TikTok Star Ali Abulaban's Last Day on the Stand 

Is he asking for manslaughter in the second degree instead of murder in the first?

@@just.a.hot.potato I hope so, as this was clearly a crime of passion

​@@MissClaudettes Troll

@@kerrycavanaugh4268 Why? Cause you dont like the truth??? Ana had plenty of opportunities to leave but she stayed, she knew what she was getting herself into. She clearly had no common sense to bring a man back to her apartment knowing her husband is coked up with a gun and a key to her house. How were things going to end??? Doesnt take a genius to see this was going to end bad. if she wanted to see other men go to a hotel why bring them back to the apartment. She sent him crazy and over the edge. Yes he clearly has mental issues and substances will only acellerate them but SHE STAYED OVER AND OVER!!!! Im sick of all this poor woman crap. She knew what she was doing and she paid the price.

So i literally went onto the court tv site 9times but i could not see this trial live!! Whats the deal?? Too much LollyTime on the Daybell trial? Well thaaats not cool!!

hes a narcissist that thinks the world revolves around him, he thinks he's entitled to take the stand and he's better than his defense team

He's getting life right ?

He’s slippier than a low bellied snake 🤮

@@darcevader3769 has he been sentenced yet? I’m looking forward to that 😂

I thought he did great on the stand

Yes my thoughts exactly 💯

So true. Me, myself and I.

I think that he also has borderline personality disorder in addition to NPD.

No doubt whatsoever.

his behavior as well as his "justifications" is the definition of a sociopath

She is well protected in court. Do this when you are alone with a narcissist at home. 😐

@@liviamoon it's still recommended. Clear and firm boundaries that you keep no matter what. But I will give it to you, this will not with for a malignant narcissist that has a pension for physical violence. In that case, a person needs a literal escape plan.

@@haloedge2829 Yes, a silent plan. Prepare everything in secret and leave as soon as the opportunity arises. There are some helpful organisations here in Germany, I hope in the USA too.☘️🕊

He tried so hard! She refused to be his food supply!

@haloedge2829 Take note: This is how a trained prosecutor handles a defendant on trial for a duouble homicide.

Absolutely correct.

I think he IS confused. His culture, and possibly an undiagnosed pathology, won't allow him to consider that his wife is done with him. I won't use the word "narcissist" because it has a specific clinical meaning and he's not been diagnosed.

@@lavenderlamp he most likely has multiple types of BPD, one being narcissistic personality disorder. He can’t be told anything he doesn’t want to hear. I also think he is a sociopath and maybe even schizophrenic. His so called “Scarface” character on TikTok may have only helped feed or fuel that illness since you wonder if he actually believed he was for real “Tony Montana!? It’s evident he has completely lost his mind. It’s a good thing he will be away from society.

@@lavenderlamp Absolute truth. I will scream NARCISSIST for you😂 Study the disorder and you’ll see his picture in your head😂

@@lavenderlamp He was diagnosed along with personality disorders

I've never heard anyone on the witness stand say such terrible things to the prosecution lawyer before. Why did the judge allow him to use this kind of language?

Yup and judge is allowing his bs

Terrible things? Come on it was just being real...

Terrible things? Come on it was just being real...

That was the goal and he took the bait

Amen

Any woman that has a crazy abusive x is insane to bring any man to the home she shared with the abuser . Go to his house or get a hotel room or end up like they did

Yes for sure

@@Kellyk666no. It’s absolutely warranted!!

​​@@georgemonde8237one thousand million percent TRUE!!! very risky thing to do... 😬 Edit**** (it's NOT victim blaming to state reality)

"I couldn't stop shooting" from the Alec Baldwin school of blaming the weapon......

EXACTLYYY

Based on the evidence, he really had no choice but to take the stand.

@@chocolatetownforever7537 let his lawyers handle it for him. Taking the stand is always a bad idea

@@AstralJustus Any attorney will tell you that there are SOME cases that a clients only chance is to testify. This is CLEARLY one of them lol. We have him texting threatening messages to his wife, pictures of her after being beaten by him, and most importantly, have audio of the murder of his wife and friend, which he admitted to doing. Without Ali testifying, THATS what the jury hears as evidence. Its AWFUL, DAMNING, and A SUREFIRE conviction AND almost assuredly, the death penalty. Ali's ONLY SHOT, was this

ges actually over honest his own lawyer had a hard time getting him to defend certain things. he was admitting what didnt happen with his own lawyer

And this weak judge allows him to do it over & over.

he's showing the jury who he really is

@@WendyRichards-uq3cu the prosecutor and judge arent on his side 🤣 they revel in people loosing it however hes been 💯 percent right every time the judge rules for strike or sustain objection in his favor every time so thats that🔥

@@gabriellehill716 but hes been right the judge rules in his favor every time

And the disgraceful type women despise and don't claim. He did a great job showing rightful indignation of someone who's getting painted by dirty DA scrapping the bottom as pea-dough. He was patient compared to me YUCK

❤❤❤❤ yes!! I thought that :) Best layer so far!

Absolutely she’s best for the job 👏

She's a bad prosecutor and is actually making up false statements that have no evidence just to win her case. Obviously inexperienced

@@Kaykayu98She made him look like the narcissistic, abusive idiot that he is. She did a great job.

The fact he walked everyone through murdering two people in cold blood because he was "freakin' out!" After using coke......he's so animated and blames Ana for him being a double murderer.......what a disgusting skin suit.

100%!!

He can cheat, search for escorts, verbally abuse his wife and he is the one who felt disrespected. Typical attitude of a male who believes he is the greatest

He really and honestly believes his needs are more important than everyone else's. "I bought her roses, I wanted her to acknowledge that." "She said she wanted out of the relationship, but she didn't hear my side of the story," "I sent those texts to hurt her cause I was hurting" No means no. But in his mind no means no only when he feels like it means no.

He should have relocated to Afghanistan where his barbarism towards women is the norm...

​@@AO-bl7cc💯

Very true , this monster hates women , it must have been torture for him to be stood over by a women .

I think he’s relieved she’s gone. She can’t torment him in his mind anymore. She’s not alive for him to obsess over. I think he’s truly at peace with what he did. He is, however, angry at the prosecutor.

@@user-nj9db2tg9w Exactly what you said is the point the prosecutor is trying to point out to the jury for his conviction of 1st degree murder

I get Bundy vibes too the sheer arrogance & postulating is OFF the SCALE he is NOT the cleverest person in the room

Just like apJ. He went to her grave and screamed at her the care taker called the cops.

@@user-nj9db2tg9w yea he couldn’t see her with anyone else is what I’m guessing

To think 😂😂😂 what a fool

No, that's actually pretty slimey and dirty. There was absolutely zero evidence of him searching for that, and she blatantly insinuated he was looking up underage pornography because she knew it could cause potential violence against him while in jail. This, plus the fictitious, deceptively worded "admissions" to a cellmate are technically grounds for a mistrial. Her dirty tactics could entitled him to an appeal, wasting more tax payer dollars

@@yeetnama9094 his reaction was funny, the guy doesn’t think he might come off bad or look like a nut with a quick hair triggered temper which was most likely a strategy this prosecutor used knowing he would react to that question and he’s dumb enough to give her what she wanted .. I can’t stand our justice system and think it’s horrible how they can even see all this and use it as it’s a huge invasion of privacy which is not even becoming a thing anymore.. but I’m not going to sit here defending this guy at all and call that movie slimy. A a man that did what he did . If anything it was smart, also imo he took it wrong just as you described “insinuating underage pornography was being watched” how does that insinuate that? 18 and 19 aren’t kids by law also majority of that genre are much older girls in their 20’s that just look young.. that’s a real category and nothing underage about it..’also worrying about tax payer dollars is crazy when it’s literally all being wasted and laundered by our crooked “leaders” also given away to finance more war… literally tax money is all wasted lol they print money.. it’s all a scam and illusion..

THEY DON’T! This is why he should be a case study, he checks all the boxes including a complete lack of self-awareness

He said he only was physically abusive (???????!!!!!!) what? Why would she want a RO against him??? Illegally carrying a firearm and executing two people as a result!!! 😢

He was literally kicked out of the military for punching Ana...but he is not an abusive husband. Clown

What's really concerning me are the amount of comments supporting him and speaking ill of his victim. Monsters like him can't survive in a vacuum. There's a whole society of misogynist toe-rags going to bat for him

its the “im not abusive but i did get physical time to time” like ?? sir

Narcissists will really have your head spinning!!!!!! It’s so exhausting and fascinating how they function and think.

Right.. the coke made me do it 🙄 Foh

True Narcissist right there

100% NARCISSIST

@@amysupernaw80 still won't stop you writing to him in prison

That’s what I’m thinking; soooo exhausting! Takes so long just to get a few details confirmed!

The men from this culture are all like that. Intense. Passionate impatient Demanding narcissists ego maniacs. It’s always all about them.

@@Jinka1950 Not the ones I know. Not at all.

@@DOGLOVERMACONnot all but 97% of them are. I lived in a neighborhood in Toronto that was mostly Muslim/Arab and they treated the family dog better than the wife. The oldest son is man of the house when dads gone and the treat them like crap. They can’t even go get groceries alone but the men can go and hang out and cheat with other women. Arab women are treated horribly. I witnessed a lot of abuse as well with them slapping and hitting with belts against their wives and kids

My friend Mohammed would tell me stories of how his dad was when they lived in Syria. His dad ended getting shot when his youngest sister was protecting their mom back in 2010. Then isis started taking over around 2014 and him his mom and sister got asylum here in Canada

Agreed!! 100%

Well said!!! I've been thinking the EXACT same thing throughout this whole testimony!!

And to think, this is him medicated on antipsychotics, as 99% of violent defenders are, to be compliant for their trials

Good thing about him on the stand is he shows the jury exactly what a entitld POS he really is...

It's absolute insanity with a ponytail.

Like people have never Deliberately possed against somebody that was innocent and sent them to jail. I am not saying he isn't guilty. I am not seeing the proof

​@@Happyhippy70Right!!!---- I say he's innocent---- because he said so

@@Happyhippy70are you blind??? Deaf? A little off in the head maybe?

His lawyer is getting free money because this case is seal and set go straight to jail.

Absolutely

@@aprilgriffin9663 his reputation is a little tarnished now though

He didn't expect to see some guy all over his wife

@@georgemonde8237yes he did.. he heard him on the live recording.

@@georgemonde8237 He installed covert audio recording on their girls iPad, & listened live. And per his own testimony, he thought Anna was screwing guys 24/7, so seeing her with a man should have been the only thing he expected to see, & in no way even a minor surprise.

Doesn’t matter what u believe. Only what the jury believes. And the jury is not spoiled with world’s thoughts.

I feel the same way way

He thinks he’s va smarter than everyone else.

Well in all honesty I don’t think that even if it was on his best behaviour it would have saved him.

I thought that too. It's ingrained deep in to his belief system

why would anyone respect females lol

Are you from the US? I don't know if it was in the news but there was an Egyptian guy who hit a police officer I don't know if it was in the US news. But this guy has run back to Egypt to avoid jail time. Guess what this has done he has mur*** multiple women in Egypt. He's all over the Egyptian news now. He ki*** these women in the worst way anybody can imagine. I am sorry but I don't like middle eastern or musl** men.

How was she out of his league?

I truly can’t even think of a single aspect where she wasn’t.

​@@ryanj5328She seems to have been a decent loving and supportive person---- that's already way more than he could claim to be!!!

She was in love with him, they were fine until her friends pushed for her to move & once in their company she lived like a single girl with her friends who didn't like Ali. Woman can drive men crazy with Jealousy that's why there are so many crimes of passion!

@@user-cw1bb3du2dif they drive you crazy like you say then walk away like an adult. Do not stay in the situation.

Typical Narcissistic behavior, no personal accountability!

Yea.. If not the initial issue that led to this disastrous spiral

Yes, I think if he could have gotten proper counseling and gained some self awareness,maybe he could have become a decent human. Idk, though. Maybe he is the type of person who never could've moved past his childhood experiences and would've always hurt people due to how insecure he is

Narcissists are their own blind spot, they need God.

Nevermind him! He is a conniving malicious and selfish ahole

What mks u think his lack of self awareness is not an act? Hes playing stupid or he thinks we r all stupid. Hes a murderer

exactly

Clicks and views…makes for an interesting headline, that’s all it is.

Apparently he had a following.

He had over a million followers

People really play fast and lose with the word "Star" these days.

And how awesome to have seen Camille Vasquez have a go at him on cross!!!! She would have triggered him into being restrained!!!

Completely agree. Especially when he blows up and shouts at the prosecutor. I honestly think the reason the judge did not shut him up earlier was to let the jury see his true colors.

😂 🤣

😂😂😂😂

Same personality as Amber 😊

She was doing the same. I guess this was back and forth.

@@just.a.hot.potato yap toxic all the way, but she didn't kill him

That’s probably why she developed a bad cocaine addiction

Can you imagine the SUFFERING of her daughter having to hear her "mother" say to her father, I don't want 'your' kid" while taking back henessy. Instead of comforting and relocating to a SAFE environment her she takes her daughter to adult parties ,with drugs and alchohol and brings back a man whos been eying his wife since day oneto THIER apartment Never seeks legal divorce or mental help or drug rehab, tells Ali he has to go but has to live close (so she can keep going out to party of course) her day by day evil actions, contributed to her evil demise. Both were not stable, not adults and unfit parents. the end.

@@casadelmaghreb yep, but HE killed her

There is no escape to these types.

much like the adulterer

@@madi4481 much like forever single like you

@@kaylaleaveFamily?

@@madi4481Family?

I agree. Bringing a guy to the house for him to get anymore jealous. He did snap. I would have worried he would snap. Im not saying who is right or wrong, im just saying look what happened when he snapped.

How can anyone really hide from these guys in 2024? You can track, follow and apparently get away with anything. Going to the police for help does not help. They don't intervene.

Exactly. *Do not stay in place they know of.*

@@Charliegirl2He doesn’t snap. He is just violent. Emotional and erratic.

@@beepbopboop7727 what ever he is, she probably should have went to a shelter or left town to where he couldn't find her instead of making him crazier. She knew he was crazy i would had never trusted some piece of paper she went to cops for. It wasn't going to keep him away.

Ikr. "How dare you try to hold me accountable!" 😮‍💨 what a piece of work.

And he seriously seems to STILL blame Ana for doing HIM wrong. Bro, you literally mowed her down in the prime of her life, never to see her precious young daughter or loved ones again. But yeah, you’re the one who got wronged 🤬🤬

@@brandybiscoff9685 right and his “it wasn’t me it was the coke” buddyyyyyy YOU CHOOSE TO KEEP BUYING THAT. YOU don’t just get a pass for murder because you were a drug addict with possession issues over people! I sure hope he gets the max. His “I have needs” crap is sick too because she has needs too, not just sexual but emotional!? It’s understandable of her to want to walk away from that POS and she has everyyy right to do so!

Ik Right?!This Fool is Sadistic 😮

LOL 🎯

I knew I wasn't the only one to see that this was cultivated willingly or not it was cultivated

I missed that bit - how did his parents commit neglect to him?

His father was a jerk to him and he saw how the father intimidated his then young wife who had Ali at 16 yrs old.

Islam in a nutshell

@@austin33785 ok so every school shooting is Christianity in a nutshell, or Americans in a nutshell, get a life

Absolutely thought this too!! 😂

His attorney has no choice..this winner chose to expose himself despite his attorney.

Hrs the definition of thinking, he's the smartest in the room.

I bet they advised against it but his ego couldn't allow it. He HAD to be heard. I also bet his lawyers weren't gonna fight too hard about it because... I mean look at him. What a p.o.s.

I highly doubt that. I'm certain they didn't want him to testify. But he's such a narcissist, he probably thought he could get up there and sway peoples opinions of him and blame it all on her so he could get a lesser sentence.

Exactly. I’ve never seen a defendant spazz out like that. I’m glad the jury got to see that side of him

Judges don’t object, they rule on an objection. It’s his lawyers who should be objecting but they’re not.

The judge doesn’t make objections. His attorney should have. The fact that they let him testify and didn’t object to anything means they either suck as attorneys or they want to see him hang as much as we all do.

@@AjHx90xOnly Darrell Brooks

@@leenachandi4840The judge can reprimand a witness for not answering questions or for not behaviour with decorum.

It definitely seems strange but if the defense were to win his case on this one it would be to get 2rd degree murder so he would end up getting out one day haha I mean not anytime soon but he would still get out after a while

Bra this guy is getting me through my work day

1) They need to prove his actions were premeditated 2) For the victims' families: So they can get justice for lives lost

Because thats the right of everyone in this country

I said the same thing 🤦🏽‍♀️

He can't answer a question, and his circular logic is infuriatingly annoying.

Or leave her house! But “she can do whatever she wants”

Why would anna want to talk to a man while shes married to him? kinda sus

​@@Bigbubba3031 what's sus is you trying to say she was wrong for talking to someone after she broke up with her abusive partner.....especially since you know he murdered her. I truly hope you get locked up before you can treat someone this way

He pauses after he says this cause it destroys his whole defence. Because his defence was they were still together and not seeing other people so it was a shock seeing her with someone else and he shot them in a crime of passion. And he realises what he said as soon as he says it.

Ya wtf ..?

He's acting like he doesn't remember either.

EXACTLY!!! He thinks he can gaslight the jury, too.

Why would she leave me for another guy? Says the guy who beat her to pulp in front of their baby daughter...he kept trying to change by doing nothing to change....😅

@@vlatkoarsov3962 the fact he doesn’t hear it in the audio is wild…

I agree!

Don’t count on the judge. He’s busy playing on his computer. No control of his court at all

They will

He was human. Ana played head games on him

The look on the judge's face while he testifies is priceless...he cannot believe this guy is for real...I hope they transmit the sentence

Please watch the trial of Darrell Brooks.. Ali is a docile puppy compared to him..

​@@lindski11I came to say the same thing lol. Brooks is an absolute menace

@@lindski11 No comparison can equate him to a docile puppy

@@venusrx4671 did you watch Darrell Brooks??

@@lindski11you’re right, I couldn’t remember his name.

The most dangerous on the planet actually.

This animal never had a soul .

Same here

Me too, I want to reach into the screen and pull that ponytail!!

Same

Same

Me too

Yes!

sounds like my ex. never used the word abuse. always “physical”

I almost choked on my tea when he said that! He’s such an idiot.

Oh man, when he said that, I was hoping the lawyer would’ve JUMPED on that…but she wasn’t paying attention!

I just shook my head when he said that! He’s delusional.

Totally agree with that. The judge here had no control of his courtroom. Not only the foul language, but this man deviating his responses from just answering the specific questions.

Its always the god complex.

Me too. It’s great knowing he’s having to keep checking himself from completely going off on her and reverting to type.

Having a woman prosecute was a brilliant move by the D.A. office.

I agree. She is excellent. I love that she calls out his hypocrisies and lies.

Yes, she did great at holding her composure too. He’s too ignorant and infuriating for me . I would have lost my job😂.

Right like.. buddy you shot and killed your wife

Why the judge doesn’t intervene to his remarks babbles me.

He’ll spend the rest of his life out of his mind!! What a narcissistic POS! Welcome to America where women are or at least should be!! treated with respect by their significant other.

How is that not contempt?? Why is the Judge allowing so much of his tangents!!?

Maybe the judge saw how bad he was making himself look and allowed him to keep revealing it.

I caught that!

Yes! You explained that so well.

He is...in a one stall bathroom....by himself......

Yeah…..smartest person in his cell

Would you deny that he could be traumatized and/or in shock after committing the murders?

What is even scarier is that actually believes he is innocent.

@@jefferyhellerjh he may be traumatized, but he caused the trauma and at this point in time, no one cares about his trauma. It pales in comparison to the trauma HE CAUSED.

Arrogant beyond words.

I cant imagine what poor Ana went through. This guy is bad news.

The man is sick in the head.

He talks such nonsense too

Massive liar.

Can you imagine actually living with this guy?!!! He is terrifying!!

Classic borderline personality disorder

yes!!! @@user-nj9db2tg9w

Agreed. How his poor wife tolerated this vile pig is beyond me.

Lol so true

He’s not bad looking either

IKR!

A complete idiot...I feel so sorry for the baby. There's no telling what she had to endure.

He is only a tiktok star, how much working braincells can there be?

He has absolutely zero insight or self awareness as to how he comes across to other people. Wow. It's kind of breathtaking to watch. It's crazy that people like this exist... And yes, I agree, he ABSOLUTELY proved the prosecutor's point.

I feel so bad for the prosecutor, it's like she's arguing with a 10-year old.

It's actually a great strategy. If you watch the judges face he knows this guy is signing his fate...he's allowing he jury to see his true colours. Amazing job by this prosecutor....she couldn't be happier he's acting like his true self, and neither could I. Lock him up forever.

Ironic hypocrisy

You mean SICK DA. He did a great job showing rightful indignation of someone who's getting painted by dirty DA scrapping the bottom as pea-dough. He was patient compared to me...

@@madi4481 *indignation at someone

@@madi4481😂 really

Projection

He wanted to surprise her and see if he was going to catch her in the act. Definitely controlling, violent and a psycho but I personally think he just lost it when he walked in and for sure had thoughts of what he would do if he caught her in the act.

Are you crazy? He brought a gun to catch her, He definitely intended to off her. ​@@user-ch8xp6do9b

He testified to this

@@user-ch8xp6do9b100% premeditated. He had the gun in his hand in the security footage of the parking garage. I think he thought they would be in the bedroom and he had a different plan but when he walking in and they were right there on the couch he had to just start shooting.

I wish his friend would’ve called her. Maybe her friend wouldn’t have gotten hurt if they left …I’m not sure about anna though since he was clearly seeing red .

❤ You described it the best! X

And she's manipulative and triangulating and playing hot and cold so she's not innocent in this. Even though she did not deserve murder, no one deserves murder. But it's funny how you guys want to paint him as a narcissist. Everybody is a narcissist if you don't like them in the female world

Adrian, she "was" not is. Sure, I saw how terrible she behaved and probably very toxic, manipulative, border line etc but... Ana is NOT on trial he is. He killed her and another person. Jealousy can be fatal. Don't worry about gender mate some crazy people out there! But it has been a Macho world for way to long no????

​@@adrianwooldridge4245 manipulating an abuser is fair game but abusive people never understand, that they pigeon hole a victim into either a) sneaking around and walking on eggshells to avoid the delusional abusers, triggers - which, is the victim/abuser feedback, itself and most else, is deflection/justification. b) defiance/rebellion because the victim learned there is no winning, the game and they are burnt out, from useless practice, of 'a'. She probably, denied not loving her daughter, cheating, talking badly about him, planning to hurt him, enjoying hurting/annoying/confusing/angering him and endless, other accusations. Some women are unfortunately abuser identified so, they'll agree because they're silly but this dynamic, is abuse and neither does, it require any mutual commitment nor do legal contracts, justify oppression of another human's autonomy. People get to cheat, confuse, triangulate and exhaust you with no real explanation- male or female and keep their lives. That's what it really means when you give trust/love you might be betrayed or worse- perceive betrayal that doesn't exist

​​@@adrianwooldridge4245You got a point there, but he wasn't mature enough to properly deal with her manipulation!!

I always point out that death does not always wash a victim clean if they were problematic in their lives therefore victim blaming doesn’t exist!!

@@hardwired8084Nah, victim blaming is when someone blames a murder victim for the actions of the murderer. That’s all it is. Victims don’t have to be perfect people to be victims.

adulterer blaming

@@madi4481they were separated.

​@madi4481 he was seeing other women, Ali had every right to see other men if she chose to do so. The hypocrisy is ridiculous

Its making my head hurt

It’s DRAINING and frustrating, major props to the prosecutor bc no way I could last this long

Likewise.😅

I too thought she was an older woman!! I was surprised to see that she wasn’t!

Same, i thought she sounded like a small fat lady

She is beautiful and having an empowered woman wipe the floor with such a misogynist is great to see and perfect smash his ego down. Amazing work xxx❤

The is amazing. Beautiful lady wiping the floor with him. Xxx❤

amen

But he will never see it.

Completely.

True

Wow now thst you say that! 😳

" say goodnight to the bad guy"

Was thinking the same, the character went to his head

damn..........very scary

He is the same as his father, that is why his mother left his father, and he took his father's side. Because he is the exactly the same.

AGREE!!!

@@grahamalastairkrebs2241Father was abusive and his mother cheated on him.

Exactly what I was thinking. He remembers every single other detail though.. he's not fooling anyone. He's just exhausting to listen to

That’s what people do not understand about DV.

Oh no she definitely told him she was done with him, I'm sure he positioned the bodies to look like they were lovers that's why he came back...Ray was a true friend that came to help her fix the apt this monster vandalized the day before...he just couldn't accept her decision. 2 life sentences for him!!

She actually did give him several direct and indirect messages to leave her alone. I know you heard that. She didn’t equivocate.

When I was trying to leave my controlling abusive ex boyfriend, I would tell him we were on a break, maybe we could get back together someday. I told him these things because I was afraid of him. I was repulsed by him, wanted nothing to do with him whatsoever, but I was scared to flat out tell him. He was stalking me, relentlessly texting and calling, threatening to kill me and take my body to Mexico and that no one would ever find me. It doesn’t make sense to people on the outside, but people in abusive relationships have to choose their words carefully. Leaving isn’t so simple.

@@Potterhead50 I agree. I knew I was leaving for 8 months and did not say a word. I left pretty covertly. We have to.

I feel like I’m dealing with this and it scares me how similar this man’s logic is to my partner

@@Faeriefungusoh please leave that person if they are anything like this disgusting dude. Can’t even call him a man he’s more like the devil.

@@Faeriefungus Whooooa red flags.... run away!

@@e2theocI’ve tried he won’t let me my family even made me get a restraining order but I couldn’t serve him because he lives in rv. He moved from Missouri to San Diego to stalk me

He is totally disassociated -like a schizophrenic one of his multiple personalities is controlling his actions.