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Things people say to female drummers 

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When you hear the same things over and over, you might as well laugh about it! All of these have been said to me at least once--sometimes dozens of times. By both men and women.
That's not to knock anyone who has said these in the past. You're not bad people and you probably had no idea what you were saying. Besides, some of the items on this list aren't actually cringeworthy until you've heard them from 10 different sources. Thanks for being good sports. :)
There's a lot in here that isn't just for female drummers, but female musicians in general.
If you liked this video, let me know...maybe there'll be a part two!
Music: False Awakenings by Anttu Janhunen ( / anttu-janhunen )
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Комментарии : 79   
@barenakeddrummer
@barenakeddrummer 6 лет назад
"You're pretty good, for a girl" is the worst.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
What does it even mean? I heard it a lot more when I was younger, but it still happens, and it still makes me cringe.
@anabelfolch9626
@anabelfolch9626 6 лет назад
"How do you play with THOSE arms?" (for the record, I do have two regular human arms, and they're functional!)
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
"Like this!" (proceeds to then shred/groove)
@tarynt6278
@tarynt6278 5 лет назад
One time someone had the guts to tell me I play drums like a girl- and I said if you worked as hard as me you would too. He was shocked and it was great.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 5 лет назад
PERFECT response!
@carldebaun6346
@carldebaun6346 6 лет назад
I know a drummer who plays lefty. Multiple times other people have physically come up to her and start moving her gear around "no, it goes the other way sweetie". Wowzers
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Ooooohh...this is 100% cringe material. I've seen guitarists deal with something similar. Ouch.
@JustStripperThings
@JustStripperThings 6 лет назад
groooosssssssssssssssss not surprised. just. ugh.
@angelvanzant
@angelvanzant 3 года назад
As a drummer I can relate
@KCandy560
@KCandy560 3 года назад
I’ve wanted to get into drums for years. Maybe I’ll finally do it and hopefully be a kickass drummer someday.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 3 года назад
Please do it! You will be a kickass drummer!
@CameronFleury
@CameronFleury 6 лет назад
Sick! Great stuff. Can't wait to see what else you come up with \M/
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Thanks a lot!
@BeeJProsper
@BeeJProsper 6 лет назад
Welcome to RU-vid.. I look forward to seeing more videos.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Thanks BJ!
@nilesabel7279
@nilesabel7279 3 года назад
I like girl drummers that act like they’re not obviously on camera.
@The_Other_Ghost
@The_Other_Ghost 6 лет назад
11 years in the death metal and hardcore scene, as much as I know that female drummers exist (know a couple), though I sadly still assume guitar and vocals over drums. Though I'm happy to say my brain isn't stupid enough to assume just girlfriend or merch. With time, misconceptions can be eliminated.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
I admit I've done it too, as hypocritical as it may be. I try to ask the person what she does in the band and let her tell me (to avoid situations like these), even though drums may be my last guess. Definitely hope female drummers will get more visibility in the coming years--especially in the metal and punk scenes--and that things will start to change.
@The_Other_Ghost
@The_Other_Ghost 6 лет назад
Though you seem to play Tama (through twitter pictures), with your stick endorsement and Sabian... You might check out Pearl it (indirectly) leads to Evans.
@MetalDuck212
@MetalDuck212 6 лет назад
hi Samantha a day outside of Suna wearing that 'ol drum kit t-shirt ya know the same one you had n asked "are you a drummer" lol
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Oh yeah, I remember that!
@TradBowBruce
@TradBowBruce 2 года назад
Great vid and a sore spot for me as a guy. I can't stand it when I see guys do that to female musicians or "downgrade" anybody because of physical attributes. I'm short...it never stopped me! 😆 At least there is one constant in music, regardless of who's on stage, some drunk guy in the back will always yell out "Play some Skynard!". Keep on rockin!
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 2 года назад
Couldn’t have said it better! Glad naysayers didn’t discourage you either. Rock on!
@TraderRobin
@TraderRobin 3 года назад
What do you call a GUY who hangs around a bunch of musicians? The drummer!
@PR_Awesome
@PR_Awesome 3 года назад
You’re Awesome
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 3 года назад
Thanks!
@AmbientMusicStudio
@AmbientMusicStudio 6 лет назад
Pretty good video for a girl (ducks and runs from room) :D
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
:o
@sheldonwright8311
@sheldonwright8311 5 лет назад
Can you put some covers
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 5 лет назад
Working on about 5 of them right now! Stay tuned
@jimbrown8026
@jimbrown8026 6 лет назад
Pandaaaaaaaaa! Great video buddy. Can't wait to watch more.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Thanks! It was fun. More to come soon.
@davidpardy
@davidpardy 2 года назад
Can proudly say I've never said a single thing in this video. And I apologise on behalf of all the idiots who think gender has anything to do with what instruments you can play or how good you can be :)
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 2 года назад
Glad to hear it, David! Luckily most people are awesome and supportive. :)
@OnafetsOradoD
@OnafetsOradoD 6 лет назад
That was pretty refreshing! Thanks
@redrum567
@redrum567 6 лет назад
I laughed for far too long at some of this. Well said! ...and quite humorous Much respect \m/
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Thanks!
@meumundoestrangeiro7650
@meumundoestrangeiro7650 Год назад
You are best then a lot of others!!
@kadenpile-riley2170
@kadenpile-riley2170 2 года назад
Exactly! It’s not “girl drummer it’s just drummer
@ShaunaBearDrums
@ShaunaBearDrums 6 лет назад
Preach!!! ❤️
@michel.carcamo1985
@michel.carcamo1985 6 лет назад
welcome to RU-vid Samantha (y) saludos desde Chile!!!
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Hola, gracias!
@mikelister4609
@mikelister4609 6 лет назад
How about,"They only serve beer there, no girlie drinks"
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Whoa, I forgot about this!
@chrisdsx5
@chrisdsx5 3 года назад
Nah your elite AF.
@ChellfireDrumz
@ChellfireDrumz 4 года назад
The hand motions, JFC! " Drums!? That's not very lady-like!" ! Df?
@metalyogawithsteph
@metalyogawithsteph 6 лет назад
I have yet to experience this...but.....I forsee it. I get it with metal yoga. Haha!
@somnie73
@somnie73 6 лет назад
Preach.
@carolblaster
@carolblaster 6 лет назад
Hahahaha!! Awesome!! Go Sam!!!❤️
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Thanks! :)
@seabassseabass8835
@seabassseabass8835 5 лет назад
I think you missed one....do they bring up other female drummers to your attention? As if you must only be influenced by other female drummers or by all female drummers.
@TheBELGIN77
@TheBELGIN77 2 года назад
You left out the guys that ask you to play barefoot 😜😂
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 2 года назад
Hahaha I need to do a part 2
@KyllaCustomRockWear
@KyllaCustomRockWear 6 лет назад
ALLL OF THISSSS
@DreMarie0
@DreMarie0 6 лет назад
All female metal band, our first ever sound check, we got a champ screeming : GET NAKED ! Classic.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Brutal! 'Take it off' is a pretty common one...
@stereofidelic67
@stereofidelic67 2 года назад
"you play like Karen Carpenter"
@MeanMike7
@MeanMike7 6 лет назад
So you just play the bongo drums right?
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
Mike Selman I like when the assumption is that congas and bongos are THE SAME THING. Good part about congas: it's probable you'll be the only one who's brought one, so you can play all night, if you want.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
I did use to get this kind of comment! People were less surprised if I was a percussionist or hand drummer, but being a kit drummer was apparently unheard of.
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
"You play drums?" Not rudely, just surprised. And the hairy eyeball when I have done nothing yet. Or the glare from wives when you're not dressed at all inappropriately and didn't flirt with anyone's husband. You just showed up because they asked, and the thought is that I have nothing better to do than fool around with a bunch of flabby, old *married* men. Way to waste our time if there was no chance because she's a female.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
The pre-show judgment is real. And yeah, some other women might feel intimidated by women musicians. I don't know why, but I've dealt with that kind of behavior as well. Sorry you've had to deal with that.
@alisa.fox.ventures
@alisa.fox.ventures 6 лет назад
just don't care and play. For me it happens all the time but i don't give a sh** :DDD
@charlenedrums9406
@charlenedrums9406 4 года назад
Hahaha omygosh so true 👌
@pv2xeek
@pv2xeek 3 года назад
I'm sorry but I busted out laughing at the "Is your band all girls? (It's not)" comment. This video didn't age well. ;)
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 3 года назад
J U Oh man...you’re right...hahaha
@kevymetal66
@kevymetal66 6 лет назад
dead.
@margaretmarino7854
@margaretmarino7854 4 года назад
VERBATIM this is how it is. Thanks for bringing it to light. :)
@JShadow6661
@JShadow6661 3 года назад
You’re good for a Woman 😂😂😂😂 jk. Sam🖤🖤🖤🖤
@ClaxtonDrums
@ClaxtonDrums 6 лет назад
Haha another great video! Sad that this is a reality for a lot of women. There needs to be more drummers to break this cycle of nonsense comments!
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
And there are still people out there who think it doesn't happen! Thanks for the support, Ryan!
@robbyseager9536
@robbyseager9536 6 лет назад
Argg I'm sorry that culture is like that and that men are so deluded!! At least you're paving the way for the next generation of "girl musicians" to face bit by bit less stigma.
@jaimeb7499
@jaimeb7499 6 лет назад
This video was pretty good for being made by a girl.
@slandadrums
@slandadrums 6 лет назад
Touché, Jaime!
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