even if he doesnt have bad intentions its not right, he wants attention and befriend them, get a daughter of your own dude is job is to teach the subject and be an adult role model not a 'cool friend' an adult knows how to manipulate and fake relationships
Gay or straight, his behavior is inappropriate, completely. It is unprofessional. No teacher should behave in this manner, ever. The school was right to fire him.
@@kthevsamig4958 - #1 - he's paid to TEACH, not record tiktok videos. #2 - A grown man should not be encouraging young girls to touch him, and groom him like this. It's called 'grooming behavior' and it's what sex offenders do to prepare kids for being touched sexually. #3 - Minors can not legally consent to being in his videos. Who knows what he's planning to do with these videos. Sex offenders would love to watch them and get off to them. #4 - As a teacher he's been taught that this is inappropriate behavior and he's doing it anyway. Very concerning. These kids are being taught to let themselves be used by an adult, for the pleasure of the adult, when they should be learning schoolwork. It's disgusting on many levels. Glad they fired his nasty butt.
@@kthevsamig4958It’s not professional I mean your doing. I would think they are just trying to avoid what ever what’s to come. You don’t put them on tiktok. Let me ask you this if those girls were going to be a masseuse is it cool to record the girls massaging him?
Steve Harvey said it well-when discussing the lack of boundaries between students and teachers he said: "When I was in school we didn't even know if our teachers had knees...and that's the way it should be"! I agree.
@@elaineanderson2989 Yeah. I mean, if you want to run a side-class/program where kids can do that with approval by the school and parents, then cool. Not on normal class time.
@@elaineanderson2989 The other problem is, everything is recorded now. Maybe back in our day (90s-2000s) that would be cool, nobody would see it and teachers weren't as weird back then. Now we are more vigilant and that sometimes makes good teachers look bad, but is what it is.
IT IS GROOMING! He was breaking or blurring boundaries that should exist between adults and kids, teachers and their students. This so called teacher is disturbed.
As a white guy, I can confirm white girls love to do hair, nails and makeup. A lot of white girls these days end up going to beauty school and getting into all of those things. I don't think that's a race specific thing! However, doing that in school on your teacher is VERY inappropriate. It's not even about it being sexual. It's just personal contact on an adult from a child... and they're also not getting an education. I don't blame them if they fire him, but I don't think this is the worst thing in the world... as long as he wasn't enjoying it and in a weird way.
And how would we know if he’s enjoying young girls touching on him? That’s the problem, unless you’re a mind reader, the behavior is wrong. We can only go on what we see. And we can see with our eyes that this teacher chose to gr👀m these young girls by blurring the lines and making them believe that it’s okay to touch adult men. He made them feel comfortable. That’s how it starts sir. Anyone condoning this behavior is suspicious! All the pdf files across the country are so excited that it’s this easy to fool adult people!!!
I can see being a fun teacher can make your job easier, & I understand that kid's joy can make your day. Making them happy gives you hope for the future, but there should ALWAYS be boundaries. I've worked with kids, I don't accept too many gifts if any. The furthest physical touch goes is high fives and that's worked perfectly fine all this time. As a male teacher, I'm very aware around teenage girl students. Why? Because teenagers in general are developing feelings and hormones they can not handle. I make sure to protect them by teaching them boundaries for their male classmates. I feel the hair braiding was unprofessional , and when I found out he was messaging them outside of school I said no way, fire him.
As a teacher, I would never post students on the internet. It is not allowed. This is a bad look, you are there to teach. You shouldn’t have any personal communication with students at all. I think there was probably more than one incident. This is bad. I don’t know if it is a race thing. In Asia it’s not a thing we just teach the curriculum
This could be seen as 'grooming', as in an adult prepping a child to become an intimate partner. I retired from teaching partly because of this kind of behavior going on with younger teachers in our school. I would not be a part of this behavior.
This is very strange and the boundaries are crossed. Even if it's innocent completely, its an issue of him having authority over them and the lines are being blurred.
It doesn’t matter if he is gay or not nor how well meaning he may be. It’s a matter of proper and healthy boundaries between a teacher and students. He is not their friend, he is their teacher and should behave in an appropriate manner. He should not have these blurred boundaries but rather be in the position of leadership. He needs to leave this stuff with his nieces or whatever.
I'm sure it was innocent but still very unprofessional. He is supposed to be their superior, not their friend. This gives off vibes that I can do whatever I want in his class.
I'm 62 years old and always had hair down to my butt. The black girls CONSTANTLY wanted to mess with my hair and the teachers had to call them out for it. I think it is a cultural thing. Also, it's not okay for a teacher to NOT BE TEACHING when it's class time that this is happening! Shame on him!
He’s supposed to be TEACHING, that’s why he’s getting paid!! This is unprofessional, stupid & crazy!! He deserved to be fired! It’s not a color thing, it’s a school thing
Not setting boundaries as a teacher sets off alarms. You can be friendly and kind as a teacher. But you have to walk a fine line. I don't care if he's gay or a "tic tok teacher." What does that mean anyway? Just because he might post on tic tok doesn't mean he abandons his professionalism as a teacher. Sometimes people hide behind their "good" intentions. Don't buy it. He's unprofessional. He should be fired. Then he down plays it. "That's what girls do." Sounds like grooming to me.
yeah its a bit too much for a classroom, but it isnt grooming. this word has been ruined by its overuse if it was male students cutting his hair, or a female teacher getting hers braided, nobody would give af, even though under your definition it would still be "grooming" (lol)
@@panagiotagiakoumis5127bc you’re using it wrong it very vaguely fits this situation it’s more just unprofessional rather than grooming I don’t see him keeping in contact for 7+ years to try to get with them later over some hair braiding
@@jeremymoore5546 I think we will have to agree to disagree. I worked in the CPS sex abuse unit. I heard a lot of crazy things. There are a lot of sick people out there. I will stick with my first assumption. Could I be wrong? Maybe. God only knows what is in this man's heart, I am not claiming to know that. His actions are very suspicious. Many perpetrators go into fields where they are surrounded by children.
As a young teacher, I am extra diligent and boundaried w kids, I would never give them my number or touch them or let them touch me even as a straight young woman it would be inappropriate for me to have girls touching me at all.
If he has 5 sisters, why would a sister choose the brother to put makeup, nails, and wigs on and not one of the other 4 sisters?? It sounds to me like he volunteered his assistance.
Why this is 'grooming' - lack of boundaries, building rapport & trust, physical touch, contact via phones. None of this is appropriate in a teacher/student relationship. His job is to teach, not have young girls playing in his hair & painting his nails.
Even if he did not have mal intent, as adults we are supposed to be wiser and more prudent with our actions and how we teach innocent children about healthy boundaries. We need to protect children from those who would have other intentions by teaching strong personal boundaries. This adult’s behavior desensitizes kids to be vulnerable to predators. If the teacher wanted to encourage talents and skills he needed to have made this part of a more structured class with parent permission and notification. He really crossed adult child boundaries by texting and having personal contact with them outside of the school parameters. It is sad because children are so loving and need caring adults in their lives but there is a right way and a wrong way and in this case the means did not justify the ends. It is an unfortunate situation that could have been avoided and could have actually been a good thing had it been approached professionally. This teacher could have started an afterschool hair and cosmetology styling program with parent permission and school administrative support.
If you were these Teen girls father and you saw a video of your daughters braiding this Adult Man's hair or painting his nails while he was eating Orange Slices you'd go straight to that school & confront that Man or Sue the school district.
It doesn’t matter his skin color or his sexual preference. He is a teacher, getting paid to TEACH kids basic educational standards. All of the other stuff is extra and should not be done in school. And he should NOT be texting students. That falls outside the teacher/student relationship and is wrong.
I worked middle school with students in a multi aged classroom of 6th -8th graders. I saw how some of the girls in our class loved watching braiding tutorials so I bought each girl student a mannequin to learn how to roll, braid hair during free time and when each student left 8th grade I gifted the mannequin to that student. I did not let them braid my hair or each other hair because of Covid. I also worked Daycare for 25 years Multi ages from kindergarten to 6th grade, we did nail painting but it was the staff painting the kids nails with the parents permission. I got mad one year because at our annual sleepover one of the staff painted my son's nail I was livid. But I also one time painted a boys nail and he said his parents would not care but when the Dad came for pickup he was livid, I just immediately removed his son nail polish. We were always trained to never let the kids sit on our laps even if they said it was okay or never let the kids sit in each other laps, it did not matter if they were girls or guys no kids sitting on your laps. But we did have staff that let the kids play in their hair, braid their hair but I think as a caregiver or teacher you can be close to your kids without letting them touch you or get that close to you, because anybody can switch up and say you did this or that. You need to have some level of professionalism with the students and set clear boundaries with your student. I'm black and been working with kids since I was 13. I'm this way no matter what race. Pick your struggle for me, he needs to see now that he should move differently in the future.
Yet they are the first ones to dictate how you should raise your kids and how you should live and vote lol. Brainwash reeducation centers aka universities. I bet he also thinks communism is a good idea too.
In the video, the man uses examples of his sisters and his daughter. There is a unbelievably huge difference between sisters, daughters and then STRANGERS. These young girls are not his relatives and they are extremely impressionable. They should not be touching him in any way shape or form like that. If one of them was my daughter, we would have some serious problems.
Solomon is wrong! That behavior is inappropriate no matter the color of their skin!! That dude was grooming those kids. It’s not a race thing at all!!! Clearly!
When I saw him read the letters and he’s full on balling crying and they saying bestie and all this? Come on man. Balling over not being around his tween female students anymore? I keep the same energy for the women doing this too.
A teacher is suppose to have a straight professional relationship with students. He could end up giving these girl preferential treatment due to how close they are.
Why should a parent trust HIM simply based on HIM saying he's trustworthy? Does he understand how ignorant that is? Anyone that has bad intentions isn't going to tell you about their intentions. So this is why you just don't even cross this line.
Teachers should not be your children’s friends. They are there to teach!! You are not friends!! You can respect each other, but under no circumstance should Teacher and students be friends!!
I remember when I was young and wanted to play makeup and nail polish with my Dad. He explained why he wouldn't let me put makeup or polish on his nails but he did make me happy by polishing my nails and then putting my hair into a pony tail and told me to put on my best dress and he would dress up in his best suit and we went to McDonalds (my choice) for dinner. It isn't about being secure in your manhood but explaining and showing a different way to play dress up with your child.
It's inappropriate period. Both of my sons graduated from high school and college. No touching on either end is supposed to be happening period, at all school levels.
Nah white parents and white kids don’t play like that, the boys would tell their parents the teacher wasn’t teaching them anything and that’s a phone call from the parents next day
If your daughter has a mother, why does a man feel like he needs to dress up like a girl or wear makeup to play with his daughter? When I was a kid, I NEVER even thought to ask my dad to do that. I played dress up with my mother for obvious reasons. That's why kids are confused now smh..
everything has to be about race with Soloman, so stupid... if a teacher asked any class if someone wanted to paint their nails there would be a girl that would do it. Same thing would happen in highschool too and with how woke kids are these days, probably college.
@@BeanMacdui if children are being groomed by their teacher (I don't mean in the hair and nail sense) and thats "no big deal" in any community, there is an issue.
@@mflambert I agree, grooming is grooming regardless of race. I was just saying that Solomon was pointing out that the black community was condoning the teacher’s behavior. Solomon explains it more clearly at the end of the video.
@@mflambert I'm not taking the teacher's defense, but I think you Americans are crazy in the head. Whenever you see an adult interacting with a child, you automatically come to the conclusion that it must be "grooming". You don't even realize how paranoid you are.
• he's using the girls as beauticians when he's supposed to be teaching a subject • there is NO REASON FOR GRADE SCHOOL GIRLS TO HAVE THEIR MALE TEACHERS CELL PHONE NUMBER.!!! If thats my child, oh we got a fkin problem bru. • other than an emergency situation, there is no reason for a teacher to ever put your hands on a child, OR to let them put their hands on you.... In ANY manner. This is wildly inappropriate and unprofessional. Unacceptable.
My daughters should not be doing any non-family member’s hair, especially during school hours! They were going to lose their phones for a week, and that fool was going to meet me personally!
He wasn’t fired-he was reassigned. The ethical guidelines say a teacher should respect the student’s physical space, etc. He has also allowed the girls to paint his fingernails. He was also texting his “besties.” This teacher was acting out his fantasies about being a “better” teacher than others. I can’t say if he was grooming the girls or responding to their need for fathers or if they fantasized about him. There is a condition called: Limerence, which is a state of mind which results from romantic feelings for another person, and typically includes intrusive, melancholic thoughts, or tragic concerns for the object of one's affection. Now, the girls are devastated because they don’t understand the poor boundaries and rules regarding certain relationships. Mr. White is naive and did not get adequate supervision and guidance. I think he needs help with his role. Also, not only is touching the head of someone intimate, it is special. Also, many black women sometimes miss the boundaries and red flags due to cultural norms and the lack of structure and discipline within some black families, especially when fathers are absent. I like your show. Keep up the good work! #parentingisplanning!
I was very close with my teachers and high school teachers, never touching but we were friends online. Then it came out one of them was sleeping with one of the students.
You guys are invaluable in waking people up. Watching the 4 of you debate these issues amongst one another is really something to see. I wanna see you guys on the veiw so bad. It was awesome to see B. Tatum shouting out your swag!
The tougher a man acts the closer to gay he actually is If you end up in jail overnight you will see how quickly a “straight” “tough guy” will turn gay without women around and how openly flamboyant these “straight tough guy” men are
My classmates were friendly with our teachers in highschool and they said we are NOT friends until we graduate. To the point they wouldn’t accept our Facebook requests until we graduated. And even then it’s still a student teacher relationship after highschool lol. That’s the boundaries they set to this day we still respect them as teachers more than friends. 2020 graduate just fyi
I'm a white teacher and let me tell you this I've had kids brush my hair on their down time growing up in kindergarten I had brushed teachers hair kids love at a young age doing teachers hair and I loved it however... you must sign a document stating you are ok with having your childs picture taken and used for websites etc.... tik tok is not ok! Now my students did my hair afzer all work was done and this was a very young age. This is females touching males during lesión time not ok..... tiktok not ok..... postíng videos of kids without patental consent not ok. And.....
I grew up in a different era where if you are a boy being caught playing around with Barby dolls or wearing nail polish your father will pop you with a belt so no I have no clue where this "maybe it's acceptable " shit is comming from
Someone explain to me how this is a bad luck or how this is inappropriate. I'm confused. How could you compare this to grooming or how could you even compare this to Diddy? I am so confused. There's a teacher on Instagram who hugs and has physical contact with his children. He actually films it and does lives. The children respect them and look up to him. What's the difference? These children look up to this teacher in this video and respect them. I know him. He has gotten through to them and he's teaching them. This is just one moment and one thing. It is just hair, what is wrong with it?
I think he was nurturing the kids interest in a skill that is common in the workforce. History isn’t gonna help them in adulthood. There are plenty of salons and people who own their own salon business. It had nothing to do with color. Now where he messed up was texting them outside of class hours. Had he strictly kept it as a reward for passing a test or during free time it wouldn’t have been as bad. And not recording it.
Here's what homie did wrong: Filming minors without the consent of the parents. His interactions with the kids was majorly inappropriate And this was NOT a cosmology class.
Honestly guys this isn't a race thing...This is inappropriate because this dude is doing weird shit with his underage students and posting it on TIKTOK for selfish narcissistic reasons....That and the bff txting is just weird
Oh and let's not even get into the fact that he has their phone numbers and he's texting and talking to them Again highly inappropriate This could be construed as grooming He just Needed to stay in his Lane as a teacher and he went above and beyond trying to be the cool teacher even if it was innocent this is highly inappropriate but yet if he had actually had a relationship with one of these girls or was doing or saying inapropiate things you all would be flipping out and sueing the school district and asking WHY THE SCHOOL DIDN'T PROTECT THE KIDS! It's a catch 22 and I wouldn't take the risk with anyone kids!
