More appropriate to say Inter-state marriage ...I'm also enjoying two languages and two ethnicities as my mother is from Andhra Pradesh, while my father belongs to Odisha...and I'm really very proud to be the part of both states and can speak both languages fluently(Telugu and Odia,both the languages are classified as classical languages of India)...
Namaste (naku telusu nuvu naku teleedu kaani Telugu vallu matledevallu chududhaniki elano manchiga undi 😊. Translation for English speakers- hello, I know that I do not know you but it is nice to have someone who knows Telugu around here!
My Mom is maharashtrian and my dad is a tamilian. I have learnt both the languages since childhood, most of my friends are amazed that I can spoke both languages, it's fun to see them ask me silly questions 😂
I am Bengali and my husband is Marathi We are blessed with a baby girl ❤She can speak both the languages with fluency and she follows both the cultures 😊
I'm south indian and my husband is north indian, same situation for me too, but me and my husband decided to teach her Telugu, hindi as well as English and including culture...now my baby 2yrs old she understands 3 languages and she even speaks too
i think we are the last generation jinko intercaste marrige k liye itna sab kuch face krna padta h i wish our future generation normalise imtercaste marrige without thinking of society and relatives
Ok...not interreligin....but cut the girl or boys...or converted her child n husband.... Slowly like Iran n Europe 🌍 like.... converted.... country...love more than important dharm n country....did u understand??
OUR FAMILY WAS QUITE ADVANCED AND IN 1960S MY UNCLES AUNTS GOT MARRIED TO GERMANS ( INTER RELIGION INTER NATIONALITY 😂😂) BUT NOW A DAYS INDIANS ARE GOING BACK TO MARRYING TO SEMI ARRANGED MARRIAGES (because of the rampant divorce problems )
I as a proud hindu support and encourage intercaste marriage. Only intercaste marriage can save Hinduism by eradicating discrimination against lower caste . Hari Om
High political incorrectness alert!! Its the other way! Caste is one's identity strong Hindu identity and centuries kong Vedantic pravtices are what are keeping Hinduism strong. Such self centric, rabidly individualistic marriages forced on parents are diluting it! Next generation would go further to promote " diversity" and marry one of another religion / culture / country.
@@SJ-zo3lz write properly bro, and what evedence do you have that rigid caste system based on birth was followed in vedic times(or Vedantic pravtices as per your words) ,which veda says that ?
@@allrounder12210 hindu girls ...mostly brahmin girls......muslim se shadiya kar rahi hai...cricketers, politicians, engineer, doctors, aur bhi officers ke saath .....brahaman leaders ki betiyo ne musalmano se shadi ki hai.....kitni sharam ki baat hai....kya message diya hai india ko....aur tum log yaha per hindu hindu bhaunk rahe ho .... akkkkkk thooo 😡....aise religion per... Koi hindu kare to castanism hota hai ...haina...even honour killing tak ho jaati hai...cast ke base per .....haina....aur muslims se kitni easily shaadiya ho jaati hai....isse jyada bakwaas kya ho sakta hai ...aur hindu unity ki baate hoti hai....kitni sharam ki baat hai ye....muslims se shaadiya karke poore India ko message diya !!! Promote Kiya Jaa Raha hai......Akkkkkkkkkkkk thoooooooooo Ye show karta hai...tumhara hinduism kitna strong hai andar se..... akkkkkk thooo 😡.. aise religion per.....ye to time aane per pata chalega !!! 🇵🇰🇵🇰JAI BHIM JAI MIM🇵🇰🇵🇰
Wow Marathi Tamil .., Maharashtra tamilnadu both are ancient Indian states languages, culture, traditions, festivals....supppeerrr hit couple... great wishes u both for future 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
The concept of hereditary Caste division itself is not Indian, it's a superimposition of the Spanish/Portuguese caste system and the English Class system in India, intending to divide the natives and use them against each other while the English hold power and work as a mediator. Caste was a pyramid scheme that Europeans sold to Indians via their English imposition in Indian society to divide Indians into groups/ghettos and make them fight with each other. So don’t mix up Varna with Gotram, Varna is Profession, and Gotram is Lineage. Hindus are free to marry in different Varnas, only avoid marrying in the same Gotram because it is considered the same bloodline, hence we don’t marry between brothers and sisters.
Lol doing all mistakes amd blaming on british or Portuguese has become the new normal. Even a brahmin wont marry a non brahmin. I dont think brahmin was created by Portuguese. Stop this nonsense
@@user-kn6qx9wj9b In Hindu Dharma, especially birth based caste is a recent times colonial imposition, however Varna (Occupation) was the original one, in Varna there was no upper or lower, people chose the work of which they are qualified for, and according to Bhagavad Gita, anyone can be a Brahmin (Teacher, Scholar profession), Shatriya (Warrior, Army profession), Vaishya (Trader, Business profession), Shudra (Other social workers) based on as per their skills, knowledge, and capabilities: 🔹In Bhagavad Gita 4:13, Krishna says that he created different Varnas [Profession] on the basis of one's Karma [Activities] and Guna [Characteristics]. 🔹Bhagavad Gita 5:18 “The truly learned, with the eyes of divine knowledge, see with equal vision a Brahmin, a cow, an elephant, a dog, and a dog-eater” 🔹Bhagavad Gita 9:29 “I am equally disposed to all living entities: there is neither friend nor foe to Me: but those who with living sentiments render divotional service unto Me, such persons are in Me and I am in them.” 🔹Bhagavad Gita 18:41 “The duties of the Brahmins, Kshatriyas, Vaishyas, and Shudras are distributed in accordance with their Guṇas [Characteristics]. (Nothing comes with the birth except some divine Characteristics). Caste is an English term derived from the Spanish term “Casta” which stands for 'Breed' or 'lineage'. During earlier times, “Caste” use to be Varna (Profession) and based on Guna (Characteristics) and not merely just by birth. Instances from the ancient times proves that a so-called modern day “lower caste” can educate oneself with knowledge and change their Varna (Profession) to “upper caste”, e.g., Guru Valmiki, Kabir Das were from a Shudra family but became a Brahmin based on Guna (Characteristics or Essence), Ravana and his younger brother Kumbhakarna were Brahmins (educated person) from Northern India but because of their notorious Karmas (activities) all were punished by Shri Rama (believed to be an OBC if we abide by today's caste categorization). Lastly, you have to understand the British motive behind imposing the caste system:- The Caucasians (Europeans) created Hutus and Tutsis in Rwanda, Africa, to divide and control the native population, and for this reason, the Rwanda Genocide occurred. The same attempts and inequalities Europeans also tried to create amongst Indians by separating Northern India and Southern India into “Aryans” VS “Dravidians” and further dividing Hinduism into 3,000 castes and 25,000 sub-castes. Read about Herbert Hope Risley who created casteism, racism in Indian society by one's facial features and skin color, and Bishop Robert Caldwell who coined the term “Dravidian” and propagated the “Aryan Invasion” in Southern India to convert Southern Indians into Christianity. And read these books (1) Castes of Minds by Nicholas Dirks, (2) Western Foundations of the Caste System
@@user-kn6qx9wj9b In Hindu Dharma, especially birth based caste is a recent times colonial imposition, however Varna (Occupation) was the original one, in Varna there was no upper or lower, people chose the work of which they are qualified for, and according to Bhagavad Gita, anyone can be a Brahmin (Teacher, Scholar profession), Shatriya (Warrior, Army profession), Vaishya (Trader, Business profession), Shudra (Other social workers) based on as per their skills, knowledge, and capabilities: 🔹In Bhagavad Gita 4:13, Krishna says that he created different Varnas [Profession] on the basis of one's Karma [Activities] and Guna [Characteristics]. 🔹Bhagavad Gita 5:18 “The truly learned, with the eyes of divine knowledge, see with equal vision a Brahmin, a cow, an elephant, a dog, and a dog-eater” 🔹Bhagavad Gita 9:29 “I am equally disposed to all living entities: there is neither friend nor foe to Me: but those who with living sentiments render divotional service unto Me, such persons are in Me and I am in them.” 🔹Bhagavad Gita 18:41 “The duties of the Brahmins, Kshatriyas, Vaishyas, and Shudras are distributed in accordance with their Guṇas [Characteristics]. (Nothing comes with the birth except some divine Characteristics). Caste is an English term derived from the Spanish term “Casta” which stands for 'Breed' or 'lineage'. During earlier times, “Caste” use to be Varna (Profession) and based on Guna (Characteristics) and not merely just by birth. Instances from the ancient times proves that a so-called modern day “lower caste” can educate oneself with knowledge and change their Varna (Profession) to “upper caste”, e.g., Guru Valmiki, Kabir Das were from a Shudra family but became a Brahmin based on Guna (Characteristics or Essence), Ravana and his younger brother Kumbhakarna were Brahmins (educated person) from Northern India but because of their notorious Karmas (activities) all were punished by Shri Rama (believed to be an OBC if we abide by today's caste categorization). Lastly, you have to understand the British motive behind imposing the caste system:- The Caucasians (Europeans) created Hutus and Tutsis in Rwanda, Africa, to divide and control the native population, and for this reason, the Rwanda Genocide occurred. The same attempts and inequalities Europeans also tried to create amongst Indians by separating Northern India and Southern India into “Aryans” VS “Dravidians” and further dividing Hinduism into 3,000 castes and 25,000 sub-castes. Read about Herbert Hope Risley who created casteism, racism in Indian society by one's facial features and skin color, and Bishop Robert Caldwell who coined the term “Dravidian” and propagated the “Aryan Invasion” in Southern India to convert Southern Indians into Christianity. And read these books (1) Castes of Minds by Nicholas Dirks, (2) Western Foundations of the Caste System
@@user-kn6qx9wj9bexactly this guy is trying his level best to create something new out of his own words whereas it's clearly mentioned in the scriptures about the prohibition of intercaste marriages
@@pavanbarhate6765 yaar it's our love towards our mother eg agar me Hinduism follow kar rahi hun toh Sikhism bhi karna chahiye unke genes bhi equally humare andar he jitne papa ke khandan ke or additionally she keep us for 9 months also usme bhi poori tarah jo maa khati peeti he woh exchange hota he
When I was a kid my best friend told me that multi-cultural kids are v intelligent because they are exposed to diversity so early on in life! We noticed that difference in our multi-cultural classmates so it is really a good thing to be born in a family where there is so much to learn!
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When you started talking in both languages at home Kid adapts it. They don't get confused. My cousin 's are half South Indian And half Bangladesh . They can speak both the language Tamil and Bengali , plus Hindi and English . I'm fully Bengali but I can speak Hindi , Bengali and English
I'm north indian hindu and my husband is a south Indian Christian. We chose to not go with any of the religions and cultures. We are raising our kid without the influence of any religion, culture, etc and we are okay with whichever religion my kid chooses once he grows up. For now it's no religion 😊
I totally relate to this. Except no relative of mine has asked me to teach my kid our language or culture (I don't have parents so mentioned only relatives here) I am a south indian (kannadiga) and my husband is Caucasian from US. We have a newborn and I am talking to her in kannada and my husband and inlaws speak to her in English. We'll be taking her to temples may be not so much churches since my husband and his family are not religious. ❤ lots of love to your newborn and you two ❤
Your video made me smile even all the comments. I am from Jharkhand from a tribal community and my husband is Punjabi Sikh with two kids boy and girl.Our is a completely different culture and language but our families defence background unites us and most important love❤ matters😊
Being of Gujarati Rajput and North Indian Agarwal baniya descent, it’s high time we should move on from caste and learn to accept others of different communities
It's the opposite in my case 😂 I'm Tamil and my husband is Marathi 😅 My husband can speak tamil since he is born and brought up here in Tamilnadu. In my case both my child and I going to learn Marathi as well besides Tamil being our common language to communicate with each other 😂
@@lopamudramahanta7641kyu hindu family k emotion ni hote hai.... country m matrbhumi hmare hindu ka bacha Urdu kyu sikhe... Ye Urdu hi ni...namaz bhi padhyegi... bewkuf bana diya...ak hindu family ko...
@@shikhadwivedilucknow6131 you can't see the cheapness in the person whom I replied means you are biased (bcoz u r from UP) which is also a cheapness.. continue with your cheapness..
Same with us. I am from Mangalore n my husband is from Andhra Pradesh. N our daughter speaks both Tulu n Telugu n both sides food she likes to eat.. it was a never a problem as elders of the family n relatives makes it look😊
Inter caste marriages are a big problem when customs of both sides are vastly different. For example veg - non veg, orthodox families with great discipline- modern families with less restrictions, only polite words usage in the family- harsh vulgar words usage in the family, value based family - family that goes along with the rest of the society etc etc...
It's upto us how we saw this thing... If we saw it as problem then only problem will occur If we saw this as opportunity new ways new experiences we can catch
@@KhotSaee You have no experience with this. When families on both sides stand on the exact opposite of the spectrum, it becomes hard to have contact with both sides though there is love for both families. Following the customs of the father's side is equal to denying those of mother's side and because of that for one side of the family we can do nothing but greet on social media.
@@akhileshmachiraju1521धीरे-धीरे सब हो जाता है बस politely बात करना चाहिए और कोई चीज़ पसंद नहीं आ रही हैं तो एक बार बात जरूर करनी चाहिए. मेरे आसपास भी कुछ ऐसे लोग हैं जो double meaning बात करते हैं और मुझे ये सब पसंद नहीं इसीलिए वो लोग मुझसे तमीज से बात करते हैं. 😅
@@pallavigupta2934 Your point is good, however, there are families who never use bad words within the family and there are families who them. You cannot expect a person to control his short temper just because they are now a family.
I am Marwari and my husband is Telugu. We don't have children yet however we have adopted a puppy and he understands both Marwari and Telugu ( note he also knows hindi and English as he is trained using English
The Child's so lucky to know two prominent languages from very different language families. Knowing Marathi will make it easy for them to learn other Indo Aryan languages and Tamil will help in understanding other Dravidian ones. I am pentalingual but unfortunately I know only Indo Aryan languages so Dravidian languages are so difficult. Knowing more than one language especially significantly different ,unrelated languages during childhood increases intelligence but also it may give them an identity crisis. That's one perk of being born in intercommunal households I guess ^_^
I am sc and not anti hindu but my faith in god have slowly decreased with time but mein kisi ko galt nahi bolta even though some people hate sc or st even if they are financially strong, good looking or caring my family is against my relationship with my gf who is from different caste she is a obc and due ti which they always oppose me and don't listen me . Even though i am not wrong i still don't know what i have done wrong people still hate sc st just becase they are of lower caste but one day i will show people that caste is nothing is it really easy to find the same person you love who is from different caste in your caste i guess ye sab nahi possible he . Mein dil se ye bolna chahta hu hindu hoke ek hi parjaati ka hone se fir bhi hume itna bura kyu treat kiya jaata he . 😢😢 so sorry every one if you think i have hurted your sentiments or your beliefs
Nephew is a bong and Gujarati.. his dada wanted him to speak Gujarati fluently.. we always encouraged him for that in the end he now speaks Bengali Hindi Gujarati and Hindi English fluently... Isn't it beautiful.. would like to include Sanskrit too in future
My family is so diversed😊 We are maharashtrians and my cousins love married punjabi, rajput, kannada, and tamilian and a gujarati. I, unfortunately broke up with a jain gf after 6 years of relationship as it didn't work for their family as they wanted from their own community. Hence she is now married to someone😔
No need to burden the child. Let it breathe sometimes independently sometimes culturally The times have always been changing. None of us are exactly the same as our parents wished to be or tried to make us. This is something that everyone at every level has to accept
Wowww sooo motivating... Being a Tamilian from Delhi married to Kannadika who speaks Telugu . I feel my baby will learn multiple languages amd culture tooo 😊😊😊
I am a Bengali boy , but I like south Indian culture, amd mostly telugu girl , I want to marry in future and settle here, south Indian girls are more traditional 😊
Mashaallah, sooo beautiful & cutee ❤couple .Allah hamesha apko aur apke family members ko kush ,sath healty,buri nazar buri balao se dor rakhe .Aameen😊❤❤
Yes mother tongue aana bohot zaroori hai. Mein Maharashtrian hoon meri pati tamilian hai. Aur hum dono English aur Hindi b boltey hai. Toh ye 4language toh bachha seekh hi jaaega aur upar se unko kitna kya seekhna hai woh unke upar hai😊🙏
As long as it’s within the same religion I think it’s not an issue. We follow and pray same Gods but in a slightly different way, that shouldn’t be a problem. In fact to unite all the Hindus in Bharat, interstate marriages seems to be the best option 😄 Jai Hind, Jai Bharat 🚩🙏🏼
Everybody is talking about intercaste marriage but here mera relation aisa hai ki I'm hindu and he is Christian idk humari family agree karegi ya nai but we will try our best we love each other so much please pray for usss🥺🤌🏻
@@shikhagrawal19अपने लिए stand जरूर लो। अगर हर एक के mummy papa support करेंगे तो समाज में कोई विरोध करने के लिए बचेगा ही नहीं। जितना बन पड़े कोशिश करो, झगड़ा मत करो, समझाओ। All the best ❤
@@shikhagrawal19 लोग caste अभी भी मानते हैं, आज से कुछ दशक पहले की बात थी जब ल़डकियों को पढ़ाने पर समाज से निकाल दिया जाता था। बदलाव होता है धीरे-धीरे, तुम थोड़ा इन्तेज़ार करना।
It's a really good attitude to include both cultures. It would be tough to ensure you do that, so ask grandparents to be firm with their languages so your daughter can switch code. Also, the sound in the background is Urdu and it's an amazing language to learn and speak as well.
My relative ( cousin) married a woman from another caste ( khamiayar) utensil makers. We are Rajputs. Things is we have accepted her as family. I have a nephew. But her family has disowned her.
My parents also had intercast marriage way back to 21 years ago. My father is from rajasthan nd mumma is from Uttar pradesh. Blessed to be raised by different cultures
When there is love , respect, responsible, understand then religion, caste, color is very small thing. Its pure soul.❤ soul doesn't need any caste religion.
By watching your videos it reminds me my past days..if everything went well I would have married a Muslim girl and live a happy life as you both..❤ anyways god bless your love
Same with us...im maharashtrian n he is tamil.. Living in ahmedabad.. So my 5 year old can speak marathi, tamil, hindi, n gujrati in learning process. We also celebrate festival from all these states..
There is a reason calling mother tongue… no matter what baby catches mother’s language and ways… nothing wrong but it’s natural… making an effort to expose the child with both cultures is great.
I am Brahmin (cause brahmins didn't support intercaste marrige) but i strongly support intercaste marrige 🔥🔥🙏 cause if intercaste marriage would happen all over India then after 4 generation everyone would forget who is from whicu caste and it would ne a very strong hierarchy all have same blood and no caste fight But i m against different religion marrige
@@atheist_1949-hitchens kyun ? Kya taklif he nastik se shadi krne me 🤷 Bas agar husband/wife koi b bhagvan ki pooja kare to nastik ko takleef nai honi chahiye !!
@@kattarhindu144 puja karne ki ya bhagwan mai man ne ki baat nhi hai bro, me puchna chata tha ki kya nastik ki marriage ko inter religious karar diya jata hai kya?
My brother is an Indian who speaks in Tamil with his kid. My brother's wife is a Russian and she speaks in Russian with the kid. And the child speaks in german mixed with Tamil and Russian to everybody as they live in Germany.
My sister married to a Tibetan Buddhist and their 6 year old child knows 4 languages that too fluently ...Hindi because he stays in Delhi ... Telugu because they have a home there also ... Assamese because of mom , Tibetan because of the father and English because most of the time his mother speaks to him and in school... exposing to different cultures makes a person smart ...and independent... and that person can adjust anywhere
I'm in intercast relationship..my boyfriend is rajasthani and I'm bengali..and we love each other very much and want to become husband wife ..and lead the life peacefully 😌
Wow !! The video and all the comments are so help for someone who is in initial phase of planning to get interstate married. Would love to see video that help to easily understand the journey and everything comes its way to someone who is beginner n can confidently make a choice to go for interstate marriage
My Family Origin is of uttarakhand and I am from birth leaving in Maharashtra and know marathi culture and conversation with others properly, even if I speak to any person who belongs to maratha community he will think me as Marathi, many people think of me because of my lifestyle And Now I am in love with my bf who belongs to Satara and he is also maratha and I am Rajput Even I am comfortable in marrying maratha community rather than in my because I am comfortable with that
Becos u are not real rajput. I have seen these cases in which pahadi rajput call themselves rajputs but they don't know the a b c of rajputs. Rajput hoti to bf gf ke chakkar hi nhi rkhti
@@SHATRUJEET-sj7sxbhai gf bf ka chakkar nahi rakhna chahiye par marathi se kya shadi nahi honi chahiye? Kya wo hindu nahi hai? Aisa chala toh hindu bachega nahi aur culture bhi apne me simtega.
@@SHATRUJEET-sj7sx Because my birth origin is from Maharashtra and first of all , I am not teenager, I am adult, what A Rajput, Maratha, and Thakur mention in their caste only kshatriya
I'am from Pakistan . I am Memon and my husband is Punjabi. We have a wedding of our choice. I don't know Punjabi at all. And my husband does not speak Memon language. Now when my son was born, the in-laws said that he should learn Punjabi. My husband and I said no, we will teach him Urdu. It is the mother tongue of Pakistan.❤❤
The best would always be to teach both the languages. Just keep speaking in both the language and your baby will learn. Take advantage of both different culture by learning both the culture,tradition,cuisine and language😊🙏
Hey... I don't have children yet... But I am Marathi and my husband is Tamil... Bt i am also agree with this... We as a parents will be happy to see baby will learn different languages and cultures. ❤
What should I say? Within the nation there is some common cultural traits even if different regions or languages. I am Maharashtrian speak both Marathi and Hindi (obviously has to do being a Mumbaite lived among Sindhi's and Punjabi's) and my wife is Iranian who speaks Persian and our 3 and half year old son born in Chicago hasn't taken either of the culture/linguistic skills. Actually we both speak English at home, so it's so difficult for the child to pick up our native languages. We are just hoping that as he is consolidating on English, he might be able to pick up our native languages as we've recently started teaching him a bit of both. A multilingual individual has more advantages I definitely agree with this point.
@@vinay_isha one more thing, the tag of inter regional or state marriage might be more appropriate for this kind of association instead of inter caste. I always promote any kind of "inter" marriages which ultimately gives more variability/diversity to the genetic pool and thus a evolutionary stepping stones.
I am marathi and my husband is telugu But we speak in marathi with our daughter. Will teach her telugu when she starts speaking in marathi 😊. Kids get confused when we speak multiple languages.
True... I know a friend who is a Telugu and wife is from Karnataka. They speak konkani. Husband and wife speak kannada. So child is exposed to Telugu, konkani and kannada.. English and Hindi they will anyway learn!!
I don't know what to say after reading this comments i am feeling happy due to by seeing this many languages and intercaste marriages.so grateful to you all👏👏👏
The child will learn both the culture very easily The are empty brains and if you feed them with right values they will do great in life ... Your child is definitely lucky 🥰
Ooh bihari 😅 मैं Chhattisgarh की हूँ फिर भी bihari culture नहीं जमता मुझे, जबकि मेरी एक 12 साल पुरानी Friend bihari ही है 😁 मैं उसके घर किसी function में जाती हूँ तो भोजपुरी गाना सुनना पड़ता है जो मेरी सीधी सादी chhavi के साथ कतई match नहीं होती 😅
You don't need to teach a newborn. They just learn by observation and listening. So pretty sure if we talk in Tamil,Marathi they will easily learn. English and Hindi is something as we are in Mumbai it is spoken widely so that should not be an issue😊🙏
@@vinay_isha My friend's mother is telegu and father is Marathi. But she can speak telegu Marathi Hindi English fluently .. Rather your baby will be more intelligent as learned many languages in early age
Infact ur daughter is blessed. She will be speaking two different languages part from Hindi and English. Will be learning about two rich cultures of our country. 😊
