THIS THIS THIS AND THIS! unfortunately, many and I mean manyyyy are in fact thinking they're "great" when they're just being used... Don't believe ME. TIME has proven this fact, TIME, it's undefeated.... And no, him giving you a ring or marrying you doesn't mean you're not being used. A smart narcissist will lock his supply down. Ijs
It’s easy to serve a man with integrity. It’s a privilege to carry the name of a man of great character. It’s easy to respect a man that keeps it real. A man of his word. A man who honors the Most High God.❤️🌹
Yessss Sharon, well said. And I realised tht the only way for a man to be faithful is to fear God because I can’t see what he is doing always but if he has it in his mind that she can’t see me but God can… what is God thinking about what Im doing right now texting this girl… etc tht is what keeps him loyal. I realised that a lot of men profess to be Christians but they aren’t truly following Jesus. Real salvation has signs and symptoms. The Lord has called us to be disciples not follow a religion. When you do this and read the word and renew your mind, have a solid relationship with Him, you become a changed person and are able to be set free from the bondages of the flesh thus presenting your body as a living sacrifice to The Almighty❤
My condolences... Blessings and peace to you. I miss my wife as well. May she rest in peace. 🙏🏽 She was definitely this kind of woman for me. Love you Indi... ❤️🌺
Exactly he sounded like he wants to use a woman to his benefit and had nothing to offer her in return. Very one sided relationship. Hope the woman leaves him and his bunched panties in the dust! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I definitely got that kind of woman with me in my life. We are about to have our first child together June 1st. Thank you God for putting us together an showing me everyday she is who I belong with. 🙏🏿🙏🏿☝🏿💯
This is lovely. But please support her through the changes. Pregnancy and birth changes a woman completely and it takes 2 years after birth for the body to return to pre pregnancy. Hormones are all over the place. The child will be a priority. I hope you will both be able to squeeze time and energy for eachother and give eachother grace but just be prepared to not have the same kind of "assistance" as before the baby. Many men do not understand the impact on a woman. So I hope you can support and have patience ❤ wishing you all the best and congratulations 🎉
On point, if only us real ones were more valued, instead of being taken for granted. us real ones are rare... proud to be a part of the rare crowd. thank you for this post, and SSalute to those who do value the real ones in your life.
No lie when he spoke this all I could think about is my woman she always asking me what do I need and if I’m ok. I remember I was looking for a certain cereal and I couldn’t find it. My lady went to store after store looking and didn’t quit looking until she ran across them in target. She got me 3 boxes. She also always surprising me with lil healthy snacks I like one morning it was on the windshield of my car with a cute note. Women like that deserve good men I truly love her and glad GOD allowed us to cross paths 💙😎
Real Woman know this! This guy was already neat & organized with a nice man cave home. When I came to his home.. I changed his silver ware in an much better organized way , saved him money on our bill by adding a coupon he never even think to use, Those little details I paid attention to HE LOVED! ITS CALLED PROVIDER MEETS HIS HELP MATE!
Absolutely! I was giving my ALL for many years, so much so that I got lost in his world. One day I was assisting with an upcoming project of his, and while minding "his business," I came across some disturbing things. Fast forward... I started redirecting my focus on myself and things never been the same since. Thinking back, I never once heard a "babes, how can I help or let me see your work?" What an eye-opener... the energy was definitely not reciprocated.
I don't know about that....find a way to be useful? Does he love her or just what she does for him? What if the only thing about her he finds 'useful' is her money. Does that make him a gold digger?
Know who to be this type of woman to. Discernment. Don’t entertain men who don’t deserve it, so you don’t waste your time and get taken advantage of. Cut that aspect out.
Nope. Not true to a certain capacity. A narcissist will look out for himself and be on his best behavior around you. He will put on his best representative and check so many checkboxes..... meanwhile, you will believe that you have a solid guy until he removes that mask...
This is me. However, my ex didn't want to be the best version of himself. I had to learn that some people just don't want help. You can't help everyone. Sad part is he was the one that was all about what he could get from me. Using me. Men like that aren't even worth time nor effort. Update: Thanks for your likes and comments! I didn't mind sharing my story. Tbh, I really hope it helps someone else. Ladies! Always remember that we are who we are even if we forget sometimes. When dealing with men, you have to be strong and confident within yourself before that relationship. Maintain your own identity! God Bless You All! 😇🙏
Classic traits of a narcissist man. I know because I am legally married to one. He's so jealous of my.progressing without him that he wont.sign the divorce papers of 2 years now😢 I'm upset and watchful because he's a time bomb.
@@Victoria-tc5cm I completely understand. I was engaged to my ex but his problem was everything was my fault. I was the toxic one. I was to blame. He literally thought he had no flaws and was perfect, but would be pissed when someone told him otherwise. Some men do not know how to let go nor do they accept the consequences for their own actions.
Like in the movie Hustle and Flow even tho the black girl was pregnant, she brought the light for his inspiration, sung on a track, gave him space when he needed it, a peace of mine when he needed it, she came through in so many ways, and sadly that went over alot of women and men heads in the end.
Facts. Real women know how to move with direction and not expect anything other than you to love her, be supportive and reciprocate that same energy. She realizes this type of behavior is priceless and values this over anything monetary!!
Fact 💯. ..... Good women support good men. Because good women care , they want their men to succeed . Thus, they get to know you and what you need . They invest in them. All good women ask of them is for it to be reciprocated. Care. Value. Pour into the woman .
My wife knows I'll forget my lunch in the morning... That she cooked the night before and packed. She will place my lunch by the door every morning. She is a great woman.
@@calvinmack7124they never learned how to make meals for themselves. I don’t get how there are men and women out there who can’t cook. It’s actually not that hard to do lol
In other words the “trad wife”…but excluding the word wife since he’ll never make her out to be…such twist deception men refuse to end their obsession over women
It's Called Being REAL & Called Tough Honest Love! If She Isn't Setting You Straight, NO Matter How Harsh It May Sound Or Be, Iy IS REAL Love. NOTHING Comes Before PHYSICAL WELL BEING & REAL LOVE! ❤️💯🫂
I am watching this another day and still crying… the mother said she needs to go and the daughter said she doesn’t 😢… thank you Raziah for showing love ❤️ in what you did.
Any time a woman says something tying her physical affection with her man’s ability to provide financially, she’s not a gold-digger, she’s a literal prostitute. Those things are mutually exclusive when you love someone because you should NEED his intimacy for reasons outside of what he can buy for you. Relationships are symbiotic.
Sis thats literally biblical for a man to provide.😂 its their Godly role to provide and protect and men actually love this its in their nature to provide for his WIFE. This is is why a lot of women with your mentality never get rings. 🤷🏽♀️ you get used. Let men be men they want to be men.
Thank you for letting me know. A lot of men do not understand and they think she is nagging when she sees your greatness and is trying to get you to see the greatness in yourself. Thank you for eloquently speaking in great women. But some men cannot handle that. 🤗🤗
ALL PRAISES UNTO THE MOST HIGH GOD That I lived to see & hear a King of my tribe voice these words. I am moved to the point, I am unable to make any other words clear. May our continue to bless you with WISDOM & KNOWLEDGE 💜
Lets talk about how men can add value to us great women, we need reciprocation too. If hes not adding value in your life dont pour into him, he will deplete you while building himself up gor the next woman.
This why real women are hard to fine , fellas if you got real one hold on to her , she a real rare diamond lost in Africa , you won’t find these days . Stay safe out here fellas ✊🏾✌🏾
There’s ways to do this in dating and committed relationships. Boundaries and limits. 😂😂for simplicity if he wants to take you to a concert assistant in finding great seats.
Those are the same women they call masculine - men r confused - they invest in the face that does not deserve - criticize and devalue the one that’s for them - pay attention - who is the woman who does all the things he is talking about - who is there for you - that’s what matters -
A lady friend of mine has been like that bro and she always told me about the homies and messing my life up and that she don't judge me but she always supported me when I was in a corner .We still friends till this day man .Ye she helped me get the right woman bro she got me into the right girls I say it again bro .
OK it a difference between useful and being used we as women must know the difference. If a man is not puring into like you are pouring into him then we as women need to make steps to move around.
