The concept that he doesn’t get is just because a person can legally do something doesn’t mean that it should be done. There are concepts called ethics and morality and just plain courtesy that we should incorporate into our daily lives. I’m very proud of you as you handled the situation well my friend!!!
@@rosieleleunfortunately that’s not totally true.that’s why influencers get away with it even if you tell them not to film you. If you are in a public space it is legal to film whoever you want.
A girl at his table?? There were women sitting with him that weren’t saying anything and would actually still be friends with someone like that… unreal
The world is full of women who will happily sell out the others for a pat on the head. Especially when it comes to humoring problematic men. Hell it was a woman who killed the ERA. Never underestimate how many people will sell out their own just to stand next to power.
Celebrities are people. Dude could’ve just asked for a photo or something, maybe given a nice compliment. That is awful and no one deserves to be called a tv prostitute.
That is literally the stupidest thing to call someone and be like if you call somebody with a disability a retard and you try to explain to them that you are just a normal person that has a problem but then they say but you’re special needs different concept, but still bit similar andI don’t like it but there’s nothing I can do about that
Well he was a disgusting person..but i must say - big kudos to sophia to even try to solve the situation the way she did. Wow. The mental strength and maturity to go over and shake a persons hand politely while setting boundaries to them while they behave like an as*hole. I am really impressed. If people tried to solve conflicts like that I don't think we would have any wars in this world.
@@Flakz911 she’s not , he pulled the same bs on Hilarie Burton and Daneel Ackles ( Rachel) that’s why they left the show and he pulled the same BS on the show, “ The Royals “ he got fired and the show was canceled
@@michaelbrown8441that’s the dumbest comeback point i’ve read in a longtime 😂 those are wildly different dude, a bank is a business in which they have the right to monitor for security purposes, completely different legal ramifications in comparison to recording another person or people in a public setting on a personal device.
I have this weird feminine obsession with just wanting to teach these kind of people a lesson and I know it’s weird coming from a man because girls are starting to think that we’re all bad or whatever I mean nobody would probably believe me but believe me I am not in the slightest like that
To be honest if I met her the only thing I would wanna do is just talk. Talk about whatever she wants I mean obviously I would try to stay clear of politics cause I don’t know shit about that but music if she’s into that that would be a fun conversation or just really anything in general my special Ed teacher taught us all about this kind of stuff
@@austinbarr6356she don’t wanna talk to you tho bro. That’s the point. It’s a lot of girls i’d like to just talk to. They just don’t wanna. Not entitled to no one’s time. Say fuck em, and move on. No one’s entitled to anyone’s time.
Man here - I’d take the bear! Always the bear, at least they act on instinct whereas a human thinks, processes and acts. Unless the bear has cubs then it’s 50/50🤷🏻
You still don't get it, do you? Went over your head. That's the problem. @@AzulApe The realisation should dawn on you that they/we would RATHER be eaten or mauled alive than the extremely grim, equally sadistic and traumatic alternative.
The best thing I’ve learned is people are not people, they are entities of how much or how little they have been or are currently loved. This “person” was acting like this because he needed to cause someone to feel as he does. People in pain can’t be reasoned with, and the sooner you realize that the better. That’s not to make an excuse for his behavior, but life is better when you understand why things happen.
I think celebrities for sure. That is who the demand is for filming interactions like this. That footage he took should’ve been used to get a restraining order on this crazy man. Like if no one is doing anything wrong, there is no reason to be filming. Smh
The problem with that is it would make getting evidence to protect yourself harder. We wouldn’t be able to film police if they didn’t like it, we wouldn’t be able to film if we’re being repeatedly harassed or followed by someone. Filming in public is a necessity. It’s just shitty that some assholes weaponize it. However they were at a bar, not in public so if she went to the staff, they would have the right to tell him to stop filming or have him escorted off the private property that is the bar.
When I was working at a high end restaurant, about 10 years ago, I was refilling water for the family of a prince from some eastern country. A woman kindly thanked me, but the man next to her told her not to because I “was just a common man”. I later found out that man was in fact the prince.
All the supposed “men” in this comment section who acts and talks like little boys throwing temper tantrums because they feel so entitled is honestly disgusting
OMG 😳, how dare saying that to Sophia Bush??? I mean, this dude was being so so rude and extremely disrespectful… I cannot believe someone saying that to anybody. This made me very mad 😡😡😡
How anyone in these comments can think that guy is right... are you joking?! What a horrendous man. Wtf.... people that are famous deserve respect. No one should EVER be spoken to in this way.
The fact you even tried to rationalize with a person like this is part of the issue though. Don’t talk to strangers. Don’t try to rationalize with crazy.
If the bar is privately owned, talk to the owners, manager about filming in the bar! Public would be in the parking lot or street. He can be trespassed from the property!
A few years ago, I was at the beach with my KIDS and a complete creep (probably in his 60s) was filming/photographing all the women. He even had the audacity to ask me to stand up so that he could get a better angle!!!! I went on and confronted him and he said he would call the cops. I said “BE MY GUEST CREEP”. He ran off. You can’t even imagine what it means to be a woman these days. I can’t even imagine what it is when you are famous.
This is what you get in a country that constantly prioritises individual freedom over social responsibility. I’m not sure why everyone is so surprised. You reap what you sow people
@@rgee5176that only comes though with either being raised up right or if the case is you weren't raised by Good Acceptable Parents, but you still went down a good path and educated yourself and became Morally Upright and just a normal human being lol
People act like if you’re a celebrity then they have full right to just do whatever they want. Boundaries get broken and they you’re deemed rude and mean if you reinforce said boundaries. It’s fucked up.
Funny how almost all of the toxic comments on here are by men. In no way, shape or form is it ever ok to infringe on someone's privacy like that, nor is it ok to speak like that when you're in the wrong. Isn't it basic human courtesy to treat others as how you would like to be treated?
I’ve had resent conversations with people about how bad the whole filming people in public thing is getting. It’s getting to the point where I do feel that there needs to be laws made in order for people to really stop. Normal everyday people are getting phones shoved in their space and getting asked questions. Then when you ask these people to not film you or delete the video they have of you and not post it they go “well it’s a public space “ ok but I’m a private individual who should have a choice of the image of myself that will be on the internet forever.
Yea I'm not surprised by that guys response. What you guys fail to understand is that many people have this mindset in regards to celebrities. They don't see them as human beings by nature of the medias portrayal of them. Its unfair and its problematic, but its the nature of the business. Its funny because this guy is the literal personification of a lot of toxic youtube comments I've seen. People need to stop worshipping celebrities altogether. I could never wrap my mind around children, teenager, and ADULTS arguing vehemently about a strangers personal affairs as if it affected their personal lives.
Yeah that’s stupid because I’m younger than that guy and I would never EVER treat another person or celebrity like that and the fact that this grown man is speaking to a young woman like that speaks to his character or lack thereof, because it sounds like you’re trying to justify his neanderthal behaviour and the truth is, he acted like a misogynistic piece of garbage, there is no positive way to frame that.
@@taraz6786 its not about framing the situation in a positive way. This is the reality of being a celebrity. I've watched so many videos of famous celebs being harassed while out in public. Sophia Bushs ordeal was no different than most of them. I sympathize with them, but you have to understand that this is what comes with that profession. Its a problem confounded by the publics own association with them. The one incident that is forever etched into my mind is of Toby screaming at paparazzi. Also, Victoria Justice being called a failure in comparison to Ariana Grande. Side note* We don't have to worry about this happening for too long because Hollywood is going down the toilet in terms of content and its only going to get worse now that the writers are on strike.
I don’t worship her and nor would I ever act like that towards any women I mean I’m a fan of her but I’m just a fan of her you know I think she’s cool. She seems like a nice person and I loved one tree Hill but I was taught in my special-needs class to never do this, and I know better, but the thing is I don’t think she would like me or she might find me weird because I’m autistic. It’s a weird thing to think about but people like me don’t get really treated that well unless you know me really well then it’s fine but that’s one of the things I would be afraid to be famous because I’ve already dealt with enough bullying because of my disability
When i was in my early 20s i went to the beach with my friend and our kids who were the same age about 1-2 years old. There were 2 guys who approached us and started video recording us. We asked them to stop. They wouldn't. We got dressed and called the cops. The cop came and he said he couldn't do amything because we are in public and they're allowed to do it. We felt so violated!
I hope the women at his table were TAKING NOTE of how he feels entitled to other human beings with whom he has parasocial relationships…doesn’t matter what the reality of your relationship is to him, it only matters what he perceives your relationship to him to be 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
When you put yourself out for public consumption, you don't get to choose when and how creeps consume you. You dehumanize yourself when you monetize yourself.
It's not Shocking... it's sometjing you could have a thought about that happened to the ladies from the show, with the characters they played... Will bring out pigs, who'd maybe act this way while they are out at a bar. Those guys are morons. It's not shocking to hear it happened, but at the same time how far he went in what he said to her. Was definitely a WTF unbelieveable moment to hear😱
Wow!! That makes me sad to know where society is going these days! That's like people who see accidents and instead of helping they're on their phones video taping it. Like a little kindness and compassion could save somebody's life and just make someone's day. They don't need a camera shoved in their face. I also understand video content creating it's there to motivate, inspire and to learn something, or just for fun. Can you get all these rude and negative comments. Just because people are entitled to their opinion.. and yeah you're entitled to your opinion but what about a level of respect. If you don't like the content you can just scroll on without commenting. And comment on something you do like and I say this all the time when I read all The nasty comments. Because I think people need to be aware of this. Just because you're allowed doesn't mean you should. And that goes for anything. I see a lot of reels that are parents cleaning up their kids rooms, my room was relatively clean as a teenager because of my disability and it being a safety hazard due to balance issues and ability not to stop walking unless I grabbed onto something. And it wasn't perfect by any means. But I'd be horrified today if my parent or Guardian posted Myspace online. It's called boundaries and respect. If you want to clean your child's room then do it but don't post it.
If he was a drunk a-hole really behaving that way it's disgusting but I have a feeling she approached him WAY differently and that caused the outburst. Two sides to the story IF this isnt just feminist rage baiting
None of that would have happened if she had got up and left instead of going over to him. Surely there are other places to go, kinda sounds like she bought it on herself and now playing the victim.
The best way to speak to someone behaving badly is to completely ignore the jerk. The fact that you tried to reason with him just made him get uglier. It’s a power play. They want you to react. Don’t let them push your buttons. Walk away like you just scraped some slime off your shoe.
