I am single because where I live men married and had children way too young, got divorced and now are BROKE and emotionally unavailable to good, decent women. Furthermore they are now just seeking a woman who has something to bring to the table (ie money) to help them afford their ever-increasing child support payments - and I for one haven’t worked my arse off for 30 years to achieve what I have, and share it with someone who will bleed me dry financially then dump me when the money’s gone. THAT is the truth!!!!!
This was exactly the same story of what happened to me a while back....guy had kids way too young, got married then divorced & now he's 40 still with debts, child support ,rent & bills to pay. He was looking at how much I made & whenever we out on dates he wanted us to go 50/50 but I refused that kinda of NONSENSE....when he saw that I couldn't fall for his trap he started distancing himself then I confronted him about his breadcrumbs & he told me that he wasn't ready for a R/ship....little did he know that I was saving myself 1st 😅& making it clear to him that I wouldn't give him anything little than what he expects......After that talk😊I went completely NO CONTACT....then after a few days he came smiling trying to say Hi.....I went Cold😒....completely cut off all communications so as Not give him any mixed signals so as to make him Bold to come back to me. I also did it for Me....bse I didn't feel loved nor protected while we were together. Truth is... It also took time heal & completely let go....now that I okay. I can feel his energy coming back towards me.... 😅😅😅Guess what...... I'll will let U know when sth happens ........
Its true what you are SAYING! But yet there's so much that caues many to single like you said! Most of the time you have ONE THAT IS GIVING and ONE THAT IS TAKING and all this cause for LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING ( JUST LIKE YOU SAID). 2:27mins YOU MENTIONED LOVE .. Yes some people gets fed up after GIVING and GIVING out of love, and decided to stay single, try again and the same thing happened again. These kind loving people aren't doing anything wrong, it's just that Mr / Mrs right went through the same thing and are HIDING TOO. I'm a bit busy and not catching up as I would like and I am not as YOUNG AS YOU ALL 😂 BLESSINGS TO ALL ❤🙏
Not exactly accurate sir! Are you saying there are plenty of people available who are available and that maybe something is wrong with us? Yes, money is plentiful and that's just a matter of having ambition, determination to acquire it..there are many healthy people out there who are single, but can't get basic things like consistency from a person they meet. The men I've met were taken, narcissistic or maybe I wasn't their type. Anyone can have anyone, but finding the right person where both people's wants and needs, values compatibility etc are aligned; and one where both don't have baggage, mental issues, or are just not ready for a commitment is another story I call reality. This is nuanced and there are many things at play when trying to find the right person. YT Love gurus?
What do you being an introvert and not liking to be in groups for too long have to do with what I’m saying? Sounds like more excuses you’re using to make you feel better about whatever u got going on.
I purposely removed myself from the dating scene 10 years ago to focus on my faith and now I have to focus on my physical health but I would like to learn how to catch the one I want. I feel like I need someone on the same page as me when it comes to the way that I practice my faith. I am looking for a god-fearing head covering and nothing less than that. Otherwise I can stay single for the rest of my life since I have always been single. That's what I'm used to.
Im single, and a lifetime of men is the reason why. Discernment doesnt predict how a person evolves. They can be great in the beginning, and even for a couple of years, then change. Im not broke, but I could always use more money. However, Im done spending money on men. Im not unhappy. I'm finally being selfish for me for once in my life, instead of always worrying about others more - and happy with my life in general. Im not miserable because their isnt enough peace. Im miserable because Ive lost 2 sons in 4 years. Theres no level of self awareness and spirituality that can reroute the grieving process of your children. Im sick because I was exposed to cryptosporidium for 3 months in west texas. It had nothing to do with me being connected internally. I love ya dude, and theres no question that you have a gift, but the beginning of this video should be a poem ❤
I can’t find anyone worth a FLIP- Plus I don’t have time ( I have more days behind than ahead of me- don’t have time to get to know an entire person) I know someone I want, but he’s taken
Excuses that’s all it is . Amen. N u never managed the problem. Back again because we r reliable for our life . 360 degree turn u have just made back to A “again. Very true man . I’m 60yrs old n boy ur on fire. 🤗🤗
Everything takes time....sometimes we are on the learning and building stage so when it seems we are not receiving the abundance, the truth is we are moving towards it.
