THIS is Why Women MAKE Certain Men WAIT (and give it up to the other guy fast) 

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It’s best to wait a bit to see exactly what this woman really is about…the fast ones usually have problems…so just move on…see ya 👍🤠

Disregard this individual's advice; it's clear he belongs to the top 5% of men who effortlessly attract women. He fails to recognize that not everyone fits the ideal image that women are drawn to; for most of us, it takes effort to even have such options. If a woman is making you wait longer than usual based on her past behavior, it's likely not worth waiting. The truth is, she's not as attracted to you as you deserve.

So she they hook up with 30+ different men. Then make you jump through hoops and make you pay for her for months so she can present herself in a image of a pure women. So she basically presents a used product as not used to pay full price.

My good sir, you really spoke some truth here in this one, loved the energy and the positivity. The healthy mindset that you speak of and share with us on the topic of women, sex and relationships is much needed in these times. As you said, enjoy your time with her and let the sex happen whenever. A little bit of healthy and respectful emotional push and pull (more like teasing and flirting) can help to accelerate the process of her wanting to have sex sooner. Remember guys, stay within your masculine frame at all times, your energy is always of number 1 importance. And don't forget to stay physically in shape, lifting weights and fitness has changed so much for me.

Women who do that neither respect you, or want you. Best thing to do is ghost them and never look back. They do not deserve your time and effort.

All true. There's so much left out of facts those guys don't know about. Now, we're not talking about the nutty ig girls. That, is different from your common girl. There may be a lot of slutty, judgmental ones but not all. Anyway, what many guys obviously don't know is a possible reason she has sex early or when they think they deserve is....PRESSURE. they feel pressured into sex. I've literally had a girl thank me for waiting. She also said she really liked me and was hot for me from the start but she waited as she should have for sex. I agree with it. Many of these fools are right with certain things. They are. But in specific conditions, specific girls, different upbringing etc those guys don't take any of that in account. They literally act like all women are the same. I mean literally think that. Don't be a fuckin idiot and try to get with the girls that make it obvious they aren't relationship material. If I see a girl all tatted up, inappropriate clothing and she's cursing and coming off as the bad bitch, I'm not going for her. The obvious ness weeds them out. You're a little boy if you take on the challenge just to say you fucked her. That's pedastalizing her if you made her a project that you want to win. Many girls are attracted to a fun, funny, confident and passionate guy Guess what? Goodness itself turns her on ie being a good guy. Not the wrong nice guy thing these guys talk about and they're right. But I mean a good man. Big difference. BTW, if you come off as a confident good man and you wait for sex. She's gonna take it as " Damn, he's got it all. He hasn't brought up sex. He's really enjoying himself. Does he think I'm attractive enough?" They also see you as different and not a hungry dog. But lead with authenticity, strength, masculinity, goodness.

Great points. Most of my experiences have been similar to what you're talking about. The longer we waited for sex and there was real desire, the longer the relationship lasted. That only applies to good girls.

There is a well known formula in red pill circles, excessive waiting + trying to earn your way in by providing utility= lackluster bedroom when it does happen

I have a question, the women that made you wait, you still had sex with other women during this time. And she also most likely had one night stands with other men whom she didnt care that much for relationship wise as well. So is she really that much of a 'good girl' by making YOU wait 8 months, even though she gave it up to other men in less time than you? Sounds like mind games to me and a way for her to come off to you that she's 'valuable'. No woman waiting 8 months to have sex, especially younger women. Women want sex just like we do.

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I had that experience more than once where i was put in a situation where i didnt know what we were doing. I didn't know if we were friends or in the beginnings of a relationship. Then i would get ghosted for 4 or 5 days no contact. So i ended thise relationships not because i was looking for sex early but because of inherent dishonesty.

I can say from many years of dating & relationships that if something sexual doesn't occur with a lady within three dates or one month, being permanently put in the friendzone by her is all but guaranteed. I've repeatedly made the mistake of investing more time & money in women hoping to eventually move the situation in my favor. I used to be very patient & take my time to hopefully develop a relationship. Now I've learned to cut my loses early & move on.

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Thank you for this honest video. As a woman, i agree with your analysis and can tell that you have lots of experience with women 👍

I think most men need to take this advice with a grain of salt. Men need to also understand, the majority of women in then US are not making men wait that they have high level sexual interest in. If Drake hits a chick up in her DM's, his hotel number and says be there at 11. Chances are she's gonna do it, no more questions needed. He is obviously the prize. Of course, none of us are on Drake level status. However, the goal should be for you to have a higher SMV than her. Then she will submit to you and follow your lead.

I've been watching this type of content for a bout a year now. This guy definitely puts everything in a perspective unlike anyone else's. Appreciate this

I´ve heard from plenty of women that they´ll have ONS with guys who aren´t that attractive to them so they don´t catch feelings for the guy...Let that sink in for a good minute. Majority will wait if they actually are into you....

hah nice , i have been feeling this exact way about these new breed of so called dating coaches and dating advice on the internet .

Most women will just ghost or dump you with no explanation if you choose to wait before going for sex. That would devastating, knowing that it's YOUR FAULT that you lost her, just because you didn't have the balls to go for what you want, even though she wanted it too.

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I just watched a video of you telling us that courting women is a waste of time and need to smash quickly to see if we like them or not

It worked-out that way because, for whatever reason, you already decided they were worth the wait. In other words, you already invested the time, got closer to them on a personal level, and decided that there was more to the relationship than sexual intercourse that was worth keeping. Any relationship based purely on sexual intercourse usually flames-out because unattached men are always seeking strange, and women eventually always want more from a man than sex in any long-term relationship. So, yeah, the fact that you waited for sex with those women, only proves there was more to the relationship than a fleeting sexual desire to sleep together.

You are at the top level of smart, understanding, and spiritual, LFA. That's why 'low level' man can not get it if they didn't want to learn. You help me much, LFA, you help me to be positive and mature. Thank's, Brother

10:12 when i was in corporate world, i had a very strict rule, no hooks up with co-workers. i am NOT in to that possible drama at all. trust me, A LOT wanted to, but I just played the "work husband" and didnt let it go further.

damn bro....im guilty of this...i really needed to hear this...thank you.

Great advice from a true chad.

I totally value this wonderful message 15:00-1800

This video is really great. And its the way a healthy male and female can operate. However the same girl that makes a (potential long term bf) wait, will also hook up with a guy who is demonstrating his flirting skills and being sexual quite quickly. If you are going to wait, at least make sure you’re being flirty and staying in your masculine. However, we naturally get comfortable and it usually takes some time apart for the attraction to ignite again. My advice now is to wait if you have to but stay alert and don’t be naive.

I love how this provides nuances. Also, sex is a way to get to know each other. We get to know what they like, they get to know what we like and then we can tweak it into something both people enjoy. A lot of these narcissistic coaches are just regurgitating each other's content. Many of them probably have no experience, and lacks audacity to speak about what they do,.

Thank you for the video LFA. Love this tips❤❤❤❤❤

I mean don't just walk in. You move across the room. And you don't talk to her. You use your face. You use your body. You use everything. That's what I do. I mean I just send out this vibe and I have personally found that women do respond. I mean, something happens. The attitude dictates that you don't care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin'. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude.

I appreciate this video. You changed my opinion. I used to think that a woman was just stringing me along while being with other guys or didnt like me enough if she made me wait for sex. But you and some information i just got for my own situation made me realize that sometimes there's more to it

What he says makes a lot of sense. Here's the thing, however: if she is making you wait, and you feel like she is giving-it-up to another guy or guys, then that feeling is telling you that you are just wasting your time. In other words, if you feel like she is putting you on the bench, while some other guy is getting all the playing time, then in her eyes you're just a bench-warmer -- and, you should never accept this kind of back-up role. You deserve to start ! Yes, he is right, thinking of her sex as a reward is putting her pussy on a pedestal, but so is waiting around for it ! She should either be giving you signs that she wants sex from you, or, at least letting you advance the bases as the weeks pass-by and you continue to take her out on dates. If she is not letting into the game, then brother, she doesn't see you as that guy ! MOVE THE FUCK ON !

I want to say something. Women do NOT put "nice guys" last. They want a nice guy, they want to be treated like a princes. The issue is, "nice guys" don't put themselves FIRST. They constant put himself AFTER her, put her above him, do every and anything she wants by putting himself last. Women will not be attracted to that because you are NOT together, so WHY are you putting yourself down to try to please her. So if u busy and she ask you to jump, let her know u are busy and later when u are available u will jump. DO NOT STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING IN THAT MOMENT & JUMP. That's the difference between a nice guy and a good man. The day I learned the difference is the day I stopped having issues with women.

the first 40 seconds u made me laugh without even trying lmao

This issue of waiting comes up only if a women who had given the Box on the first day she met a guy in the past is asking the currently dating to wait for her box this is when the double standrad comes ... if this women has made every guy wait that she dated in the past for months to get box this currently dating man would not have an issue thats jsut simply it double standrads all the way

8:50 there is a video out, a girl did to display female "maths" when it comes to sex. she skit it out like a conversation with a friend, that she dating a guy she really like but making him wait, but there is another guy she hook up with. She said, she don't understand why this is so, but it is just so with women. It's their EMOTIONS. Women WANT sex too, but she a "Chad" that she know is all over, initially she is not emotionally in to it, so she just let it happen feeling if he goes it wont matter. But the guy she has feelings for, if he just have her then leave, she will be left devastated. It's going to be harder for men to understand because it's not the logical thing to us, but for women, they operate off EMOTIONS.

Appreciate your viewpoint on this subject. Was feeling dejected with a new lady as she has been keeping me waiting. Think its because she is considering me more as a long term companion rather than simply as a one-time fling.

I stopped giving women good guy husband material vibes in New York that’s when they make me wait and do all the foodie dinner date. Now I am just straight blunt and salvage I no longer wait or go on dates.

It's like you've been in my head or something. So many of the things you said here have been thoughts I've had at one time or another about women and sex, but at the end you added that part of the PUA or dating coaches that are not really experienced enough, but watched other content and jumped on the grift for personal gain by just copying what others wrote or said. I think it's the 80/20 rule at work, or something close to it. By that I mean that roughly 80% of them are grifters/frauds and about 20% are legit. It's not hard to believe given the podcasts that copy and paste or the people that just say the same things without adding anything new, almost like they don't have any thoughts of their own on the matter. It's all rehersed and memorized, the parroted. There's really only two options for a woman that really likes you: she's gonna sleep with you quickly because she believes that's how she'll keep your interest or she's going to wait for a bit. There's really only been one girl that I didn't have sex with unitl about 4-5 months in and at the time she was a virgin, so that's one of the reasons I didn't try to make it happen sooner. I cared about her and didn't want her to do something she really didn't want to or wasn't ready for, so I just let her make that decision on her own. We did other stuff, so I had no issue with it and respected it. There was another where it was probably about 3 weeks, maybe. The rest of the women I've slept with, it's happened in no more than a week and even that was usually the 2nd time of seeing/hanging out with them. There was actually another woman who was a virgin(she was 18, I was 20) that I met through a friend; we texted a little and talked on the phone once and with in a few days she came over and on the very first night, she was naked on the floor. With her, there was a "compatibility" problem the first night, so we couldn't. About 2 nights later, she came back over and I warmed her up a bit to make it easier for things to trasnpire and then it happend. Now, what's wild about her is that she would come over any time I said I wanted to see her and within a few weeks, things got a little more "hardcore" in the sex department. She went from a virgin to "my little porn star" really quick. That's one of the ways I figured out that every women has an inner whore that will come out with the right guy in the right situation. You never know what woman you could be that guy for. It could be someone that you would never expect too. Anyways... good talk, my man.

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With those kind of shy introverted women that make you wait, were you always escalating? Or did they sometimes take initiative because im dealing with a similiar situation with a girl like this

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run around in a wheelchair for 2 weeks .. test your theories.

I’ve missed the brick wall talks.

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I think you have explained it in a very matured way unlike other coaches out there. Thanks 🤘🏼

I been waiting 6 weeks. And soon to be our 3rd date. I really appreciate this video . I was beginning to wonder if I should make a move. But after this video I will continue to enjoy spending time and getting to know her. And when it happens it won't feel forced. But happen natural. And I will reward her !!! Lol

Watch this video feels like take a breath of fresh air

If she's making you wait, she isn't attracted to you.

The way I see it, sex is the cherry on top of the cake.

This guy: I hooked up with many women & I had relationships that lasted 15 years altogether. 🤔

Been binging on your videos recently and realised I'd instinctively been doing a lot of the things you say but also have a lot of room for improvement. Thank you for making these and keep up the good work.

Curious , during that 8 month vetting phase of your relationship, did either one of you hook up with other people? I feel like that would change things

But where u celibate during the 8 months?

This happened to me last year bro, it’s actually hilarious that I fell into that bullshit. I had almost 4 years without no female encounters since high school, then I suddenly meet this pretty girl from the hood. She is attracted to me at first but I ended up giving this boyfriend energy. Pathetic.

I feel like the question was more about how fast it goes with different men. She makes you wait 8 months and you respect her more and that's great but I look it with a bit more healthy skepticism. I think that's a manipulation tactic that works on you, but she's slept with plenty of guys a lot sooner than 8 months. Why would you not take a girl seriously who slept with you right away despite any other characteristics, when that's probably exactly what your 8 month girl did with somebody else.

Women sometimes sleep with men very quickly when they don’t think there is a future with the guy in question, whereas with men that they think there could be a future - they may hold out.. it really depends. But the thing with men is sometimes they may get friend zoned. I think it’s good to not jump into sex straight away - it’s good to get to know each other without being confused due to the act of sex.

I needed to hear this Thanks LFA💯

you know how to talk my man. i understand you have had a tonne of relationship experience. i wonder have you studied some psychology as well?

4:58 think i needed to hear this. been feeling really insecure because it felt like things weren’t really going anywhere but I forgot that my goals weren’t really sex oriented in the first place. think all the manosphere talk really fks with you sometimes

Words of wisdom👍

Amazing, bring Some fire next vid .

LFA is the holistic game coach

Good knowledge LFA.

You're a player not a good guy because you're still single.

Very important message here!!!

I rocks with ya.

I still have the three date rule, no action by then, I move on,

It may be that the one that made you wait was in another relationship?

Waiting for a woman is submission. Forget it.

Problem is when you’re paying for dates for 8 months and she still hasn’t given it up. How do you know you aren’t being played? Some women just like the attention, meanwhile they’re banging Chad. That’s why I have a boundary. It’s a soft boundary, I might let it go a bit beyond 4 dates if I think she’s serious. Having a boundary doesn’t mean you’re necessarily pedestalizing sex, just that you don’t want to get taken advantage of.

Pushing men in the right direction!!

😢A lot of things you spoke here are true BUT for me making a man wait for 6 and 8 months when you are dating it is extremely calculated. A man should never be torture for that long and I think you should never introduce a man to a family until you know him very well. I wonder now why you did not get marry with any of these 2 woman that made you wait for so long 🤔

Good talk at the wall

Wise Vid! Thanks!

Hook up = gonorhea 😂😂😂

Bit off topic LFA , but have you thought about doing some videos from the gym giving a bit of fitness advice?

That's a good moralistic view but wouldn't waiting too long land you in the freinszone?

Sex is the reason, love is the excuse.

I hope this video was Ien4rmehtiyuhve 😂

True

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14:36 - 17:32

this guy needs a podcast

What a good video

You need a beer in the driveway!!!!

What if 6 years passes and she's still making you wait because she says you need to put a ring on her finger first? Then you separate and she sleeps with the new guy she's dating within 2 months who hasn't put a ring on her finger? Asking for a friend.

Well done brother 😂😂🎉✅👍🏼

It's funny how single people are talking about dating.

Well said.

LFA you just speak the truth😮

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Whats up brothers!

Horses for courses

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Thanks for this.