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Idk dawg i just dont really care anymore. If a girl show up in my life i guess thats cool, but im pretty much done with chasing/validating in any form.
you was put here to impress yourself and do shit for you only.....not to get a womens attention, woman are attracted to a man who is doing things for himself and not looking for validation from other people
If you feel like you're struggling to come up with things to talk about, as if you're working hard to keep conversation going with her, then stop talking to her altogether. It's not cuz she's super busy. She may very well be. But really she just doesn't like you like that. Guys need to realize this. Conversation takes 2 people to participate. You're not her jester. See what it's like when a girl is actually trying to hold a conversation with you
duke didn’t win in that video but he did get second to kai who was pretended to care and validate her. see the thing is that not validating her will work if you look great but being able to show some sort of interest and being fun is really what keeps a girl. you don’t over do it but make it so it’s fun and interesting all the time
Find that middle part Is the best cause girls will like a jerk until they realize he’s just a jerk and the fun they have isn’t enough to how he makes her feel emotionally and girls will never like simps
@@joshuamatchin5350 exactly it’s not really about being yourself and having respect. both the jerk and the simps are two extremes for not having respect for the girl or themselves. bring yourself and staying strong with your morals while respect hers you will keep and get the girl.
Thank you, I got used so bad by a girl I thought loved me. Until she dumped me for no reason. We were friends for years before this. Fucked me up for awhile but now this makes sense.
I was starting to talk to this girl, started flirting ya know, a few weeks later, we get on the topics of relationships, and out of the blue she asks me if I wanna commit to one with her, I say no i'm not looking for one rn. In my head I knew she was trying to test the shit outta me, to see how committed i was to myself.
I don’t know why but The only girls I’ve talked too are the ones that had high interest and that came to me but I didn’t know how to talk to girls or anything so I always talked their interest out of me.
So this happened today.. took out this one Batman looking jacket no one has seen me wearing before, was feeling fresh & looking fresh..the day prior I saw this girl at the library(college campus) I got a bit of interest in mainly because she seems pretty chill kinda like me on a regular & naturally those similarities got my radar active a little, additionally never seen her with any dudes so under the impression she's single.. hopefully haha! now we back .. I went to the dining area got some food etc.. some few minutes later saw her there as well, she came in put her things down etc.. right before she got up, she took her jacket off & the first thing that came in mind was.."hey I like her shirt" then all the sudden some thoughts were like ..then go up to her & say "hey I like your shirt then leave" plus she was alone! Though I'm not the type you'll see approach girls like that unless they've shown some serious interest etc.. but I was getting ready to leave so I contemplated whether I should go up to her or write it on a sticky note put it next to her then continue on my day/chill at the library leaving her wondering who was that guy Batman style! Sticky note it was after like 6mts finally wrote it down, started packing & once I look over she was doing the same thing! This girl was literally packing up as well haha & I was like damn my a** took way too long how the heck a track runner like me was this slow! 2nd Chance as you're passing her so what she's packing just give her the damn note or say it & once again I did neither..As I'm leaving we went different routes she went left which had me thinking she going to her next class or whatever meanwhile I basically took a short cut to the library & as I was coming out of the building I was cutting through saw her walking in the same direction & I was like tf she going there too how tf we cross path again when she literally went around the buildings I cut through!! 3rd chance at that point I knew we both we're heading to the library & she happened to be right behind me.. thoughts we're like yo these situations don't occur on a regular she's right there just go up to her & SAY it but I was like nahh she wearing a jacket she'll probably take it off in the library then I'll hand her the sticky note rather than being verbal makes sense in the "library" hahaha BUT that never happened cause we sat in opposite sides plus I couldn't see her & I was definitely not going to look for her just so I can say "hey I like your shirt" or give her the sticky note! Before some of you think I was stalking her while at the dinning area haha she was in my field of view that time period up until we ended up in the library..not gonna lie I'm still a little annoyed I didn't approach her or the note method hahaha so learn something from this guys!!
Bro cmon it’s 2022 cut that note bullshit out. Just go up to her next time, don’t overthink just do it. If she rejects you it’s her loss just go up to chicks with that mindset.
It seemed like she was crossing her path to see u and if that’s the case that’s a clear indication that she likes u you should of walked slower and let her catch abs notice the shirt or sum and start the conversation and ask where she got it from and shi
@@joshuamatchin5350 I see your point, when we cross paths we've locked eyes a few times but I wouldn't go as far as her intentionally running into me..it just happened to be one of those coincidences
If a girl starts cooking you gotta cook her back I feel like that's what they would want anyway. It's a test to see how you gon take disrespect in the future. Responding back with a neutral response makes them think you soft they gon keep talking shit n be turned off from u in my opinion.
If you talking about begining stages of a relationship where you didn't get her pregnant AF yet, because you smart and use protection.....Then, no you don't say nothing...you don't answer back, you don't get angry. You get disapointed in them and get them out of your life ASAP is what you do. Then you go and look for someone else who hopefully does not disrespect you. Or if you really like them and really don't want to let them go...leave and ignore them, but wait a certain amount of time for them to come to their senses and apologise to you(you decide how long). If they didn't apologise, you let them go anyways....If they apologised, but continue the behaviour, let them go. If they didn't properly apologise as a person to another person, but tried to offer sex to get in your good favours, enjoy one last time then let them go...don't let women control you with sex. That's what you do....I got this golden nugget advice from a good female friend of mine. And saw it happen to a good male friend of mine. His GF would always argue with him about bullshit, then apologise, fuck him good, then argue with him again then apologise and fuck him good...then after 2years of misery, she told him she is seeing someone else, because he is not good enough...and broke up with him.
If you cook em back, it shows you’re butthurt. Only do so playfully… if one can’t pull it off playfully, then you gotta just act unfazed (again, keep things light)
It’s not about not caring but more of your busy doing your own thing and goals . That women ain’t important , obviously you going to talk to them and hang out . But they ain’t a priority and you got to let them know that . They’ll fck with you more but the moment you make them a priority, you f up . You might as well walk backwards at that point .
@@eliutjuarez3233 exactly bro. You can still be interested in meeting cool women, but your goals are more important and your main focus. So then meeting women becomes a secondary thing.
Here’s a simply question…: do you have anything OTHER than pussy, at least? If not, start with that. If you have no pussy, and nothing else worthwhile either; then you’re always gonna be one “down bad” mf
Lol idk why but this young man sounds like stephiscold 😂😂 I didn’t get to watch the whole video because the yelling is unnecessary but keep sharing the knowledge to these young men out here that are mislead. 👍🏾
He right though saying your beautiful is not gonna get the skins best thing to do is say hey and go straight for the number the baddest woman don’t hesitate she knows you don’t need much validation if she’s attracted to you
The younger they are the more options they think they have. At the age of 16, 100 percent in their minds they think they can have the whole world and any type of guy that they want and every year after that the percentage goes down. by the age of 18 its 98 percent by the age of 20 its 96 percent. Its gets to the point were she realize those guys that she always wanted like the 6 foot 5 inch height guy really don't exist and if he does exist all the other chicks are going to want him and she will just be one of his many chicks.
I'm 41 and amongst my throng of female cousins, the older they get, the FUSSIER they get. It's funny because the ONLY married female in that generation of my extended family is my sister. And in her husbands family, EVERY SINGLE one has married and has kids, even the one eho said she never would! And you know how many of my cousins have asked my married younger sister for man advice? ABSOLUTELY NONE. They all talk together and they ALL CAN'T secure a man. Blind leading the blind and the only married one has NEVER BEEN asked for man advice. Incredible really.
Nah women ususally dont show when they like a guy. Now imagine if there is 10 chicks in a place 5 might like you but dont show it. So you need to make a move if you get rejected its whatever you need to build the skill to talk to em.
@@shokc5151 the best girls I’ve had sent their friends to come tell me they’re interested, but your right I just hate making a fool of myself out in public.
@@shokc5151 Nope, most women give an indication if they like you because it'll happen subconsciously. If they find you hot, she's going to look at you, not because she wants to but simply because she can't help it.
Just get her to talk about herself and said that you fw with her vibe and don't bring it up anymore unless she ask you to bring it up. If you get friend zoned, then honestly you shouldn't even care because you should already be moving to the next one the moment she try that BS, especially if she have high interest in you as well. Women love playing games until it backfires and the number one way to make it backfire on them is pulling other women while she noticing it.
What guys dont understand when she is really into you , you can tell her she is ugly you dont even need to like her she will still chase you because she Sees you as the prize
I'm taking to this girl and she not really reciprocating the conversation back to me so I'm going to take your advice and give a two word response right now "I see". Let me see how this goes
@@dom_twenty4683 after taking most of this advice and basically being nonchalant about it the whole dynamic has changed between us and she pretty chases after me now lol and she was more interested in talking to me too. About a week ago we were taking and she said she likes guys pretty much word for word like this guy was describing, it’s pretty crazy. You just got to be straightforward with your intentions, and take action but also still respectful at the same time and you’ll be good pretty much with any women. Also she thinks guys who do all the things he’s saying not to do, is weak like guys who are that way don’t have anything going for them it whatever it’s messed up but it’s the cold facts
Ay man I know how to not come off as a feen while texting and make her assume I don't have time to text but how do I make sure I'm not making it too dry? Like I don't over text but I feel like I don't write enough
Niggas fall for it everytime especially the little 3 seconds videos that she post of her face just blinking an smiling holding the phone up ….new chick at wrk pretty but Yu think imma tell her ❌she haven’t been at the job a week an dudes going crazy all y’all hollering at the same time my g wtf 🤦🏽♂️…
Being her boyfriend and being in a relationship ain’t the place to be either they cheat on their boyfriends and still have options. Best place is to keep it Playa
Put her in a place but don’t be a jerk doing it if you go up to hee act like she’s normal and if she’s being a brat tell her that just make sure u smile and don’t say it in a mean way
In the 70s my dad once got laid by roasting this one chick who was a perfect 10 but, "what the fuck is up with your eyebrows?" Lol she had a unibrow So this sounds pretty legit through the decades
