To me that just looks like his natural face. After the hug he even smiling a little to see his mom. Only reason why I think this is controversial is cause they was she is dressed. So people are making assumptions she just seems like a overzealous mom.
Lmao I’m one of those girlfriend have been for 7 years now and I can tell you that 1000% accurate I’m not trying to compete because I can see we are in different positions that’s his mom and I’m his girl but it’s another story for her she thinks I stole her son and would try and crawl in bed with us and cuddle him while giving me a smirk there also other weird things she would do or say
She is definitely the "other woman." She'll always be in competition with her son's girlfriend/future wife. The quote from Princess Diana fits perfectly here: "3 in a marriage is a bit crowded." There will never be a happy ending with this boy's life as long as his mother is alive. She has ruined every bit of happiness for him.
My husband’s grandma was convinced that every single one of her grandson’s was trapped by some baby-wielding, wily woman. When I told her he was the one who begged ME to get off birth control, because he wanted to be a dad, she was shocked.
@@mollygrace3068 my grandma was convinced my mom trapped my dad when getting pregnant with me. Apparently before my mom got pregnant, she and my grandma got along. She tried convincing my mom my dad chose my name after an ex he wasnt over which wasn't true at all. (My first name is after my great grandma's middle name and my mom picked my middle names)
I was blessed with a sweet older german woman as a mother in law. Couldn't be more of a blessing. She treated me like her own daughter from day one. To the point where my husband gets jealous sometimes. I mean she did want a daughter. Lol she's a great person though I love her.
False. Most of the moms doing the cringe ""boy mom"" trends are actually married, because many of them are ""momfluencers"". It's most often two things. #1. They're insecure and not getting the attention they want from hubby. Or they had kids young and now trying to sort of live their youthful years vicariously through their kids, hence the teeny bopper way she is dressed and the way she's acting, jumping on him. #2. I watched another video where a mom talks fleetingly about her daughter Stevie Lee who made her famous. Then goes on to say "BUT you guys...my son. I love my daughter, but my boy, it's just a whole 'nother love-," on and on and on, yada yada. Of course she said it right in front of her daughter Stevie and got a TON of backlash. Another momfluencer came to her rescue and said "we know what generates a lot of clicks to make bank, we know how to troll you guys to get our views up so keep in mind when you are commenting, you're generating our revenue." *I mean they literally tell you right to your face they're trolling you. That's why if you REALLY want to impact these weirdo Oedipus complex having freaks, don't watch their videos, don't comment, don't like or dislike it ...unfollow them. The woman straddling her son is also a momfluencer and has made similar comments that all views and likes and comments and even dislikes, are all engagement and increase traffic to her page and revenue. It's crazy how sometimes, the government and people tell you exactly how they're grifting but people still let themselves be trolled despite them SPELLING IT OUT LIKE THAT. They take the bait, every time.* Stop taking the bait, y'all.
@@THEMADHATTRESS “Or they had kids young and now trying to sort of live their youthful years vicariously through their kids, hence the teeny bopper way she is dressed and the way she's acting…” Oof. I see this a lot. My sister was married for over 10 years but she had her kid very young so she didn’t get to enjoy her 20s like most people do. She was divorced by 30 and it’s like being newly single was her chance to “catch up” on all the fun she missed out on in her 20s. Her kid is a teen now and she SWEARS people think they’re sisters. The girl is very clearly still a child and while my sister is a young mom, she’s clearly in her 30s - NOBODY is confusing them for sisters. She dresses like a child too and hangs out with her friends like if they’re all teenagers sneaking around drinking beer and smoking. It’s pathetic. I didn’t like her husband and he’s just as messy but at least when they were together, they were actually stable and they weren’t leaving their kid home alone for 10+ hours a day on weekends.
Yuck wtf, i cant believe there are moms out there behaving this way. It is creepy on another level. Yes parents hug their children all the time. Most parents would probably lift their child to celebrate a victory like that, like dads would toss their kids on their shoulders but this whole straddling your teen/adult son is beyond creepy. This mom is giving major incest vibes, so messed up. I feel really sorry for that guy, hope he can break free from this psychological torture
Shes the type of mom to put a Hex on the girl her son marries, to make sure their relationships is doomed. Even if the gf is a wonderful person for their son. It's like the mom is like "you stole my man! You can't have him! If I can't NO ONE CAN."
The look on his face as his eyes are darting around to see who's looking. I just don't understand why a mother would choose to embarrass her son in front of his team and the whole school? Talk about cringe🙄
And looks at the camera, sending telepathic vibes of: - oh please tell me it wasn't recording. Or - it's bad but don't make it worse or I'll suicide. Or - there's no escape, ...for now. Or - this is only awkward cuz you caught us. Or - I'm glad I didn't grab her ass on camera cuz the whole team knows 😅 Sick gays & pedoz taking over ur country
I am 51 years old and I agree with you 100%! I have seen this happen in the real life of friends and acquaintances. Basically my experience is that these mothers aren’t getting the kind of attention or caring from their own husbands so they use their son to fill a little bit of that hole. I’ve had women use their sons to comfort them when they feel wronged by their husband and these sons stick up for their mom and then it is kind of like two against one in the family situation. It surprises me that these female parents don’t notice this about themselves. When I was suffering badly with depression many years ago, I had to make sure I didn’t use my children like some type of counselor. This was my burden to carry not theirs. In my experience with people in general they don’t judge their actions, if it feels good they do it. Children shouldn’t have the weight of a bad marriage or an absent husband to carry on their shoulders.
Unfortunately nowadays a lot of people don't have self awareness or even care to. Good on you for not putting your issues on your children and letting them be children. You're a good mom. I hope you're doing better with your depression ❤️
It’s when you have a mom who loves the way your Dad looks but hates the way he acts. So she manipulates the child into providing all the things she is missing in her relationship with her husband.
I have a son of 20 years old and i will never hug him like that. That woman is just creepy. You can teach your son with words and not act like his girlfriend.
Oh my God I'm so ready to PUKE, I also have a 20 yr old son 🤮and I can't even fix my face after watching this,😖 I may be stuck with it looking permanently HORRIFIED and ready to puke 🤢 I just can't understand these people, the only one straddling my son is HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!
My god .. my mom was like that .. i mean she didnt straddle me like this video... But she would say shit like if we went out to eat, it would be a date .... Never approving of any women i date... Stuff like that.. drove me nuttz..i remember afte a football game when i was like 13, she wanted me to give her a kiss ....i hugged her n she seeiously called me out.. this was infront of all my team mates and their parents as well.... Shit pissed me off man.... Once i broke up with this girl id dated and lived with for 7 years .. i stayed at my moms to get away from this girl and i slept in ny moms bed the first night ...n when i was like alright thanks for letting ne stay here, she was confused why i didnt wanna stay there anymore .. there was nowhere to sleep comfortably and i wasnt trying to sleep in her bed again.. smh
@@1ofCornPopsBigBadB_____ezjust the one? Every school football team in the world (whatever kind of footy it is) has that one teacher, mum, aunty whatever.. Everyone knows who it is. (there's also the male version of it but you know... But their pedos)
Damn this is so cold but ive meet several moms like this growing up like wtf.. thats why they call me the mother fucker now.. lol 😆 🤣.. nah seriously i did smash a few friends moms who were exactly this way.. we all thought it was a fantasy and then holy shit this is really happening..
Oh my days Charlie, you are so right! 🎯 When my then fiancé ,now husband, told his mum he would be moving out as we were getting a place together , she waited until he went to the bathroom ( like she always did to deliver her snide remarks) and stood over me with arms folded as I sat on the sofa, looked down and hissed “You do realise you’re taking my soulmate away from me don’t you?!” (Like wtf?!😲) This was in 1987 , I was 22 . She refused accept me from day one and was always nasty, no matter how hard I tried to please her. She even dismissed my son as soon as he was born , her own grandchild and all because he came from me. Thankfully the witch 🧙♀️ died about 5 years ago but I actually cut her from my life about 10 years prior to that and wished I’d done it sooner X
@@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse I mean she clearly loves her son, but imagine the embarrassment of telling your friends that that wasn't your girlfriend or even your sister but your mom... and that she posted that online for everyone to see?
I’m a mom of 3 boys and I couldn’t fathom doing that. ?? 😬 Yikes wtf. I love my kids, and I love physically showing them that with a hug or a pat on the back and shit, but this feels like emotionally crossing a parental line into… idek man, something else.
"aww he's so sweet, he loves his mom!" Honestly like 1 generation ago it wouldn't be/that/ weird. We're just all suffering from brainworms thanks to the hub.
@@SeanWinters While I agree society perverts a lot of un perverted things, this is not one of then. A mother can hug her son without straddling him, her behavior was uncalled for and inappropriate.
@@trophyscene5015 LOL! Jada Pinkett. She sure did ! Will was so mad he slapped Chris Rock instead ! But we all know who that slap was really meant for. 😏
Man, that sucks. I'd hate to be in his position since it's his mother. Imagine being a son to a mother trying to build a boyfriend out of you...what are you supposed to do in that situation?
@@pratiksharma3270 honestly, that's better than just talking about it. In rare situations, talking about it just makes it worse. And this is one of them
Yea def embarrassing. I wouldn’t say abuse, she just clearly loves him and has a lot of energy and maybe a midlife crisis going on, but chill mom, chill. Lolol
@@abigailelizabeth4729Because she likely had her son when she was very young like 15-18. If the boy is 18 the mother could be in her early 30s and early 30s is young. And I've seen this behavior too many times especially with single mothers, it's called emotional incest and it can turn into physical like these mothers slept with their sons and have sexual desire towards them. They'll treat every female that approaches as competition, sick.
You can tell by his face when she stopped hugging him, that he was unbelievably embarrassed. This is not unusual behavior for her I’m guessing. Poor kid
I don't know there's this lady. I think it was a TikTok video she's a wedding person she does weddings for people I don't know what that's called. Well, this person who takes pictures of people when they're getting married told her that, uh, there was this one lady. She was getting married and she was all dressed up and she went into a dressing room And caught her husband breastfeeding off his mother. Yeah that's crazy she still marred him
@@Jodi_Johnsondefine "all kinds of shit". That's very vague. I hug my grandkids and allow a peck on the cheek because I know, in the mindset of the left, as a white male, I'm a super predator until proven otherwise.
The fucked up thing is, it'll probably affect him negatively when his gf (who is the one that's supposed to act like this) acts like that and it gives him a negative association. "don't hug me/ show me affection like that, that's how my mom does it" type of thing. At least that's my first conclusion.
@@Axelrun1994There are tons of people who grew up with other ways of affection that is only unique to their Mom/Dad and them. It doesn't mean they're being abused or forever will be dysfunctional in a normal relationship. Now where is the second conclusion.
My ex's mom told me I "better worship the ground he walked on". I told them the only one I worship is above....yeah....paid dearly for that comment...gotta love narcissism 😂😂😂
No, by his reaction he is extremely uncomfortable. She actually acts as if he is her husband. But if he does not learn how to hold his boundaries she will get free reign to ruin chances w any and every potential gf/partner/wife. One of my ex's mum was less obvious in her replacing her hubby w her son, but first sign of it and seeing he let her do it, I run in 180 degrees direction!!
My current boyfriends mother is like this. Her and his dad broke up when he was only 2 and now she treats him like they’re married or something…not like her child at all. Shits weird af and is more common than you would think.
Very common? I mean, I know that my circle of friends is not exactly an accurate sample of the whole world, but I find it hard to believe that this is VERY common. Not uncommon is probably where it's at, but even "common" would probably be a stretch.
No the look on his face is total horror. I agree that this is one of those pseudo boyfriend issues single mothers go through. Yikes when he pushed her away I thought it was a girl he didn't like but was acting desperate
Yeah, if that was my mom she'd have got knocked out, because her actions are literally those of a predator. That was a level of sexua| that I'd never be okay with. She should be ashamed of herself.
Honestly, I don't think there's any doubt that she's actually attracted to her son... and it's f***** up. Normal mothers who don't see young boys "this way" would never do that.
Maybe he was emotional because his dad comited suicide a while ago and that was the first time he worn the number of his dad death date (4/4). Oh but im sure you didnt know that because you judged a 3 seconds vid without knowing the context.
I know a 26 year old guy that has a mom like this and what is sad is that he doesn't even realize it. She does so many seriously inappropriate things and he is so used to it that it doesn't even register in his mind that its wrong.
toxic? you dont know the first clue whats going on...i swear idiots- seeing an out of context 10 second clip and they think they're all genius'- did you know the part about the boys father dying and him being the one who introduced him to football..?
It's call emotional incest... it can be any parent/child relationship in which adult relies on the child for the support another adult or partner should be giving. It's not sexual in nature. It's just a very unhealthy responsibility to put on a young child and has lots of repercussions for their future relationships
Definitely had the look of "I thought we agreed to only act like this at home" if that is how the mother acts in public imagine what home life must be like
This is the kind of mom that never thinks any of his girlfriends are good enough, won't get along with them, and then wears white to the wedding, bringing out the drama, making his day about her.
I knew a woman that did that to her son. She had some emotional connection to him and even manipulated him too. When he wanted to move out and buy a home. His mother insisted he buy the one next door. And he did. The dad felt left out of their jokes and some times they made fun of him too. The dad had a bad heart and couldn't do things he used too. One day the dad showed us a video of him and his family at the beach at sunset. The son and his mother were arm and arm around their waists, hugging and kissed once watching the sunset by the water. When the dad showed us (who was at the beach too) said, "That doesn't look right, don't you think? He even thought something might be going on too. Ew! Both his parents have passed away. I haven't seen the son in years. I wonder if he ever got married because he never had a girlfriend. At least I don't think his mother would have "allowed" him too. Double ew!! Lol.
