@@alwaysblack2436 because slavery has taught us all these nasty habits. White Supremacists men have control the narrative in our relationships. Because we as blacks don't compromise to have a great relationship to support each other.
Here’s a quick way to prove what Crimson Cure is saying is factual: 1. Look at how she responds to people that she respects, then look at how she responds to you. 2. Look at how she expects to be treated and look how she treats you. 3. Look at what she wants you to do for her and look at what she expects to do for you. It’s clear as day!!!
Wow. I remember explicitly telling my wife towards the end of our marriage, that she treated me Sub-human. I never truly connected the dots until now thank you sister.
Just walked away from a 6 year relationship because of ill treatment.. trying to Co-parent, which is proving difficult with a real "Black Girl Magician". She definitely made my peace of mind disappear. 😢
I've always noticed that they do seem to behave waaay better and are waaay more quiet, feminine, and respectful when in relationships with white men. I thought it was just me being too paranoid and conspiratorial though.
A woman told me I was a problem because I live alone. I have peace and quiet. . This not the first time I heard this about being sub human male. No enemies in my home.
@@alwaysblack2436 A man living alone is a problem for women? It is not a problem for men. Men have heard for decades, that was not a problem for women. Now that men have walked away from the dating scene suddenly women are crying foul.
This is sad that the majority of bw have this mentally... the way you broke it down was profound and so true...most of these women must be fatherless.....hell motherless too....My dad set the standard in my life for how I'm suppose to reverence a man... and I watched my mom love and respect him...I love our black men I have a father, brother and son and my heart goes out our men❤️
I wish this was true. My ex-wife grew up with her black parents together and 3 of her brothers married to women that knew there roles as wife, but she was still disagreeable and manipulative to me. I was a good husband to her and a positive black male role model for her son. I can say, around white men.....she was crazy respectful.
@@mrstevens70 that's sad to hear maybe she watched her mom disrespect her dad, that can be the case as well....some men would let their wives...get away with certain things just to keep the peace...which I totally disagree with
I agree with your message , I’m a bouncer in the nightlife, and I see the disrespectfulness that black women have JUST for black men. Even when you ask for ID she gets disrespectful and undermines your authority. As if that not the Law. I don’t get it, while Sally and Maria Smile and say thank you.
Spin them around until they show, but we know that they know they get away with that because if the club would fill up with men by not using them it would be different. But it's good, I wish you well!
I'm OG won't put up with any BW bullshit now.Some wonder why they alone,lonely or bitter because of their pathetic attitude.Plus some must not have father in their life,put them in check
Sally and Maria have a happy life to smile about that's why they are smiling..... and they will have brothers in the club trying to talk to both of them while walking right pass the Sisters in the club..
Solid truth bra,i work as night watch in a guesthouse and local BW give me attitude all the time,em WM can stay for a chat an offer me coffee at times....and WM I'm referring to tourists bra,imagine.
@@joefromdc it's mentioned in a lecture of his. I don't mind going thru to find it but you would benefit the most by searching for it because I try and give his lecture 3 listens
When you said BW don’t see BM as human that was an ah ha moment. To me that says that old “adage of all men are dogs” she feels all BM are dogs and she treats them accordingly.
@@musiclover5023 All true! Well, the buck stops here, as they say! It's time to take out that garbage, no matter how much it stinks, roll up our collective sleeves and CLEAN UP!
You are correct on all points. It's a pity and shame that I'm in my late sixties and divorced, been in multiple relationships that all blew up. I still don't know what it feels like to be loved by a woman. I've been used, abused, and attempted to be manipulated but I refused to let them go that far. I treated them all with respect and bent over backwards to serve their needs and wants and was never shown any appreciation for the things I've done. They didn't like peace and always found a way to cause dismay and dissension. So I've decided to be alone unless THE MOST HIGH YAH sends me one that's righteous!
JB, the type of loyalty that you’re speaking from has made victims of a lot of us. Trust me… They’re kicking theirselves at some point for misusing this type of loyalty that should have been respected. It’s never too late to find what’s right for you.
Sorry - but you should not be in a position where you’re getting fucked over MULTIPLE times. It should only take one time for you to learn your lesson. Then you’re saying God to send you a woman. No, think and understand what’s the common theme with these women and avoid relationships
I know how you feel brother. I’m 31 years old and I had enough of them too.Nowadays if you want a melanated woman, you must avoid western countries. Try Africa or South America because the ones in the west lives in a whole different world because the media keeps lying to them. Any country influenced by the West will have terrible women, Eve just won’t stop listening to that snake! 🐍
@@harveylewis4201 Absolutely my friend. You nailed that one. Women in the western world are taught by their peers and media how to mistreat and disrespect us. Most southern sisters are taught by their mothers how to treat their husbands and boyfriends and they wind up being men hoppers. Now they are into other women. There are so many lesbians here and it is totally ridiculous. I am looking outside of the United States for a good woman.
This is really despicable some women have this mentality towards our men. BM are priceless and worthy and have every right to exist just as we do. This makes me appreciate my husband even more.
Dealing with BW women 45 years. Full of strife, anger, arguments, insecurities, laziness, selfishness, control, family court fights and misery. I thought I was unique. I didn't know so many men. experience much of the same. Using the children is fighting dirty!
"Treat then mean, keep them keen" is the sermon preached by black women to other black women on how to treat black men for decades. Now they can't understand why black women are the most undesired for marriage. The only hope for the modern black women is that more black women like Kendra will speak out in the hope that some will listen and change. They sure will not be listening to black men any time soon - no matter how they suffer and fail to get what they want and need.
I’m literally crying on the inside..... this is so sad.... We as black men have so much against us....u hit it right on the head.... That’s why I feel so weird when a women from a different nation is nice to me... I’m treated like nothing by every woman in my family....
cheer up king, life is hard for us men in general, women dont respect men in the modern age but thats why try your best to keep focusing on your passion, and guard your attention, dont give your attention out for free
CUT TOXIC PEOPLE O BBC Narcissist seeks people pleaser get used and abused in a endless loop of confusion……Tenacity , confidence ,PEACE MIND IN YOUR GOAL🤴🏾ALL ELSE WILL FOLLOW. What other people think and say about you is none of your business. The most destructive thing you would ever do is to believe someone else's opinion of you. You have to stop letting other people's opinions control you. Crimson. Cure 🧕🏽100% correct ✅ LEARN STAND IN THE PAIN 🧘🏾♂️SPIN NEGATIVE INTO POSITIVE Learn to enjoy the pain ,get comfortable in the pain.. HIT THE GYM..SAVE YOUR MONEY 💰HI-SELF ESTEEM🌪️🧘🏾♂️🌪️tenacity, confidence,, Perseverance
This is so insightful. This explains why whenever a brother is treated like he's valuable by another woman, the BW who believes she's better than him makes it her mission to destroy his self esteem/relationship/bag/shot by playing gatekeeper. I wish BW didn't feel this way and it's too common for it to be chance because it's not the case in other countries. I just hope healing is an option. I know people feel sister is harsh on BW but I imagine she has a son and male family members she don't want destroyed by this
So true and very well said👍 💡And there is an option for it to get better, But it's not going to happen until the master reset happens so it's definitely not going to happen in our lifetime😞
I beg to differ when you say this is not happening in any other country.. I've lived overseas ( specifically in Africa) for the past 14years.. This has spawned into a behaviour that has crossed borders,, not nearly as much as in the U.S. but it is prevalent over here too, when it comes to this so called " Modern Blaq woman " behavioural patterns. We must remember that our Blaq women are looked up to,, admired overseas, unfortunately as it's been for sometime now,, the projected stereotypes of angry Blaq man,, and rude Blaq women is what is considered to be normal or the Way. Now this behaviour is being mimicked by some of the so called " Blaq Modern Women " in other countries.
The women in my family used to fill my head with the BS you mention in this video. Even as a child, I decided I’d rather avoid relationships than have to deal with toxic behaviors and the games as they always suggested. And then I went through my own hardships after college related to my childhood and my upbringing. While I struggled, my family treated me terribly, and slowly I realized everything they told me belonged in the 🗑. Now, I think for myself. I am in a committed relationship now that may not always be easy or simple, but it’s healthy and it grows healthier every day (even though I struggle with my anger over how my own family screwed me up and failed to teach adequate relationship skills). And those bi#*!es are still miserable and single. 💁🏽♀️
@Patiently waiting: It's not a matter of being weak it's a matter of enjoying one's self while setting out traveling abroad. BW wanted feminism instead of a traditional family here enjoy your winnings. The US is on the verge of financial-economic ruin no one wants to be looked in with our mortal enemy. Time to start anew abroad.
Personally, I have definitely felt like this in a lot of relationships that I've been in with black women. Like her feelings were the only feelings that actually mattered Now I know why....
I found the cheat code. I played briefly and settled down with my wife. After figuring out that I had more at the house than I could do anything with. Plus it helps your pockets!
It's an honor to be your new subscriber. I am a black woman who understands your perspective. I have divested into relationships with other races of men before, but I am now married to a black man. I personally have never taken crap from men simply because of my upbringing. My mother was problematic in relationships. She was also abused mentally, emotionally and physically. She has always ran from the truth that she may be the problem. I noticed that I am problematic as well. Some of this revelation has come with age, but having a much older man (my husband) bring this to my attention on several occasions confirms this. I have been watching many of your videos and I can say that there is no need for us black women to be upset when someone (especially black men) call us out on our bullsh*t. Im ready for a change. Im ready to break this generational curse so that our daughter has the right blueprint for a healthy relationship when she becomes a woman. Thank you for the time you put into our people. I'll be watching much more.
Ok....after months and months of my speculation about Crimson Cure's motives, I've come to the conclusion: she is NOT a chameleon. She is legit and sincere because she provided insight into strategies that can/will help men protect himself from the modern whamin.
She's good. I watched some of the old bgs stuff. When she first came in here the men put her through the gauntlet. She never wavered on her ideology. It's these new breed that come on here that don't want to run the gauntlet that you need to watch.
@@ROYALP100 THAT'S exactly why she gets my devotion and protection....she & KS are single-handedly trying to heal the B community. They both need our support and protection.
I always wondered why it was so difficult to be with most black women, which drove me to dating outside my race. Now I'm engage to a non-black woman that's in her traditional feminine role and wants to have a happy peaceful home. Having a peace is what all men want not drama and constant arguments over BS.
Yes what I tell my dear Systars peace is gold and very much valued. Gave my 2 relationships that but they wanted dominance over me which was very unhealthy and ended very toxic. And I prayed to be different then what I saw in my family. Got groomed more by Elder women and other cultures. Even my Dad that reared me from elementary to becoming and adult. Says your an amazing young lady. One day a real Man will see the gem you are.
Now you know. As your distant relative with the same last name as yours (Amos) said years ago: "Black women have been taught to act like white alpha males". Belee dat.
I dated a woman like that who constantly enjoyed being in conflict with me…it was the most stressful relationship I’ve ever been in…your best is never good enough ….I had the nerve to buy her an engagement ring… of course under pressure and criticism… she cut off the sex until I got her a ring. Got the ring …sex was on again until she wanted something else that I took too long getting for her she would restrict my access to her - wouldn’t answer my calls until I got her what she wanted…it was a trip!
I’m an older man with some life experience (now divorced with grown children) and this video is one of the toughest pills to swallow. Crimson Cure is so right about this. I could never understand what my ex was so contentious with me for no reason. Things would be peaceful and then an explosion would happen. It was often met with degrading comments, etc. I’m going to have to ponder on this one.
I'm on my 2nd marriage, and it's far worse than my first. I'm 58 and where I'm at dealing with disrespect , aggression, contention , unfaithfulness etc... is pathetic. It's always a problem , she's never satisfied or happy. Maybe there's another dude , who knows. I'm at a point where if you're so unhappy leave. Some Black women need to get mental and emotional help.
We all just need to admit that some sisters, not all, are our worst enemies. Just leave them alone. Some of them are absolutely diabolical towards their own men. I don't make eye contact with most of them anymore. In the last 5 years, I've gotten better treatment from old born in the South white folks than most Black women. It's a shame, but it's just a reality that black men need to accept.
I pray God restores our people! Satan knew what he was doing! A lot of Jezebels, Narcisstic, Asalom spirits running around! There’s a lot in every race though. You have two kinds of Jezebels. 1. One that is loud and the other one that is very subtle. You need discernment to detect the quiet ones. What do you do when a black man can’t admit when he’s wrong and he’s always making it seems like it’s you? My man makes it seem like I’m the problem and this is the first. I do go back in forth with him because he doesn’t acknowledge how he has hurt me. His silent game is such a hinderance for him. He said He probably need to change that about him but he’s not. He said he doesn’t want anyone to tell him about him. He’s so prideful.
@@janicejackson9228 I agree. It’s both parties. That’s why these types of videos are not helpful to the improvement of the relationship between BM/BW. It’s counterproductive. There needs to be a strong BLACK couple that tell these truths and explain how to overcome. These type of videos cause more division.
That is so true. The thought that black men are viewed as less than human or not human at all was introduced to girls at a very young age. Remember the nursery rhyme, “boys are made of snips and snails and puppy dog tails but girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice.” Who knows what type of long term psychological impact that had on girls.
Ive honestly been in a relationship exactly as this Sister described. Everything she mentioned happened ro me, & this woman did exactly what was stated. Till this day, she still tries her tactics, to no avail. I did everything a man "should, & could do". Thats why I'm single. Thank you Sister, for bringing it to the light......
I always tell Brothers I build with. Watch and talk and get to see her family. Study every angle of her. Pray for exposure what was your childhood like. See if she'd done any shadow work on self. We say men lie but women are better at hiding it and so on. Even their book said how we can beguil you all very well. As it said weaker vessel was a woman. I've always said a man because from the beginning of time till now the same tricks are played. Just new players and tactics real women that adore and love you all as a brother 1st we will be honest and tell you the tricks. As you all see how males can be for us. That opposite sex foresight is real and should be reasoned. Yet Watch her actions she can't keep a entire life of deceit up for to long.
I know what you mean because it feels like you never really know them. Or, you feel like it's just a matter of time before those horns come out. But it's all love with wm and any other non-bm.
It seems like those Jokers are on autopilot, but that wall is really made for Willie's Gals. That's all I can say since we can't tell too much because we know what they do with our plans.
OMG 😲 You have totally explained everything wrong in my marriage. You explained everything my wife has been in my marriage. I can't wait till she gets home today to show this to her. Everything you've said I've told her she's guilty of. Especially in her refusal to acknowledge anything I do but quick to point out the negative.
I wouldn't show her this, bro. With all this truth from this stream will only make her treat u worse. She doesn't want u waking up. U should be thinking of your exit plan.
Show her? 🤣🤣🤣 You think that will make her value you? Nope she will go harder in any attempt to break your will and spirit, she will hate you even more for figuring her out and putting a mirror infront of her face. You should have left yrs ago, fool. Old dogs don't learn new tricks.
I remember I used to go to work and deal with white supremacists all day; and then come home and have another job dealing with my "woman." Get a new woman, rinse and repeat. It finally dawned on me that I have two jobs; but only one is paying me and there is only one I cannot do without. After I stopped having a live in girlfriend dealing with white supremacy wasn't that hard because they will mess with you; but they know when to quit
That what I started to realze. A lot of BW view BM in the lense of WM: They view BM as animals; as beast of burden. But the problem for a lot of BW is they can't really date outside of their race because they have a bad reputation for how they treat BM.
Wooooow! This is whole truth, Kendra! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 We bw really needed to receive this message because this training was so ingrained at such early ages that we don’t even perceive its effects within ourselves! Knowing this is putting up a mirror for us to see ourselves for who and what we were(and ARE), so that we can truly transform from the inside out!🤟🏾💕
Good morning Queen. Well-stated as usual. I'm mostly upset with the source(s) who influenced our blk girls and bw to think this way about us bm. This, however, explains so much because I have seen what Kendra said play out. I often wondered why some of these females acted the way they do, now I see. But, for the influencers, what comes around, goes around.
It's crazy. I never understood why of all races of women I have dated, it's bw who give us the hardest and most difficult time. To the point where a lot of bm I know now don't even bother with them. It is primarily in countries where the value system is based on feminism.
Am@Always Black; Good evening, brother! Your kind words are appreciated! However, “Sister” wis preferable. Queen is a ubiquitous term used heavily within the gynocracy! It’s probably one of the many little tricks they used to boost the ego of ABW!🤣 WS was, and is, awfully sneaky!!!
@Always Black; YES, Kendra explained the process perfectly for all to easily understand, if they choose to! Actually, many probably get it, yet prefer to go along with the program instead of bucking it, which takes a whole lot of inner work!
I've been trying hard to understand the mentality 😪. I'm sure that this is the reason we're having a difficult time raising families and maintaining peace in our homes. Thank you immeasurably. 😊
This is exactly what they do. Whatever a man wants in a relationship she will insure he doesn’t get it. I have just gotten used to pretending I don’t want things I do want and praise things I couldn’t care less about just to throw her off.
How many have to navigate as you are? I have had a similar situation that if I want or need something that she won't do it. If an action or gesture will help me, I won't receive it. And if someone else was to want to do that for me that she'd mess it up.
This young lady is telling the truth been married 26yrs. Still experience some of this craziness. She's not saying every women is like this. If it don't apply to you don't get upset. But i definitely can relate to what she is saying. She hit a home run with this topic. Black men and Black women we can do better by treating eachother better. Be safe and God Bless.
I swear, your words gets me emotional. As a black man, many of us never recieve any appreciation from many of our black women. The world being against us is bad enough but to have our women go against us is the nail in the coffin and often times, it hurts the most. It's literally stomach paining at times. To know that it's not all of our women (which we knew all along) is a breath of fresh air and I appreciate you. Much respect🔥
Yes, Yes, Yes, the saying goes,. "Treat them mean, keep them keen" and what that does in reality is completely blow the relationship apart and when the shit hits the fan and the divorce petition has arrived in the mail, she suddenly wakes up and realizes what she has done to her man and then it's far too late to save the situation. Then the men find comfort with women from other communities , nations, colours and the relationship works out.
This woman needs to be protected at all cost!! She is speaking straight facts! It's so sad that our sisters devalue us so much that sometimes, we end up going to other races to be treated the way we deserve to be treated.
We were taught SOOOO wrong!!!! OH My GOsh!!!!!! We are spoiled, we don't put in no work like how we do when we are pursuing a degree and career. Crimson is soooo right!!!
Sad but true that many sisters are difficult. I have a few in my family and they are not pleasant to deal with AT ALL, the major issues behind the difficulty seems to be coming from basing choices and behaivior on emotions, difficulty regulating said emotions, believing ALL your perceptions are REALITY and a SERIOUS deficit in collaborative (win - win) communication and conflict resolution skills.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Unfortunately, this is how my mom has treated me my whole life, and told me to my face as an adult that she was required to invalidate me in order to control my ego. We don't have a relationship anymore. I also notice this general behavior being shown to men of all races in the modern world, and it's really sad to watch the dehumanization of men in the current narrative
@@dennisrobinson8008 Exactly. She had to downplay my positive attributes so they wouldn't go to my head, while simultaneously amplifying my faults so the primary focus was always "fixing what is wrong with me." Also, she implied that I was evil for having any confidence or autonomy on my own terms, and that a good man is quiet, meek, and a slave to God. And we argued about this during our recent and permanent fall out just before the COVID-19 outbreak
@@stephensheppard1083 How long have you been free? How did you figure it out? I have to imagine she had other family members "in on it", how many were involveed? It must've been going on your entire life.
Yes Kendra you nailed it Sis most black women do look at us in the same light as Zaddy…So many times I seen black women display the uttermost respect for men from other races.And then when I hit the scene they say oh what you want 😂..But as a real self motivated man with options I don’t need anything from any woman of any race…
👊👊👊bro i witnessed that openly at my work place and at events overseas with black women. I dont buy my self to them........... esp. Before men of other races....
You are definitely on point with the description on the state of mind of the women you’re talking about. Which makes it hard to even think about approaching any black women now and days because of their mindsets
Love your channel. My parents have been married for 54 years this past August. They have been together since the tenth grade. My dad was drafted and stationed in Germany. My mother went to college in Savannah. He sent her a proposal letter and engagement ring from Germany. He told me at 17 that a man pursues that which he sees valuable. He saw value in my mother as to her influence over his children and her moral compass. Sadly, I think those days are long since gone decades ago.
So true. Black women have always gave brothers a hard time from beginning to the end of the relationship, but they most submissive and the perfect most supportive spouse when they are with whites.
After a 47yr marriage to a woman of another race and now a widow, I was in a 6mo.relationship with a Black woman that ended terribly. I am in total agreement with everything you said. Thanks for the enlightenment.👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
WOW!😳...Sis you completely broke it down and I'm in AWE of how you do it, the "keep away" game was right in my face and I ALWAYS wondered where it came from😔...thank for your insight sister!❤️
This is 100% true with all Blackwomen and how they are taught to think and act towards Blackmen. I've seen it and experienced it since the day I was brought on this planet.
@@dennisrobinson8008 yes, this is 100% truth. Read Sharazad Ali's book The Blackmans Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman. She speaks on all of this and she wrote that book over almost 40 years ago. The deep psychological scars and damage from slavery that has been done to Black people needs to be examined and addressed.
Ma'am.......You did a video that I truly experienced in my 13 year marriage. Everything you said is true and what I experienced. Fellas.....get these Women out of your life! It doesn't matter if you are married with kids or not. Move on bcuz it will never end well. There are True, Real Women out there looking for US!
There’s level to black men when it comes to women. A high earning man, she’ll become a chameleon for. An average hard working/earning man has ti jump through hoops, will give her everything, and prop her up, and as much as you can give is never enough. Then there’s the dudes who have endless amounts of time for the streets, the bars, and the clubs… These women will give them all their time, love, while not getting any of that back in return. But these broads got these dudes on speed dial, because these dude don’t require them to act like a lady or have a higher standard of conduct.
I was using FB Dating and once I told a sister I was currently in graduate school...she instantly told me, "well...you're too busy - not interested..."....I was like HUH????
Honestly hearing this is really sad.. it hits different hearing it directly from a black woman even though some of the things she's saying I knew in the back of my head
Another excellent video. If this is true this is truly insane and heartbreaking at the same time for melanated men and women and the family unit in general. Wow
Everything she is saying is fact!! I’ve witnessed it first hand. That’s why a lot of black men are going to different races for peace and to be loved “back”. Many are going to Brazil for the beautiful black women there. Because I hear that they know how to treat a man.
God my sister, you are on point, my marriage of over 20 years was as you point out, and my wife does understand my I filed for divorce !! Keep doing the work!!
Now all of these monsters out here being called queens just because they're black is just sickening!😷 This WOMAN here has earned her right to hold the title as 👑 QUEEN!👏 You're an awesome gift from the all mighty himself to any man that's lucky enough to have you as his QUEEN👍👍👍
I'm a 66 year old Black Man....I am learning from you why my "Interactions" with Black Women have been confusing at times... It's true....no matter WHAT a Man does . positive...Black Women.. complain!....I encourage young (18-35) Man today....to step..back.....stop chasing ..stop .SIMPING and FOCUS on themselves!..and THEIR future.. P.S...I am Married 30 years to a Black Women...(we are both FBA!). B1
The witch that hit a brick wall while married with me told the police that "if I thought I (me) was going to have peace and quiet while resting B4 I went to work, hell no he ain't..." Of course, I divorced that wicked "it". Took my sanity into my hands and confirmed my own manhood and spiritual strength by NOT beheading that witch.
these 15 and 20 min lessons are great. I love your channel but many times i do not have the time to set down and listen to an hour of more show. i have listen to a lot of them tho but i like these better and i listen to almost all these short shows and i am able to get other things done that i need to do. thank you.
This is the most painful truth I've ever had to understand. Something in the water does not Compute...? And to this, we're held hostage from' real love 'because she's found honor in denying the man the love for his heart??? I see why Becky ain't losing.
Lol 🤣🤣🤣 becky and them done this shit on purpose, she wants the bw best BM at a discount and she tricked BM to throwing their best BM away, it's crazy.
I agree with your perspective. I have had many conversations with many Black Men over many years and this is a situation that has to be taught and spoken to sistas by sistas because when men bring it up, we are often ignored.... Many women do not believe that there is a huge disconnect between Black Men and Black Women that should be addressed sooner than later..... Many men think it is too late as well.... The cycle continues...... These type of women will be alone with their puppies and kittens....
Black men will pursue the black woman when he is really interested, black men will go all in if he is truly interested, not a player or a pimp, a good black man, learn how to tell the difference
This is a harsh reality. All we need to do is look at the social totem pole of how we are portrayed in society. We tend to be treated like stray dogs as long as we know our place. Gratitude for sharing DJ Fish Grease!
Ma’am you’re absolutely right ! Because I’ve never had a black woman respect me as a man , even raising other men kids , give my all and not expect in return anything as far as a relationship is concerned , but when I’ve realized that she feels this way , which I’ve told the women in my life before they did certain things that they were going to do them , even now trying to speak or get to know a black woman , the first thing is to prove something , never to prove herself , not to me , a black man , it takes a strong black woman ma’am to say things that are totally true , I thankyou ! Sincerely Kevin Guyton Sr
And when the man shuts down and no longer expresses any likes and preferences to her (so that she can take those away as well), she complains that he doesn't communicate.
