“The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” 2 Peter 3:9 NIV ROMANS 10:9-11 “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved. As Scripture says, “Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame” Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” “For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.”” Luke 19:10 God wants us to believe in His One and Only Son, Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, who died for our sins :D When we truly believe in our hearts that Jesus is the Son of God, who died for our sins so we could have eternal life with God, we are saved from the eternal fire and have eternal life in Christ Jesus!! 💖 May God bless you all! 🕊💗 Jesus genuinely loves you, and always waits for you to come to Him 💗
I’m 28 and I still act like I did when I was a teen on some occasions with my mom. There’s just some things that make me feel childish and I’m okay with that.
Bruh if you're an adult who's almost 30acting like kids is sooo irritating..I mean dude please let the people of that age do it? It's not meant for you
I'm blessed to have a father who shared the responsibilities with my mom. He woke up early helped my mom in the kitchen, then literally fed us when we were getting ready for school, packed our lunch, did my sister's pigtails, polished our shoes, then put our socks and shoes for us, and he washes and dries our clothes. He manually washed it because our uniform had white shirts. My mom had to leave early for work so he did all of that for us. He could've easily assigned everything to his daughters but he didn't and I'm so glad. Watching my dad most of my relatives started sharing responsibilities and so while growing up I thought that was normal until I had exposure.
My father when we used to live in a house with 3 room helped my mother in kitchen, used to drop me at school and then went to His job when he himself gets home late... He never let the motive for studies die in my mom, she was a primary teacher back then and even after we moved to our new and big house and even got a car. he still helps my mom. He woke up before her every day and made breakfast for us because my mom is a professor now and she travels 40 km to her college every day so she gets tired and the way my father stills help her in the kitchen at the mourning and at the night for dinner even he have a job and sometimes work more then my mom. Seeing this all by my own eyes truly taught me a lot and the lesson of being the leader of a family and how much responsibilities you take when you get a family.... Probably going to do the same when I get married
@@aireuoj it’s mostly a joke, I don’t ever lie about my age in real life. It is what it is. It’s mostly looking back and wondering have I done enough? Did I accomplish what I could have? Did I spend enough time being young, or did I spend so much time in my 20’s trying to get ahead in a world that’s fighting against me, that I forgot to just be young. And now that time is gone. And for women….the pressure to be young is especially high. I’m not a cute 20 year old anymore. I’m a cute 32 year old 😌 but I have greys and wrinkles and it’s definitely hitting me that time only goes in one direction! It’s foolish, and vain, but pining for youth has been part of the human experience since always.
Ye mom's are truly something else... I truly realized this when my grandmom who I lived with died so now I as the oldest of my siblings was now responsible for taking care of my granddad, my siblings, the entire house, cooking, washing both my gramps and youngest siblings clothesm.it was extremely hard, unlike when my grandma was still around and it was the two of us doing the house work, now it was only me. That didn't last too long tho as I had to go to college so my they brought in gramps second wife who was living in another state to come live with my gramps with her children so now there are more people in the house to take care of it
Dads really got some nerve calling themselves the head of the household when moms do all this without complaining at all. (Of course not all families are like this obv). Also I legit thought you were early 20s. Im 20 and get told i look 15 so i feel it 😭
@@loulicious5882 ah that was just what Asian parents will say , they are gonna rarely agree with your income source being RU-vid or tiktok and they generally like science and good commerce students .
"it's not vegan, she used paneer and yogurt" she's a vegan herself she knows what vegan means!! she used tofu and vegan yogurt 😭 you could look at the recipe or just not immediately assume she's wrong!! give people the benefit of the doubt y'all!!
"what's in a number?" i just turned 24. all this time since i entered my 20s i literally felt like i was 19. now reaching 24 it suddenly struck me that I'm 24 not 19. i had soo many mixed feelings, I can't explain but I just felt very worried and was quite depressed. this little line that you said just made me realize how i was worrying about a damn number like?? idk but this helped me. ❤️
@@acharyaprashant22345 i know what you mean.. for the years following college (21 till now) ive been obsessed with nostalgia, i torrented 100s of hours of 90s and 2000s shows and movies and have ammassed quite the library.. ive shared these things with my 4 yr old son since he was born.. i came to the conclusion that, subconsciously, i feel like i wont be there for him in my 40s or 50s (idont know why) so i compensate by staying unemployed and sharing the things that shaped made me happy in my childhood.. as if in preparation for my inevitable early death... its NOT a healthy place: nostalgia
Definitely shows her absolute adoration for her kids ❤my mom is an RN and made sure to cook us a fresh meal whenever she’d get home and I honestly appreciate so much more as an adult
Not just that they're also the sassiest people you'll know...my Amma always got something savage to reply with any given moment... ...just how do they do it???
i really wish i was this lucky! my mother is severely depressed and mentally ill (she also smokes a LOT of weed) and i’ve never experienced this. id usually go hungry until i went to my dads for the weekend. luckily my dad is amazing, i love him :]
@@pratikjadhao2434 true. Indian moms express love through cooking too. So not only do you get fed but your friends get fed too. My mom packed two lunches for me in college ,the second for a college friend whose mother was mentally not quite there.
The thing that you don't realize until you become a parent is that she was, she was dead tired, she doesn't have superhuman abilities to produce energy lol, she did it all even tho she was dead tired because she loved you.
Men needs to help for sure but also women have few body advantage as these - Women and girls bodies have 12% extra fat till the age their body is able to get pregnant So they can used those reserve in case of faituge to burn and do tasks with normal activities or in some case like body exercise (no weight-lifting involve though) for example swimming longer than men that's why in cold water long distance covering swimming women outdo men more often. Constant Pain tolerance is also great in women to continue to work and perform or make body familiar with under pain working conditions 😅 that's why rhythmic gymnastics is women sports only in major sense cause male body can't bend, be flexible in that much pain for so during routines, practice and what not
Damn this is so true! Even I also think how my mom got up so early, prepared food for the whole day, did all the house chores then go to school and teach for the whole day and come back and prepared dinner. I'll not be able to do even half of it .
People can appreciate all they want but at the end of the day its exhausting for moms and they dont deserve to feel like that everyday. Happens in a lot of homes where although both partners work, household chores are still considered a womens responsibility.
@@user-bear27 no ur statement is untrue . Even in middle class i have seen maids moreso cuz they are working women n need more help. Lower class obviously dont have any
@@santoshthapa8398 thats a minority bro. Majority of the middle class don't have maids. They are mostly found in elite households. Also, I'm damn sure that even if middle class families can afford maids, their pay and living condition would be quite terrible.
As a fellow south Indian, here are a few dishes i think really need recognition... And dishes you might just slayy - Bisi Bele Bath - Khichdi - Rasam - Vada Pav - Tomato and Rice Puffs - Puri - Pav Bhaji Those are it~ common street food items in south India and a few from the north..! Enjoyy
My mom is a badass. My dad was a truck driver, gone 5 days a week. My mom in her 50s, still had 3 kids at home, went to nursing school because she always wanted to be a nurse. I’m so proud of her.
I was announcing my age without any hesitation. Then I turned thirty 🙂 Edit: I commented sarcastically. But overwhelmed on the replies received. Love u gals. Positivity ❤️❤️
@@bookhawk8022 I'm 47, no kids, unmarried. I still celebrate each birthday, tell people my age at every chance I get and continue to be unbothered. You have limited time on this earth, celebrate each trip around the sun. Plus being in your 20s is overrated. As you get older so many aspects of life gets better. Plus I worked in a male dominated industry for 18 years, you learn to deal with and shutdown the bullshit. Society is going to dump on you for a billion reasons - don't let it rob you of your joy.
Your so lucky you have a mom but i lost my mom 3 years ago and when i was 8 years old and now i am 11 😢 guys youll love your mom and also pray for the ones who have lost
How hard our mothers had to work is not something to talk proudly about. It's sad that she had to work both inside and outside the house equally, without any help. My mother recently retired, but before that idk how she was managing. It's sad and unfair and tiring.
Your mum is amazing💖 My desi mom also woke up at like 5 am, went to work and had the same evening routine as yours. Can't everrrrrrrr thank them enough🔥🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️
My moms American and just like this. She was 5 kids and is single and idk how she does it bc she still has enough energy after work to take us all to do things and make us dinner and shit. She’s amazing and sounds like your mom 😊
I am so blessed to have a dad who has always shared household responsibilities with my mom , like every partner should . Also I'd be turning 24 soon , no shame in announcing age ❤
Your mom sounds amazing 🥹 I always make something nice for my mom when I get out of school for her to come home to. Normally like a smoothie and a good sandwich or something crazy lol.
Some Indian moms are not badass to threaten their children. Some moms are just badass to support the right and protect their children. That’s what my mom is and I have never been terrified from her.
Bro my mother got me too wash my lunchbox and make lunch or I had too have that weird overcooked shit they served at the primary school/elementary school cafeteria 😀
Same :( That was my mom too but she did ended up making lunches for me. Or she'll just hand me money when the times she didn't needed. Now I'm 20 and have early college (uni tbs), mom sometimes gives me a lunch (more like breakfast) box but sometimes she doesn't and I have no choice but to remain hungry because we don't get breaks :( and even when we do they're just for 10 mins and so we don't even get enough time to go to our college canteen and have breakfast there
My mom did that to. Managed the home and her work with such perfection and grace. Did not compromise her freedom to work and her financial independence but did not let go of the family reign either. Such amazing news, how they do what they do is a mystery.
Masha Allah my mom was a working mom . She never let us go without breakfast and tiffins to school or college even for a day . She is 78 yrs old now . May Allah swt grant her a very long and healthy life. Aameen summa Aameen. To all moms love ❤
I don't know why but I feel sad, I mean that's the reality for woman in India. Waking up in 4.30, doing household chores and managing work life along with it. Not fair, right? A big change is needed in India.
@PS-ic4bp If people want to work then it's fine, but I'm not okay with this imposed responsibility on a woman. I mean if a woman wants to work and own a career she can do it but she must fulfill household responsibilities, isn't this ridiculous? I mean why we are still stuck into these gender defined roles
@@ajaxjaiswal3442 it is, sounds like she did all the cooking and cleaning and childcare and went to a full time job. No mention of the father helping with three of those things, each of which sound like an incredible sacrifice of time
@@Erin-ho9hj Yeah this shit is pretty common in India. Women are expected to do all the household chores even when they earn whereas men are only expected to do a job and not even lift a finger in the house
I can tell you right now. Not all mothers are remotely the same. Parternity and maternity should come with some kind of license requirement because the description of a mother in the video is very very very far away of my personal experience 😅 I think my mother has not cooked a single complete meal in her life or taken any kind of interest in my hobbies. I am glad that is not the norm. Some people just have kids due to social/cultural pressure but have 0 motivation to take care of them.
Dooby isn't the only person allowed to use a cleaver... And this story and cooking method is very common for a lot of food content creators. She is also showing south Asian recipes, and dooby does Korean so yeah.. they're both unique 😇
My mom raised up for roughly 10 years by herself, working everyday. My brother was absolute chaos and I never got into trouble. Now? I'm 20, getting married, and moving out. I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for her. Love you, mama
Moms are superheroes. I’ve seen my aunt prepare a full course breakfast get her kids ready, drive them to school comeback prep dinner. Clean entire house, go to work. Comeback from 9 hours and prepare dinner. Then cleanup again and get ready for tomorrow. My mom would get breakfast ready. Leave, go to the bank, drop off papers, go buy food for restaurant, go to work 10+ hours and come home to make dinner. She stopped cooking when I turned 8, ngl my mom was a terrible cook😂 she’s a total boss lady. She owns multiple business and houses. I can’t even make my mind up on what to wear at 33. 😢
I love and admire your mother's zeal for life! It's a real ZEAL- not busy! That is something very special. She not only knew this but demonstrated that. I pray you find your ZEAL!
Desi women in general are so badass. So elegant and beautiful. I'm a straight lady, so I don't even mean that in a weird way. I just admire them and find them to always be stronger than they give themselves credit for. Also no one can ever outcook them!!
here’s the sad thing…. all moms are badass. The reason why desi kids are scared, particular women are scared of mother figures, is not because they are “bad ass”, but because you’re raised in the desi community of never “talking back” to parents/mom,l and always listening to them or else tons of emotional blackmail mail or punishment or disrespect you to your face and having that fear relationship, that they manipulate as a sign of respect. And ontop of that, they treat you like you’re a baby even when you’re supposed to be at the age of adulthood And it is sad that still in 2022, desi culture still has the cultural atmosphere that 27 is “old”, when 27 your brain hasn’t even fully developed yet, but then 27 isn’t old enough for you to make your own life decisions without consulting with parents ever.
@@maritje4225 exactly. being terrified of mom may mean bad but definitely not badass. badass is like she makes you so proud because she does things other women typically don’t do. For example my mom is bad ass because she doesn’t care what any man, woman, aunty or uncle think and she’ll handle her household as she pleases. My mom supports me in my decisions and isn’t nosey, respects that i don’t need her input, but if needed she is there. That’s badass. I’m not scared of my mom and i didn’t know that so many desi kids are scared of their moms till i grew up and dealt with people in their 30s still being manipulated and controlled by parents, but then get so defensive if anyone says anything about it and says “my parents sacrifice for me so it’s least i can do”…. what?????? and many of them actually haven’t sacrificed, just made sure they had head and food over their heads, but that is duty of parents. otherwise if you cannot fulfill duty as parents then don’t have kids. Parents pray to have kids then manipulate kids that they owe them their lives for taking care of them even if kid didn’t ask to be born. That’s some messed up thing
@@geegeepa8123 exactly if you can only “parent” your children by scaring them then I’m sorry but I don’t think that’s good parenting. My mom is like yours, there when you need her but not intrusive or controlling. I think she’s a badass for raising my brother and I while my dad was gone a lot with the military. It’s not easy having a 2 year old and a baby (me) that literally didn’t sleep through the night until after I turned 1, and a husband that works long days and often has to travel for work.
@@maritje4225 this is fact and wish this generational curse will be realized and stopped. I’m so tired of adult babies in the society. I don’t understand how many people in modern era in desi culture can be in their 20s, still be scared of parents. That sounds like emotional and mental abuse that they’re indenial about. My confusion further lies why these people think being badass means they’re scared of the person. If we’re talking about enemies fearing jackie chan in a movie because he is best at kung fu, then he is badass, if we’re talking about adult human scared of parents, that’s just bad…..
It's becuase the people who watch shorts are very young That's why they think that 27 is old But i really think 27 is old becuase I'm 13 and my parents say that other People already have kids when they are 13 and I'm still living with them
Actually, after a while, your body gets used to waking up at that time and not getting tired. So much that if you change your routine, you might fall sick. It shows how much our body can actually handle. Many people are just lazy today and want to do the bare minimum sadly
Finally, an influencer who is of my age and making me feel I can still do so many things and I am not just my age and giving me hope if she can have an alternate creative career I can too I don't need to get worried about not being married already and feeling like nothing else is left than just to start planning for kids and forget my dreams.
