Please someone wake that guy up ! That was NEVER monagamus ! It was NEVER love and it was NEVER a relationship. He was asking for trouble being with a woman like that
@@2ShoesMedia PLEASE ! He had no options ?? He had options to walk away from her before he got involved with her ! Do you know what that’s called ? Self respect and Mental strength ! Amongst quite a few other things ! Any guy with “ Something about “ himself will smell a problematic woman like that coming from a mile away !
Yes he was a simp BUT he's trying to be better, he needs help. After being brainwashed it's a process to re train your brain. Mick if you see this keep it up, keep working out, no more simping, no more only fans, no strippers. It sucks being alone but settling for a toxic woman will harm you worse in the long run
Having the capacity to prosper while being alone is a component of being a man. Without it, a man will allow fuckery from women to maintain companionship. Always be able to walk away when disrespected.
OnlyFans women couldn't exist without men paying the monthly fee. Street corner prostitutes would go out of business if men would quit paying them. Yes, the women are horrible, but people forget that it takes two to do this job, and the men are not innocent.
If you detach love from sex (sex work) and you detach love from a relationship (sugar babies) how are you just gonna flip a switch when it's time for a real relationship?
Unfortunately, there are tons of socially awkward simps who have gotten destroyed before having their lesson learned moment. Sadly, this dude would go back in a heartbeat if he could...
@@sirnigeloffarage9255I was basically raised by a single mother (dad was kinda there, sometimes) and I'm not a pussy at all. I get your point though, I know a few dudes like this and they were raised by single moms.
@@bradsaelens692my mom and I always butt heads. She's a modern woman who's son is trad. She's 63 and single looking for a mate. I'm 48 and been married almost 20 years with 2 kids at home. We are outliers brother, not the standard
@@crustinagohard9049 I was raised (from 8) by my mom and older sister. They were both horrible for advice and the way they acted towards me if I exhibited any masculinity was suppressive. i do not blame them because they honestly have no idea how clueless they were. My dad never helped me and he was a ladies man. I had to learn through experience and have been lucky not to have been run over like this dude. Please tell your son the cold, hard truth. It's NOT glamorous out there.
He said he was shocked at her leaving for another man. He's the only one. No one else in the world would be shocked at that. I would have been shocked if she didn't leave him.
To be honest, I don't know any adults that go around discussing their sex lives. High school yes, adults, no. For someone to do as you suggested would require him to talk about it.
@@ralphtrynor9719 Doesn't even have to be about his sex life. Looks like this is the first girl that has given him any attention. Take him out and let him meet girls who are not s3x w0rkers.
@ralphtrynor9719 it is not a matter of talking about sex. It is talking about your relationship with your future wife and who this person is. Adults do talk about these things.
Malignant narcissism is a psychological disorder in which a person has an inflated sense of self-worth, a need for admiration, and a disregard for others. A malignant narcissist may experience paranoia, feeling threatened or persecuted without proof, and are aggressive, manipulative, and abusive without remorse.
Aha! FORREST GUMP!! THAT'S who this fool reminds me of. AND, Just like 'Jen-nay', 'Kee-Lay', is gonna swing back through from time to time, just to keep breaking his heart.. WTG 'FORREST SIMP'! 😂
He's going to be heartbroken maybe another 2-3 times before he finally gets it's. Swallows the red pill, understands female nature.. It's going to be a painful journey, like it has or is for most men.
Many men have to learn the hard way. He needs to not date. For a long time. He needs to sort his life out. This is a cautionary tale. Sex workers & 304’s are pump and dumps, never relationship material.
Be honest, did anyone really think those two were ever going to live happily ever after? She will live in shame the rest of her life and he has got off lightly all things considered.
He's an enabler. Not every guy is a gigachad whatever. Most guys are happy to get anyone especially if they're 'out of their league'. Y'all are out here acting like if you ever actually had a shot with a Sydney Sweeney that you wouldn't jump on that and breed her even though she's show her jugs to the world. You're lying to yourselves if most guys wouldn't. You gotta take an L here because she's done nudity, but you're ok with that because you get her and you want her more than you care about what she does. Sad, sure, but it is what it is.
Kinda pissed that everyone here is calling this guy a loser and a simp. He messed up by purchasing into a lie, but he’s not a loser. I think we need to be compassionate and cheer him on more than ever as he goes through his journey to self recovery/discovery.
I agree, but honestly, his story is hard to hear. I feel better laughing about it because to take it serious is honestly kind of heavy that a person would treat another person like this
@@amanofservice not trying to be a dyack, but could you maybe see how your taking a weak person and there circumstance and outcasting them more when really what they need is guidance and support? Ridicule is not how you help people get better.
@Stayjolly33 my response to something horrible that happened might not make anyone else feel better, but it's still how I gotta process it. If this guy cared about what I thought, then he shouldn't have put his business out on the internet. Respectfully, it's not in his control, and I can only do what I can do.
NO, he was NOT 'Blindsided' by anything. This sht was visible from ten miles away.. (Although.. maybe 'Columbo' here didn't quite see ALL the clues., but there were clues. )
Y’all really don’t realize he was taking what he could get? To my knowledge we are in the first couple generations that there are more than 2 women for every man and less than 1/32nd of the women deserve a man’s loyalty and commitment. You shouldn’t laugh at him when he’s the product of a broken nation and there are millions of other young men dealing with the same issues.
Brian, my name is Damir, Croatian, father of one beautiful girl, divorced but with an awesome relationship with my ex wife. I just recently started to watch your IP and have enjoyed it a lot. Andrew, I would like to debate with you and hopefully learn something. I am not a Christian but I support Christian values and that would be one great topic. And oh how I would like to engage with these women and the simps... that is our civilization in 50 years unless we do not talk about it. Have a beautiful life.
Literally.. he contradicts himself. He's acting like a victim, but claims to have all this insight into her behavior and she's a narcissist and coping, if he's so smart how did he allow this to happen 😂 😂 I don't feel bad for him tbh
Yeah, we established that the first time he showed up. Hopefully he learns to better himself, be more stoic, and understand how to be a bit more masculine in his life.
It's possible to go from beta to alpha it's all about learning and experience, plus dude was still clapping some serious good 🍑 and 🐈 not to mention the 🍼🍼. 99% of men would clap that if she wasn't a 304 let's be real here.
I remember this guy. He was letting her make content on with other men for money. Surprise surprise she left the beta. Toughen up, sir, you seem nice. Get right with God, find a real job, make your money, find a nice girl.
Will never feel bad for these type of guys…. Ever….. let a nut or two drop brother gah dang. Hope he finds some strength and self confidence/discipline.
So she has overwhelming anxiety so much so she couldn't even be an adult and pay bills or do what you're supposed to but that anxiety is just gone and completely OK to show off her naked body in public or online. Makes sense.
The reason these relationships don’t work is because the women instinctively know that a man who will date a sex worker lacks options, and a man who lacks options she can’t respect, and respect is necessary for a woman to live you.
Yikes! This is just sad. So sad. I feel sorry for Mick being duped so much. I don't date and even if I did I would not date an OF woman or any woman who does p$rn. And I happen to like p$rn but that does not mean I would date a woman who does it.
I actually agree until an actual doctor says she's a narcissist. She's not a she's just a bad person calling her a narcissist actually gives her a little bit of an out
@amanofservice PLENTY of online material from doctors & psychology books that explain the traits. It isn’t hard to diagnose narcissism just as it isn’t hard to tell someone got a cold or flu .
No she's trying to say that dude is coping with her crappy behavior by blaming it on some medical disorder when she's just a soulless succubus soul stealing horrible person
She got sidetracked from her actual thought what she meant was people shouldn't throw the word narcissist around so easily but she's not understanding that this woman is an actual narcissist. I see it happen all the time people will throw the word narcissist around about people that aren't actual narcissists . For those that have never met an actual narcissist you will know the day you meet one.
Anyone with sense can see he was a doormat. He has no standards or self respect. He has weak passive energy. I could never expect a man to be ok with this.
I think he might be having a hard time turning people down from that industry because they do what women no longer do and that is try to look good for the opposite sex, not just for themselves.
15:45 I can't stand when people do this. You can talk about 100 different mental illnesses, but the SECOND someone utters the word "narcissist" they're already queing up their unoriginal virtue signal speech before the word even fully leaves their mouth.
I'm actually with the woman on this. The percentage of the population who have narcissistic personality disorder is pretty low. - yet how many women do you hear going on about how their ex was a narcissist? People throw that word around far too easily and it's no better when a man does it.
@@DDD11239 No - it's pretty uncommon. Less than 5% of people have NPD (it's estimated at between 1 and 5%) and the percentage with malignant narcissism will be way less than that. People throw the label around at people they have dated, far too readily.
What people dont understand is that the ONLY reason the stats of NPD are so low is because they rarely get diagnosed due to the fact they don't think there's anything wrong with their behavior and actions. Why would someone go to a psychologist if they don't think there's anything wrong with them? Narcissists don't think there's anything wrong, so they dont get diagnosed.
This is proof that majority of these type of people will always go back to that lifestyle. Regardless of gender, no one can ever change someone unless they change themselves. Good for him. I suggest him to choose better. Being selective is a powerful tool. I suggest him to have self-worth and respect in himself.
Honestly, she left you because she thinks you are boring and she kept you only until she could find something better. It was not meant to be. After that whole situation, he will still be with a girl who has OF. He hasn't learned. He said he should probably look for something else. No, not probably, but definitely look for something else. You have to speak what you want with action and vigor, or else you will get less.
While I know it's common but leaving someone cause they're boring is the most bs reason for ending a relationship. It's like we're nothing more than entertaining little wind up dolls to them
@raizen21ss56 A woman's idea of boring is someone who doesn't go out, doesn't party, buy them things, and simp for them. The biggest reason is because he wanted her to stop being a 304 and just only love him, but that won't happen.
She left because he didn't put his foot down on the stripping issue and should have walked away. If that chick is bored she can take her ass to the movies
It hurts my heart to see a bro go through a lot of pain to learn things the hard way, especially when he's ignored the counsel of older, more experienced men. I hope other young men learn from him and don't have the same naive belief that things will work out differently for them when dealing with a woman who's an attention-addict.
He thanked the audience for trying to warn him. Then he turns around and advises other men to date a woman that "makes them happy." Apparently, he didn't learn anything. Him having no boundaries are the same qualities women dont respect. He needs to wake up
Who would of thought that being in a serious relationship with and proposing to a sex worker was a bad idea, if only there was a podcast with a large audience of people to warn him about that, anyways in other breaking news water is wet and grass is green.....