You're the first sensible person I've came across on RU-vid in an extremely long time. You realize that it's not an actual abduction, but a lesson on how to handle the situation. You're going to be the first person that I'm going to follow, if you don't mind. ( RU-vidrs are becoming more like TikTokers)
I worked at a convenient store one time. A lady came in shaking and just seemed different. She was paying for gas and very lightly whispered "help please". So I took her to the back room and asked her what was going on. Come to find out the guy she was with was beating her and wouldn't let her go home to her family. I called the cops and the guy flipped out cause he couldn't find her and was pissed. Thankfully the cops weren't to far away and they took care of the situation. She came back to the store a few months after that and you could see a major change in her. She was so happy and couldn't stop thanking me for saving her.
I was in a store once and a young girl was holding hands with an older guy and he wouldn't let her alone. The young girl looked like she was very distressed. I made up a story and asked the young girl if she was related to a person I knew. She didn't look at me and the guy said she wasn't. It just didn't feel right so I went up to a salesperson and told them I needed to talk to the manager. I told the manager what was going on and she went over to the guy and said she saw him stealing something and the police would be called. The guy went ballistic, started yelling and cursing and tried to run out of the store dragging the girl with him. I grabbed the guy and another guy in the store helped me subdue him and kept him from leaving the store with the girl. The young girl started crying and we pulled her free from the guy. She was shaking uncontrollably and passed out. The cops arrived and took the guy into custody and the girl was questioned by a female police officer. It turned out the girl had been kidnapped in South Carolina and the guy was on his way to the west coast with the girl. The young girl couldn't stop thanking the store manager and the other guy and myself for helping her. Moral of this story: Keep alert of your surroundings folks. Child kidnapping and sex trafficking are real and more widespread than people think. God Bless this young girl and protect her and others from these predators. Amen
@@Shroomy6223 Thank you for the too kind words. I did the right thing and helped somebody who needed help. I don't need or want to be famous. Helping a fellow human being is the best reward. Thanks again and stay safe. God Bless.
@@curiouscanuck protections and securities that's all we need the most. And the major problems are anti-citizens. Don't be afraid to help someone if you see anything like that around you. They have a big racket and they must be in custody.
I remember working in a fast food place and a girl with her father came in. When I served her I noticed a black circle on the palm of her hand. Something seemed real off about her and him. I called my mom and she told me that circle was a call for help so I called the police. Turns out he kidnapped her from her mom as he was not allowed to see her. The girl said she read it in a book about the black circle and hoped someone would know what it meant as he threatened her if she tried to run or call for help. She was so thankful and still stays in touch with us to this day. Her father was in prison for fifteen years where he died of a massive heart attack a week before his parole. Sometimes justice does work out.
I had no idea about the black circle. Thank you for informing many of us who didn't know. I'm sure we will all pass that along to our friends and family. 👏
I don’t get it it may be fake but it’s a great message to those in trouble and yet you try to make this funny despite it may help a lot of people in trouble
A good thing to say as to why the captain needs to see her...her seat number was a chosen winner, something we do on every flight...lol!?!? Only one person is allowed...lol! Very good message!
When I worked in a xray department we used to get women coming in who had swallowed razor blades and batteries. They had to be kept in for a few days until they had passed through them. That kept them away from their abusive partners for a few days. It is hard to imagine what they go through to take such drastic measures.
As a flight attendant this is NOT how we would go about it. Itll be more discreet; less noticeable for other passengers and the abuser. All in all this is just good for both crew and passengers on SITUATIONAL AWARENESS ❤
@@mistybollinger3312 I made the comment based on the video. Just like I would say if I were watching my favorite actress in a movie. We know they aren’t real.
I remember when I worked at McDonald’s and a girl and her boyfriend came through the drive through, she did seem a little of to me she was trembling and her mascara was smudged around her eyes. I told her the total and she handed me a couple dollars but then the one on the top said help on it. I wanted to help her so I told her her food was taking longer than expected and I would need her to come inside to grab it. Surprisingly her boyfriend didn’t care about her going in by herself. We called the cops and after a while they told us that that was not the girl’s boyfriend it was her ex who she had a restraining order against him.
Good on you for your quick thinking and finding a way to separate the girl from her abuser! I hope that if I ever find myself in this type of situation I can come up with something just as clever. Sometimes I worry I might too emotional and panic ;-;
Merci c'est vraiment super ce que vous faites. Je prêterai plus d'attention à ce signe que je ne connaissais pas du tout. Toutes les idées aussi discrètes doivent être transmises si ça sauve des vies de femmes, hommes et enfants battues et ou maltraités .Merci beaucoup et bonne continuation.
One time I was flying alone from Spain to Puerto Rico, and then Miami. Getting on the plane in Puerto Rico. This guy in a military uniform, followed me on the plane and ended up sitting next to me I could feel something was not right, so I was able to communicate with the stewardess, and she checked his seating and sure enough, his seat was way in the back. Before we took off, the police came and escorted him off the plane. That was really scary. Pay attention to your gut feeling and watch your surroundings always. Pay attention.
@@Yagirl73 nothing but when somethings wrong, you get a gut feeling. He followed me from the terminal out on the tarmac and into the plane, went to the back of the plane and then came back to me. Something just told me he was not right. Trust your gut.
This is a training film. If you look in the background, they aren't even on a plane. Still, it's good information to know. One wonders how she obtained a magic marker and when she had the privacy to write on a cup.
Staged yes. Unfortunately she set off red flags. First with the gasp. Then instead of stupid lie of a seat that was loose she should have spilled the coffee and escorted her to the station to clean up. Then lock her in the cabin or where she'd be safe. Bad acting. BTW, where did the girl get a sharpie and a true trafficker or abuser, she would not have been allowed on the aisle. Duh
I was cabin crew for 10 years. Witnessed a couple going on honeymoon sat opposite me. When husband went to the lav she told me he had beat her the night before....on wedding night. Been together 2 years before marriage. Never violent before with her. She said she terrified. I got her seat in another cabin. Not allowed husband to enter other cabin. Told him police will arrest him on landing if he didn't comply with what he was told to do. I spoke to Captain and he came out spoke to her and we brought her back to u.k on our return flight. Left him alone in Cyprus. Wife was going home to get a divorce rolling,she not want to press charges. Sad to see the bruises he gave her.
Yes I knew my husband three years and two children later we got married he was verbally abusive in wedding day. And I was beaten up three days later he dislocated my daughters shoulder on wedding night by yanking on her arm the day after my wedding I was in a children’s hospital getting her shoulder fixed. I was beaten at least twice a week sometimes more n there were no rescues centre for abused woman in those days. No one would give me a place to rent and my mother refused to help me and wouldn’t hear a thing against him. 12 years later I found out he’d been done by police for grevious bodily harm against his first wife.
@@Bille62 I am so sorry for your pain! I hope you got away and I am so sorry for your daughter. I pray you got to remarry a very kind man father to your children
@@shirleycrook4610 I got my ducks in a row n went for third divorce try because my children were showing signs c of distress I met a rally kind man when I was done with men. It just happened we talked for hours. We ve been together now forty years. I no longer cry myself to sleep every night my children excelled at school and run their own businesses etc. I remarried but my ex has been a shadow all that time he shows me he’s never going away. But I live every day trying to get in with my life I no longer cry myself to sleep every night. I don’t cry in this relationship please please do not settle in this life for second best get organised lose weight if you feel better n more confident and save for when you need to break free. Make contingencies for a safe house to escape to a family members key temporarily. Stay on focus DO not weaken no matter what happens. For years he challenged my new husband I told him not to engage it takes two to fight. We made it thru. My ghost still won’t leave but we live our lives happily without engaging him as best we can. But it was still worth it all. I live with a kind man who makes me laugh and my children laugh. Please women stay focused and do it for your children if you’re to broken yourself your strength will grow and you will never want that pain in your lives agajn. And if you meet someone you’ve always felt you knew and he makes you smile and your children smile take it slow but let a good person in good luck stay strong x
You thought this was real? I’m really not trying to badmouth you here but it genuinely scares me that there are so many people who can’t tell they’re just acting. I mean, it wasn’t even very good acting
@@payton3673 that is why I told that probably not the best storyline but it is best to ask for help when in trouble instead of staying shut trying to fund a way is what to learn
I remember my first solo International flight from New York to Stockholm. I was sitting next to a Finnish guy who asked if I had ever been to Stockholm before. He invited me to tour Stockholm with him before traveling to my final destination in Sweden. I didn't feel good about that and politely refused. Always follow your gut. Better safe than sorry! No regrets
I had a similar experience with Germany 🇩🇪 where he offered to drop me off my destination cos he had a car at the airport, I accepted and he did drop me off without any funny biz.. some honest people still exists.. just follow your heart with fingers crossed 🤞 😂
Over the course of 8 yrs as a flight attendant w a major carrier, I can tell you I had the Police meet the plane on at least 5 occasions. These are very serious scenarios when so many things can go wrong, so it is imperative to use an authoritative, take charge tone. This FA was Spot On with her Actions
I don’t know what airline you worked for… But that is the LAST thing they tell you to do! is to confront, especially when you’re in flight! Unless you have an air marshal aboard to cuff this fool !!! So he dont try to open doors !! Common sense people.
@@johnbumpus7138 Well, you just helped boost the algorithm by your comment so there’s that lol. Btw, who hurt you, causing you to be so rude to people? Regardless of the acting, the message was and is important for people in abusive relationships seeking help.
This is not a social experiment. It's not even a real fucking plane. There's no one in the other seats and also I think All of them would figure out that the person filming was filming.
@@PringlezCanits a mock-scenario dont be a dick, Jesus, its to help people understand that this could happen and what to do if it does, idk who pissed in your fruitloops
It boggles my mind that people think flight attendants are just there to serve beverages and make sure you have on your seatbelt. Thank you for taking your training seriously and for being there for the passengers in so many crazy situations! ❤️❤️
@M F Thank you for that. There is so much more to working for the airlines than people realize. Most people are fine with whatever happens as long as they are informed. It's the Karens that think they're entitled to receive v.i.p. service no matter the distress to "others".
@@chickadeetle you are so right!!! I'm a former teacher ( mom now) and people have lots of misconceptions about us, as well. Wouldn't it be nice if we could all just honor and respect each other's gifts, abilities and dang hard work?? ❤️❤️❤️
if you all don’t know what’s happening . This lady is with a bad guy on the plane and might being kidnapped or something and she’s nervous and the flight attendant knows how’s she’s feeling so that’s why she moved her out of her seat
I seem to recall incident not too long ago where something similar to this happened, but they didn't say anything, the pilot returned the plane to the airport and then the police came on board.
TSA once stopped a 22 yr old girl that was taken out of her 4th year in a US college by her uncles. They were forcing her to go back to the middle east to get married and she didn't want to go.
very true.. just the other day I saw this headline "Local Woman Saved When Her Coffee Was Inexplicably Served In A Clear Plastic Cup And Then She Found Some Sort Of Way To Write A Message On It Hoping Against Hope The Flight Attendant Would Have A Giant Jug Of Creamer Rather Than The Tiny Little Cups Everyone Has And Then The Flight Attendant Over-Served The Creamer Revealing The Message And Then The Flight Attendant Took Her Away From Her Seat"
@@DenfordAshmeade that’s what I’m wondering also did she just ask for a cup but to fill after writing on it but they would’ve saw the writing unless she covered it or something
Jesus loves us and died for us In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth. And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. And God said, Let there be light: and there was light. Genesis 1:1-3 ✝🌅 Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life. John 8:12 ✝🌅
Flight attendants, this is so NOT the way to handle this situation. DO NOT create a confrontation! Alert the captain. He will alert authorities. Your job is to make sure the kid knows her message is received without alerting the bad guy.
My doctors office has red and black markers in the restroom. If you are in need of help, you can write a message in red and leave it in the urine specimen nook. They will help you.
That flight attendant was so smart , fearfu voice and powerful command to that bad guy.. great job ladies...you saved that lady who's in need of your help.👌👌 kudos!
so many folks think that flight attendants are terrible,,,,,,they/we go threw so much training,,,,and COMMANDS are taught on day1,,,,God bless those who see!!!!!!!!
In this situation, the flight attendant can purposely spill the creamer or coffee (drink) on the victim, so that the flight attendant can give an excuse to remove the girl from the seat.
There are so many young girls and boys and women that could get help if they were to just be a little brave and let someone know,I pray for all, just a simple hand sign.
Wow. Back when I needed help there is no way out. Been there. My daughter and I are survivors of a manic depressed viet nam vet hit with agent orange. His body went to hell by 32. It changes you and kids lives forever
@@ntandosekay I Love YOUR MESSAGE Too!!❤❤❤ So many people lost in their own worlds, gadgets usually just as you said. Most of them miss the world that's happening around them. It has made our world so disengaged however I think that is changing. I hope it is, I hope people see all the need for companionship. They tried to take that away from us with the lockdowns, the masks, the fear of being near another. Let's not let their awful attempts at separating us from each other continue, we are so much more than that. ☮💜💡
Yes instead of phones in their faces 24/7 the world is going crazy and NO ONE talks or takes notice anymore, their phones are in the way ….no life just their phone ….crazy !
No matter what… Always help someone… Use body language, shivers or just stares can go a long way. You don’t know the half of the abuse. You don’t know their struggles. Even if their your enemy, HELP! You could stop murders or r@pes
Or she crazy not like he going into the womens bathroom with her in a public place she could litterally just ask anyone verbaly, even tsa agent as they are getting scanned in.
I've been through those struggles my mom died of cancer when I was 4 and my stepmother I'd so mean she yells at me and hits me for no reason my sister died of cancer too my dogs Buster and Bella died My stepmom makes me hide it from my dad now my Dad's my only loving parent
@@rstubbs23 we are aware its fake only people actually believe it and think that women do end up in these situations with torturers. In reality people do have falling outs and people snap and in the process people get hurt sometimes(both women and men!) but the theory crafting bitchen want to spin tales of signs and voodoo and psychologist chime in aproval to justify their cake ass existance.
She had a chance to write a huge help me on the cup without him noticing. These things do happen, look for signs because humans are trafficked all the time.
