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THIRD DATE GET READY & UNREADY WITH ME | Makeup, Outfit, & DATE RECAP!!!

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Guess who got taken on a third date? THIS GIRL DID! Of course I wanted to talk out my nerves and address many of the comments I received on my last date video beforehand while getting ready for it, so here was my makeup, outfit, and experience from a date night the other week ( ᐛ )و
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◇ Earrings: Stitch Fix (Kate Spade)
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◇ Ring: Gift
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★FIRST DATE GET READY & UNREADY WITH ME #5 | Makeup, Outfit, & DATE RECAP!!!
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★SECOND DATE GET READY & UNREADY WITH ME #2 | Makeup, Outfit, & DATE RECAP!!!
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★Too Faced Born This Way Super Coverage Concealer "Snow"
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★Thrive Causemetics Buildable Blur CC Cream "Light"
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★Pretty Vulgar The Powder Room Translucent Setting Powder
★BH Cosmetics Marble Luxe Jumbo Face Brush
★Charlotte Tilbury Filmstar Bronze & Glow Contour Duo "Fair/Medium"
★BH Cosmetics Studio Pro Small Contour Brush
★OFRA Highlighter "All Of The Lights"
★Real Techniques Setting Brush
★bareMinerals BOUNCE & BLUR Blush "Mauve Sunrise"
★BH Cosmetics Marble Luxe Tapered Powder Brush
★smashbox 24 Hour Photo Finish Shadow Primer
★Believe Beauty Brow Defining Pencil "Ash Brown"
★L'Oréal Brow Stylist Shape & Fill Mechanical Pencil "Brunette"
★Kaja Brow Blowout Fiber Gel Brow Definer "03 - Medium Brown"
★URBAN DECAY On The Run Mini Palette "Bailout"
★smashbox Cover Shot Eyeshadow Palette "Prism"
★NARS Soft Matte Complete Concealer "Vanilla"
★Pacifica Magical Multi-Pencil Prime & Line Lips Eyes & Face
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★I hate that I'm even writing this but I just wanted to assure you all that I purchased all of the items shown-unless explicitly stated otherwise-and am not paid (in terms of a sponsorship) to create and share this video. The above links are not affiliate links unless labeled otherwise; some have been shortened with tiny url to make this description box less messy. Never will you ever be exploited by me!! Pinky promise.
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@tatiannapopovich3424 4 года назад

I've always looked at these videos as fun little "talkin to your girlfriends before a date" not a point to judge Cassie on her life. On how she feels, on what she does? It's not our date or our feelings. Side note, it's hard as shit to dress sexily in a cold climate, and some people would rather be comfortable and focus on their date rather than how uncomfortable they are in "sexy clothes"

@RhondaBlanchard 4 года назад

@Tatianna Popovich I agree! This is exactly how I feel. I just couldn’t put as well as you did. Perfect comment. 👍🏻😊

@damienjones4271 4 года назад

Yes! Well said I was going to say I love how she sits down and talks to her girlfriends 😊 I dont read the comments but geez whats wrong with people? Cassie you are awesome and you rock! Your a real person and these people out her trying to live like celebrities or some made up life in movies is ridiculous! Even down to the way you dress you look beautiful! Your outfit is Awesome and its exactly how every other normal human being dresses in what they love not like a Fashion Nova Ad! Well anywho your the best and I only wish I had a friend like you! Your gonna go on and live without these haters in your mind and be what you are and what we love the TRUE CASSIE! 💋💋💋

@damienjones4271 4 года назад

BTW purples look wonderful on you for eyeshadow 💜 Seeing you happy and hearing your high pitched voice is WONDERFUL 😊😘🙌👑🦋🌟

@sbg1911 4 года назад

Exactly ! She's a smart lady and not looking for life advice from RU-vid comments 😬

@madison42294 4 года назад

YES! Thank you! Please keep being your authentic self, Cassie. You are totally fine and valid in all of your feelings and thoughts. Dating is subjective to the individuals participating. Like art, or makeup, or anything else. Keep doing you, you’re perfect as is and any guy worth his salt will see that!

@rozzlynn3474 4 года назад

Please do a get ready with me when you see him again! I do enjoy these dating videos.

@awesomeopossoms 2 года назад

Omg the Nader profile pic 💀

@jojeandumont1688 4 года назад

I was "friends" with my husband for a year! It took us a full year to be intimate. He was so patient. And when we finally decided the time was right, it was perfect.

@thriftthick 4 года назад

so glad things worked out for the two of you

@aleciamartinez2454 4 года назад

I appreciate your vulnerability and you sharing and talking about your personal life. It feels like you're just sitting and talking to a girlfriend you know? Been watching you for years now and look up to you for that

@caitlinangulo8758 4 года назад

I dont get why ANYONE thinks its their business to say whether shes ready or not. Like she said, she cant force a spark. Cassie is the one dating, not US.

@denise8791 4 года назад

It's the internet. If she's sharing this much people will give their opinions that's all. Cassie doesn't have to take anyone's advice. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@frazzledhaloz3184 4 года назад

Caitlin Angulo how many times have I heard this from my own daughter! If there is no spark, end of story!

@marthebuskens 4 года назад

i really respect you for always speaking your mind, even when its not a populair opinion. i love hearing your view in your chatty videos, bc i know its coming from the heart. you go girl! 💞

@marthebuskens 4 года назад

+ youre being very vulnerable, and remember a lot of people leaving those nasty comments don’t possess that quality. youre an amazing person, dont let them tell you differently!!

@trixie7166 4 года назад

I love these videos! They’re so comfortable and relatable. Ignore the jerks that try to tell you how to live your life. They know nothing.

@madisonozment 4 года назад

I was friends with my boyfriend for 7-8 years before we started dating. Being friends and knowing someone before getting into a relationship is definitely beneficial!

@kinah7180 4 года назад

I think for a lot of people they have sex early on because sexual chemistry is super important to them in a relationship, so they figure it’s better to make sure the chemistry is there before taking things farther, but not every one is like that and that’s totally fine!. Also, I think sometimes breaking the touch barrier can be super helpful when trying to get some romantic chemistry going. You could try just holding hands or kissing!

@Miirasha 4 года назад

WORD! 100% agree with this

@jupiterjazz692 4 года назад

Yeah. The problem with sex early is that people generally only want it because it’s new and exciting. Chemistry in a lust phase is deceptive, and usually has a lot more to do with conquering uncharted territory than anything else

@jordania1283 4 года назад

Actually kissing is worse then having sex when it comes to triggering lust for someone making you think you love them. Your lips actually secrete a certain hormone that causes this

@Blkvelveteen21 4 года назад

Sexual Chemistry actually gets better over time once you develop trust with someone. It also opens the door to communication about the things you do and don’t like when it comes to sex.

@kinah7180 4 года назад

Maybe chemistry is the wrong word. I more meant they wanna see if they’re compatible in bed/if the sex is good or not. Sometimes it just doesn’t work no matter how much you want it to. Everyone likes different things & as for holding hands and kissing...it’s just a suggestion to make it feel more like dating, less like friendship without sex being involved. But to each their own, everyone should just do what they’re comfortable with.

@avzapata512 4 года назад

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 For Communication in person, face to face, yes ma'am!! Never have an important conversation on email or text

@pupdgc 4 года назад

I love how you want to get to know a guy before getting physical. I wish more guys were on board with that. The best feeling I had with a guy was when I was friends with him first and then more developed (that didn't work out, but it was still the strongest set of feelings I've had for someone), and I'd love to have a relationship grow out of friendship again; for me, it's deeper. I do agree that it seems most guys expect a romantic/physical connection immediately and don't really want to wait; maybe that's not the case, but I always feel like it's expected. I admire your courage! I also like your clothing style; you should definitely go out in whatever clothing you feel comfortable and happy in! You don't need to go out of your way to impress the guy! He should like you no matter what you're wearing, not b/c you're wearing something "sexy." Love you, Cassie! Keep up the good luck!!!

@chanilin3475 4 года назад

On the other hand, in her last date video she criticized him for not being so interested in the museum/art and being more focused on getting to know her...

@EsmeraldaVara 4 года назад

Cassie, I agree with you. I'm very similar to you. So glad my now husband was on the same page with me, while we were dating, on waiting for the right time we both feel mutually ready, as well. Wishing you nothing but the best!

@ivyrose779 4 года назад

I don’t think anyone was saying you should dress sexier just because you’re going on a date. The way you described it made it sound like you were specifically dressing down so he wouldn’t come on to you which would be a little weird. Dressing how you’re comfortable and normally dress isn’t weird.

@samanthae3609 4 года назад

I like your vulnerability and openness in these videos. Any person whether male or female should appreciate honesty. The fact of you being honest about your feelings and expectations in a relationship is commendable. Continue being true to yourself and the right person will come along ❤️

@lanabanana_x 4 года назад

Sickens me to the core that you need to remind people in the comments that you’re an actual human with feelings and ask not to leave anything nasty, how low do people need to be to be so picky and horrible to someone over the internet that they don’t even know! Keep your chin up Cassie! 💕

@jessiemacd651 4 года назад

Everyone goes at their own pace, my dear. My husband and I happened to be on the same page and went "all the way" on the third date 🤷‍♀️ it just happened to be our pace. I'm so happy that you had an awesome time and fingers crossed for you! You deserve to be happy

@hellsbells8689 4 года назад

I met my fiance online back in 2003, in what would now be known as a "Chatroom/site". He said Hi and chatted to me, made me laugh and didn't ask what colour underwear I was wearing or if I wanted to have "cyber sex", so that made him very unusual. We bumped into each other again in the same room and spent a couple of hours chatting (typing) again. We then started to arrange the next time we could meet up to chat online again. Now I haven't said that he is in the USA and I am in the UK, so 4000 miles apart. We spent the next 10 months chatting (typing) and talking on this new thing that had come out, called Skype before he flew over here and we met for the first time in person. We were wild about each other by then and I knew I wanted to spent the rest of my life with him BEFORE we met in person. We had a little bit of a snog at the airport and when I got him home (a mutual friend's place) I jumped on him! We laugh now about what a lady I was in allowing him to put down his suitcases AND take his jacket off BEFORE my attack. We are also very glad that we had that 10 months of talking before we met because we both know that sex would have happened after a very, very short time and I think we would have spent more time doing that than getting to really know everything about each other.

@Emily-qk2je 4 года назад

I’m loving that foundation, the blush? Is laying on the foundation beautifully!

@hagyarirhodes 4 года назад

Cuteuhopeu • thank you! I was thinking the exact same thing! Gorgeous blush and foundation 💕

@rachelford9978 4 года назад

I'm so happy for you! Being on the same page with someone you're interested in is such a good feeling!

@jmelynn87 4 года назад

I’m glad your’re on the same page with him. Thank you for showing women that you don’t have to rush into anything, it’s refreshing tbh.

@jennagiggles6097 4 года назад

Cassie the most precious gift you can give to someone else is yourself. Wait until you are ready for intimacy and take things as you feel them. Ppl seem to forget sex is just sex, it’s hot, it’s dirty and yes it feels good but making love is something so beautiful between two people. Be choosy and go at your own pace because you are WORTH IT❤️

@karakookabear 4 года назад

I totally understand what you are saying and I find it sad that others don’t. I’ve been married for going on 22 years and trust me, you better be best friends if you expect to make it though the ups and downs of life! Also, if a partner won’t wait for sex until you are feeling it too, then he’s not the type of guy you wanna be with anyways. I gotcha, girl! Much love and hugs 🦋🦋🦋💕

@amandaguerette9036 4 года назад

Who is out here writing these nasty comments?? I'd like to give them a piece of my mind. Anyway, don't listen to them, Cassie, because you're such a lovely person and a refreshingly honest presence on the internet. You keep doing you and going at your own pace because you deserve to be happy.

@nicolecourtney8688 4 года назад

Id like to give them a piece of my keyboard...lodged in their brain. Lol

@chrissykimbrough 4 года назад

Cassie, just keep being your same bubbly beautiful self. Quite frankly I'm sick of seeing the disrespectful comments directed at you. Right down to bashing you the other day regarding Kobe. It's says a lot more about these people than it does you and they know you're a good person with a good heart so you won't bark back at them. It's disgusting. Your fans love you and love your content, your makeup, your style, and respect your beliefs and opinions. The rest is garbage. You are a ray of sunshine, girl. 💗

@perpetuallydancing 4 года назад

I don’t see anything wrong with your approach to meeting your person. You’re keeping it real, and staying true to yourself. If you follow your heart, then you won’t go wrong. Your honesty is refreshing, and you have a great personality.

@jamstone9380 4 года назад

hey cassie, just wanted to say i love and really look forward to these videos!! with regards to the comments that people leave on your personal life, you know the situation more than any of us who only hear bits and pieces from what you tell us, so just continue working through your dating and communication the way you deem appropriate!! take care, take it slow and make sure you're comfortable♡

@mells489 4 года назад

“Sparks” is definitely a real thing! When my husband and I met, we later found out that we had the exact same type of feelings which were like our souls going “oh, there you are. We’ve been looking for this for such a long time.” It’s now been 10yrs since we’ve been dating-married. The year before dating we were friends but we both felt like more was to come from the friendship.

@lostlamb666 4 года назад

Irritates me how you're clearly dealing with a lot of anxiety and sounds like maybe abandonment issues and people just come for you. Like do these people realize how hard it is to let someone in after you've been CONSTANTLY hurt over and over??? Take your time girl. As much as you need. There is a patient and caring guy out there who will understand u. I hated my bf at first then we were friends for a year and now we've been dating for 5 years. Dont let people invalidate your feelings, they are yours to keep ❤

@mansionofcardboard 4 года назад

1000000% agreed

@nicolecourtney8688 4 года назад

I realte to the hated my bf first...then friends for a year or so and now we have been dating 9 years and have 3 kids ❤

@lostlamb666 4 года назад

@@nicolecourtney8688 just goes to show everyone deserves a fair chance!

@katiebrady6601 4 года назад

I know that this an older video (I like having your videos up in the background while doing work so I'm bingeing) but I just want to say that as an asexual with anxiety- I get everything you're saying. There can be a lot of anxiety around dating, even if you don't have an anxiety disorder, so it makes sense that you would be nervous before a date when you know that others feel differently about intimacy than you. I myself had to have this kind of conversation with my ex early on because some people really do expect/relate sex with dating and I didn't want to be seen as leading him on. Just know that there are people out there who get you and that whatever you think or feel around dating is always valid and normal.

@hilowkitty 4 года назад

Yay for you having solid boundaries! I wish I’d had more self confidence and been more upfront when I did the dating thing. Dating was fun, but also the PITS

@karolynanderson2033 4 года назад

I love that you stick to your guns and don't compromise what you want! I feel that you don't want to jump into a physical relationship. I'm awkward af if I even suspect someone is hitting on me, so when someone is trying to move things forward physically, I have always just shut down and had no idea how to act! I'm very lucky to have a guy who I connected with and felt comfortable with quickly. We both make big decisions carefully and take our time. You WILL find your person, and you'll be so happy you didn't compromise your values!

@chelseabray5327 4 года назад

I messaged my husband first. Kissed him first. Told him I loved him first. Those rules are all made up. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@traceydee10 4 года назад

Chelsea Bray Good that you were able to do that, but some women aren’t comfortable being the first to do those things. It may be old fashioned, but there’s nothing wrong with it either.

@chelseabray5327 4 года назад

Traceydee Watkins it just seemed like Cassie thinks she “can’t” do those things because of how it would be perceived but wishes she could.

@chelseabray5327 4 года назад

Traceydee Watkins if she didn’t express that she dislikes these “rules” I wouldn’t have left my comment. It’s to show an example of me being true to myself and not following rules and it leading me to where I needed to be. ❤️

@Blkvelveteen21 4 года назад

Honestly, if it’s meant to be, those things won’t deter him. If he’s really interested, these moves actually turn them on. But I know Cassie doesn’t like to be the move maker.... and that’s ok.

@chelseabray5327 4 года назад

@@squirrel_of_mistri8565 That is your personal experience and mine is different. The point I am trying to make is that these aren't real rules and if Cassie doesn't want to follow them, she shouldn't have to.

@amyweinstein7261 4 года назад

Screw those people who are judging you for your dating feelings. You ROCK and seem like a fantastic communicator.

@xNEONBAYx 4 года назад

Omg PTSD moment when you said "WE NEED TO TALK." LMAO

@staceymcghee77 4 года назад

Cassie I'm almost 60 years old and enjoy your channel. Ignore the jerks. You be you. Call it a date if you want to call it a date.

@juliannehaywood240 4 года назад

I'm 57 and love watching Cassie!

@khl1987 4 года назад

Don't let people on the internet, that don't even know you, get into your head and mess with your relationships. Do what you feel, there is nothing wrong about that.

@22musiccrazy 4 года назад

Cassie you do not need to explain yourself to anyone! Only you know when you're ready to date, when you feel chemistry with some, how fast you want things to go etc. People are rude and nosy and love giving unsolicited advice when it comes to vulnerable situations/topics like this. You do you girl ❤

@terrymay2000 4 года назад

I love listening to you, Cassie. You are amazing, beautiful (both inside and out), and very wise.

@PiaChanx 4 года назад

Cassie don't ever let anyone ever make you feel bad about the way you feel. It's different for everyone. I have literally no experience with dating (found my person in high school) but I still understand what you are saying, and think I would have the same thoughts as you about the friendship. And for us it was my bf that was the cat lover, so no being a animal lover will not scare your person away 🐱🐈

@kolby18 4 года назад

Your face/ arms are looking amazing in regard to your dermatillamania !!!!! Also I am very happy you are continuing to make these and you found yourself a good one, at least for now 😘🧡

@thriftthick 4 года назад

thank you so much!!

@priscillafelix11 4 года назад

I admire you because you keep trying no matter what people say . Every relationship whether that be friendship or more has its own pace . Something that other people don’t understand . Keep doing you beautiful ❤️

@allisonzachery 4 года назад

Dressing sexy doesn’t automatically mean showing more skin 🤦🏼‍♀️ Could simply be throwing a belt around your waist to show it alil. Sexy is a very personal choice. Hell throwing on my favorite black long sleeve and scarf and nice curvy jeans is sexy to me

@katy_4971 4 года назад

I agree! Sexy is what you make it! I hate showing off flesh it's just not me, I'm not comfortable with it. But what makes me feel sexy is wearing something I love something that makes me feel incredible.

@urwaimran1487 4 года назад

Yes girl yesss

@nicolecourtney8688 4 года назад

Being that Jeans are soooo incredibly hard to "fit" to your body...when you find THE pair, they can make your LIFE. lol like evening wear who? I know i feel absalutly stunning with a white tank tucked into my high waisted RSQ jeans 😍just me

@allisonzachery 4 года назад

Tiffani Ann girl dismissed. Literally everyone else got it besides you 🙄

@bethknapp4935 4 года назад

Sometimes people have to grow on you. When I met my husband I didn't really have that spark until I got to know him more. In fact I hated him when I first met him in person lol. I thought he was very arrogant with a very dull personality. But we became friends and I realized that he was just shy and reserved around me in particular because he was very attracted to me. We are very opposite personalities. But over time I fell head over heels for him. He brought me down to earth more, and I helped him become more outgoing. But we did start out as friends first and we didn't become intimate until about a month in. There is nothing wrong with finding a mental intimacy first, it really is the most important part of a strong, lasting relationship. I wish you nothing but happiness no matter what happens sweetie, you are an amazing and beautiful woman. ❤❤❤

@Blkvelveteen21 4 года назад

The critical comments are all coming from people who more than likely aren’t even out there actively dating. I’m married and I’m not gonna lie, some of these vids can be cringeworthy but then I think back to what I went thru when I was dating and everything you are verbalizing is exactly what ran through my mind. It’s emotionally draining. People forget this. You just gotta follow your gut and have faith that this is the path that is meant for you.

@taabbym 4 года назад

Cassie I just want to say that you are a breath of fresh air to watch and listen to :) You are just so real and I feel like you are genuinely humble. I just feel like listening to you speak is like listening to a conversation with a friend and I just really enjoy that. I love these date GRWM series videos! So intruiging

@18Sia247 4 года назад

That outfit is so freakin cute on you

@sarasales4406 4 года назад

Right, I think she looked great from top to bottom! Love that sweater and those jeans fit perfectly!

@hharts83 4 года назад

It really was! I loved it.

@xHALxxx 4 года назад

you mention in your video that people say dating doesn’t work because you’re ugly, have cats, annoying whatever .. THAT IS BEYOND FAR FROM THE TRUTH. those people are self hating and you are so expressfull that they get off whenever you talk about your hurt from their words. i love that you still stay as open w us as you do. you’ll find the right person. you have such a kind heart. i wish we could be friends irl! but my heart goes out for you dealing w the negativity. do what feels right to you and have fun! you’re still young. don’t lose sight of the fun part while trying to find your significant other. so many of us support you and love listening to your videos. you are so raw and open. i’m in the same spot, dating.. and i always watch your videos as i get ready. love yaaa cassie

@TheKopels 4 года назад

You receive so many unfair, judgmental comments. You keep doing you! I love your dating videos, thanks for sharing with us!! 😁

@thriftthick 4 года назад

thank YOU for watching Miriam and for sticking with my channel for such a long time (your icon is one that I definitely recognize!) ^_^

@rebeccaobermark2283 4 года назад

My husband and I still have our spark and we’re best friends! It’s SO important to be friends with your significant other because once the honeymoon phase goes away you still want to like who you’re with! Don’t listen to anyone besides yourself, if you feel a certain way, you do you! ♥️

@jonesatlas8629 4 года назад

Yay for a gentleman! ❤️

@nyb6327 4 года назад

I completely agree with you on dating. You are right, people are not mind readers and the best way to learn something is to ask or share. Communication is everything and if you don’t feel comfortable just communicating, I wouldn’t cross the line into physical intimacy. Also, I hope that you never feel obligated to tell the internet your personal feelings on intimacy, physical or otherwise. I’m rooting for you and your happiness ❤️❤️❤️

@autumnmabis6998 4 года назад

Cassie, you need to remember the adage, "Your opinion of me is none of my business." I am so tired of people hiding behind their computers and phones, thinking somehow it's appropriate for them to give advice/criticism when it has not been asked for. Seriously, people need to back off. Btw, you look great. Hope all goes well with your potential person ❤

@amberkane5169 4 года назад

I am so glad you guys are on the same page. I think you were right to see what was up and tell him what was up. Honestly honest is the best policy. It is a good foundation for any relationships.

@marymadeup13 4 года назад

Yay!!! You're on the same page!! I'm so happy for you!

@jessierebecca2365 4 года назад

My fiancé is my best friend. I actually didn’t want anything to do with him in the beginning but he perused me and we became friends first and then I felt that spark that I always wished I would find. Good luck on your journey! You’ll find your person when you least expect it 💕

@coraself589 4 года назад

I'm so happy for you please always keep being yourself the light in your eye when you came home was great plus your eyeshadow look fabulous as usual much love

@restgbeachface 4 года назад

I think you are very brave to put yourself and your relationship status and the fact that you're dating out into the public. Everyone is going to have their own opinion, and I'm SO GLAD that you don't listen to people. I LOVE that you have high standards and high morals. Way to go Cassie, you go girl!

@catsav1 4 года назад

I love the cool toned eyeshadow on you!

@chantellematekino-louis2119 4 года назад

I agree with you 100%. I think being a friend first with your partner is a great foundation. Casey, I have been watching your videos for a few years now, I don't often comment but today I just want you to know how much you have grown, video by video you have emproved. You are a stunning, amazing, talented and real person. You should be proud of yourself.

@katieo.8659 4 года назад

I really enjoy you opening up and sharing your experiences with us! I hope all these negative Nancy's don't stop you from doing so in the future. I don't know why people think that the way they do things is the only way any person can go about things. Just ignore them. You be you!!

@Cathilee86 4 года назад

I truly hate how people are so nasty in comments when they don't know your reasoning behind actions/thoughts. I'm glad you guys are on the same page! Good luck on future outings

@hatchmando4918 4 года назад

Dating is hard. Im proud of you for putting yourself out there. I need to do the same. Your butt looked awesome in those jeans!

@annhelfrich6139 4 года назад

It’s absolutely the best way to start a relationship is friends in my opinion. I think no one should be sleeping with anyone this fast but that’s also my opinion. I’ve been with my hubby for 30 some years and we started as friends for a good 4 years and never did I think we would date let alone married for 26 years and two young men later. Cassie you do exactly what you think is best for you and things fall into place.

@laurakatherine8349 4 года назад

This video makes me feel a bit sad. People don’t realize how scary dating can be. I overthink and over analyze everything. Also, if anyone has been hurt in the past it can be carried with you even if you don’t realize it. You’re being smart and you NEED to feel comfortable. That’s the most important thing!

@homemakingwisdom 4 года назад

The theam of our wedding was, "today I married my best friend" now we have been married for 22 years. I'm also old school so was he and I like a commitment so we were not intimate, untell after we got married. I know it's old school and I stood my ground and didnt care what others thought, if he will not wait then he is not the one for me. So when we had the talk we both were on the same page. Now it's been 22 years and 3 kids later, still both in love. Not saying it was all rainbows and unicorns but we made a commitment and learn to work things out. We when though hard times like losing our baby boy, but we went thought it together and the hard times made us stronger, and it makes the fun and easier time all the more sweeter.

@sarahgrae8984 4 года назад

I really love your grwm’s, Cassie! You are so genuine and you just have such a kind soul, even when addressing negativity. I have learned that communication really is everything on relationships, so good on you for being yourself and being honest! I get it’s the internet, but I can’t understand why anyone would ever feel like it is their place to judge or shame you or anyone else for that matter. Please keep sharing and posting these chatty grwm’s 💕 I’m so glad everything went so well and whoever you end up dating or befriending is lucky to have you in their lives! You go, girl! I’m sending love and positivity your way!! 😊

@thriftthick 4 года назад

thank you so much Sarah, what a kind and heartwarming comment!!

@kateriavila6918 4 года назад

I personally really like your approach to dating. I think you are careful of your boundaries and what you project in the world and that is important. I hope you continue to do these videos.

@Pinkpixiedust17 4 года назад

Yes! I loved how you addressed these comments so assertively! Do it more often! I watch a lot of channels and videos and scroll through comment sections and I always find that the ones that comment on your videos are the harshest and most cruel, pretty much bullying. Address them assertively and respectively just like this! No one has to understand how you feel cause they’re your feelings and it’s nice if you do find people that can relate and it’s nice when people can offer constructive criticism versus this it’s fun to bash you type comments I notice. Kick their butts.

@copiumforthepeople 4 года назад

Exactly. Bullies and trolls are usually cowards and need to be called out. Bet they would never have the guts to expose themselves in a vulnerable manner like Cassie! (Which is why they can't handle it and call her "annoying"/telling her to stop talking about it)

@mariajose1131 4 года назад

It sucks that the aholes are always the loudest. I love watching these videos cause I enjoy hearing you talk about how your feeling. Dating is difficult and ALL perspectives are valid. You do you Cassie!

@olga2you 4 года назад

Hi Cassie, this is my unsolicited opinion on “games and rules”: Do and say literally whatever you’re feeling and ask whatever you’re wondering about. You’ll get rejected more for sure but that just means you’re getting closer to your person faster right? You’ll probably get ghosted and stuff but unless you’re okay with someone who would do that (I think they’re the immature ones and mean) then who cares right? It lets you move on faster to the next candidate. Anyways, I’m interested in your opinion on this or if you’ve considered this. But obviously feel free to ignore this comment as well 🤷🏻‍♀️

@dopehat868 4 года назад

I agree 100%. Be yourself and speak your mind right from the start and you don’t waste so much time on people who aren’t right from you because they won’t be fooled into speaking with you. This is what I’ve done and consequently all of my dates have been amazing!

@AMowrey 4 года назад

People misunderstanding you is them not listening to you and projecting their own issues on you. I think, if anything, you are very conscientious of being mindful of the words you chose and work hard to not offend people. There's always going to be people who think it's their business to judge you or tell you about yourself. I think you're amazing and i'm happy that you challenge yourself to keep going out there and trying. Dating is challenging enough, you have the right to go at your own pace.

@annasoloveichik2769 4 года назад

Love this look first of all. Secondly, this is really helping me be braver in my own dating experiences. We are all scared and bravery is doing it anyway!

@heathercox1898 4 года назад

35 here. Also married almost 15 years. I know dating is so different now. I feel for yall! My advice is to be honest with yourself and him. If you just feel a friend vibe, then you are right in telling him. But don't expect all relationships to have that great spark. They don't always. Sometimes the spark comes later. And if it doesn't hopefully yall can be great friends who enjoy common things. Just be honest with each other. Life is nothing like tv or movies and the sooner you get over that sadness, the better life is. As far as the way you dress...girl, be you and be comfortable. Men like when you look nice and not like you just rolled out of bed, but the biggest sexiness to a guy is a girl who is comfortable with herself and not trying to be something she isn't. And if someone, ANYONE, tells you to dress differently to get someone to treat or like you better, then stop listening to that person. If you were dressing it up like a drag queen make up hooker then I would give other advise, but you are a lady and dress just fine. (I might take the period videos down though...that might turn newcomers to your life off...its alot of tmi)

@johnvan847 4 года назад

Your closet is so organised omg !! 😂 Love watching these date videos

@meganstrzok5398 4 года назад

Cassy, dont let anyone dictate who you are, or how you should act, or what you should wear. Your beautiful and there is nothing wrong with how your dating. I think you are being mature and honest

@mrssgen 4 года назад

Yay!! So glad you’re both on the same page I’m so excited for you and happy to see how this goes if you continue to share 💗💗

@Forever_OctobersJ 4 года назад

I think that's amazing that you wanted to bring it up. When I met my husband almost 10 years ago, we were very honest with each other of our expectations of the relationship. It was great. We built a solid foundation because we were able to talk about things and communicate what we wanted and didn't want. And not full details with sex but just anything in general. I think it's extremely mature to be able to lay it out there and talk about things. Doesn't mean there cannot be a compromise somewhere down the line but being able to really talk to someone, that's when you know you met someone worth spending time and energy on.

@Yennie97 4 года назад

Are you worried about him finding your channel? 😂

@thriftthick 4 года назад

nope!! I addressed this in my most recent live stream.... but to sum it up, I've said everything in these videos to his face (more or less) so it's not like he'd be super shocked to watch my thought processes here on the internet, you know?

@mrsgsfo 4 года назад

Personally, I think you should keep your personal interactions personal. You don’t need to open yourself up to opinions of your subscribers. People tend to feel entitled and what they should be doing is respecting your individuality and tread lightly to spare your feelings! You know how to handle you, be true to yourself💖💖💖

@mrsgsfo 4 года назад

From a Mom and a grandma (65) you ARE amazing and someday, your prince WILL come...

@mirandasmith876 4 года назад

Thrift Thick I’d have to agree with above comment... you should be keeping this personal for respect of him... but you do you, 🤷🏼‍♀️RU-vidrs dont know the word personal life

@debbicardwell3082 4 года назад

Cassie just keep being you! You are truly a delight and so refreshing. Sex isn't everything. You need to trust and care deeply first. What if the person gets ill or becomes paralyzed. No sex so no relationship? Of course not! People wake up!

@liyanai151 4 года назад

Bumble does have an option to say what you’re looking for, and you can filter who sees you based on what they’re looking for. So it can be as relationship-y or hookup-y as you want. Some people do find relationships on tinder (I found my ex on there) but I get what you mean that on bumble it can be more obvious what someone is looking for.

@carmenwalker5788 4 года назад

Hey Cassie !! I'm glad to hear about the update with the guy you're getting to know ! I'm glad you both got to talk, and are on the same page and had a great time. I'm also very happy to hear that he asked if you was comfortable to come to his place. It shows he's not one to wanna jump into anything intense. I think friends before lovers is also a great approach to have. I wish you the best as always and to those who are so extremely rude about you in the comments, I would brush them off their not people who are worth the time of day. I believe in you Cassie and I wanna see you find the happiness you truly deserve !! Much love to you girl

@yer_grrl 4 года назад

Tinder definitely isn’t just a hookup place though, my boyfriend and I met on Tinder and have happily been together for half a year

@irelalita 4 года назад

laurenoodle Same here!

@NaiomiRonald 4 года назад

You guys are the rare ones. Don’t get me wrong it happens but hardly ever!

@yer_grrl 4 года назад

Naiomi Clark I dunno I mean I have 3 friends who are either engaged or married to significant others they’ve met on tinder

@courtneymangus6427 4 года назад

I met my bf on Tinder and we have been together over 3 years now!

@tatyana5692 4 года назад

I’ve been with mine for 3.5 years! Tinder is good for some things haha

@lanieelizabeth6505 4 года назад

people are always gonna be negative!!! i think you’re doing a GREAT job!!! dating is not easy!! and it’s hard to let your guard down and i think you’re completely right to tell him how you are feeling!! i personally agree that the best relationships come from friendships!!😁 don’t listen to any one telling you your too ugly and things like that, i think your beautiful and you’re personally one of my favorite youtubers to watch!!! you’re doing great, stay true to YOU 🥰

@ramblerjambler9528 4 года назад

I know you mentioned you're hyper sensitive to other's feelings, but you don't owe a single person an explanation for how you choose to date or what you wear. Those comments were rude af.

@betsy8962 4 года назад

Rambler Jambler well said! 👏👏👏

@leeshaplans 4 года назад

Your channel.... your life..... you don’t owe anyone an explanation ❤️

@novamane4727 4 года назад

You’re being upfront and honest with your boundaries!! Very mature and healthy 💖

@claudiagurke6954 2 года назад

For all you saying a spark can develop.:from my experience that if I don’t click with them first time it never develops. Friendship or romantic. Had a friend for over 3 years and we never clicked as hard as I tried, so I disagree that sparks or chemistry develops

@Miirasha 4 года назад

It made me so happy to see you happy after you got home

@HeatherVictoria0911 4 года назад

Don’t be hard on yourself for others lack of understanding. At the end of the day, you are on the search for your soulmate. No ones opinion should stop you from achieving what you really want especially if you’re doing it in the most genuine way you know how. I wish you all the luck Cassie 🥰

@mzcytin 4 года назад

When you were talking in the last date video, it sounded as though you were going to stop seeing him because you didn't feel there was a spark. Most of us were just trying to encourage you to keep seeing him. Maybe you don't see the sparkle in your eyes when you talk about him, but we do and have since the first date. We are genuinely rooting for you... and him.

@calliew311 4 года назад

Here's the thing, if he's a nice guy, a spark can develop. It's not always instant. I didn't like my husband when I first met him. I thought he was cocky and full of himself, and he was. But then I got to know him, and he wasn't really that guy that he was putting off. I also told her to not give up. Not everything happens at first sight.

@mzcytin 4 года назад

@@calliew311 my comment on the 2nd date video said "I don't want a spark... sparks can fizzle out after first burning your whole house down. I want a nice steady, warm glow that will last a lifetime". Congrats on finding that kind of glow.

@calliew311 4 года назад

@@mzcytin that's a great way to describe it! And it's true. The people I dated or chased were people that I had that spark with, and none were particularly good to me or for me. Butterflies can develop. I just keep saying to her via comments, don't give up for lack of a spark after 1 or 2 meetings. I mean if he's nice, give him a chance, give yourself a chance too. I understand that feeling, but if that's all I would've went after, I prob wouldn't be married to my husband, and he is WAY better than an initial spark 🤷!

@Lovelyrice1 4 года назад

I absolutely love and respect the fact that you take your time and get to genuinely know and understand a person before taking it to a physical level. There's nothing wrong with having particular standards and being honest with somebody early on so that you're both on the same page. So please don't apologize for your standards or feelings, Cas. Thanks for sharing such a personal side of your life, I'm rooting for you! ♡

@sharroon7574 4 года назад

I think people are telling you not to have a "talk" because you have that "I am too much in my own head and I like making a big deal out of small things" kind of vibe. I think everyone just want to say "just breathe and have fun". If you asked me for advice I would tell you to just slip something casually in the conversation and feel out where he's at. No need to put pressure on yourself.

@MarlanaPolis 4 года назад

You’re not wrong, I think it’s good to have the talk in case his expectations are different. Better to get it out of the way if he wants something else. My boyfriend and I were friends for a year first and when we started dating we weren’t intimate till a month later. We talked and he knew that when I was ready it would happen and he was okay with that. I know not everyone feels the same but for me that’s a vulnerable experience.

@michelerosequreshey8345 4 года назад

Hi Cassie! You looked beautiful! I am so happy to see that everything went well for you! Good luck with your new guy! He sounds super! 🥰

@laurenarivers 4 года назад

Cassie, you are awesome. Don't let the haters and trolls get to you. I very much enjoy your GRWM videos and date updates. Keep on being your rad self.

@alisabethbradford1486 4 года назад

The eye look was beautiful!

@caleahmarie365 4 года назад

I think that part of what makes that “spark” is how the other person responds to your wishes and desires. It sounds like he responded positively to what you want, which in turn is helping things roll the right way to build up to that spark. I think others need to understand that, especially those who are leaving the negative comments.

@Missy007 4 года назад

I think you explained your train of thought better in the beginning of this video than the last update. I'm only a couple minutes in when I'm watching this so idk how it went...but I remember the last update, from the way you put it, I thought you were "friend zoning" him and not wanting it to go any further but I see now that's not what you were saying. You just want things to develop more before getting serious. When you made the comment about the spark, I took that as you didn't feel that with this guy so he was "friend zoned" 😂 I don't even think I commented on the last video but maybe some of the other commenters were thinking the same thing as I was.

@Missy007 4 года назад

I'm commenting as I'm watching, I'm so sorry people left those kind of comments. I get constructive criticism and even the desire for wanting to see you happy... but those kind of comments are never okay.

@anniblivion6833 4 года назад

Cassie, everything you said in this video makes a perfect sense. You are the best judge on how you should proggress on your dating life, and what kind of boundaries in dating life are comfortable for you. As long as you do your best in trying to take your "dating companions" feelings in consideration and do your best in acting fairly and kindly towards other people you have nothing to worry. Being experienced in dating and romantic relationships (or relationships in general for that matter) does not automatically guarantee that you will be successful with your next dating partner since every single encounter is different and unique and thus should be treated as such. Do your best in your dating life and life trust your own instincts (I am convinced you have wonderful instincts!), I wish you all best in your future and current endeavors!!

@karolinyan 4 года назад

This is a much needed distraction! I just had a painful surgery on my foot and I'm on the verge of tears bc the local anesthetic is wearing off. Your videos always cheer me up, no matter what. 🤗

@karolinyan 4 года назад

@existential crises Thanks! ♥️😊 That's so kind of you, I hope you're having an amazing week. 🤗

@kittiesncosmetics137 4 года назад

Hope you have a speedy recovery! You got this 💕

@karolinyan 4 года назад

@@kittiesncosmetics137 Thank you so much! 🤗

@karolinyan 4 года назад

@sandy M It hasn't changed much tbh. Thank you, Sandy, I really appreciate it. Reading your comment truly is balm for the soul. Love this community so much ♥️

@emilysimpson5627 4 года назад

Cassie, I am behind you 100%. Everything you have said makes total sense. Those bitter betties have nothing better to do than to pass judgment on people they don’t even know, as if their way is the only way. You do you, boo!