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Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques 

Stanford Graduate School of Business
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Matt Abrahams is a lecturer of strategic communication at Stanford GSB and the host of the award-winning podcast "Think Fast, Talk Smart," a show with research-backed techniques becoming a more confident communicator.
Communication is critical to success in business and in life. Concerned about an upcoming interview? Anxious about speaking up during a meeting? In this talk, and through the podcast, you will learn techniques that will help you speak with greater confidence and clarity.
This video was recorded on October 25, 2014, in collaboration with the Stanford Alumni Association as part of Stanford Reunion Homecoming and the Graduate School of Business Fall Reunion/Alumni Weekend.

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@user-gaszpla
@user-gaszpla 3 года назад
He Never uses "um","well","ah","hmm" for 50mins. Incredible....
@jesseraymond2240
@jesseraymond2240 3 года назад
Yes he did. Check 16:06
@avac.1343
@avac.1343 3 года назад
@@jesseraymond2240 You're one of those people loll... nice catch though 😂
@g3ff01
@g3ff01 3 года назад
He rather uses "so" to make transitions between the thoughts/sentences, but it you cannot really notice it, because it can also mean "therefore".
@RobertMJohnson
@RobertMJohnson 3 года назад
not difficult to do...just make it a habit. I used to use these words and almost never do now. took me a long time. like years.
@RobertMJohnson
@RobertMJohnson 3 года назад
@douke turambi no he didn't.
@yousefkotp6129
@yousefkotp6129 3 года назад
Here's the notes I took, hope they are beneficial 1. Have Anxiety under control 1. Greeting Anxiety - Greet Anxiety, say hello to it, it's normal and natural, Take a deep breathe - Anxiety helps us, we just want to manage it 2. Reframing it as a conversation - Use conversational language (Inclusive language) - start with questions in your presentation - reframe presentation as conversation with audience - presenting isn't performing 3. Be in the present moment - bring yourself to present not the future - Be present Oriented - Walk out a building before talk - count number by back Audience should be comfortable 2. Ground Rules - Get yourself out of your own way, don't be perfectionist - See things as an opportunity not a threat - Improvise - Dare to be dull - "Yes and .. " make it always on your tongue 3. Slow down and listen - You should be in service of your audience 4. We have to tell a story - Never lose audience, you can hook them by a story - you have two structure : 1. Problem → Solution → Benefits 2. What → So what ? (Why) → Now what -Structure sets you free
@salokbbk5655
@salokbbk5655 2 года назад
Thanks!
@dingobat2389
@dingobat2389 2 года назад
Thanks 😊
@elaishain380
@elaishain380 2 года назад
Thank you 💙
@devilhell3044
@devilhell3044 2 года назад
👁👁 👃 👄💨
@mcatherinew4779
@mcatherinew4779 2 года назад
Bless you!
@Nawabbaloch_99
@Nawabbaloch_99 Месяц назад
Remind me iff you're watching this video in 2024
@sudanese_talk
@sudanese_talk Месяц назад
me 😂
@sudanese_talk
@sudanese_talk Месяц назад
me 😂
@andrewsboakyesarpong4037
@andrewsboakyesarpong4037 Месяц назад
😂😂😂 me
@oladipupookikiola
@oladipupookikiola Месяц назад
Me😅
@lucky_guy06
@lucky_guy06 Месяц назад
Me
@user-kt5pq6nl8g
@user-kt5pq6nl8g 2 месяца назад
I was brushing my teeth and this video popped up on my feed. Instantly, I recognized Matt’s face right away.. he was my speech professor in 2007! So happy to see him here all of these many years later!! Good memories came back right away cause he was one of the best teachers!
@Sekdkxjsjcnncq12
@Sekdkxjsjcnncq12 Месяц назад
I’m sorry it’s maybe to personal but now are you like your own boss ?
@lifeatsg
@lifeatsg Месяц назад
his lecture is truly engaging. Thumb up!
@jaideepsingh6690
@jaideepsingh6690 3 года назад
I have studying to do. So I'm procrastinating productively by watching this video.
@Saoirse-ob2xy
@Saoirse-ob2xy 3 года назад
same, same ik
@tobiaspolasek1711
@tobiaspolasek1711 3 года назад
Hahaha 😅
@glittery566
@glittery566 3 года назад
me tooo! i'm glad we're all in the same boat lol
@FritzMusicNow
@FritzMusicNow 3 года назад
Same
@lebamba1691
@lebamba1691 3 года назад
Why do you think I’m here 🤣🤣
@florancetominiko8959
@florancetominiko8959 Год назад
Notes 7:58 manage anxiety - acknowledge your anxiety 9:22 reframe as a conversation, not as a performance. 9:52 ask questions -gets audience involved, frames a conversation. 10:12 note, should be questions -so you can answer, this is more helpful to remember 10:29 use conversational language -includes audience and can help manage anxiety 12:13 Be present-oriented -helps manage anxiety, helps bring you to the present 16:42 Get out of your own way -stop thinking you need to get it right -you over analyze, you over evaluate, all this can make you freeze up 24:41 make your challenging situations into opportunities -your approach affects the situation 32:51 co-create and share -helps feel less nervous and defensive -these traits can help you accomplish 33:32 slow down and listen -you need to fully understand the speaker in order to communicate 38:35 Don't just do something, stand there -listen and then respond 39:35 - 42:54 structures -structures in speaking helps you process information more effectively
@jalal_who
@jalal_who Год назад
Have nothing to do in life?
@Chicky-yy7nk
@Chicky-yy7nk Год назад
@@jalal_who L
@ayooluwaoluwagbenga5561
@ayooluwaoluwagbenga5561 Год назад
Thank you.
@jonathanjurecki3059
@jonathanjurecki3059 Год назад
I reply would be quit hindering me or my children they deserve better than they got so far
@prabhakarmmv8767
@prabhakarmmv8767 Год назад
You are suprb
@nishat_zaman
@nishat_zaman Месяц назад
"If you are striving for greatness, dare to be dull" Amazing advice!
@rose-wife
@rose-wife 9 месяцев назад
i love his way of speaking, it feels like he is a father talking kindly to his own children (audience), it's comforting and easier to understand ♡
@Winter_Soldier_edit
@Winter_Soldier_edit Месяц назад
Hi
@Bitter_Biscuit
@Bitter_Biscuit 3 года назад
Notes, general ideas, and summary: Agenda of being an effective speaker regardless of it's being planned or spontaneous, depends on: 1. Anxiety management. 2. Ground rules. 3. Speaking spontaneously. - Anxiety management 85% of people are nervous when they speak in public. Anxiety isn't inherently a bad thing it can help you focus. However, excessive anxiety could impair our ability to speak spontaneously. The techniques used in anxiety management: - When anxiety symptoms kick in few minutes before public speaking (as in gurgly stomach, shaking limbs, etc.), just be mindful about them, acknowledge them and don't resist them "We simply greet our anxiety and say hey" Take a deep breath and don't let anxiety spiral out of control. - Re-framing public speaking as a conversation and not a performance. There is no "right" or "wrong" way of presenting (although there are certainly better or worse ways). there are multiple ways to make it as a conversation like: - Start with questions: they are dialogic in nature. They could be rhetorical, polling, or simply asking for information. - Using conversational language. Using an inclusive language and not distance the audience from ourselves and the speech, in addition to having a relaxed body language. - Be present oriented. Don't think about the far future. This in turn will clear your mind and make you less nervous. There are some ways of becoming present in the moment such as doing pushups, walking, listening to music, tongue twisters (they can help in warming up the voice as an added benefit) or it could be anything that brings the attention and use some cognitive resources. - Ground rules for being comfortable in speaking in spontaneous situations - Get out of your own way. Dare to be dull. Don't worry about being perfect or doing stuff flawlessly. Improvise, don't stockpile information, let your brain act spontaneously. Train the skill of improvisation. Because aiming at greatness could be in your way due to over evaluation, and over analyzation which leads to freezing up. - See things as opportunities and not as challenges or threats. Make it a conversation and don't make it an adversarial situation. Make it an opportunity to clarify and explain what's in your head, and understand what people are thinking. Take a "Yes, and.." approach instead of "No, but..". - Slow down and listen. "You need to understand the demands of the requirement you find yourself in, in order to respond appropriately". Don't jump to conclusions without gathering enough information. So, slow down and listen to understand and be in touch with the receiver to fulfill your obligation as a communicator. "Don't just do something, stand there." - Tell a story. Respond in a structured way. Having a structure is key to having a successful spontaneous, and planned speaking. It increases processing fluency which is how effective we process information. We process and retain structured information 40% more reliably and accurately than non-structured ones. For example to memorize a string of 10 numbers we structure them into 3,3, and 4 numbers. Structure helps us Remember. A couple of useful structures: - The "Problem > Solution > Benefit" Structure. You firstly start talking about what is the problem, then talk about a way/ways to solve the problem, and finally, talk about the benefit of solving it. Never lose your audience. Set expectations and provide a structure to keep the listener on track, and this structure helps with that. Could be re-framed as "Opportunity > Solution [steps to achieve it] > Benefit" - The "What? So what? Now what?" structure. Start firstly by talking about what the problem/idea is, why is it important, and then what the next steps are. This is a good formula for answering questions, and introducing people [Who they are? Why are they important? And what to do next with them (listening,drinking, etc..)]. In a spontaneous speaking situation we have to think about two things simultaneously; Figure out what to say and how to say it. Practicing these structures is a key skill for effective spontaneous thinking. "Structure sets you free." Sorry if there are any grammatical or spelling errors. I'm not a native English speaker. Edit: Spelling.
@sheldonvardon1441
@sheldonvardon1441 3 года назад
Thank you!
@rwbyn9761
@rwbyn9761 3 года назад
thanks for this
@Bitter_Biscuit
@Bitter_Biscuit 3 года назад
Happy to help
@aqilahkiwamuddin8178
@aqilahkiwamuddin8178 3 года назад
bless you, thank you !
@PoPax186
@PoPax186 3 года назад
Fantastic. Thanks a lot
@panchajanya91
@panchajanya91 Год назад
He is very confident, calm and knows exactly what he is doing. He has the pulse of the audience. Even as an online audience, I found it very interactive.
@theamberheardplaylist6768
@theamberheardplaylist6768 Год назад
-Come over and see 'Rihanna Hires Racist Johnny Depp'
@meditation-tu8kx
@meditation-tu8kx Год назад
👍👍👍
@dana.j5105
@dana.j5105 Год назад
😊😊ъъ
@aadisupersonic
@aadisupersonic 10 месяцев назад
thats my bruh right there
@nabotechtv2114
@nabotechtv2114 8 месяцев назад
0
@itsmehali6716
@itsmehali6716 3 месяца назад
Who's watching in 2024 😊❤
@actiontime4203
@actiontime4203 2 месяца назад
Me
@sarvarhudayberdiyev8137
@sarvarhudayberdiyev8137 2 месяца назад
Me too
@user-zf6wz6gw6c
@user-zf6wz6gw6c 2 месяца назад
Me
@cabdiraxmankhalif683
@cabdiraxmankhalif683 2 месяца назад
Yhh here i amm👊
@user-zs5oj4xd1b
@user-zs5oj4xd1b Месяц назад
Hola
@jonathanchang2215
@jonathanchang2215 6 месяцев назад
I actually took the class he is referring to. It was a 12-week class held at the Stanford campus, a few hours a week. This is one of those "self improvement" classes that had a huge impact for me. It really helped me with public speaking inhibitions and freed myself to just speak and be in the moment. Highly recommended.
@edee9093
@edee9093 6 месяцев назад
😊Glad to hear that you feel better now. I think I need the same kind of course. Could please share more information about this 12-week class. Thanks you!
@LaiDeshay
@LaiDeshay 6 месяцев назад
Do you have the handout link?
@LaiDeshay
@LaiDeshay 6 месяцев назад
Actually found it on his website. Nofreakingspeaking.com nofreakingspeaking.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Think-Fast-Talk-Smart-Hand-Outc.pdf
@user-uk7kt2wo4o
@user-uk7kt2wo4o 6 месяцев назад
The handout please
@personainstituteForenglish321
@personainstituteForenglish321 5 месяцев назад
Good
@carminedimaro524
@carminedimaro524 3 года назад
Who's here learning to be a human after Covid
@thamer-403
@thamer-403 3 года назад
😂😂😂
@jervypolistico3377
@jervypolistico3377 3 года назад
The comment that matters HAHAHHA
@LeandroHerpeto
@LeandroHerpeto 3 года назад
hahahahha
@Nooooorm
@Nooooorm 3 года назад
😂😂😂💔meeeee!!
@Valentina-fr8yt
@Valentina-fr8yt 3 года назад
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@antoniomichael.6
@antoniomichael.6 11 месяцев назад
Every family👨‍👩‍👦 has that one person who will break the family financial struggle, I hope you become the one🤝
@Lisaobrian
@Lisaobrian 11 месяцев назад
I pray I be the one🙏
@ogeneezemili
@ogeneezemili 11 месяцев назад
Successful people don't become that way overnight, what most people see at a glance wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life.
@brettwylie
@brettwylie 11 месяцев назад
That's why we need to plan ourselves making extras in all we do because depending on paycheck that can give us our comfort and peace till we die is not guaranteed
@vasekmestka
@vasekmestka 11 месяцев назад
This is actually what most families are going through, tax and rents takes almost what they got monthly, leaving them with no savings...
@elisangellaborges
@elisangellaborges 11 месяцев назад
I'm a nurse and I saw all this coming, so I've planned myself so I engaged in forex trading, little I know about the business though but so far so good, Forex trading has been my very means of savings lately while my salary goes for bills and utilities
@LucasClearly
@LucasClearly 2 месяца назад
Dare to be dull. I think this was speaking to me. I often find myself stuck trying to give the very best but end up not doing it at all. Thank you Matt Abraham, I'll allow myself to make mistakes and correct them as fast as I can.
@ACEUPTHESLEEVE-di5nl
@ACEUPTHESLEEVE-di5nl 10 дней назад
Great video really but if someone wants an advice you need to read a book called revealing the mysteries of self love.. you can thank me later
@Ram-ig6hh
@Ram-ig6hh 8 дней назад
Author?
@ACEUPTHESLEEVE-di5nl
@ACEUPTHESLEEVE-di5nl 7 дней назад
@@Ram-ig6hh i think the author is called Kresimir
@sanabhabie7559
@sanabhabie7559 3 года назад
First time in my whole life watching a video with 58min without getting bored even a second!!
@nancyzeibak97
@nancyzeibak97 3 года назад
TRUE!! same thought
@priyanshuranjandas9097
@priyanshuranjandas9097 3 года назад
Same with me!
@allyssonvitorpinhofernande8378
@allyssonvitorpinhofernande8378 3 года назад
Same here. Sometimes I start watching Ted talks and leave it off because it is boring! Those 58m was the most enjoyable moment I had watching a speech!
@stellamartins1854
@stellamartins1854 2 года назад
Me too
@zlife9117
@zlife9117 2 года назад
Same
@dienzer9098
@dienzer9098 2 года назад
people listen to soft music to do their homework, but i find these hour long podcasts with speechless delivery more enticing and relaxing
@anotherjoselucas
@anotherjoselucas 2 года назад
Yes! When I'm doing a repetitive task I like to put this kind of content. I relax and learn at the same time.
@chandrangsubiswas6102
@chandrangsubiswas6102 2 года назад
Nice to know that I'm not the only one!
@arvindr1838
@arvindr1838 2 года назад
Same!! Can you suggest me some more insightful podcasts that has a min runtime of 30 mins? I have a problem in finding good ones
@namazbaiishmakhametov1810
@namazbaiishmakhametov1810 2 года назад
@@arvindr1838 Jordan Peterson, Jocco Willink and David Goggins
@realracerz3242
@realracerz3242 2 года назад
I sense an elite club here , I'll try doing the same next time.
@Sportcafe01
@Sportcafe01 Месяц назад
who is here 2024 to ur self
@bini217
@bini217 Месяц назад
me ☺
@Sportcafe01
@Sportcafe01 Месяц назад
@@bini217 🕶
@Nightmareuu
@Nightmareuu Месяц назад
​@@Sportcafe01🕶️👍🏻
@user-eq2wh9yp4e
@user-eq2wh9yp4e Месяц назад
😂me 2024 April 😊😊
@gustavsingh5788
@gustavsingh5788 26 дней назад
Me too 😂
@henryzunigak6687
@henryzunigak6687 26 дней назад
Metooo ​@@gustavsingh5788
@localhabibi7335
@localhabibi7335 24 дня назад
me too 😂
@maggiewu307
@maggiewu307 24 дня назад
me too 😂
@Qingqing777
@Qingqing777 24 дня назад
Me too
@emjain1
@emjain1 Год назад
What I learned from this talk 1) anxiety is very natural and don’t let anxiety overtake you . Learn to manage it. I personally use deep breathing and meditation to overcome anxiety . 2) Be inclusive in your communication. 3) First become a good listener by being focused 4) Treat every speaking occasion as an opportunity not as a challenge 5) Remove No- But with Yes -And attitude 6) public speaking should be like an inclusive conversation not as a performance. 7) Your body language counts a lot . 8) structured communication- problem -solution - benefit OR what -so what - now what
@abhishekpotadar1586
@abhishekpotadar1586 10 месяцев назад
@Eshiyani67
@Eshiyani67 9 месяцев назад
Thanks a lot
@baremysoul4u
@baremysoul4u 9 месяцев назад
being inclusive with those around me always makes me feel better when I'm communicating. Definitely helps lower the anxiety.
@jesschan7240
@jesschan7240 9 месяцев назад
thank you for being so helpful👍
@ozilyamato1786
@ozilyamato1786 8 месяцев назад
@@jesschan7240 👌👌
@teddy.bisson.411
@teddy.bisson.411 Год назад
It amazes me greatly how I go from living an average lifestyle to making over 63k per month I've learned a lot over the past few years that there are plenty of opportunities in the financial markets; all it takes is just to focus on the right thing. Credits to Zach Micah Demers
@Jorgmiller
@Jorgmiller Год назад
I looked up his name on Google and was impressed by his resume; I consider myself lucky to have found this comment section.
@andreasvankur3735
@andreasvankur3735 Год назад
That's a lot of money you're making. How do you do this on a regular basis? You have to be a trading genius.
@carolsitsons443
@carolsitsons443 Год назад
You can certainly earn well with a good start-up capital. I take profits every week, and I've made a lot of money investing with Sir Zach Micah Demers, but your results are dependent on your investment capital.
@teddy.bisson.411
@teddy.bisson.411 Год назад
Search his full name
@teddy.bisson.411
@teddy.bisson.411 Год назад
Zach Micah Demers
@yousefhamed3171
@yousefhamed3171 7 месяцев назад
The lecturer is super humble and funny! What an exquisit style of speech delivering!
@Peerawich29
@Peerawich29 Месяц назад
Dear unkhown person whoever reads this we don't know each other yet I wish you all the luck afterward from this moment 💫❤️ you are a blessing you don't know that yet , don't blame your self or else loose yourself in the dessert of uncertainty, ur smile is precious keep that up🥰
@dilemmablue2494
@dilemmablue2494 3 года назад
20 million views... proves how much we're all learning to be human
@sumansouravbiswal5525
@sumansouravbiswal5525 3 года назад
It's creepy, isn't it?
@VishalBhardwaj1143
@VishalBhardwaj1143 3 года назад
Deep humour🤣
@pushkarraj6625
@pushkarraj6625 3 года назад
Dark😂😂
@rushbhkiduniyaa2148
@rushbhkiduniyaa2148 3 года назад
😂
@Hellmuth4
@Hellmuth4 3 года назад
blech. comments like that. maybe it's better you don't talk
@debbie765
@debbie765 Месяц назад
If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to build generational wealth and cultivate financial knowledge, you must be in the market......
@Davismiller680
@Davismiller680 Месяц назад
I agree with you and I believe that Professionals are currently dominating the market since they have access to both the necessary strategy for making money in this industry.
@Florencecoxx
@Florencecoxx Месяц назад
That's awesome to hear. I invested 5k in Robin hood about a year ago and it steadily went down, now my portfolio is down to $800. I don't know what to do and i am in between jobs
@debbie765
@debbie765 Месяц назад
@@Florencecoxx Understanding your financial needs and making effective decisions is very essential. If I could advise you, you should seek the help of a financial advisor. For the record, working with one has been the best for my finances.
@Florencecoxx
@Florencecoxx Месяц назад
I’m Glad i stumbled on this. Please, if its not too much of a hassle for you, can you drop the details of the expertise that assisted you and how to get in touch.
@debbie765
@debbie765 Месяц назад
@@Florencecoxx I get guidance from *Sarah Alma Martinez* Most likely, the internet should have her basic info..
@sarahawkins1917
@sarahawkins1917 Год назад
The one thing I noticed is that he used humor to relax and open up his audience, which in turn helps him to do the same. Secondly, he used opportunities to make it interactive, which helps them learn better and also keeps their attention.
@user-jo8wf5ko2s
@user-jo8wf5ko2s Год назад
This is Hamid. I'm Sudanese
@shotttrayo3589
@shotttrayo3589 11 месяцев назад
great observation
@RichardDelvicoio
@RichardDelvicoio 5 месяцев назад
Sending love ❤ ...Are you single? @sarahawkins
@muhammad72673
@muhammad72673 5 месяцев назад
If you wanna be successful, you must take responsibility for your emotions, not place the blame on others. In addition to making you feel more guilty about your faults, pointing the finger at others will only serve to increase your sense of personal accountability. There's always a risk in every investment, yet people still invest and succeed. You must look outward if you wanna be successful in life...
@Effiong94
@Effiong94 5 месяцев назад
Absolutely. Market success requires emotional maturity
@danielisah9065
@danielisah9065 5 месяцев назад
The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance either on your own or with the help of a financial professional but is very advisable you make use of a professional
@Jabir937
@Jabir937 5 месяцев назад
I trade as a side hustle while keeping my job. I'm tired of trading in losses myself. I've blown my account twice and it's frustrating. I see people making a living out of trading and I want to do the same. Please I need help can someone teach me how to trade?
@samem.washington5136
@samem.washington5136 5 месяцев назад
the market is profiting if you are using a good broker or account manager to help out with trades or provide signals
@besttime647
@besttime647 5 месяцев назад
I'll recommend Expert Mrs. Theresa Walton to you. She's the best I've seen. She trades my fx account and makes me good profits weekly
@vinitasharma6253
@vinitasharma6253 3 месяца назад
"What I have learned from this video is that listening is the key to being a good speaker. We should greet anxiety. If we get the opportunity to talk, just speak (get out of your own way) without worrying about whether you are right or wrong. Everyone gets anxious; it's normal. Speak confidently. Always use structured conversations when conveying the message. Thanks for the video."
@perrytalor842
@perrytalor842 Год назад
If you wanna be successful, you most take responsibility for your emotions, not place the blame on others. In addition to make you feel more guilty about your faults, pointing the finger at others will only serve to increase your sense of personal accountability. There's always a risk in every investment, yet people still invest and succeed. You must look outward if you wanna be successful in life.
@smithhall9597
@smithhall9597 Год назад
Please I need someone to help me trade or invest the forex or crypto market because I'm tired of trading in losses myself. I've blown my account twice and it's frustrating.
@bellmike4373
@bellmike4373 Год назад
the market is profiting if you are using a good broker or account manager to help out with trades or provide signals
@tonyrichards1476
@tonyrichards1476 Год назад
I'm a living testimony of expert Naomi, she has been trading for me for months now
@smithhall9597
@smithhall9597 Год назад
Do you happen to know her contact info and /or willing to pass on her info? I'd really appreciate it.
@tonyrichards1476
@tonyrichards1476 Год назад
She's on watap 👇
@gigitago
@gigitago 3 года назад
1. Manage anxiety 1. “Greet” anxiety. “This is me feeling nervous” 2. Reframe as a conversation not a performance 1. Start with questions (rhetorical, polling, etc.) 2. Use conversational language (“this is important to you” vs. “one must consider”, “step 1” vs. “The first thing for you to consider..”) 3. Be in present moment to eliminate anxiety (orientation to time influences reaction). 1. How: 100 pushups, tongue twisters, walk around building, focus on song, count backwards from 100 by tough numbers. Tongue twister: I slit a sheet. A sheet I slit and on that slitted sheet I sit. 2. Warm up your voice 2. Practice Steps to Speak Spontaneously 1. Get out of own way (remove expectations) Activity: Point and shout wrong name, without pre-planning 2. See interactions as opportunities not challenges Activity: Surprise gift challenge. Giver: “I knew you’d like it because...” 3. Take time to listen Activity: Spell letters of conversation 3. Use a useful structure 1. Problem/opportunity-> solution -> benefit 2. What?-> so what? (Why important) -> now what? Book: “Speaking up without freaking out”
@atishay4859
@atishay4859 3 года назад
thanks dear
@blessingukaegbu6318
@blessingukaegbu6318 3 года назад
Nice breakdown.
@raivoadsvalue6878
@raivoadsvalue6878 3 года назад
Thank you. Your notes saved my life this evening. ;dd
@monaalei1917
@monaalei1917 3 года назад
Thanks
@alysaterre885
@alysaterre885 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-bq5HujL29M8.html
@HungNguyen-lv1lg
@HungNguyen-lv1lg 2 месяца назад
It's so rare to find a person with such exceptional EQ. His voice alone exudes such openness and joviality that I could not but relate. My heart is pounding right now.
@hello8.
@hello8. 25 дней назад
Is any 17 year old watching as like me? In 2024
@Jerymie
@Jerymie 22 дня назад
I don't think so? 17 years old kid enjoy watching movies, playing video games etc. they didn't gve time on these probably there prepared on something enjoy more than watching this kind of podcast or agenda bro.
@user-bi5ry4vo1z
@user-bi5ry4vo1z 21 день назад
Yess bro I'm 17 yrs old😊
@rishabhgoel3954
@rishabhgoel3954 21 день назад
24 year old counts?
@jayfavors9375
@jayfavors9375 19 дней назад
18 but yeah
@user-jj6wv1le3h
@user-jj6wv1le3h 19 дней назад
I guess your also Japanese guy as well and then giving a shot watching this video
@yogeshnirban6271
@yogeshnirban6271 2 года назад
This video is never going to be die. My grandson will learn mostly everything about presentation by this video
@bruceolga3644
@bruceolga3644 2 года назад
"Die"="The" in Deutsch/German
@cheowweikoay2601
@cheowweikoay2601 2 года назад
A good talk that deserves the speaker's name on the title- Matt Abrahams, and a completed intro in the brief.
@barbaracoletti7174
@barbaracoletti7174 10 месяцев назад
He seems so confortable talking in public that it also makes me more confortable to listen to him. Awesome video!
@user-hl2sx3bq2o
@user-hl2sx3bq2o 3 месяца назад
i saw this lecture and now i realised (again) how important Drama/ Theater lessons were to me. It changed me so much, mu communications and freedom of expression changed a lot. I really hope to get back to it one day, and well, i hope more people have the same oportunities. Its a new world of undertanding art, comunications and people.
@tati79ana
@tati79ana 3 года назад
"Make your audience feel comfortable." Wow. This changed my perspective all over the place! 😱
@kevinmarten
@kevinmarten Год назад
We read news in the media that doom and gloom is coming and we just accept it, doom and gloom doesn’t always have to be coming, I’ve read numerous success stories of people that are pulling off tremendous gains of up to $250K within weeks in this crazy market and I just want to learn how to achieve such figures.
@lipglosskitten2610
@lipglosskitten2610 Год назад
With this crash I'll say it wont be too easy to pick the right stock, Jim Cramer said there are still huge opportunities despite the crash, and I overheard someone talk about making $250k from about $110k since the crash. How do I make these kind of returns Nate?
@Walter_hill_
@Walter_hill_ Год назад
There are actually a lot of ways to make high yields in a crisis, but such trades are best done under the supervision of Financial advisor.
@lipglosskitten2610
@lipglosskitten2610 Год назад
@Dan Brooks Impressive can you share more info?
@lipglosskitten2610
@lipglosskitten2610 Год назад
@Dan Brooks She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran a Google search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.
@echedeking
@echedeking Год назад
@Dan Brooks scammers
@DeeMukami
@DeeMukami 3 месяца назад
I'm happy to have come across this channel today. I battle a lot with anxiety hence it makes me paralyze when I'm doing a public speech or a presentation.
@danielq888
@danielq888 3 года назад
Notes. Anxiety Management: -Notice and accept you're being nervous, this avoid it to spin up -Reframe, you're having a conversation, not a performance .ask questions .use conversational language -Be present-oriented, don't think about consequences, just focus on the moment Ground rules: 1. Get yourself out of the way, stop looking for perfection, "dare to be dull" 2. See the communication moment as an opportunity (for example to land more effectively your message) 3. Slow down and listen 4. Respond telling a story (having a structure) .Structure #1: problem, solution, benefit .Structure #2: what is it? why is important? what are the next steps? (what, so what, now what)
@OceanEnglishAcademy
@OceanEnglishAcademy 3 года назад
Lovely!
@emeraldquashie9356
@emeraldquashie9356 3 года назад
Thank you
@mahnazzargaran2023
@mahnazzargaran2023 3 года назад
Thank you!
@danwekoya9735
@danwekoya9735 3 года назад
Thank you, kind sir.
@danielq888
@danielq888 3 года назад
@@danwekoya9735 Your welcome sir
@taylorgreen5908
@taylorgreen5908 3 года назад
just planned the best surprise party for my mom and gave the best speech i've ever given because of this video, thanks for your help sir! the best way to start progressing in life is by saving money, i promise nothing brings the confidence level up like a a good finance believe me!! i'm taking her to hawaii afterwards will tell you how the trip went
@donaldlocher2537
@donaldlocher2537 3 года назад
how did you get to this level of success if you don't mind giving a few pointers?
@taylorgreen5908
@taylorgreen5908 3 года назад
@@donaldlocher2537 1)Never let anyone bother you, you can make your own decisions and 2) I use a Financial adviser who handles my savings. she's the best in the business
@feliciasherbert989
@feliciasherbert989 3 года назад
@@taylorgreen5908 how do i get to this advisor pls i would like to build my dividend portfolio?
@taylorgreen5908
@taylorgreen5908 3 года назад
@@feliciasherbert989 i can't actually leave details on here, you could do that yourself her name is Lucy Maria Koss, she's quite known ,you can search and connect with her on her website
@junebogan7171
@junebogan7171 3 года назад
If monetary or financial status is credited with boosting confidence then it would just as easily be blamed for low confidence levels if assessts/finances were lost. This creates opportunity to be unaccountable and detracts from our true potential. Also this mindset is giving unworthy credit to a worthless fiat currency for amazing abilities that we possess as human beings. The amount of potential we have is infinitely greater than any amount of money>
@user-od8lz9bj1t
@user-od8lz9bj1t 9 месяцев назад
"in spontaneous speaking situations. The very first thing we have to do is manage our anxiety. Because you can't be an effective speaker if you don't have your anxiety under control. And we talked about how you can do that by greeting your anxiety, reframing as a conversation, and being in the present moment" I love the beginning and ending with words
@SR-Gamez
@SR-Gamez Месяц назад
Watching this video in 2024❤
@shanaianehzlmarie1051
@shanaianehzlmarie1051 Месяц назад
🎉
@sprunch_alox
@sprunch_alox Год назад
""Presenting" is not a performance" Bro..tht line...will forever be engrained in my mind..
@rimaaouadi9092
@rimaaouadi9092 3 года назад
He's a great communicator because he had me, a 15 years old teen watching this 58 minutes video without stopping
@aki6704
@aki6704 3 года назад
ah yes, the average 15 year old
@rimaaouadi9092
@rimaaouadi9092 3 года назад
@@arandomlemon6707 I mean... yeah (: i'm kinda too outgoing so i hope i don't scare you ! Thank you for the compliment though, that's nice
@aki6704
@aki6704 3 года назад
@@rimaaouadi9092 famous last words lol
@rimaaouadi9092
@rimaaouadi9092 3 года назад
@Kevin Mejia Oh well i mean...sure
@crypticcoding9680
@crypticcoding9680 3 года назад
Same for me.
@Hannahpine
@Hannahpine 3 месяца назад
If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to build generational wealth and cultivate financial knowledge, you must be in the market…
@Emma59039
@Emma59039 3 месяца назад
I agree with you and I believe that creating wealth and gaining financial independence isn’t as difficult as a lot of people think. Through the right information, building wealth and staying financially stable forever is way easy. Start investing, it's the only true way to earn a great income and stay rich forever...
@Florencecoxx
@Florencecoxx 3 месяца назад
I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more..
@Hannahpine
@Hannahpine 3 месяца назад
@@Florencecoxx Understanding your financial needs and making effective decisions is very essential. If I could advise you, you should seek the help of a financial advisor. For the record, working with one has been the best for my finances.
@Florencecoxx
@Florencecoxx 3 месяца назад
I’m Glad i stumbled on this. Please, if its not too much of a hassle for you, can you drop the details of the expertise that assisted you and how to get in touch with him.?
@Hannahpine
@Hannahpine 3 месяца назад
@@Florencecoxx I get guidance from *Mr Gary Mason Brooks* . Most likely, the internet should have his basic info..
@luiskirilovich1182
@luiskirilovich1182 22 дня назад
It's a trail of an excellent teacher to able to express ideas and concepts in a clear and concise manner. Mr. Abrahams is, definitely, one of the best couch you can find on the Internet on this touched nerve topic.
@artursgrundmanis1796
@artursgrundmanis1796 2 года назад
List: Anxiety management: • Anxiety isn’t bad, it gives us drive to continue speaking. • Make your audience comfortable. • When your nervous try greeting your anxiety. • There are no mistakes in presenting. • List questions that you’re going to answer while presenting. • Use conversational language. • Don’t worry about the future consequences. • Try being in the moment. • Warm up your voice. Ground rules: • Speak more spontaneously. • Don’t be afraid to get things wrong. • Don’t fallow patterns. • Train your brain to get it out of the way. • See things as an opportunity. • Say more yes than no. • Slow down, focus and listen. • Respond with structure. • Never lose your audience. • Have ideas and themes. • Paraphrase questions. • Try figuring out who is your audience and what are their expectations. • If you’re asking a question, ask for some advice.
@lawanyaarvind2810
@lawanyaarvind2810 Год назад
Thanks for this summary
@Tiandesta
@Tiandesta Год назад
Thanks!!!
@M9lsnik
@M9lsnik 7 месяцев назад
How i can copy the text
@thembicibane5572
@thembicibane5572 2 месяца назад
😢🎉th h good jjjrjennnmctjjuhbyvbnnnnnmm... 1:45 ​@@lawanyaarvind2810
@furbabylover1532
@furbabylover1532 3 года назад
I randomly clicked on this video just because I had time to kill but as soon as I heard the lecturer starts speaking, I was engaged in this lecture like I was allured by an addictive thing. I think this is truly an amazing lecture that everyone must watch regardless of whether or not you're a good speaker. Because apart from the lecture topic, the energy that he has and the power that the lecture itself gives me especially while watching people interacting with each other during this hard time, the pandemic, where I'm compelled to social distance myself, is so so helpful. Again, it was such an amazing and powerful lecture for overcoming my social anxiety, let alone for my knowledge.
@koiaxe7649
@koiaxe7649 3 года назад
Notes. Anxiety Management: -Notice and accept you're being nervous, this avoid it to spin up -Reframe, you're having a conversation, not a performance .ask questions .use conversational language -Be present-oriented, don't think about consequences, just focus on the moment Ground rules: 1. Get yourself out of the way, stop looking for perfection, "dare to be dull" 2. See the communication moment as an opportunity (for example to land more effectively your message) 3. Slow down and listen 4. Respond telling a story (having a structure) .Structure #1: problem, solution, benefit .Structure #2: what is it? why is important? what are the next steps? (what, so what, now what)
@leforthomas
@leforthomas 3 года назад
Just watching him is a lesson in itself, such a professional speaker!
@TheCommunicationCoach
@TheCommunicationCoach 2 года назад
Ok, but I'm better: ru-vid.com/show-UC61eUxiCdhCfrbPVy266cQw
@edithbannerman4
@edithbannerman4 Год назад
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
@spooks7070
@spooks7070 Год назад
He is an incredible speaker and he knows how to efficiently get his point across I am a high school sophomore and I watched this entire video no issues its understandable and easy to learn from and take into your own life.
@vankai6817
@vankai6817 7 месяцев назад
Damn, I’m half way through the video and it opened my eyes. I already had seen some tips and textbook advice but the way he presented everything was so easy to understand and apply in real life. I went to an interview and I felt so good after watching this - one of the best (if not the best) performances I’ve had for an interview LOL. I’m definitely going to finish the rest of the video and apply as much as I can because it is legit advice. Especially managing anxiety. What works best for me is slowing down. Never starting at 1000 words per minute! It helps sooo much to not have anxiety. You’d be surprised how well you can speak when you let what you’ve learned come out instead of your anxiety.
@user-yq4cm9di2u
@user-yq4cm9di2u 2 месяца назад
This is absolutely brilliant and I am so grateful that knowledge, wisdom, and guidance like this is readily available AND FREE on RU-vid. thank you so much!
@yep-dp1gw
@yep-dp1gw 3 года назад
Finally RU-vid Recommended something good
@muhammadabrar4233
@muhammadabrar4233 3 года назад
I agree
@catherinea.frazier6438
@catherinea.frazier6438 3 года назад
Same yup 💯
@kibatikibe665
@kibatikibe665 3 года назад
Truely something that is educative.a
@epicengineer0074
@epicengineer0074 3 года назад
RU-vid has adaptive algorithm . Which has only one job to make sure user doesn't gets distracted and stop using RU-vid application! Maybe we have started watching something for ourselves and then it's job is to recommend us something good to watch! 🐱
@furbabylover1532
@furbabylover1532 3 года назад
yeah im so glad lol I've had so many unmeaningful random vids on my feed
@GarrickPinon
@GarrickPinon Год назад
I have no idea how I am just now blessed enough to discover Matt Abrahams but he has a new fan! I have been meaning to watch this for while but as I was talking my morning meditation walk I tuned in to his Grit & Growth Podcast episode and just had to finally watch this.
@Bond00.7
@Bond00.7 10 месяцев назад
1. CONTROL YOUR ANXIETY • If you feel anxiety just take a deep breath and tell yourself ohh this is me feeling anxious GREETING YOUR ANXIETY • Think it as a conversation not a performance • Try to be in the present moment rather than thinking of the future and outcome, using something that busy your mind to think in present moment can help like tongue twisters. Try this-》(I slit a sheet, a sheet i slit and on that slitted sheet i sit) hope not shit words were sayed 😜 2. GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY • Dont think/stack/pile up things just before saying it is like getting in your own way. Tell your brain thankyou for piling and do your own raw creative stuff DARE TO BE DULL 3. GIVE GIFTS- TAKE IT AS AN OPPURTUNITY TO INTERACT RATHER THAN A CHALLENGE • Take it as an opportunity rather than a challenge and speaking spontaneously will shock them and make a mark of ourselfes in their memory like in the game of giving gifts • Use YES, AND.... more and instead of NOT, BUT.... 4. TAKE THE TIME TO LISTEN • Listen more, focus on each word and understand like in the game of talking through spelling. 5. USE STRUCTURES • Tell your story in a structure STRUCTURE SETS YOU FREE, a famous structure is PROBLEM/OPPURTUNITY - SOLUTION - BENEFITS. and WHAT- SOWHAT- NOWWHAT P.S- if you have read till this far plz like this cmnt it will act as a reminder for me to go through this again Thnx in advance❤😮
@cassandrabaynoza7094
@cassandrabaynoza7094 7 месяцев назад
thank you for outlining this❤
@ObehiPodcast
@ObehiPodcast 2 месяца назад
This is a great speaker to the core, and I have listened to this video for more than 5 times. As a podcaster, I see “Active Listening” as a fundamental communication skill. This is a great skill because it helps for full concentration, understanding, responding. In business, this technique is vital for building strong relationships with colleagues, clients, and stakeholders.
@tochsamnang4257
@tochsamnang4257 2 года назад
I love the fact that this is the first video that I can focus on and not getting bored. I'm the introvert, like I always feel nervous and scared to present in front of my friends when that happens I tend to forgot about the topic that I'm going to talk about 😭 I really can't take that anxiety off
@ignantxxxninja
@ignantxxxninja 3 года назад
I'm glad I ran into this one. It's almost like the internet is monitoring me and had youtube say "this is the video for you".. I had a nervous session in class after running on zero hours of sleep, I really thought I was going to be able to do it but it was terrible. Will never do that again. Get your sleep before class. There... I used the structure and I think it worked pretty well.
@jeronymkristof12345
@jeronymkristof12345 3 года назад
plot twist: the internet is actually monitoring you :D
@user-hf8cp9ov3n
@user-hf8cp9ov3n 4 месяца назад
Matt is gorgeous and super skilled podcast producer and an excellent lecturer/mentor. I really improved my listening and speaking strategies throughout his lectures.
@wisdomandunderstanding3593
@wisdomandunderstanding3593 2 года назад
Communication is AMAZING. It's ART all by itself. COMMUNICATION IS NOT ONLY VERBAL. Obviously, BODY LANGUAGE is essential as well. Not to mention. It's the SIMPLICITY for me. This Gentleman is literally having a conversation about CONVERSATION which equals, communication. Effective communication! ~ LISTENING. ✨
@TheCommunicationCoach
@TheCommunicationCoach 2 года назад
Only part of it, learn it ALL HERE: ru-vid.com/show-UC61eUxiCdhCfrbPVy266cQw
@Raccon_Detective.
@Raccon_Detective. 2 года назад
03:13 Responding to cold calls 04:37 Anxiety management 07:20 Mindfall management 10:26 Use conversational language 17:00 Get ourselves out of the way 24:15 Get out of our own way 39:15 Value of structure 49:35 Acknowledge the emotion 51:26 physical participation 54:42 Cultural expectations
@shantanukumar5002
@shantanukumar5002 2 года назад
You missed one important point. 36:33 - A couple kissing
@damagicveggi
@damagicveggi 2 года назад
ex, experience Esa
@NazriB
@NazriB 2 года назад
Lies again? FAS FUS
@bushyturbster3791
@bushyturbster3791 2 года назад
5&6 is no different…?
@alikhalil6463
@alikhalil6463 2 года назад
Thank youuu
@alenthomas_6282
@alenthomas_6282 8 месяцев назад
General ideas that has been put forward by Mr Matt Abraham here will be really helpful for me in longrun. Accepting our anxiety and avoiding stock pilings of our brains makes us more creative. Matt abraham's way of communicating with his audience is exceptional. He acquired his audience attention with his confident and brilliant communicative skills. Anyone Struggling with focus or communication , Matt Abraham is the man you can approach.
@IS-ih5nd
@IS-ih5nd 10 месяцев назад
I’ve been trying to find out why I some time freeze in the middle of a conversation and forget how to finish some of my sentences. This video right here has saved me from drowning with anxiety. I always knew I that I can communicate like no other when I’m full of confidence but when I crack under pressure, i become the most uncomfortable person to be around with. Day by day I’ll take everything on board from this video and will definitely revisit this in the near future
@joycebellarceo8220
@joycebellarceo8220 3 года назад
I just received a call from a company I am applying to. They emailed me already that I didn't pass hence I didn't expect their call but someone called and I got so nervous that I had a hard time understanding what he is asking me, I think he got pissed off 😅 that's why after that call I searched immediately for this. Since I am an introvert speaking spontaneously to anyone is a hard job for me but I'll try harder to develop my speaking skills from now on 😣✊
@wesleytyler9599
@wesleytyler9599 2 года назад
NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF . LEVEL UP 📚 POWER UP 🫀 TOUGHEN UP🏋‍♂️ AND CASE 🌎🏃‍♂️ A BETTER LIFE IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY . REALITY CHECK TIME ⌛WASTED IS LIFE WASTED .
@danieljohansen142
@danieljohansen142 Год назад
Hello there how are you doing today 👋👋👋
@LoveeDooUniverse
@LoveeDooUniverse Месяц назад
I am not a native English speaker, yet your ideas was clear and concise. It has helped me in my endeavor to get over anxiety in speaking and in maximizing mediocrity to achieve greatness. i wish you the best in your book and lectures. Your lectures and methodology will help millions of folks.
@okungbayeajibola273
@okungbayeajibola273 8 месяцев назад
I can't believe I just watched a 58-minute video in one sitting. Recently, I have turned to RU-vid to broaden my knowledge and deepen my thinking process. However, this is the first video where I learned practical and applicable knowledge that'll stick. Good stuff, Matt!
@sahilt7717
@sahilt7717 2 года назад
Younger audience is just looking awkwardly at each other. The aged audience are the real learners they are taking the activities more seriously. Just loved their hunger for acquiring new knowledge!
@blindfire3167
@blindfire3167 2 года назад
??? The older audience is probably protesting covid and taking Ivermectin lol
@olivepeters1435
@olivepeters1435 Год назад
The most inspiring thing about this video for me is his confidence while speaking and teaching The flow is smooth and worth emulating
@gayathrineelam5006
@gayathrineelam5006 3 месяца назад
I just stumbled into this video and couldn't stop watching. Too good. I loved it.
@jonathanclerence259
@jonathanclerence259 10 месяцев назад
1. Pay attention to what you say - you feel your way through your words - genuinely ask yourself what you think about “that” by pausing during a conversation 2. Manage anxiety -Greet the anxiety -reframe as a conversation rather than a performance -questions -be present oriented -tongue twisters 3. Ground rules -get out of the muscle memory (talking off the tip of your head) -try to point at something and yell something it’s definitely not (try not to think of patterns/stockpile on what your going to yell about) -look at everything as an opportunity rather than something your compelled to do -gift game with a partner -“Yes and” -listen -story telling -structure -problem/opportunity, solution, Benefit -what, so-what, now what
@arnoldjansen8737
@arnoldjansen8737 2 года назад
what is outstanding for me is, many old people want to hear and attend the seminar, and frequently ask the speaker how to talk effectively in order to talk without creating an altercation and ambiguity. Because I often see and feel, some of them are always feeling "I have been living in this world for a long time and you don't have the right to teach me how I live, specifically how to communicate with each other". But, amazingly, they're trying to listen and learn about it. I really appreciate those old people, furthermore, shout out to the speaker who gives a stunning presentation and education.
@edithbannerman4
@edithbannerman4 Год назад
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
@prchix
@prchix 3 года назад
Great video. I interviewed for a job that requires public speaking and just the thought of even getting hired and preparing to speak has me shook. This video is full of great tips.
@sumitgovindwar8096
@sumitgovindwar8096 Месяц назад
What I learnt through the video is 1) Engaging in the conversation is important 2) Diverting your Mind is Important 3) problem ,Solution Benefit Method 4) What ,So What , Now What 5) Sign gestures make an effect , 6) Dare to be dull Just add more to it what you learnt out of it wonderful video btw
@_Arindam.
@_Arindam. 18 дней назад
One of the best video on Communication skill I've ever watched. Thanks Stanford Business for uploading this.
@pallavi19india
@pallavi19india 2 года назад
Takeaways - "Get out of your way", "Be in the moment" ----> "Do not pile up conversation in your head", "Don't be nervous", "Do some exercises like speaking a tongue twister", "Make your presentation a conversation, it also helps in listing down questions first", "Slow down and listen"
@TheCommunicationCoach
@TheCommunicationCoach 2 года назад
One can't avoid nervousness, nor do you need to, damn! All of these "experts" who can't get it right! But I do! ru-vid.com/show-UC61eUxiCdhCfrbPVy266cQw
@danieljohansen142
@danieljohansen142 Год назад
Hello there how are you doing today 👋👋👋
@ahmedkhan-fj9md
@ahmedkhan-fj9md 2 года назад
This seminar is the best example of what he taught us.
@Animator22538
@Animator22538 2 года назад
CR7 unt
@ahmedkhan-fj9md
@ahmedkhan-fj9md 2 года назад
CR7 for life
@Animator22538
@Animator22538 2 года назад
@@ahmedkhan-fj9md CR7 for life
@ahmedkhan-fj9md
@ahmedkhan-fj9md 2 года назад
@@Animator22538 gg
@hannahwintimatseabugri9744
@hannahwintimatseabugri9744 4 месяца назад
I just discovered this today and I’m glad i chanced on this. I have battled anxiety for years as a very intelligent students and people’s choice for leadership yet anxiety has pulled me back. I hope to practice these to be confident in my delivery.
@chrishorz887
@chrishorz887 9 месяцев назад
I'd love to be in the this institution listening to him guided by him. I'm indeed blessed to have searched about communicating. I have picked out more vocabulary than what I've received.❤😊
@mohammedtahir8895
@mohammedtahir8895 2 года назад
Amazing lecture. I wish you all the best with coping with your anxieties and becoming effective comunicators
@oumaimaelomari3262
@oumaimaelomari3262 3 года назад
You know why u kept watching this till the 58th min and the 20th second? becoz of one thing.. He was talking spontaneously!! He wasn't distant from his audience and he used an understandable vocabulary. Am going to read his book and look for other "conversations" of him. Worth watching 👍
@chandanskona
@chandanskona 7 месяцев назад
key takeaways from this discussion are: 1: must have knowledge about the subject in context 2: Confidence 3: manage anxiety 4: listening 5: reframe the situation and take it as opportunity 6 : use structures
@like_to_comment
@like_to_comment 7 месяцев назад
thanks man
@llvahll_459
@llvahll_459 9 месяцев назад
Spontaneous speaking can found in: Feedback’s Introduction’s Q&A’s In order to be a good communicator control your anxiety -When you feel the anxiety symptoms greet it and explain to yourself that it is normal. Use the conservation technique -Ask questions in order to have your audience interferer. -Make the topic relevant to others like (This is important for you because ) Be in the present moment instead of the future states -Focus on what you will read about and what you will do instead of focusing on the audience -That could lead to less nervousness whenever you get nervous : 1# Get out of your own way don’t focus on doing the right 2#see things as an opportunity 3# slow down and listen Have a structure Helps us remember -Problem-solution-benefit Never lose your audience. -what? So what?Now what?
@ebaocihc7085
@ebaocihc7085 3 года назад
This video was amazing I’m glad it came into my recommended, I think now I can overcome the confidence and anxiety to toast and appreciate my family when we eat at the table together
@Lee-fy3uv
@Lee-fy3uv 2 месяца назад
Listened to literally every podcast episode. First time seeing Matt visually. As always, great stuff. He’s my mentor and doesn’t even know it lol
@user-px1gw8xo7h
@user-px1gw8xo7h 4 месяца назад
he is very calm and confident and know how he doing and he is very interactive when he talk his speech is very interesting for audience even they are online, so he is vary good speaker.
@fsc172
@fsc172 2 года назад
"A Q&A session is an opportunity to clarify, to understand what people are saying"- Seeing it as an opportunity rather than a challenge and a threat. That whole sentence changed my life
@OurHealth200
@OurHealth200 2 года назад
Am really grateful for this presentation. I have always been nervous to ask my customers when they are paying their debts but now I feel able with structuring
@tiovanysianturi2989
@tiovanysianturi2989 7 месяцев назад
He has a lot of things to learn! Thankyou prof, you've done makes us perfectly ready prove our skill and braveness. The confident, the way you talked, the way you saw methods with simple practices, it was incridible.
@jamaltaraji7180
@jamaltaraji7180 5 месяцев назад
Hi, i hope to know u
@mohammedzakidarga4802
@mohammedzakidarga4802 Месяц назад
I wanted to watch this video 2 yrs back but I was postponing it due to some work But now I have watched it completely it is an amazing video with helpful techniques for communication Thank you
@just_me_crystal_v1029
@just_me_crystal_v1029 Год назад
As a proud member of AA, I have over 6 yrs public speaking experience. I prefer spontaneous vs planned, so not to give myself time to overthink or to seem scripted. I don't usually get very anxious and it gets easier every time.
@ainnsufiaa
@ainnsufiaa Год назад
what is AA ?
@iiiRollSushiii
@iiiRollSushiii 11 месяцев назад
​@@ainnsufiaa Alcohol Anonymous
@profitingprofessionalservices
This is amazing advice. Spontaneous speaking, off the cuff/in the moment, is a skill all professional service founders must master, and also teach their teams. Will be sharing this!
@madhavsinghania2007
@madhavsinghania2007 Месяц назад
I dident really thought about spontanious speaking as problem to be solved altough it is some of the biggest barriers. My mind was almost of reborn as i listened to this lecture cant discribe the feeling. We have been tought by our schools our hole life ro think in a certain partern i really felt i was out of that trap listening to this 😊🙌🙌
@datrix26
@datrix26 7 месяцев назад
I believe gaining confidence and clarity in our communication can make a significant difference in various aspects of our lives. Thanks for sharing this valuable opportunity!
@dan_mclean
@dan_mclean 3 года назад
“See, I’m having a conversation with 100 people” ...22M views later
@BuddyMac69
@BuddyMac69 2 года назад
That “+” has gone a long way
@galinaantonov4574
@galinaantonov4574 2 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-KusJPhptgTg.html
@stephenadams5334
@stephenadams5334 Год назад
26Mil
@aaliyasultana940
@aaliyasultana940 3 года назад
shoutout to the people that are aged in this workshop yet actively learning at that stage.
@user-yf3nv4qk9l
@user-yf3nv4qk9l 21 день назад
I swear, its the best presentation and speech ive ever heard
@kabilanp7362
@kabilanp7362 7 месяцев назад
This is one of the best talks I ever heard.I have learned so many things.Because I was experienced many spontaneous moments during my college and my office. In this video I have learned how to overcome that sudden anxiety and how to take a moment to be calm down.Also I am going to follow the structure which was described in this video ..problem-Solution-Benefit.sure I will listen to the other person what he realy want to get from me. Thank you for the great video...
@loeungcam.
@loeungcam. Год назад
He is a excellent speaker, which makes me understand ❤easily.
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