Longing for something never stops me from getting it. The more I want something, the faster I get it. Even when I worry about the outcome, I still get what I want.
Right I wish people would stop saying this shi. They assume they won’t get their manifestation if they obsess over it so they don’t, that’s not the case for all of us
I think we have a bit of misunderstanding here... "Obsession" is a really unhealthy state, mentaly and in general. I think you guys are just really focused on the result, - which is good. Being focused on the desired end doesn't make you obsessed, it makes you step into your power, because you really identify with what you want. Being obsessed means checking constantly, if it's working, if it's about SP - stalking their social media presence and being a "control freak". THAT'S obsession about the thing itself and self-sabotage - when you let your desire to completely control your life. Being focused and doing affirmation rampage, if it's not affecting your mental health is not.
@@idaniko1511manifesting body, I'm say affirmations like "thank you God for my ideal body" making accounts for it speaking life into the desire, saving and liking pictures of the desire looking at videos of the body, and embodying I have it and knowing I'm gonna get it within the time limit I want is ok right? That's not obsession is it?
@@dgreat132 Hi there! When doing affirmations, ask yourself honestly: "Does it feel like a chore, like a job I need to do?" If it is, then it's not good for you. The whole process is supposed to make you FEEL GOOD. You should do it, because you want to feel good and be in the state of feeling good about your desire. If you have thoughts: "Is it working? Is it here yet?", then chill for a moment, a day, a week. Let yourself feel great and relax, forget about the time and even the thing itself. When the process is making you tired and menatly exhausted, that's a sign you need to rest and leave it for a moment. It's really not going anywhere and it is yours.
As Bashar says, you cannot ever get anything that you WANT as want equals lack. Instead, you MUST BE what you desire. Creation is finished, your job is to make it visible to you - Be the frequency of what you want to materialize. ❤
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of him. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
The example of the baby adoption in this video was wonderful, but I would love to see a continuation of this concept that's heavy with examples of needy versus positive actions, feelings, and thoughts. A "do this as opposed to that" type of video. Thank you so much for what you do.
Chelsea, just wanted to say your film making and editing are on fire -- love the retro anime, music and your calming vibe. And you always give me something to think about, of course. Have you ever done a video on what to do when going through one of those bad-luck spells? Normally I just ride it out, but it seems like I haven't been able to catch a break for about five years now...
I became confident and manifested a dream job with perfect ease. After 2 great job interviews and negotiating a high wage, I became anxious and sabotaged a technical job interview that I should have aced. This job would have changed my life for the better and would have helped me make a positive difference to the world. This video was released the night before the technical interview, I remember seeing it as I was studying difficult topics that I would never need to late into the night exhausting myself for no reason because the actual technical interview was so much easier. Wish I had clicked the video. Wish I had gone to bed. I am struggling to let go of the regret that sabotages me further.
Hugs to you 🫂 Everything happens for a reason, so learn the lesson from this, and trust that everything always works out and there’s a great ending to it all ❤ Don’t let regret consume you, try to give this a positive meaning, so you can move on faster. See it this way “Now I’ve learned and I can do better. I can also help more people with my experience. Inevitably, I still make a positive influence in the world and work at the most amazing job which I love”
@@abolowode hug and thank you. It means a lot to me that you took the time to help me with my mindset. I'm going to write that down and try to affirm it. It is a particularly difficult one to let go, because it was a very unusual opportunity. BUt it has to be true, what you wrote, regardless. Much love
i love watching your videos! whenever my mind gets overwhelmed, i watch your videos and i get assured that everything will work out and i should just rest easy. thank you so much!
I've manifested the impossible plenty of times, I thought i knew the process and didn't need to re-read /re-learn it but here I am. thanks for providing value and being a reminder for this wonderful Law.
I really love you maleeka, i love you for sharing the theories behind manifestation, im enough of techniques. Those techniques work but im more focus on the prerequisite or the conditions to manifest something. I study theories from your channel and of course others channels too, those theories are based on experience and research and im grateful to access to all of this for free. The kindness of the providers to ppl, this is why i really love you maleeka. Namaste
did you read my mind or something cuz the timing is so right! omgggggg thank you you really help me a lot, it's like you are sent by my guardian angels and you are my guardian angels
Have you even done any meditation videos? Your voice is soothing and captivating (you already know this because you're an INJT. LOL). A 10-20-minute meditation audio/video for focus or self-love from you would be beautiful. Something to consider.
ilysm thanks for breaking it down!This is something i’ve been thinking about for a while now and hearing u say REPULSIVE over and over really drove the point home for me lolol helps me energetically detach easier tbh
This video is perfectly on time... the universe used u to remind me that I'm guided, I'm on the right path, and all my dreams will come to pass... Thank you Chelsea, I admire ur spirit so much ❤🙏
Hi Maleeka, I hope you re doing well 🎉 I just wanna share a story, how did I manifested Coldplay concert ticket and after party without purchasing ♥️♥️♥️ I ve been listening to Maleeka a while and applied her teaching to my life and it works! I ve been listening to Coldplay frequently from last year and I ALWAYS SEE MYSELF IN THEIR CONCERT! It was all my delulu until this year they came to my country!!!! After 27 years they said!!! So i couldnt get any tickets due to sold out but I always know that I am going, i am basically Gods favourite, noway i cant go and i dont care how does it happen but the universe will make it work for me! My friend happened to be one of the volunteers for the events and I signed up to the program ( the volunteers ll get to see the concert after their shift ) unfortunately the spot was full so i couldnt get in BUT I STILL DID NOT CARE AND Delulu myself that i got the spot. Few days later my friend texted me and said he couldnt invt me to after party where Coldplay will meet the locals, And ofc i said yesssss!!! AND I STILL HOLD THE DELULU THAT I LL ATTEND TO THE CONCERT TOO! You know what, he texted me again and said there is one spot left for the volunteer !!!!! And i got that spot! To watch the concert and also got invited to AFTER PARTY! I saw Coldplay, and sat next to them in the party!!! Because out of no where I chose to sit next to a table which was for COLDPLAY!!!!! !!!! And now i am ready for the concert this week!!!!! This is real guys! Stay strong to your delulu!
I much prefer these approaches of “detach, stop obsessing and you’ll get it.” So many other coaches on RU-vid are into robotic affirming right now which sounds great but it kind of stressing me out more and sort of defeats the purpose of Goddard saying “man does not continue desiring that which he has already acquired.” Meaning…if you already have it…why the constant affirming like a robot? This is why Maleeka is still my favorite on RU-vid.
Just found this channel and I gotta say thank you for sharing this💗 alot of us want everything now and expect it all now never taking the time to watch how we feeel about the things we want. Cause if you feel lack...thats what youll get, lack, no matter how much you obsess over it or want it now. So thank you💖
When you no longer need it, you can have it. So.. What do you need? A house? Enough money for retirement? I do tend to focus on one specific thing and obsess about it. I give if my all, and it usually doesn’t work out. UNTIL I set a goal to have multiple options effortlessly and with ease. Instantly with a thought alone. I allow myself to have multiple amazing options effortlessly at all times. All options. Anything is possible. Imagine that. Cool video.
You are so good at saying so many things without really saying anything or making sense at all. You have mastered the art of yapping and wasting other people's time.
@@barbiana77 I've been in the loa community for 9 years. I have manifested "impossible" things constantly. So I'm well versed in this area. She is simply wasting everyone's time for RU-vid coins.
@@maleekaismyguardianangel every single time! Granted I am in the middle of rewatching several videos to write down book suggestions and things I’d never heard of, I still check almost daily now for new fire drops 😂 Thanks for the ongoing fun helpful stuff to do! I really look forward to your posts! ❤️🤌🦋🎁🫶
Thanks so much for being so comforting, in words and in voice❤. How do you detach while living in the end (assumption)? I would appreciate a reply at your earliest convenience.
Nice video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her...
it's difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
Everything I’ve obsessed over manifested faster. When I didn’t obsess over my SP I got the slowest movement, I spent one day affirming all day and he went from saying he didn’t want a relationship with me to “I’d like to try this again, can I have another chance”. So I don’t agree about the obsessing thing, it’s the law of assumption and we make the rules. So why would that stop results unless you assume it would?
That's true, but if you made the rule that "everything I feel desperate for, all I feel is lack about it WILL COME TO ME" would that assumption work even though you feel lack in your desire?
She's really talking about the feeling state of being. I thought that was pretty clear when she said something about 'desperation is too negative a state of being to live in for you to attract positive results'. When you obsess over something or someone you end up feeling limited. It's like literally clinging to that one person cause they're all you think you can have. But if you feel lack about your desire, you'll never manifest an abundance it. That's the law. Whatever you assume you have now, you'll have now. And I'd you're constantly obsessing over something because deep down you know you don't have it...then 'not having it' is your assumption. It's about how you feel while being obsessed. Normally ppl obsess over things they don't have. Sry for the long reply, just wanted to help out lol🩷
@@mirama-f5xcould you help me out to see if I’m negatively obsessing or just affirming? Whenever i get time, or make time for it, i listen to subliminals, visualize about my desired life and sp, while going to sleep and after waking up, i think about my desired life, how i’ll live in future etc. i’m also trying the placebo effect, like believing water and sweat clears out my skin etc. am i obsessing by visualising about my desired life and sp the whole day whenever i get time or is it right?
@@cupcake4798ive been doing what you are doing rn but honestly I did all of those things out of fear and lack. I still affirm 5 mins in the morning and before going to bed, besides that I’m just allowing myself to flow! I’m not really affirming directly for my manifestations anymore either but more for my beliefs. Now less is more in my opinion. Trust that you will always get what you want.
I don’t think I understand manifestation if I think about a negative thing too much it comes to reality But if I think about something positive too much it repels how does that work?
It's not about thinking but feeling. If you think about something you don't want, you feel fear as if that already happend so it manifests. If you think about something you want, you feel the longing for it as if you did'n have it, so it does not manifest. If you would feel as if you already have what you want you would not think about it any more only be present with your current life feeling at peace.
Stop trying. It’s yours already. You just have to sit back and relax and let it unfold for you. I know easier said than done. Check if you might have resistance to your desire and focus on dissolving that resistance. Go to the root, why are you in trying/chasing mode? Would you be hyper focused on it when you had it already? Most likely no because it is normal to you. This is coming from someone who probably has been trough every stage of trying and chasing my desires lmao.
I was wondering how expanding influence translates to dating live aka attracting a compatible partner. Is it going on dating apps and keeping you options open to not desperately cling to one date? ...this actually somehow never worked ...
SEXUAL ENERGY--- Because, nature requires a fixed quantum of energy for any major change, For example, water has a tendency to flow downward. If it gets heated, it does not boil unless and until heat energy increases water’s temperature to 100 degree centigrade. And once that happens, water starts boiling and getting converted into vapor. Now, see the contrast between water and vapor: water flows downward, whereas vapor flows upward; water is liquid and visible to eyes, whereas vapor is gaseous and becomes invisible after merging into atmosphere. Exactly the same happen with pranic energy - when it manifests at the level of lust, the tendency of this energy is to move outward and downward, degrading our consciousness level to animal level - this state is comparable to the water state. But, when after gathering pranic energy for (at least) 12 years without any break in celibacy is achieved, the pranic energy manifests at higher levels of creativity and spiritual bliss, moving more inward and upward - compare this state to the vapor state. And compare the 12 years’ practice of unbroken celibacy to gathering enough heat to make water temperature 100 degree centigrade in order to convert it into the vapor state.