The fact he has more care about her sexual side rather than her emotional shows that they don't actually value a woman for who she is. They are just looking for a body
Thanks for saying things like this. I became significantly disabled after my husband and I married. My body has changed and so has our life together. I'm so, incredibly thankful to say that he has never - not once - made me feel bad for how I look or what I cannot do. I'm harder on myself than he is! When I ask him if certain things bother him, he says no because inside I'm still the person he married.
@@Keepgoing42 yeah. Because some people come together for the Looks, but stay For the Love. When U have a wife and the House catches fire, wich leaves Here With severe Burns changing her appearence For ever, would U also leave her? If yes, please never get together With her in the First place.
i will pray for you because you would let women or other women run your life with the national average of approximately 80% of women are consumers in the market
@@randomclips8575 Wdym Do you mean expressing opinions and emotions hopes and dreams Or not wanting to be just an "object" he can get at at anytime and he can throw out like she was just a body?
these guys will be like "fit but not fitter than me , smart but not too smart hourglass figure can cook can clean looks 12 acts 17" and then get upset when women want a full head of hair and basic hygiene
@@BeavisT-800 their masculinity and pretty much anything tbf. People like that have issues deep down they need to sort, or they wouldn’t say stuff to their gfs or wives like that
Been with my wife 12yrs and had 4kids, I was so attracted to her when we first met then we had two sets of twins and do you know whats changed in that time im just 12yr older and she's even more gorgeous.😍
Not to mention that some newborn moms have literal scars that are trying to heal while she takes care of newborn full time…… does he expect her to open stitches working out?
A lot of the times, the way someone looks can trigger the initial attraction, but once a relationship has started, the emotions and characters of the people involved are what really keep people together. If it’s only the sexual attraction that keeps them together, I wouldn’t call that a relationship.
@@philtheboi358 haviny a kid does mean "letting go". Your skin gets stretched to high hell and you either spend the entire pregnancy eating vitamins constantly or just eating food your body craves(aka the stuff your body needs for the pregnancy). You then get your cooter RIPPED open or your have your gut cut open. You need to recover for a while and take care of the kid. I doubt this guy is the type to even change a diaper because "eww i don't want to change my daughter's diaper that's so weird cuz I'm a guy 🙈"
honestly, thank you for being the man to speak up and argue openly about these matters cause people often dont take women seriously when we try to argue and they say we’re just being “feminists”
As a health professional, I can't help but think about the fact that he will also grow older someday. I see many used-to-be-alpha males who either have accidents, health conditions or just literally age and lose everything that made them "alpha"... and that was all they had because they never held on to or honored a woman who would be there for them through it all. Many of these men die alone or if they do get married, sleep in separate rooms from their wives who are just ready to collect a check, hopeful that they will be rid of their burden soon. It's sad. But, an "alpha" like this guy is not respected because he is not a true leader or a true lover of anyone but himself. In the end, himself is all he will have.
@@brucegilbert625 You have the numbers of your statement? -And that is? Women live longer so you have to provide the numbers of younger men and women for that statement as well.
I was almost going to defend these guys. Saying something like. "There's a difference between letting yourself go because now they feel like you can't leave and body changes due to pregnancy." I then took a moment to try and be intelligent and went to the actual podcast. I immediately hated all three of these gentleman and full heartedly believe that the only path to a meaningful relationship and happiness is for them to just start dating each other. Which I'm sure would still end in a nasty divorce.
@@__JaJa__ the changes kinda depend on genetics. In my family the women usually are left with excessive skin and lots of stretch marks that cannot be removed unless they get surgery. Also they often end up with a weak bladder. My elder sister developed a immunity disease after pregnancy.
@@The.rapist911 Your only personality trait is hating woman and hating LGBTQ+ folks, You need therapy because I've seen you many times fighting against some random sht that ain't even offensive to you 👁👄👁 you have to much freetime.
@@Dantehhhhh He's virtue signaling like it's his life goal. He would probably be a door mat to his wife, which won't make him a good father or role model.
Literally is the most concerning thing, kids and teenagers are impressionable beings, and this "role model" should get his mouth with tape soo we wouldn't need to listen
Nah I'm actually very happy these men make these podcasts. Cause now the women in his life and women in general know who to avoid and not date or marry. So thank you! :)
if you can’t love your partner past their looks, then you don’t deserve to be with them. simple as that. i hope anybody in a relationship with someone like that guy can find a way out
I told my wife, as long as she's comfortable, than I'm fine with that. I love her, not her body. Now if she starts to become unhealthy, then we need to talk. Yes, this is selfish because I don't want her to die.
@@Alex-is-really-complicated Yup. Too many women don't understand that they don't *have* to be in a relationship to survive, so they rush into a relationship ASAP, usually with a shitty guy. And that's how toxic relationships start.
I love all the incels saying girls like guys like this or agreeing with them , like yes share even more of your awful personality so everyone else in the world can see why people opel really won’t date you
I feel like some people don't get what love and a longterm relationship mean. Of course you still want to feel attracted to your partner but the longer you are in a relationship the more love somebody and there are things that are so much more important. If their body is the only thing you find attractive about your partner thats really sad.
@@678friedbed if I was married to them then yes. Unless I’m being abused or cheated on, then till death do us part. I don’t make promises without knowing the rules. Marriage is a promise.
@@Musterdseed87755 broken homes and bad parents are so common, that this piece of 💩 may actually find some broken enough and damaged beyond repair woman who will see him as "better than my home growing up".
To answer your question, it's an ego boost. They want to act big to make up for something small. I'll leave that to you to guess what that "something small" is.