This date was a DISASTER. (story 47) 

itll get there took me a while myself

Bless you! Mourning loss, takes so many shapes. Salute to you being comfortable...with you, wherever you find yourself. I am 10,000 GLINKS LLC (PRESS, ENTERTAINMENT, and REVIEWS)

There is no time limit when healing me to hun still hard to be without...xoxo

There is no time limit when healing me to hun still hard to be without...xoxo

@Joelmopar I lost mine a year ago Sept 21. I’ve never dealt with such a loss. I understand and know what you’ve gone thru. I’m praying for ya brother!

Go for it… live

Edwin I was so moved by your post I felt compelled to respond...... I know how incredibly difficult it is to meet a nice lady as we move into middle age.... especially going out alone as a man b/c of a perceived "Creep" factor..... I find when you go "Out" & the sole objective is meeting someone it's incredibly stressful b/c it creates so much pressure & who can act natural under those circumstances so seek to eliminate those conditions..... Something that worked for me was donation Charity.... Pick one or two local Charities or perhaps an Art Museum or a local University, Hospital or Church & make a small monthly donation & you will often be invited to fund raisers, balls, dinners & so on..... This is a fantastic way to make new friends & meet single / divorced women on a comfortable footing..... First, it's a great cause & your motive for attending is altruistic so it's a Natural conversation starter - ie.... how did you get involved w/ Children's Hospital of Philadelphia or what inspired you to get involved w/ the Philadelphia Museum of Art..... Another excellent opportunity is signing up to learn a particular type of Dance: Ballroom Dancing, Salsa, Samba & so on...... The reason this is such a good possibility is b/c the instructor will often offer to do Group lessons by Age category & Skill level so there are always singles who come alone & a "beginners course is very low impact & the teacher will match everyone w/ a partner RANDOMLY - so there is No pressure Signing up to learn a Foreign Language or a Book club are also Excellent opportunities If you are truly brave - beginners Yoga is a similar construct Another opportunity is over the internet you can search for Group events like Movies or Hiking or Casino trips or Biking...... & finally much like Charity involvement , you can Volunteer - local Churches & Hospitals often organize events or drives to help Homeless different seasons / struggles or if you are more of an animal person perhaps you can volunteer a few hours a week a week or month at a local animal shelter If you are involved in business in any way a Great way to meet people & connect is through the the local chapter of the Chamber of Commerce chapter...... Chamber of Commerce provides Innumerable opportunism to meet & connect w/ the most diverse group of people you can possibly imagine No mater which direction you choose, I know from personal experience that the MOST difficult obstacle is choosing just One & getting started....... So pray for Grace & Courage & I'll do the same I wish you the very best & Always remember when that Fear grips you that there is a shortage of Good, Family first men out there - so these wonderful single / divorced ladies WANT to meet you & build a friendship & the Romance & Chemistry requires no effort on your part b/c when it happens nothing can stop it & when it's absent nothing can manufacture it 😁😁

@@jackzeldon2883 Great ideas!

Edwin, I’m in the same boat. I go to a card game twice a week. You should try something like that. I get a real high from it.

I start with, going to the movies first. Book your ticket online. Show up, get scanned in. Theater is dark. No one fusses.. Presto you did! Your first outing All By Yourself. Who knows. You might meet someone afterwards.. just linger about a bit.

Yes, her and Rio make a good team. I like their relationship.

I agree!! We are blessed to have fur babies in our lives. 💕

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True.

Stop simpin

@@youareindenial4413 some men are so thirsty arent they.

I feel company whenever I read comments online, doesn't exactly mean I'm not alone.

Hannah Montana is that you girl? ☺️

I prefer going I a bookstore alone. I read in a quite place. It's a great stress relief.

Well said Ralph 👍🏻

Stop simpin

She's beautiful outside and inside too.

She did follow her heart & it brought her disaster.. the Bible says “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” Jeremiah 17:9 ❤️ Follow Jesus Christ, there’s Hope & Life in Him 💝 there’s a empty void in us only He can fill.

@@UhOhStevie lol oh good lord (pun intended) .... If you disagree with the way she lives her life, why watch? Or is it bc you're using the excuse that you're here to evangelize? Just to hopefully "plant a seed" for you.... here are some things I learned after leaving evangelicalism: My heart is not wicked, it is not deceitful, I am not broken, I am worthy, I am whole, and I am enough.

@@amberwentwhere Wise response to an unwelcome proselytizer.

@@UhOhStevie pfft

@@amberwentwhere it wasn’t hate speech, I was spreading life & hope in this fallen world🕊 What Jesus offers us is so much more than the world ever could, & what He offers is eternal life. God has so much love for us!

Farm raised Salmon is a disaster- big time. Trust me on that one. Quite toxic. I study nutrition for years and you can take what I say to the bank.

Right but people click quicker for... Disaster! 🙀 Then it all worked out fine😍👌👍

Men are terrible, we don't need them.

I'm sure if her "date" was a bad boy then she would fall head over heels for him.

How so? She's just bragging about her single life in order to conceal her real feelings of being alone.

Relationships require work, sacrifice and sharing of all things physical, spiritual and economic. Thats why I'm happily single. I spend time doing everything I want, when I want and without worry over someone elses psychic troubles. Life is good!

@@douglasbruce6491 I never found the right person, oh sure she may be out there but the odds were against me in the fact of where I live and what I do for a career which doesn't fit the wants of a lot of women ( I grain farm ) and was never one who was out there searching ( so not into the bar scene at all ) and so the relationships were few and not the right compatibility to pursue a life long commitment with.

I think what a lot of people miss is that all relationships fail EXCEPT the last one. We keep working though people and situations until we finally find one that works. Most don't. But as you say, it takes a lot of sacrifice and a lot of work on both sides. One big thing is having the discernment to actually choose the right person. The other big thing is actually being the right person.

Well l can only speak as a married person of 14 years whose relationship started with someone in another country 3 years before that. Being separated by 1200 miles me London UK, my wife originally Bialystok Poland. It's the little things in life that make the relationship. Doing something for your other half. Sharing, caring, buying a simple bunch of Rose's. I unlike other men treat my wife with respect, buy her flowers once a week, or occasionally something more expensive bottle of wine, take her and the family out. Most men only buy flowers, chocolates, wine or theatre tickets when they have done something wrong. Why wait to do so.ething wrong do the right thing first. After three years of only seeing each other at holiday times and not originally having whatsapp only writing letters to one another. We got together. 3 months after that l proposed and we got married that was 14 years ago 12th July. Two years after that l got married again to the same person but In a Polish church on the 12th August just because we could. Sometimes your have to give a little to take a little and lock down and covid was a huge step back. So many people are Sueing the pharmaceutical companies and others for lick down in the US. But the uk we are not even though that was our one disagreement to have the vaccine or not. My wife didn't have the vaccine until she was forced by her employer to have it. I on the other hand have had numerous medical problems pluracy, sepsis and covid pneumonia all at the same time and covid very nearly killed me so l had the vaccine so far no side effects unlike others. So that was our one and only disagreement. In life it's what you make of it. I am not religious, my wife is does it matter not really. So you just have to be who you are, where you are and size of space doesn't matter if you truly love each other.

@@jonothandoeser Truth. I didn't find my person until I was 31. I had so many friends by then that had already gotten divorced. It was when I finally resolved myself to just concentrate on myself, learning what I truly wanted, being truly alone that I met my now husband. We've been married for 23 years so far.

Just got back from a last minute three day trip to the beach, writing swimming beach glass search hammock painting movie lighthouse pier and beach walks, mass at local churches ~ very blessed and renewed

Hang in there Gary! All things are possible with God, I believe you can meet someone again! NEVER give up on your dreams.... if you are alive it's not too late!

@@krih8212 Well at 55 in feb a brain injury and fractured back in 3 places , having kids is pretty unrealistic. I've learned that dating with kids already isn't for me. Keeping it real.

Your story is actually more common than you think. Your not Alone Bro. 👊👊

For those of us living in the battle grounds of this messed up society/culture relationships are at best impossible. There are many good people still around, just connecting is difficult. I'm puzzled by the nomads extremely lucky to be so far away from the nonsense, yearning for connection themselves. Relationships are give and take, up n df owns and helping to be best person one can be. Living in warped society it's difficult to see the reality cause how shaped we are conditioned. See a trend when man thinks God isn't related to anymore? Left to ourselves were chasing the wind wanting to be loved not actually knowing we are!

@@gma729 never claimed i was alone in situation. I said it was hard to find a match.

Being single is a choice. One should not surrender one's sacred self solely to conform. One blossoms in self-love and has more to give when the "right" one enters one's life. Beauty can thrive in solitude and then can share more fully from the experience of self-growth. "Know thyself."

@@lifeisagift.cherisheverymoment 🙄

@@amylee6038 Fortunately, each person can take the path most appropriate for them. Not everyone values the same things. Not everyone's success is rooted in the corporeal. Namasté.

@@amylee6038 May I ask where is your country? One thing I have learned in my life is that everyone, of all races and nationalities and ethnicities and religions, basically want the same thing. To love and be loved. For who they are, not what they are. Many fall victim to the vagaries and illusions and distractions and outright lies of society. Some few listen to a wiser and more loving and universal truth. If you are happy, all is well. Peace and blessings. Namasté.

@@amylee6038 Am I permitted to empathize with your past? Am I permitted to agree with many points you have raised? Clearly, another perspective is not welcome. Peace and blessings.

Nice guys finish last is not just a saying. Women, just like men, don't want a boring partner. They gravitate towards the "bad boys" because they like the excitement. If you had choice between a goody goody woman who is a teacher or a crazy girl who rides a motorcycle, which would you choose?

@@TonyMontanaDS Sorry mate ,I'd prefer the goody teacher lady.Im not in to tattoos on a women.I like a strait decent lady even if she is a bit hippyish,women who are gravitate towards a bad guy are dunb.And even decent guys can be interesting.thanks for your response, Peter Scott O'Donnell from Forster NSW Australia 👍

Women who go for the bad guys should ask them selves why?Dumb.

@@peterscottodonnell7290 Enjoy being single!

Hello Alyssa, thanks for your reply, ain't sure what you meant by telegram.