Ladies, this is your sign to NOT COMPARE. This is super sweet, and it is amazing that some couples on the internet broadcast these kind actions. BUT, if your partner doesn’t do every thing in this video, all the time, that doesn’t mean it’s a bad relationship!! The most important thing is giving back what you get, and communicating realistically. Your expectations should be based off of what YOU want, not what dating standards tell you you need. Relationships are supposed to be equal effort when you can, and carry each other when you can’t!!! God bless❤️
I love this. Some days my husband does all of this, some days he’s also tired from work so I go home after 12 hours and happily cook us a fresh homemade meal. 🩷
Thank you, it’s hard to not fall into that trap sometimes. We just need to remember we love each other and what is good for us might not ever compare to what’s good for them
wow, one man goes out of his way to take care of his woman and then it turns into “he needs to not settle”.. you’re telling me after a 12 hr shift, you expect her to cook, clean, do 5 loads of laundry, fold and put away said laundry, and then run to the store to grab melatonin and a beverage? when he was home and able to take care of those things for her? he by no means had to, he chose to because he loves his partner and doesn’t want her to feel overwhelmed after she gets home from a very long shift. I hope you stay at home with mommy, clearly that’s what you’d be looking for in a woman. if you’re not ready to be an active partner, then maybe appreciate your mommy a little more and hope she lets you live in her basement.
@@AHappyMamasJourney hey, mama, don’t make assumptions it’s bad for your health. My wife is very happy, and so am I. We work together and live a happy life in partnership. The point of my comment was to highlight to hypocrisy. You’ve obviously been triggered by it so I suggest you focus on your ‘journey’ instead 🤣
@@bg7393 highlight hypocrisy? like how most women take care of almost all of the household responsibilities? and yet, when a man does it one time, he must be settling? 🤔 mansplain it to me, maybe I’ll understand then
As a male nurse I tend to see so many female nurses cheating with doctors eventually. Their Hypergamy just kicks in. They'll say they got tired of being with a Feminine boys / Simps.
@@ella12851 sorry to hear that... I'm the one who usually always gets dumped and when I ask what I did wrong so I don't make the same mistake the exes that dumped me said the same thing word for word... "You're too nice!" lmao oh well their loss!!!! I just hope and pray to find my Jaycee who will be able to appreciate everything without taking advantage of my feelings!!! Could be my fault tho... Most girls I dated came from toxic relationships, I was the nice guy, got used till they found better looking guys who continued the toxic cycle... idk why someone would want to leave a relationship they seem happy in just to be with someone who's going to make them depressed or worse? I mean dang I might not be the best lookin guy but at least I know how to respect women!!! anyway, I hope things get better for you!!!! Sorry for my rant :/ Hope you enjoy the rest of your night/day whenever you see this! Prayers and God Bless!!!
This is 50/50! don't expect me to contribute to pay bills while you aren't helpful in the house. You want me to contribute, you have to contribute too!
The doing the Laundry Aaaand Putting it Away.. Is Top tier Love right there.. For Real.. It usually takes me 2 weeks to put it Away!! Even though it's folded.. That's as far as it gets😂😂😂
If he don’t work that’s fine. If he do work than you should be doing your own chores. Men aren’t your servants and that definitely isn’t a standard that’s just using someone. Standards are being kind, understanding, respectful, etc.
Yeah, just don’t marry him or else you’re gonna end up paying him for spousal support and if you have kids, he will actually suit you for child support and any earnings you’ve made for the RU-vid channel.
Would you say the same about a stay at home wife? That's really unfair because the housework of a house this bug will probably take much more time and effort to clean than her job. Housework is Neverending, and with her attitude like leaving the laundry double up won't make it any easier. Now imagine they have kids. That's 2 demanding jobs right there and I find it unfair that this is expected when he really is doing her a favor by dealing with her attitude
Yes, a man and women should settle for one and other but! Both parties need to do their part in said relationship/marriage to make it work. Being in a relationship like yours in this video, shows you both need each other help. Both of y’all are a team and y’all need to work together as such. A lot of people can’t grasp this simple concept. If your upset/mad about anything/anyone(Yes, that includes your significant other as well) say what’s making you upset/mad to your spouse. If you keep hiding it or playing minds games to each other, nothing will ever be resolved. Communication is *key!* Lastly, you need to be a women that a man wants and you must be a man that a women wants. Have realistic standards and don’t play any games with anyone.
Lastly, they are a team so shut up lol this is half of his team effort comprare to what I’m sure she puts in. They both put in. Stop with your dumb lecture lol
@@salleighhow about you shut up and take good advice! Please at least do that first thing, I don’t get how people praise women when most women like you, act like this.
@@salleighhow about you stop yapping and listen and getting so heated because someone is giving good advice that isn’t summed up in a few words. You people need to realize not everything needs to be a summary. Just stop being catty and go away or stop it with the unnecessary attitude/insults and be nice, it’s not that hard.
@@okal2468 What's wrong is the implication that by wanting to thank and celebrate her partner for his effort this day, she must have inflated expectations or not be contributing equally. Actually ask yourself, what was the actual intention behind this lecture? What was the need to assume that this woman, actively praising her partner, doesn't appreciate or pull her weight? I doubt they would have felt the need to say all this if it was a man appreciating his wife for fulfilling her gender role. Just let these people share their joy, damn.
He’s doing all this AND she’s a nurse!? Lmao good luck dude, mad nurses get clapped in the hospital. Gotta relieve stress and boredom on those long 12 hour shifts. But good on him for folding her clothes for her, while she riding the Docs ❤
This is cute! It is so helpful when all the domestic chores dont automatically become the woman's responsibility. And shows he has life skills as an adult. Also very sweet since you worked a 12 hour shift 👍🏾💜
And remember people have different ideas of what “settling” is. In my opinion, if I was in her situation I would be settling. Because I would’ve been working my butt off on a corporate job for 12 hours straight while he’s cooking and cleaning. My idea of not settling is getting a guy who can support us both so I can cook/clean/raise the kids. But everyone has their own needs and wants in a relationship!
This is exactly how I feel! This is what I meant when I said this is cool as long as she's not paying all the bills! Because, I want a man who works and pays all the bills while I clean and cook at home chilling!
@@mikeypeinado383 it basically means giving up on the dating scene and sticking with who you have because you're under the impression of "well I don't know if I can get better than this even though there's things in the relationship I'm unhappy about" or "I'm just tired of trying to find someone at this point, and the one I'm with is my minimum requirement for a partner so I guess I'll stay"
@@PiperBailey160Here's the thing about the Internet: you don't have to ask people's opinions and nobody needs permission from anyone to write a comment. Everyone can leave a comment on anything and if that's a problem to you, well, don't comment on RU-vid videos.
When you start doing all the handy work around the house and paying for meals when we go out to eat .... Then, and ONLY then will you get this treatment
Sounds like a stay at home dad…. Minus the actual hard responsibility of kids lol Also, how you gonna have dirty dishes, if that’s dinner!!! I always get asked “where is the 3rd course” when I cook! The laundry 🧺 should never be stacked to the ceiling of my mans was actually doing laundry on the Reg. Bruv has life on easy mode. Cheers to you mate. 🍻
Don't listen to this girl.... relationship are never a competition. She just come form 12 hours shift and bragging like its achievement. Millions ro this everyday...and yes depending on partner workload he/she can make your food and house chores.
Of course he did… Because you’re young, young and hot and slightly exotic… if you were from a trailer park overweight and your name was Tammy and you were missing a tooth and walked with a limp… they would be dirty laundry, and the sink full of dishes
And what did YOU do for HIM ? 😂 like girl ? It’s a two way street. He’s not your house maid and that’s all your comparing him too. I feel bad for guys stuck in relationship like this because they just slave away all day for nothing
Don't hold the actions of one woman against future relationships. I doubt she left you because you did chores, there were other reasons that the chores weren't enough to fix. Don't bend over backwards for someone who doesn't love you, but when you find that someone, treat them right!
My ex husband cleaned, bought all my favorites at the store. Cooked dinner and even meal prepped for me and would wait on me hand and foot. I absolutely miss that about him, but he had a very dark side he would abuse me mentally, emotionally and sometime physically. Just bc they do these sweet gestures doesn’t always mean they are good. So don’t feel bad
@bradjohnson1442 her comment is ridiculous! She had a "nice guy" then when the nice guy became boring she started resenting him and became a victim of her own demise, thus claiming to be a victim of all types of abuse. All women are the same.
Yes ladies please start comparing your real life relationship with the highlight reels of this girls who’s monetizing it as content. Break up with your guy if he’s a POS who doesn’t do all of this for you. How dare him?! Life’s supposed to a Disney movie and clearly he’s not a prince. You deserve better because you’re so perfect. It’s not like it’s a foreshadowing an epidemic of 30 and 40 year old, bitter women with no family and a cat. 😂
1 and ONLY thing I don't do is dishes cuz I sliced my pinky pretty bad as a kid with a knife doing them and ya... guess it scarred me for life!!! I don't mind putting them away tho!!! :) Otherwise I'm pretty much the same just not in good of shape as Jack lol xD I'm a hopeless romantic snuggly cuddly teddy bear just lookin for my better half!! I did lose 65 pounds during lockdown or w/e tho so I'm happy about that!!! Jack and Jaycee are definitely in my top 3 fave yt couples!!!!!!!! just sayin lol Anyway hope everyone is doin well! Prayers and God Bless! :)
So if he is a stay at home kind of guy…that’s cool. Nice to come home to all that stuff done by your man. Now guys…try and suggest that your stay at home girlfriend/wife should cook and clean for you and rub your feet. Yah…right!
I hate this videos. Look my relationship is better than yours. Some couples work equally long hours. So both have to help each other. Or one pick ups a little more in one area and the other one in another. It takes a team to survive in this world. If your relationship doesn’t look perfect like this. This is just showing you the best. They are selling you an ideal.
Honesty all I have ever wanted is a man (not a teenage man child) that instigates sex more often than me, makes an actual effort and isn’t chocked full of entitlement! The minimum I’d say …. I’m fairly low maintenance. That’s what I would “settle” for 🤣🤣 Also I can’t tell if I love you guys so much that I secretly want to be your BFF or if I’m mad at yall for having something I’ve never been capable of lol. Either way. Thanks for posting. It makes me smile (and roll my eyes with jealousy)❣️🧘🏼♀️
That’s like me but the opposite sex. The m the female that stays home and he’s the male that works outside of the house. I’m fortunate to eventually, raise children without working outside of the home. Sounds like you got it too!!! But who rescues who when someone breaks in??
