In Nairobi, you will find so many married men buying shopping and paying rent for their Sidechicks , while their Wives insist on helping with the bills 50/50😅
Kwa hiyo point ya communication now and then..i don't think it's about age, honeymoon or nagging.i think it happens when you are best friends..my hubby and i have been together for 8 years,now in our 30s and we update each other on everything,everystep of the day vile tu mtu huongea na bestie wake.i love it that way..as long as he is not busy and i am not busy check our chats utadhani ndio tuko talking stage ya relationship.ama calls.we are best friends
This came to me at the right time..... Thanks guys😢😢😢😢😢 all this things you are saying am facing them n feel stagnant... I feel fear of quitting😂. But Yoo i am ready to start over
Attachment styles: Maureen - Avoidant Mylee - anxious(preoccupied). Craves for r/ship and love Dorea - Secure Carol - Fearful avoidant. Confident when all is figured out This is just an opinion perceived from this episode (a single episode) so it's a debatable opinion❤
Rent,food,sch fees niza mwanaume 😂unless u chip in ikiwa kwa corner,vitu ndogo ndogo ndio za ladies bt projects munaweza saidiana akibuy mawe u can buy cement e.t.c....
Me and Caro same WhatsApp group. If we share the bills we share the chores. Na because he can't do house chores tumeajiri mtu wa kufanya everything. Though that doesn't stop me from cooking for my family, taking care of them and doing some chores at times. But zile kazi za nyumba mingi we have a nanny. Again bills siati nalipa 50 nikaa 30 . It depends on how you guys agree.
@dorea mnatuconfuse.....mmmesema we let the guys do their roles alafu tena mna sema 50/50.....aaiii no, me an with carol, no 50/50. mtu afanye kazi yake. period!
I feel like relationships are just different depending on how you relate with each other and the intentions that you guys have for each other. At some point I just think that it's like a journey which needs commitment, affirmations, more of trust and love. The comfortness depends on the different perspectives. Hope it's making sense ❤
Watching nikiwa hammam hapa kwa waarabu wacha nitafute pesa zangu sio zetu juu nikiwa kenya kiliniramba kweli kweli kutegemea mwanaume kilakitu ni worst thing ican ever put myself in again penda hii circle yenu sana❤❤❤❤❤❤
I agree with moh kaa ni mbaya natoka Even if we made millions together naenda na siendi na kitu hata nguo nakuachia.my peace matters alot❤❤ l used to think you can do 50-50 or help but let me tell u maina siwezi😢 Too much calls mnaend up kukosana just allow yourselves to miss each other❤🎉
Mimi I had invested kwa boi wangu whom I kwew from high school.. 6yrs tulidate.. But when I felt his lying I prayed about it and dumped him, khai! Kumbe msee ako n dame and she's expecting 🤦then I had another one who could provide, but yeye his too self cernterd, we used to have sex when he wants 🙈alafu tu madharao.. Nikamwacha am single and am pray that God gives me a good person tutaelewana🤦
Personally l don't believe in 50/50 especially when it's like an agreement as for me it's sounds like we're roommates....but when it's like let's help each other where we can't do it alone then that one am in .....my opinion though
Am honestly loving this conversation...some women are just ignorant..how will you say that ur husband is a mature person and you dont care what he does eiiii if na marriage be this am not interested at all😌
What i can say my fellow ladies.if rship yako iko such that you are investing together.may it be family hse, apartment or anything,ukinunua simiti hata moja keep ur receipt.nails hata mabati keep ur receipts &etrs . One day they may save you and ur babies .wanaume sio watu utaamini they can change .Be informed.
Im a phonechecker but since i also started cheating, my phone is personal 😂😂😂 I'll change when I'll want a serious relationship at around 26 27 there 😂
i know of a person who calls the husband every minute for no apparent reason because she is a house wife and she is over 30 yrs its such toxic and boring
About calling every minute,that man is insecure and a woman eater.He just want you to feel like you are loved but he want to use you financially later. Kuna mwenye hadi hujaribu kukutumia location yake every hour, they are lazy and broke.....ruuun girl! He is softly toxic
