I knew I was "grown" when I asked my "grown grown" mama where she was going and she actually told me. She didnt hit me, didnt cuss me out, but actually told me. 🤣🤣
Oh, you real grown to even try that! I am glad that it went well for you, but errrybody bet not try that without gaging the temperature of the Mama first.
I felt grown when I invested in some nice flatware after I kept buying cheap $19.99 sets every couple years. It's heavy, doesn't bend or scratch. I drive my family crazy, cause nobody is leaving until I have taken count of every piece. I will hold them hostage if a butter knife is missing. Same with my knife set.
When it’s too many lights on in the house....when you’re excited because your favorite laundry detergent is Buy One Get One Free...when you’re mad you forgot to use a coupon at the checkout 👍😄
1. Instead of splurging with my bonus and tax money I actually paid off my loans. 2. I check my credit score monthly. 3. I rather bake chicken instead of frying it! 🤯😲
Big grown moments: 1. Going to the dealer alone and buying my car after researching for 3 months 2. Paying all my bills ON TIME 3. Paying cash or not gettin' it AT ALL! GROWN! 🙋🏾♀️
Being sleepy at 9, loving the peacefulness of silence, a cast iron skillet, looking for great recipes, and only desiring to have deep, rich conversations.
Yes! I used to think older ppl were "haters" now all I think is "these kids today smh." I find myself saying stuff like, "that's a bad axx washer n dryer." 😫I can't believe I'm like this.
@@blacknbougie8021 Baybeee...my grandmother used to say these last day chirren and other hilarious things like that. Guess who walking around talking about these last day chirren, it's me?!? 🤦🏾🤣🤣🤣🤷🏾
I overheard my daughter say to her college friends (who were saying they were grown) that “you aren’t an adult until you’re paying for your own healthcare.” 🤓
I knew I was grown when I was humming and had the "after glow" from having clean floors, clean bathroom, clean sheets, empty laundry baskets and a sleeping child...all at the same time!
Yes ma'am. As far as I'm concerned these days, if you can't cook in cast iron then you're still learning. Keep at it Young One. We grown over here. 🤣😂.
I found I was grown when I suggested to my husband that we should start growing our own vegetables and herbs because they cost too much at the grocery store. Girl........ now we have a plethora (grown word!!!) of FREE veggies and herbs now! They turned out great plus our grown ass save lots of money! So to really say what purchase made me know I was grown was seeds and planters 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Shit I need to be grown like u bc lord knows I waste money throwing out all the veggies I buy bc I'm grown and it's good for me but then I don't eat .. lol
I'm GROWN because I paid off my 3rd property and have rented both of them out. And paid my daughter's tuition off for this,year in it's entirety. 💥 💥 💥 Boom.
8:32pm, cause I got to go to bed so I can get up for work on time, so I can take my time driving, so I can clock in 10 minutes early, to get my mind together in order to start my day! 🤣😂😅
When taking out the trash, some "hard rock skater punk"- looking boys (that I didn't know) jogged over and said, "ma'am, may I help you with that?"... Or that fact that I answered, "well aren't you a sweet young man," and handed him $2. 🤦🏾♀️ I was 35 at the time. He looked about 17.
When I was about 27 and called my mom to apologize for being hardheaded growing up. I was now a mom and understood everything she was saying back then.
When my Dad asked me to drive him home from a medical procedure. If my Dad felt like he could let me take care of him for once instead of him always looking out for me, the Baby Girl, I knew I was grown.
I realized I was grown when I got a dining room "SET". I mean, I'm talking about a table with a pullout leaf in the middle and 6 matching chairs. With the Hutch to match...🤣🤣🤣
My first “grown” purchase was my mattress. Like I full on went mattress shopping, got a line of credit at a furniture store and purchased a mattress. And had it delivered instead of just trying to strap it to my car and pray.
How I knew I was getting older is when my friends and I can talk on the phone for hours about home remedies for aches and pains, doctor's appts and prescriptions.
The moment I walked into a car dealership, with financing already in place, and negotiated the deal I wanted (and was prepared to walk if they didn't give it to me) I felt real grown
Sis, I drove up to a competitor dealership in the car I was about to buy from another dealer. I told them to sell me their car if they're salesmen! They beat the other deal and drove the other car back to the other dealer. 🎤
When you love buying towels and comforters, and curtains and such and you put your new stuff up and look around and feel accomplished and happy, yea you grown.
My very first “grown” realization came when I didn’t transfer the money from my savings back to my checking just a couple of days after payday. LMAO! It’s so elementary but I swear, if I put it in on the 5th, by the 7th I legit needed it. NOT NO MORE! Savings just stacking! EBOSHALA!! 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
We are aging daily, but Im glad that Ive grown wiser over the years. When I paid off my first car, I knew that I was on another level. It feels great to complete something.
I knew I was grown when I would wake up extra early on pay days to see how much money I was paid , calculate all my bills , pay said bills and be done and have money moved from my checking into savings all before it was 7:30am the same morning. After seeing that all my bills were paid and that what was left in my checking ACC was my float or " miscelaneous" fund id be happy and go back to sleep lol . #GrownAssMan
I’m 42 my grandma ask me if I wanted boots for Christmas, she bought them for all her granddaughters.... I asked for a kitchen aid or aprons whichever one is is in the budget! She cracked up!
I no longer use tea bags I use lose leaf teas and purchased a tea strainer. I purchase bedding sets and pillows. Like I'm legit trying to decorate my room. Once upon a time I didn't care about these things then one day boom. My mind was like ok I need to create some Feng shui in my room and bathroom🤔🤔🤔🤔
Whenever I need a new household appliance and I “research” the specs on different brands and read the reviews before buying it- that’s how I knew I was grown! When you’re young you just pick up the first thing or the cheapest thing you see and don’t give it a second thought.
I felt grown when I purchased internet and cable for the household and started buying household items. I knew I was grown when I ran all my errands on one side of town b/c I'm not coming back and forth. Also, I considered myself grown when I done everything while I was out b/c once I came home I stayed inside the house.
PERIOD!!! That retirement is something that ppl need to make sure they contribute to! And have long and short term disability. Some won't get short term because they think they won't need it. It's necessary
Forget the purchases lady....When “turn those light OFFFFF”, becomes what you say and not what you hear 😳 your not only officially grown, your officially your mama. 💜your channel EJ...everyone stay blessed and safe🙏🏾.
I surely opened my light bill today and immediately cut everything off 😂😂😂 my kids keep leaving lights on and opening the frige. Im about to tape every switch off and give them flashlights.. Oh and tie the doors shut LOL
I know that's right! I told my kids long time ago, "if that sun is out, don't turn my got damn lights on". But my moma house be lit light a Christmas tree that's why my power bill be $50-$70 a month and hers be $200-$300 no ma'am pam.
I knew I was grown when my mom came to visit me and left my bathroom light on, and I asked her to cut it off cause she doesn't pay any bills in this house lol
I knew I was grown when I looked at my carpet one day and said “ it makes no sense for me to keep paying people to clean this” and went and bought my own machine. That’s so like my mama!
I knew or at least felt grown when I purchased a tool set. I'm talking about a "complete" tool set with the matching bag! Because I'm fixing things around the house B4 it breaks or in need of repair. GROWN woman goals Lol Ej, your channel gives me life gurl!!
I’ve been on bar soap with my ol wasteful ass kids. 😒No I can’t buy body wash cause y’all don’t know how to use enough to wash up!! Swear they used to make bubble baths with it or something. 🤷🏾♀️🤣
I guess I'm not grown yet...cuz when you said "dressing"...i was thinking salad dressing. Like, Caesar or what not 🤦🏾 To be fair, we always called it "stuffing" in my house...
I knew I was grown when my Apple tv outsmarted me and a grandkid set that thing up in 5 minutes with a smirk and an eye roll. Didn’t slap his head but thanked him...🤣🤣
Everyone in my house drink coffee, but I got an espresso machine. I like to step up my caffeine game. In couple of months my baby will be starting her 12 year
My purchase was some hedge clippers and a hose pipe. The fact that I called it a hose pipe and not a water hose says it all... Wait...the hell?? I intentionally went to Lowes to buy these items. Not shoes, earrings, or a pizza. I bought freaking hedge clippers and a hose, on purpose. That's a real grown purchase 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Congratulations!! I bought 3 caftans to wear around the house, to let it breathe. I knew I was grown when I went to RU-vid for diy projects and recipes instead of hair and makeup LOL!!!
Ooo! Does that mean I am getting younger? This quarantine had me looking at all kinds of makeup tips. (And buying more makeup in the last 2 months than I have in the last 2 years. 😳)
I knew I was grown when I researched vacuums for days comparing the specs and prices and was so excited for it to arrive. I had to stop and ask myself "am I really getting excited about a VACUUM CLEANER?"
Lol. I already know this is gonna be me when I finally get into my house. I live in an apartment now and loathe laundromats. I don’t care if I don’t got nothing to sit on, I’m getting a washer and dryer. Long as I can wash my clothes in peace. I’ll sit on the floor and fold them suckers with a smile
Deciding that I needed flower pots for the front of my house made me feel grown. I remember being a little kid going from nursery to nursery with my aunt and grandmother all summer long.
Glad to see you're growing up. Now here's a head up, when you're "good and grown" you will find yourself saying, "Back in the day, I remember when and we use to." Now old is when it turns into, "Back N da day, I member when we useta." I would tell my father when he was in his 90's, "Useta gone, been gone for years now, he got shot." Because none of those thing he was remembering were even around any more ... But enjoy your years and may you reach archival super senior ✌️
@@chrism9294 i hear yea...it's amazing feeling/accomplishment....& real grown when i paid off my car a few years ago & i dont car 2 get a new one even though its a 2009