and go to Him instead Queen.
I have some images/knowledge BURNED into my mind after somewhat dabbling in ED circles. PLEASE don't do it, it stays with you. At one point I was in a restrict and binge cycle for maybe 2 years, and gained weight. and honestly, if I just kept a regular healthy diet, I would have been at the weight I originally wanted anyways. But I was too into a quick fix I didn't realize this shit sticks with you for a long time.
it’s different for everyone tbh tho. for me it did improve my love life. i never got romantic attention up until i was 17 which was the first time i had ever been skinny my entire life, and it was crazy bc all of the guys from school who used to make fun of me all of a sudden started sliding in my dm’s, which is so validating but it made me sad at the same time bc ppl obviously saw more worth in me js bc i was no longer fat when i was deserving of that even before.
I only need to lose 10 pounds but these 10 pounds don’t suit me they truly make my face look so different and puffy ! I want to look skinny like a Kpop Girlie
You look so pretty before and after! Thank you for this video, I just started working out so I can not only look better but also to feel healthier and more confident, get stronger etc., can´t wait to feel more like myself when I lose weight!
I haven't had any fun lately, 😭 so it was fun. You bring me joy!❤🙂I love the kind and generous heartwarming atmosphere that you create, your kind, easygoing, warm vibe. ❤
the love life aspect of it needs to be studied bc im so curious. it seems like even when you glow up from an ugly duckling people still don’t approach you romantically. it makes me wonder what makes a guy approach a girl if not looks. like that was the whole reason i forced my glow up 😭 i wanted love 🥺 but ts didn’t work 🤣
Other than looks demeanour matters a lot like just the way you’re standing or speaking or presenting yourself in any given moment. Depends on if the guy likes timid or outgoing girls or is confident enough himself to approach a certain girl that he meets. But yeah lol looks matter THE MOST, and guys tend to approach people who they think is either at their level of attractiveness (what they perceive themselves to be is waaay higher than what they usually are) or they approach women completely of their league, never below. Those smug mfs☠️
It's how seductive you are. You need to learn how to flirt and how to be seductive with men and you will easily attract them. I did this in highschool and so many guys wanted me, even when I gained so much weight that I became overweight I was still surrounded by guys, every break they would all come to my table just to be near me even tho I never asked them to come over. Now I don't flirt with anybody unless I need something from them because I am tired of men and I don't want them to talk to me so nobody approaches me anymore. But if I feel like it I can still attract people because I learned how to do that.
I watch some of these videos and I wonder if I'm insane or if I just have a super skewed perspective. Having always been skinny but definitely ugly in the face all through teenage years, now improved somewhat (clear skin, better eyebrows) but I honestly have no idea how I look (I feel like I have nose body dysmorphia lol) when I see basically every person who loses weight talking about how much better they are treated, all the male attention they get, and the courtesy from strangers, I wonder if there's something particularly hideous about me that I've never experienced the kind of treatment they describe getting as skinny people...or maybe I'm just so used to it that I literally can't see it (I mean I know for a fact I've never been hit on in my life but the courtesy thing might be invisible to me?) This girl is very beautiful, so I can understand why she is treated as a beautiful girl, but is it really possible that every person who loses weight also had an above average face beforehand and not some just look like average skinny people?
i can probably tell you why youre ugly. youre not. youre being blinded by all the "tiktok pretty" girls and youre probably comparing yourself. you might not notice but youre definetely attractive. nobody nowadays is actually straight up UGLY. once you improve your self esteem and confidence, youll magically notice how truly beautiful you are
You have to be $kinny and pretty or $kinny and seductive to get people to treat you better (flirty if you want men to be better to you, and act innocent/cute/stupid to get women AND men to treat you better). I don't know how you look but I will speak from my experience and what I have noticed. I would say I am what society would consider pretty, somewhere in between average and stunning and I have been all different weights throughout my life (I am 26 now) and I was treated best when I was $kinny and seductive. But also throughout my life I have also had friends with all different weights and what I have noticed that those friends that were $kinny but u*ly or just not that pretty also didn't get attention from guys/people in general if they weren't seductive in any way and/or didn't know how to energetically attract people. I have learned how to do that and even when I was overweight I was able to make people like me and notice me (want to be with me/near me). Also when I was in school it was usually the u*ly $kinny girls that had most guys around them because they knew how to use their femininity to attract guys who were much better looking then them. Women have this energy that attracts because we are the receivers but a lot of women don't know how to use it to their advantage or they don't know how to use it at all. Honestly I had to stop using it (now I only use it when I need to) because so many people would notice me and look at me when I was outside to the point it started to make me feel uncomfortable. With great power comes great responsibility hahaha it's honestly true. It's all in you and how you attract people not so much about how you look but being $kinny is a good first step. Hope this helped you in any way.
i'm lookin' to lose weight myself but not by surgery, but by doin' more DDR stuff! i'm still tryin' to invest in more DDR games and pads just for my weightloss
It's nice to see someone honest, who enjoys the fruit collected from their effort, congratulations, I hope to return to this video saying that I will also achieve it one day hahahahaha.
>social media followers grow due to weight lose >more people dm you due to that growth “But like, no weight loss wasnt the reason people dmed me more it’s because like I gained more followers” you wouldnt have that growth without weight loss tho…
YOU ARE SO RIGHTT i was 373 lbs i got a lot of eyes form men but nothing like now. now i lost 30 lbs i fee like i get way to many men looking at me and i am starting to not have time to deal with the so many men looking at me and draining my eyes. do you have any advice on how to get the men you like and not all men only? its hard to filter and show the men who u realy like oponly . and ps i feel same way my last bf left me and i was like ok anyways at least im skinny now. and can get any man i want. pshh. so any advice on how to attract the men only you like
hiii late response and i know im not the person you directed your comment to but heres my advice. to get the guy you want, it might sound cliche but just be yourself. try to be more social, join clubs, go out more so you have opportunities to meet people. once you do find him, dont try too hard for him, but engage with him. make conversation, find similar interests, eye contact etc.. and it might not always work. sometimes you do have to face the truth and realize hes not the one, but give it a shot. you'll never know and you might end up as your happiest self. but before anything, focus on your priorities. your mental and physical health top any other problem. hopefully this helped
@@thelyachronicles ok but i dont understand why shouldn't i engage? if i like him shouldnt i be straightforward and show it? i planned on going right up to him and gelignite him i really really like you, and start off form there. and when you say use your eyes, do you mean keep eye contact at all times while i talk to him? i though of writing a poem for him so i have more to talk about when i approach him. should i do this?
@@gh-sb1dy i said you SHOULD engage btw😭 and starting off by saying you like him isnt a good idea, it might scare him off. But do your best to show interest! and yeah, when hes talking to you, listen actively and seem interested while maintaining eye contact. the poem idea sounds cute but maybe save it for his birthday or another special occasion, as bringing it up randomly might be a little TOO straightforward. but i dont know, it might work
@@gh-sb1dygirl no that is NOT how you approach men...he will run as fast as he can away from you. Men don't like women that come on to strong since you will end up looking desperate and that will scare him. He needs to chase you, you just need to be flirty enough that he sees you are interested in him but not so much that you freak him out. There needs to be a certain give and take.
Girl omfg we both have the same face shape and before it was soo round and chubby and after weight loss i realied how nice my features are they just pop out more i still have belly fat im not like extremley thin im still chubby but in a healthy way im trying to loose more weight but yes just like u said i also felt way more confident and it genuinely makes me happy to see that ive done something good to myself and wont regret later as i dont wanna suffer diabetes or smthing lol and u r sooo goddamn pretty
not everyone can lose weight...so if you manage to become skinny after you were overeight it means you were never overwght...let me explain, today's industrial foods have things in it that did not exist thousands of years ago...and these things would make the body have unexpected reactions to them including gaining weight.
honestly this is my first time seeing a video from you and i have been putting of weight loss and this really motivated me to start soon! thanks so much for making this video and jumpstarting my journey, please continue creating more content and videos in future. I hope you get more views and followers for this amazing content 𐙚⊹₊⋆☆
ahhh thank you so so much. ik im not a doctor but please make sure to nourish yourself and eat nutritious foods throughout this process (while not necessary, my biggest regret is not eating more nutritious foods when I lost weight. I've found it's easier to maintain when eating healthier too)!! thank you for watching :)
I needed this video because I am 71kg and always insecure about my wide nose. So I was planning to have a nose job but 80% of me was still not ready to do so as I like to have things naturally beautiful so now I will keep focusing on my weight loss.
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