tantamount to insanity, doing the same thing expecting different results. That line is truth in all its pain. But do you see how she keeps disappearing...she is there but not fully there...wow. this needs to go mainstream. wonderful music.
I’m curious to know what “incompatibility” looks like because I’ve felt this way and the feeling fades and I’m in love all over again. This has been a vicious cycle for many years. I do feel that (maybe) it could be me or that the union may be toxic but I would love to hear what you have to say if you have time. ❤️
Same here, i've never felt this much of uncertainty, sucks when you felt that the person you loved turned out to be something else but he still wants you to be his...
Hey there happy holidays! My marriage and relationship w/ my ex husband was incompatible. We should not have been together as I learned many years later I’m a Scorpio & he’s an Aries. We are oil and water. We did not mix and even after 20+ years of knowing each other and sharing a son we still do not mix. Whenever he gets a chance he takes a stab at me. I on the other hand am very happy I’m not with him and no longer feel the vitriol I once felt for him because my life is my own now. We had good times fun times intimate times but it was not sustainable. When you’re in a toxic relationship you will feel all these things but you’re always left with the feeling that you aren’t really experiencing a healthy relationship and that there’s more to life. I’m not saying to leave your partner because dating is very difficult outside of long term relationships but for me I could not survive much longer in my marriage or I’d probably go mad. This feeling is so poignantly described in this song. This song is so painful to listen to. It would help to know you and your partners zodiac signs and go from there...
To anybody going through a breakup...... I wish you will find your way. Your new happiness. Or, you will rediscover your old happiness. It's there, it's just been hiding because you were focusing on giving too much to another person. This is your year. You're going to make it. You're going to blossom. Don't let me down.
Ughhh, I love the question being presented in this song, "How can we look for different results in the same space?" The concept of one's growth being compromised in a space of incompatibility.
🔥 🔥 🔥 💯👏🏾👏🏾 I’m printing your comment this up to put on my wall!😭 Thank u!😘#MyHealingIsIntentional ❤️🙏🏾💪🏾 The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”🙌🏾 Albert Einstein 🕊
This song is so relatable. 2020 got real for a lot of relationships. Some got stronger and some just did not make it. Thanks Tiana this song is beautiful & so are you!
Honestly, am one of those people who prefer to be alone 80% of the time. If I was in a relationship during lock down k don't think my relationship would've survived, no cap
Even the strongest relationship go through a period of this...and if it's met to be ..you will grow together and forward...but no matter the result...move forward and grow
Thank you for the encouragement. Everyone else is getting the vibe to move on. I'm feeling the same tension, but I want to fight for my relationship. Maybe we just need to go to a different place/space?
I believe in this and thank you for sharing because the past seven months have been a struggle for my marriage. I would like to add something though (my personal realization)... growing in a relationship requires a partnership and agreement to move forward TOGETHER. What we aren’t taught is that once our partner stops trying there is only so much we can do to keep moving forward. Of course we all see potential in our mates but what we need to learn ourselves, because everyone is different, is when AND if our partner has left the partnership. Relationships or marriages are just the surface, it’s what everyone on the outside can see, they’re titles. A partnership is the glue that bonds, it’s what pushes us to do better and what completes the union. When do we learn when to exit? I don’t say “let go” because that embodies “giving up” when there are rough times amidst. “Exiting” a partnership feels more like there were definite signs that the union wasn’t moving forward towards a positive goal and never will.
Idk why I’m getting insecure vibes from this song like I can hear this song playing while Lawrence and Issa our Lawrence and condola have a serious conversation
0% nudity 0% curse words...... Just pure music and good vibes then they say true rnb music is dead 🤷♂️. Thank you so very much RU-vid for recommending her music to me. Tiana you've just gained a new fan ❤️🔥🔥💯
The part where he was passing her the spoon and the tension between them was so telling. He wanted to touch her hand but knew not to because she didn’t want to be touched. How we gonna look for different results in the same space 🎶
God please allow me to compliment you on how beautiful and unmatched you've made this girl . Your work is flawless , she's beautiful and sings good too.
“Let’s bring back the days when I weren’t afraid of something I could lose over something I could gain” whew. ease off my neck damn that’s some soul food
@@thubelihlemthiyane4483 you can do it! I just let go of an 18 months relationship and engaged. I Iove him. It hurt but I had to do it. It gets better everyday. Just try not to think about them
LYRICS Tainted view of us I find it hard to see Anything that was Good in you and me I hate it when you go I'm happy when you leave I go through withdrawals When I draw you close to me Is this my destiny To set you free? Is this my destiny You lying here with me? Giving the best of me, can't you see? I've got more love to share Maybe we should stay right here In the same space Look for different results in the same space How we gonna look for different results in the same space? Oh, how if we're in the same space? Despite our love's detour I wanted you for me I grew with your love Who knew what it would be, oh? Let's bring back the days (Let's bring back the days) When I weren't afraid Of something I could lose (Something I could lose) Over something I could gain (Do-do-do, do-do-do-do) Is this my destiny To set you free? (Set you free) Is this my destiny Lying here with me? (Lying here with me) Giving the best of me Can't you see? (Can't you see?) I've got more love to share (I've got more love to share) Maybe we should stay right here (Maybe we can stay, maybe we can stay) In the same space (in the same space) Look for different results in the same space (same space) (How we gonna look so far?) How we gonna look for different results in the same space? (Oh, how? Oh, how?) Oh, how if we're in the same space? Oh, how if we're in the same space? Do-do-do-do-do-do (Ooh) You welcome
Today was my first time hearing this song or even knowing about this lovely lady. The words made me feel confused for a minute, then I realized it's just like my relationship... Confusing signals yet clear message of incompatibility... 🙃
This song 😩and now the video .i can literally feel the emotions of the song it’s crazy . This is exactly how it is when things are bad in a relationship. The tension , sadness , love , anger all of it . Wow ! Great video
I think she'd be classified as Neo-soul! The last time I thought of R&B was the 90's, when artists cared about the lyrics as well as the music. Neo-soul are the up and coming artists who are bringing that R&B sound back! Think about when Joe, Tank, New Edition, Whitney Houston, Lauryn Hill, etc were making music. The industry fell off for a bit, but we as consumers demanded more and thankfully, they heard us. New artists, like her, deserve the Neo-soul category to separate them from some of the junk that passes for R&B now. This song blew me AWAY!!
This song sums up what I feel at this very moment about my husband. He betrayed my trust and I want to forgive him and get back what we had but it’s just too much! The pain is just too much and I don’t think love is enough to cover it.
Ugh once they betray your trust it’s just not the same ... even as much as you try you can’t help but think that the person who is your partner , someone who’s suppose to be on the same team as you , betrays your trust. The emotional cheating and mistreatment just lingers in your head. Made me go mad. Anytime I was with him I would think “how the fuck can you do me like that” . Letting go was the toughest, but I knew I deserved better
This song does soooo much to me emotionally. Like I haven’t *felt* a song in so long and then this stunning record gets put out. I’m so grateful for it 💙
I can just close my eyes, loop this song, and float away. Love her album title "Back At Sixes And Sevens." Back at sixes and sevens means you're back in a state of confusion. And, what can be more confusing at times than being in love? Been there.
I cry to this song pretty often . Reality of an attachment breaking due to life... questioning ur emotions. An emotionally battle written out beautifully captured within a beautiful song 💔💕so beautifully twisted. Healing and moving on.
Yo I heard brief snippets from her ep from theyhaverherange and downloaded her album THEN I put same space on a playlist of mine not knowing the song and forgetting all about the ep and as it was playing I was like this sounds like J Sully but Her voice was missing more rasp so when I figured it out... long story short lol it’s been on repeat ever since and one of my favorite songs this year
I've listened to this song for months. Just saw the video today. It hurts to see the visual of the feelings. When you want something so bad but it just doesn't fit any more....it hurts because it's too real... damn...
I've listened to this song a gazillion times! And here I am a gazillion and one! What a voice! What a message! Give Tiana her credits NOW! Sending everyone reading this love & light!
I need a thumbs-up to everybody who think baby girl is going to blow up yall got to understand she got that church voice such a strong a beautiful voice for young lady👍👍
This is so beautiful, just melts my heart! This song has such a beautiful blend between Jasmine Sullivan and Lauryn Hill with her own unique style. And she is so beautiful. Glad to find a genuine artist🔥🎧🎤🎵🎶🎼. I found a new artist to love ❤❤❤🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
