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Joy it ALSO could mean they're fake or think themselves better than you. Or worse they have believed crap from others in town. Amazzing how others will believe any old shit about a person when the person saying it dislike them ANYWAY. Wow what a hater has said something negative? What a revelation! In my case, all it proves is I've grown and learned. And they haven't. They're STILL on the same square on the board. And the bigger truth? They act like that towards a lot of things in their lives.
an our relationship is over if shes talking too other guys by bayed my my back we are done for good an seeing other guys as well as iam thaink ing about it an
Some of this list makes sense, other parts don't simply because a woman will use the excuse she was busy, yet a guy will be shot down in 20 minutes with some type of attitude if not responding to a woman. Trying to be mysterious, trying to be this, trying to be that, sounds like a lot of 'trying' and not being an actual person. sounds more like changing someone and moulding them into what the girls want. Gives a solid message of be yourself, as long as the girl likes it, if not, change. Women like the bad boy, and men should be able to acknowledge our own feelings, that's the way some of us are, either accept us or don't, but no complaining when the mysterious bad boy was more enticing, walks out or is abusive. The 'boring' homebody who is supportive, understanding and cares would have been there and treated them better.
My bro , that exacly how i feel dude you totally understand my pain. I feel like i am man who can give so much to a woman but i never get the chance, it feels like, the way i am, just dsnt fit the likings of a woman. Its sad because i am a 23 young age really wanting a realtionship, to know what it feels like to love someone and have those romantic moments but.,... I never had. I will probably have to adopt a child to continue my bloodline and that is sad
@@rafaelfreitas7799 Listen my guy, its my job to be sad and depressed about this shit, we aint hiring any more people on lol Look im kidding around, dont want to invalidate how you feel. but look your probably love sick, hungry for someone to do all the romantic stuff with grow with and all that soft shit, truuust me its my whole shtick on this subject lol but dude YOU dont have to be the sad lonely old dude if you dont WANT! You got time yet! Dont let the lack of romantic experience get in your head! Try to plan a few things for you to do FOR you...thats right you heard me spoil yourself! I want you go OUT OF YOUR WAY to make YOURSELF feel like your awesome! And KEEP DOING IT! Funny thing about our hobbies and interests, the more we love em the more love you because of them! So love what you like to do! Own it! There is only one you on this whole wide world...isnt that something worth celebrating? Dont you think HE needs your care and attention more right now? I tell you this because im 32 and your 23, they say im "still" young and im in the same boat as you.. But you ARE young and have time yet to not let those thoughts drag you down like they have me! you dont belong down here with losers in love like me, remember that! You deserve somebody special, but you can't be looking down on yourself, or you wont see them..and uhh they are Special....as in rare... As not common.. So look UP!! its gonna be tough and these feelings DO come back..but if you give what i said a try..you WILL feel better. PROMISE.
young man you are good keep your head up son, i am 45 years old , look son , i went for work 7 years a go then i had accident at work , i was 5 years in bed i came out from this in june 2021 , when i got out alot of things changed i had to start to learn everything from the start, so as i said , i came out in june and i found a bar near my place so i started going there not looking for any love or women or to get drunk no no i was just happy that i survived an accident and got new life and a chance in life, so i kinda go to this bar every friday and saturday , i met some guys and most of the time i sit alone, and by sitting a lone and not bothering any buddy women started noticing me and give me an attention that i was not looking for, so i got to date the most beautiful black lady who works there, and she is a lawyer, the other one who likes me she is a dintest assestance , and i told them my real age and everthing, so now son i wish you near me but it's ok, look be yourself love yourself and focus on yourself women will see that then they will come to you, so dont look for them women , no they are the one gonna come to you , if i got very beautiful young ladys age from 25 to 30 and i show them my IDs and they still want me so bad son, and i ask them what did they see in me that atract them to me , they be like why dont you like me?? if after all of this they still want me, then trust me your love will come to you soon.
Why is it ok if she's leading several guys on but bad if I'm leading several girls on? Thats what I don't understand. Get called a player yet shes doing the same or even more? Lol
"You aren't mysterious" and "Not giving enough away"! "She's bored" ; "Don't mention the ghosting" ; "Don't ask her out" which means checkmate for you! Curl up in your bed and observe her actions it doesn't matter that it hurts. If a woman do this to me I'll literally tell her to... Yeah googletube is going to remove that comment so I'll leave it to your imagination!
Just wait til shes 35 and lookin like 50. Lol. No offense but the dating game is one sided buuuuullllshiiiit. If you find one that's real...she wont put you through this crap.
Thanks for your video, great advice. However, I date on the average only 3 times per year at most and have not been intimate with anyone for 10 years. I am tall, thin, nice looking, in great shape and live a healthy lifestyle. Lady friends that already have someone tell my I'm a great catch. I'm polite and treat people the way I would like to be teated. Sometimes I think I am too nice, I know women like the bad boys, but that's not me. Women don't want nice or respect nice. I always get dumped and I'm convinced there is nobody for me anywhere. Guess I'm too old for the young ones and too young for the old ones. When I see couples walking around town holding hands I get very sad, I think why can't that be me? Do you have any suggestions, please help.
I wont lie..probably the only thing for it? Go out and make some friends that are women. Talk to them about friendly stuff and keep romance out your mind. Just talk. Go to a bar and practice it if you can! If not Just. Say. Hi! Dont need to strike up conversation with anybody...just say hi...it makes people smile at you and sometimes even stop and talk to you! Try it!
With the way current society is, I wouldn't even bother mate, if you've had the 'opportunities' you've had and no luck then just concentrate on yourself, women these days aren't worth a second look,
Just move on from them they aren't worth your time or the mind games, there is always an agenda, so if you don't hear from them them or they give you flimsy excuses (deep down you know it's flimsy) then just walk away
I'm loving the vague nebulous nonsensical advice from this woman. Really let's you inside the arbitrary and chaotic mind. *"Just enough, but not too much."* Thanks, that's real specific. Also, she may be busy or she maybe be talking to another guy. Just figure it out with absolutely no information whatsoever. 🙄😄🤣😝
You can feel what’s going on, you hav to feel the situation out and go from there bcuz believe it or not nobody is going to be able to give you a surefire way to get girls. Everyone is diff and has diff personalities. Again, just feel the situation out and go with your gut feeling on what your next move should be
This video is perfect 👌 answer to @stuntard question from " THIS Is How A Girl Texts ... " comment section. I hope he will watch that video as well. You 🤩 Looking lovely here, Anna! By the way 😉
forget her and move on. its very tough i know but it will make you stronger. The more times you get ghosted the more resilient (or at least used to it) you'll be. When I talk to anyone, I expect them to ghost, so I won't get angry if it happens. If you try and contact her you'll look desperate. Leave it alone. If she really liked you she would contact you. Basically don't get invested in her ahead of time...also make steps to improve yourself.. don't mope around wasting time worrying about it. Lifes too short
Replace the wires man with woman and you have your answer. These are so many of the things that work with both genders. Especially about flirting, women have lists of guys on the hook, she will move on in a minute. Let her go so she can get pregnant with the bad boy and be alone the rest of her life.
😆 she sounds like she really hopes people get upset when she ghosts them, checking their phone and feeling lost without her lmao Trust me, if you ghost someone just assume they're busy getting nudes from other girls 😜
@El Macho Trump That is a good question...when a guy in a coma met God and God offered to answer a question to him, the man first asked him the secret of the universe and meaning of life. But God told the man that its a secret and that he should ask him something else. So the man asked him your question. And the Lord looked at him and started "The existence of the universe and the meaning of life..."
6 reasons?? Lol. Why only 6? Isnt 1 enough, could be 10,20,30 reasons but 1's enough... move on, forget her and start valueing your self, don't piss around with women who waste your valuable time with silly games, video's like this are made by women who play these type of games...she's an expert cos shes done it,been there. Find a normal nice woman who don't play this bullshit. Rare but they are out there....😉
It only feels awful because you dont value yourself as a man! Remember YOU are a king!! YOU are the prize to the woman!! If she doesn’t want you then she doesn’t deserve you!! Keep that crown straight my man 👑
One reason I think you missed is when a girl might ghost a guy because she's afraid of rejection. It can happen if a girl likes a guy a lot and is feeling insecure about how to proceed, especially if they're less experienced. It probably isn't the most common reason, but it's worth mentioning.
@@Angela-b1u Dude, whatever happened to you is not my fault. Stop projecting your pain onto other people you don't even know and start to heal it instead. Peace!✌️
Highly unlikely at best, and bullshit at worst. You can be the most accomodating man and create the safest place for her and she will still ghost you whenever she feels like it. That's just how women works.
I will try some of these things, maybe i am indeed rushing things, she liked the fact that i was on a specific course and we were talking well, i will try not to ask her out again on future texts and let it flow, now i will be patient like you said, thanks for the advice. Btw i had a good relationship with another girl( this was on some online text thing btw) we had good conversation and she really liked me and she was the one who texted me everyday saying morning, but all of a sudden from one day to another shes gone, deleted friendship and i cant see har profilw again, can you give us a clue what could have caused this?
You did a very very good job explaining. what to do and not to do many guys get. caught in their feelings and tell the......... woman off and they blow it for them self well explain keep posting these yes never over text or call and never bring up she Ghost 👻 you are you going to.mess up big time learn how to have control. over yourself
@@Rob0917 that worked for me. Went on 2 dates. Second was a double date and was a complete disaster. I thought she didn't like me. A couple days pass and my phone rings. It's the girl I went on those 2 dates with. Now we're happily married. Keep in mind, what works for one won't work for all
"Busy" is an excuse , nobody is that busy to send a quick text "bored" is also an excuse , if she´s "bored" I´m not there to entertain her , it´s a two way street the list goes on ....And yes I will call them out on their bs I simply move on from low interest girls
Great video, as a guy pursuing women can be tricky. I do my best to be kind, but certain issues like ghosting are hard to know how and what to do. And thank you for reinforcing the slow and steady idea. It's easy to want to go all in! Appreciate your work. Thanks again!
well, I have 2 comments. 1. So if a girl is dating multiple guys, it is ok but if the guy is dating multiple girls, this one girl is stop texting you or ghosting you???? 2. What about the other way around: I once stop texting a girl because she was choaking me with her behaviour. Nearly all the advices in this video telling NOT to do, she did to me. No surprise: I gosthed her completely. It took 3 (!) weeks before she stopped texting me and stalking me.
you got the first part wrong. she's not dating multiple guys (if she's not a cheater), it means she has a lot of guys interested on her not just you, who are also wanting her attention. you have competition. so when she's not responding well on your efforts, that means she isn't interested.
Wow! Anna, you covered all directions and views and reasons. Also, you are very honest with the information provided, as well as taking a neutral position. Extremely helpful, thank you. If I were to tell you about my situation, I am certain you would say, "Charles, well done, perfect!". The reason being, I'm doing what I believe is the correct and caring way to do things, and it's working, then I watch a video of yours about the situation only to find that your advice matches my actions. Thank you for the indirect, CORRECT support you provide for me.
a tip from a (real) guy to the guys that want to be real: she's not the one until you proposed and she said yes. my best relationship was a 2 years relationship of only dating and even though all the signs were pointing in the marriage direction, we split up (her choice). The fact that i didn't made actions to rush to things happening they could happen all from her efforts. If you take effort from a girl she ditches you.
@@kingdrift1136 the idea of really taking time with things is exactly to marry because you two could last a long dating period. People only divorce on small troubles if they marry too fast. Of course there are good reasons for divorce as well.
Your never gonna find that girl..there are to many guys out there ..after your 1 st date .by the time you get home she'll have 29 more like and 5 matches..then your a memory..women are damaged..they want a nice loyal guy but that only applies to him not her..just hook up..
She is avoiding me for couple of days before that she said. She has family issues and she need financial . But at that time im not there for her . Now she is not responding to my call and text i ask her why she say that her mind is not ok she need relaxation what i do bro😞😞
hey can we get couple tips on how to be the guy who slides in her dm's, calls over at 1.a.m hits it and dips before her husband/bf/that guy who's shooting for a relationship shows up? Because i wont lie, that guy is far better off in my mind...come on joy!! start hooking us up over here!! "7 ways to hit it and quit it!" perhaps? This "love is out there" craic is just getting in the way! Perpetuating the problem of beta trains and satellite lovers is what your doing with all that nonsense🤣
Had this happen after I asked a girl out, she got back to me in 24 hours, came up with an excuse that her phone wasn’t working, still down for a date though. Got the feeling she needed time to digest.
My crush at work ghosted me because she didnt want to "disrespect" her relationship she never told me about by texting me. Which made me like her more in a way because she's the decent person i knew she was. Just wish she would have told me instead of just ignoring me.
Lol bro loyal girls even respond to guys if they’re committed to their relationship with you. What she was really doing was putting you on the back burner for when her relationship is over, that’s not a decent person.
Your last tip, Do I Really like her or am I simply attracted to her….??? There’s a key to what’s goin on with me! We’d just met, had a 2 hour phone conversation and then a 2 hour lunch date. She’s very Lovely!! But our core values are complete opposites. Ergo…. Probably NOT a possible relationship partner and a very good reason why she’s stopped responding. Thank You Joy!!
My phone doesn't have cell service, I am not searchable online, no Facebook, no twitter, no tik tok. So what would a woman being interested in me would resort to? Observing her, she most of the time walks in when I am there, yeah kind of daft assumption, but when she walks in her eyes are always locked on me, no BS I can see it, She always strikes a conversation with another college, but with me, but through intuition I get this weird vibe that secretively she is checking me out. I don't work in an all office based work environment, she works in the office and I am a daft installer who travels to different assignments every day, This circumstance explained, how do I know that she likes me? I like Her, that's obvious, but I can not show this on a professional level. So how?
maybe she wants to sail away or catch a freight train or a rocket ship into outer space. nothing left to do, too many things were said to ever make it feel like yesterday did. season must change separate paths, separate ways, if we blame it on anything, let's blame it on the rain. i knew it all along, i had to comment with this Motley Crue song, too young to fall in love guess we knew it all along. that's alright, that's okay. we were walking through some youth smiling through some pain, that's alright, that's okay. just scroll down the page.
So i am trying get back with a Ex after 10 years and her marraige broke down couple years back, we always remained friemds but now i wrote a letter to explain my intentions and i get things take time. She now read it and explaimed she loved the letter and needs time to articulate it, the messages drawed down but shes told me not to panic shes going through somethings thats making drained and a little lost in life but are positive. Ive given space not text in few days etc, but when is the right time or do i wait for her make next move? We due to meet at a already arranged dinner next Friday. Hard sometimes to read the rigjt signs, and i really want to respect what shes going through.
Guys, always keep a minimum of three women preferably 5 to 6 in your regular dating rotation. This way if one starts to fall off just hit up one of the others in your rotation. No need to be rude with the chick that stops responding, just leave her on ice, and enjoy the women that are in your rotation, and if the other one comes back just make sure things are on your terms. But don't waste your time if she's not down with your program. If she does the pull back game again, permanently remove her from your rotation, Block her on all social media and delete her phone number. So just keep your dating rotation populated and you won't have time to do any wondering over one that starts falling off. And if any of them ask if you're dating other women, tell them of course you are.
On the bad behavior point: I had just gotten close to a girl then there were few messages the next day, none the day after that and that night her girlfriends saw me in a club with another girl - a girl who became a good friend after we had had a few dates and both found that there is not gonna be more between us. So the friends of the girl I had been intimate with just two days before and had caught feelings for told her I was flirting with somebody else. That was the end of the budding relationship. To me as a guy this seems like she was just looking for a reason to break it off and did not have the courage to just be honest about it.
I have never experienced this. I think if you are a good catch and have lots going for yourself you will never even come close to experiencing any of these behaviors. I feel this happens to the males who have less to offer and panic. If you have plenty to offer and are not a total idiot you will always have many many options.
Mens don’t work that hard its better to move on then to waist time on one. if that girl is playing with you, then let its be other mens headache, there are even better girl and better work in life to do then to just concentrate on one the most beautiful girl are the most confused once.
Dear Anne I used to think it was me for the longest time cause I had no way to confirm this but silence and my own thoughts but as time went on and I've had time to reflect on things I realized it didn't matter if she found someone/something that was fulfilling to her then I wish them the best but even a late night text saying sorry or anything for that matter would be nice. that being said does anyone here like the games we play with one another? I mean I've always responded far better knowing the truth, even though it can be painful at times. then a lie which is where I draw the line there's far to many people who are ok with lying you should not have that in a relationship especially with someone you want to spend your life with well those are my thoughts have a great day beautiful lady thanks for the advice its helpful 😁🥰
