The girl isn’t interested in that conversation from the start so that’s why her response was totally inappropriate. I stand with Big paradise on this .
This one I dey support paradise 100 percent. The guy didn’t say anything wrong, it was love at first sight that made your man confess his love to the girl. That’s the problem with SOME of the women now a days small thing they take am World Cup.😂
A woman will meet a guy and be praying in her head that he should propose. The fact that she didn't even respond that 'she will think about it' and also post it online means she's not interested. If a woman is not interested in you, don't waste your time.
But when a man meets you at a supermarket and funds your shopping it won't piss you off I guess. This kind of thinking must stop. Even if he waits for 10 years and you don't want him, you won't accept.
Scanty,how long do you want him to tell her his feelings.Don't avoid telling someone how you feel for them cos avoidance begets/leads to avoidance.I'm Eii Scantywaah.Big Paradis is 💯right
Yes like I’m feeling sad for him. Paradise is saying if he was the guy he would not continue the conversation 🤣😂. Like she cares 😂. She naaa she is not interested so she wouldn’t care tsw
@@chiderachukwuma696 Far from that, If she felt the same on sight, she wouldn't have found anything wrong with his approach. I do not agree with his approach tho but had she felt the same way on sight, we wouldn't have been here.
@@chiderachukwuma696 Oh no, I'm not guilty of that. But if you couldn't see any sense in his submission then nothing I say here will make sense to you either. I guess you would have done the same thing she did lmao
I’m with Paradise. I never Dey take number dey delay proposal like that oooo. Sakeof as I take the number you for know what go be next cos I am not your family member. It is up to the girl to say let’s give ourselves some time or let’s be friends for now I will give you answer later. What if I wait one month later and you still bounce me. If a girl go accept your proposal no be the long talk ooo but chairman too go sharp too much at least the conversation for reach third paragraph before you go start Dey yalk feelings😂😂😂 Scanty allow us. 😂
I’m on Paradise side, his submissions are on point like n!ples 😊 The guy asking the lady what she dey do means he wanted to know if dem fit continue with the chat or not at that moment simple 👊🏾. Telling you how I’m feeling about you a day after I saw you isn’t bad at all 👌🏾
I dey Paradise support with 100 bags of cements, ''ooh blaa, u didn't propose ntem, I waited for u saaa to propose but u didn't so I accept someone''. It was for the lady to say Yes, No or not ready now. 😊
For de girl to reply back with” It’s morning so wat would I be doing by now” means someway some how she’s not interested in de guy’s conversation in de first place so she’s trying to reply de guy’s text in a way dat will kill de guy’s spirit so de convo doesn’t continue or she sees him to be a player….Simple
I'm 💯 with Scanty on this one, you can't just meet someone and just "fall in love" with him or her ,that just doesn't make sense because you don't know that person first of all, also what good things has that person done for you, and what that guy did is SIMP behavior, and it just shows the person you are telling,"am in love with you" that, you don't respect yourself and clearly women are not dumb,she sensed this guy was saying that just to get in her pants that's the truth here I understand that we men are visual creatures when we see a women with nice body we get drawn to them and want to get to know them but we must always think with the head upstairs and not the one downstairs.
Wait let me explain something to u see love is something u can't understood please u can meet someone now and he/she go fall for u I saw many times so I knew what I'm saying Blessed up bro
De guys are supporting paradise buh Scanty is speaking our mind. Giving number out doesn't mean we are interested in even chatting with u oo. Sometimes we give number not to act rude and sometimes out of pressure. Some guys won't let you go if decide not to give them ur number. U've gotten number mpo a, u won't come a speak sense . So so stupid questions. U see me naa u fall for me, what if I be maame water? Relationship is supposed to start with friendship. Mo sore a, nkwasia p3 nkoaa aa
If you want to do friends Facebook is open and free Y'all be feeling like it's an achievement to act that way but in the end it's all about how you communicate simple not being childish with cheeky answers.
so you girls know this and you have been begging for money anyhow, eii I didn't know you girls know this oo , so what if the guy you have been asking money is a ritualist
I don't even know why Scanty of all people is giving this submission
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That’s what you will get if you’re going about chasing girls. Do you think if we all stop chasing girls, they won’t chase after us? Stop chasing girls oo tommmm
I agree with Scanty on this one.. you wake up early in the morning and the first text you see is a stranger proposing to you early in the morning at 8am I mean how do you explain or justify this?🤣🤣… let’s be serious pls. Give me a chance in your life just 8 hours eiii wow
A street lady will not even mind you. The morning is too early to sing love song that she has head over and over again and probably know itay not lead to anything serious
Honestly speaking I don't second paradise in the sense that, upon observation, even things that have value you can't purchase it on the same day you saw it simply because you like it. Paradise used Car for example and I don't think that any rational person will see a car today I just because they like it they just buy it. What if the car is a stolen car, or it's faulty, unless maybe you just want to text it and leave which I believe the guy just wants to have a taste of the girl and leave her. From my perspective, the guy didn't try at all but that doesn't also guarantee the lady to post it on social media it's childish.
paradise is on point. everyone and their feelings. scanty, what season and time are people supposed to propose. scanty got it all wrong, some ladies give you their number because they are scared and just want to leave the place. her responses to the text says it all. her responses were bad from the beginning
The girl deciding to post the thing online is what makes it absurd but why would you meet someone and propose to her the next day? Adwaman sem b3n nono 😂😂
This is rampantly common. Meeting a stranger who cajoles your number then proposed to you the next day 😂. The problem is the girl was like okay....go on 😂.
@@jkmiah33 the girl's responses were off and the guy should have noticed that but Charlie how you go see babe and propose within 8 hours? No matter how much you "like" her, it's weird Charlie 😂
Ive seen guys that waited soo long, just to gain the trust of the lady and got what they wanted and then dashed away without a trace...thats reality Bruh!
Some women of today will say "Go straight to the point when you text me"... This is a guy making his intentions clear.. probably "Love At First Sight" as they say.... If you're not interested or will want to get to know him better before accepting his proposal or not just be open....
I don't believe in love at first sight. and with this situation, the girl just no dey like the boy,simple!! If she too dey feel am like the boy claims ah like she go look inside give am 🤝🏾
I agree with Paradise Even if it takes 10 years to propose and the person is not genuine with their feelings about You, they can just get into Your pants and dump You afterwards...its all about the genuine intentions of how one truly feels about You that counts Sir Scanty
Paradise, do you know how many women have been assaulted for refusing to give their number out or saying no to a guy. I was followed yesterday because I told a guy I did not want to give my number out. I had to enter a shop to pretend I was buying something because I didn't feel safe. Most women give their number out not because they want to, they don't lose their lives or get assaulted because some men can't take no for an answer.
that was your mindset you were feeling guilty madam , so seekof your number he shouldn't use his Routh again , come on , why the road them mk give you alone
I 100% agree with Scanty on the early proposal thing. Guys that propose within 24 hrs of meeting for the first time is such a HUGE turn off like at least get to know the person. Know her personality, before you even start the whole i like you thing.
I also side with scanty cuz the last time ma frnd visited me at my work place with his girlfriend and his girlfriend's friend. Whilst I was talking to ma frnd I saw some movement bi from the girls and later they called ma frnd. When he came back he was like do you like the girl and I said no without thinking just because it was our first time seeing each other. Later ma frnd posted the same girl and I was like she is fine ooo but then I had already throw the chance away😅. Proposing the first time you met dier ebi Jon move
Paradise is absolutely right! The guy’s move may be based on previous experiences with women. I’ve learnt the need to make your intentions clear when you meet a lady. Some ladies will take advantage of you for so long without acknowledging the fact that you’re interested in her. If she really likes you, getting along and dating will be effortless. Let your intentions be clear, if the lady is not interested, turn away!
I met a girl at my workshop and i collected her number...that same night we talked and i proposed to her and she accepted...Scanty if the girl likes you she nogo wait koraa...what if u wait for maybe one week with u guys being friends and you propose to am and she says.."you guys are friends so nothing can go on between u guys"..so i dont have a problem with how the guy approached the lady...it was dhope❤😊
But at least he should have asked her for a date and continued from there. U doing everything online is a little weird cos she doesn't know u in the first place
Big Paradise, relax! The girl's caption shows the problem she has with their convo. She says, "He took my number last night... and this is him this morning. Some of you men are a disgrace." So she doesn't think the idea of the guy proposing to her within that timeframe is reasonable, period! She's entitled to her opinion. About the exact wording (s) in their texts, what does the guy mean by asking, "What are you doing NOW?" Perhaps he simply lacks the skills of asking: "Is it a good time for us to chat now?" Or, he's just immature and asking irrelevant questions as Scanty is asserting. Which the lady didn't like. She could have responded differently other than she did, though, but either way the bottom line remains the timeframe of the guy's proposal. I personally think it's too short a time to propose which gives the impression that what he's after is just entering the lady's pant.
For someone who has said a few couple of times on bants and rants that, " A guy doesn't need too much time to know how he feels about a lady" , and has also said, " If a lady likes you it doesn't matter how long she has known you, she'll accept. " I'm surprised Scanty is saying what he's saying though. But everyone has their opinion, right?
Interesting,i didn't even watched the full video bcox what i was expecting Paradise said it all, the guy is deep KSS needs to pay more attention to him❤
