Today we're gonna be taking a look at tiktok stream where a woman had a temper tantrum because her pronoun wasn't correct Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
So ur calling the trans woman dude because you think your better then people and your defending the worker (who’s smiling at the situation/ mocking her)
Why is the employee smiling thoe? It’s mocking someone but you being a white person who thinks that your better then everyone else ,, you wouldn’t understand
The funny thing is their target is always servers( restaurant, retail clothing, etc) they victimize these staff and then want simpothy... But it's all well and fine to berate people to your terms and need for acknowledgment. They don't realize how hard they make it for others... They don't understand certain cultures, but find all cultures must understand them. It's wrong and unjust.
Notice how the white person is typing this… (most likely a male who bangs homosexuals on Grindr) and thinks that he’s better then everyone… that’s the problem.
Berating and antagonizing people with a clear language barrier and assuming malintent could also definitely be seen as xenophobic. I kind of can see it ngl
Okay. So the other day I bumped into this woman from behind. She, by the way her body was built, she looked like a man. I said "I'm sorry sir." She laughed and turned. I was about to feak out and apologized again. She said it's fine and used to it. We actually had a nice conversation about her workout routine. She was beautiful and had a wonderful personality.
This. This sounds like such a lovely interaction These videos online just give misgendering and all that such a horrible reputation because of a few attention seeking crazies
Where did you run into her at? Most people I know who are non-binary/trans are chill, super caring and respectful, but this is a rather... convenient story. Apologies for the skepticism. You know how it is by now.
I'm a cis-man. I used to have long hair down to the small of my back. Occasionally, someone would "misgender" me. I may have been a tiny bit embarrassed in these moments, but I didn't think they were "mean." They just saw the long hair and made an assumption. If I said, "oh hey, yeah, I'm a dude, but no big deal," they invariably apologized and it was no big deal. In fact, many times they were even more embarrassed than I was by their own mistake! In this video, the pizza man saw masculine traits and made an assumption. She could have simply said, "it's okay. People get confused all the time, but I'm a woman." Why do people get so psychically harmed by a simple mistake? Or do any of them actually not get harmed at all and instead actually relish the attention?
@@snoski because you're basically saying how foolish these alphabetical squad people act, yet you're affirming their delusions by saying "cis man." just say you're a man....there is no such thing as "cis." it's just one of MANY terms these ignoramuses made up.
I’m old and suffer from hellish hot flashes, I keep my hair short because of the sweats, I am always called Sir, I don’t get upset and the look on the person’s face when they notice their own mistake tells me it was not intentionally done!
yeah it's aggravating because you know it's nothing to really do with the fact that this woman is transgender because the rest of the female population with deep voices and short air and strong builds don't act like this. it's because she's so entitled and likes making people feel bad about themselves so she gets a power trip out of it.
Im from Texas and lots of people here speak Spanish. They get he and she mixed up ALLLL the time. If you want to preach about respect understand that a language barrier doesnt mean they can't speak English, it means they'll get some things wrong here or there from time to time. SHE/HER or whatever the fuck they are, is the ones being disrespectful in this situation.
Exactly. Everyone preaches about tolerance, but don't even think about the fact that people who speak other languages will mix up pronouns all the time.
@@thruyouyup.... I'm so sick of these demonic freaks having their delusions affirmed by this sick world. so glad Jesus is returning very soon & all this evil is about to end. that's why it's getting worse & worse everyday....cuz satan knows his time is almost up. he's using his demon minions to recruit as many souls to the eternal lake of fire with them as possible.
I am a female with a deep raspy voice. I get called Sir often. SHE knows this will happen and that it is an innocent mistake while they are trying to be respectful. Tik Tok and cell phones have ruined everything
Ha! I have a deep voice too, was worse when I was younger. I had to train my voice to not sound so monotone. But I would go to a drive thru at a restaurant. Would that complete your order sir😂 I didn't like it but I understood how my voice sounded.
Tik Tok and phones aren’t the problem. People need to stop blaming technology and look at the people abusing it. A gun isn’t a deadly weapon until it’s in the hands of an idiot. Same with the internet.
I mean, I would probably say him too. They don’t even make it obvious. These people are getting very annoying and pretending more important than they are. What is the pizza shop name? I wanna support them!
Social media is the worst thing to happen to this world. I’m so glad I won’t be alive in 50 years to see how much worse this world becomes. God I hope things go back to normal but I doubt it
How much you wanna bet, the MAN with the dog IN a restaurant calls it "an emotional support animal" just to give him something else to start stuff with.
She asked the guy “do I look like a boy or a girl” and when the guy answered, “a boy”, she gets offended. Don’t ask a question if you know the answer could be something YOU DO NOT WANT TO HEAR!!!!
@@Allie_phelps It's so very frustrating and wrong. Trans individuals are quick to point out how CIS individuals could never understand what it's like to be them, but think they intrinsically know what it's like to be a woman just because they change some cosmetic elements about themselves. I understand not wanting to be forced to observe cultural gender norms, but there's no such thing as understanding what it is to live life as something you never were, and never will be.
@@norka5185 I completely agree with you. Outer looks is not what it takes to be a woman and no matter what they do, they will never know the true joys (and miseries haha), of being a woman. So many of them don’t even look like women and get upset because they’re “misgendered”. I don’t want to know what it’s like living in a body that has mental illness and the thought of changing ganders is going to solve it. People can live however they want, but to harass people for misgendering them is just ridiculous
This one gets on my last nerve every time he says it's like a knife in the heart to get misgendered if that's your only problem in life you're doing pretty damn good then. He does it on purpose because well I don't know but who in the hell goes out to eat and sets the camera up pointing at you like you have a companion there. He's doing it so he can catch the heartbreak of being misgendered. He also has his speech down pretty good because he seems to use it in every single solitary video.
Also when he's complaining he called the server he. Did he ask for their pronouns. Or did he assume. He also tells women Cis is not a slur and it's okay for him to call you that
I have been shocked that people have called me miss when Im wearing my carthartt hat with my hood up and lots of layers of clothes. I know I wouldn't be surprised if they thought I was a guy looking the way I do. And in this day in age who knows. It's stupid to be offended if someone doesn't know by looking at you. I can see being upset if you correct them and they refuse to accept it. People have nothing better to do with their lives than to take offense at everything.
I am not sure what this is. Misgendered. We do not have to do what you want pal. A dress or wearing ladies clothes does not make you a women. Wear what you want but do not push your agenda on others that do not agree with your POV. Then to act like a spoiled ass. That does not help your destructive agenda SIR! If he want rude, I am happy to assist.
Okay so I’m a trans male and I’d like to say that thankfully MOST of us aren’t like this (I say most because there is a very small minority in the community like this). Also I get misgendered constantly and in my opinion if it’s family/people you’re out to it’s kind of understandable (but you still don’t just lash out at them-) BUT if it’s a complete stranger you’re never going to see again I don’t understand why it’s such a big deal. Just my opinion though. 😀👍🏻
Honestly, a few years ago I had some friends who were transgender. I stopped being friends with them because not only did one of them harass me everyday for several months for accidentally misgendering ONE time through a quick text, but the other had the audacity to consider both me and my family to be transphobic even after everything me and my has been there for them. Ironically, those experiences *almost* made me not want to support anyone in general, but my brother told me that's how sexism and racism start out. Now I know better, but it's still hard meet people who won't interpret anything you say as something negative. Sorry for the ramble, I just really feel like these issues need to be discussed more. Also, I hope you're having a good day.
@@Kilvieo thank you for not giving up so easily. need more people like you. i will agree, some people are a way too sensitive to simple mistakes and that also needs to be dealt with.
The narrator said something about how our brains can't automatically know pronouns. Except it sort of does. We fire off about 17,000 electrical impulses that will quickly go "he" or "she" in a nanosecond. It's based on previous experience and knowledge. Those of us who have spent 30+ years on this planet recognized a man playing dress up. So did the young pizza guy 🙂
@@CuntNuggets I'm proud to be a boomer. We were the last generation to have common sense. Not to mention my two doctoral degrees that provided me with vast knowledge about human behavior. Your username is obviously quite descriptive of your lack of intelligence.
Everyone uses pronouns. Especially when doing legal paperwork, applying for jobs, etc. including “real women” hahah It’s apart of almost every language’s lexicon.
Bro, I'm biologically female, and I still get misgendered every now and then, and I don't make a huge conundrum about it. Like, I can see why people can misgender me, and I'm just like "Oh it happens..." Edit: Also, some men dress feminine and some women dress masculine, so asking for someone's gender isn't anything crazy either. Why is she mad about that?????
How do we interact with the angry porcupine that is now such an outspoken part of society? Many of these people seem to crave the attention of being misgendered so they can be consoled and convinced by their followers that they were wronged, instead of simply acknowledging the mistake and letting it go. Not every negative interaction is malicious!
People get my name wrong all the time, guess the wrong religion. I have been called my sister’s name on accident and I’m a guy. But never freaked out with someone whom is mistaken. The people who freak out like this is just false flagging shit just for views, making it worse for others whom actually experience hate for who they are. Be whom ever you want to be, but don’t demonize others for whom they aren’t.
@@DumbmoviereviewsInstead of maybe politely correcting the employee, she decides to bully him by calling him ugly and mean. What kind of logic is that? I would almost bet that’s why the employee was smiling because he can’t believe that someone who wants compassion and understanding from others would end up being so hateful.
The narcissism required to maintain these fragile dellusions must be so tiresome. Irl I imagine these people aren't endured for long even by the most sympathetic people.
I worked with this now 'female' and still say what's up dude to her all the time. Super tough chick. Funny enough we go shoot guns and ride dirt bikes together still. She just likes to dress and act feminine but isn't all annoying about it like this one.
As a lesbian, who looks very much more like a man than a woman I get miss gendered all the time. While it hurts my feelings I understand that I look the way I do. I politely correct them and move on. There was no reason for her to keep it going.
Once I was a long haired man driving through Oregon and I forgot you couldn't pump your own gas. So this guy runs up behind me and says, "excuse me, ma'am..." And I turned around and said, "I'm a miss, lady." Nobody got anyone's pronouns right that day. I know trans-people and although I do my best I don't always get their pronouns right and it's never a big deal. You've got to think a lot of yourself to make a production out of such a thing. Especially with strangers.
biggest non issue in history .... WHY would it hurt if somebody accidentally called you sir or mam.... WHO CARES... isnt the most important thing what YOU feel inside!!??.. they just want to pick fights so they can feel like a victim and get validation ...
This kind of reaction and behavior is why people have trouble respecting pronouns. I have yet to see anyone explain this issue in a meaningful and positive manner that makes sense. Respect is earned!
As a former server this is why I called people I served as hun and sweetie. Nothing more frustrating than getting chewed out because I accidentally misgender someone it’s better getting yelled at for flirting
I feel like some people need to get a life, it must be nice to go out to eat everyday and complain everywhere you go. Stay home and cook or order out, people have enough to worry about without frustrated customers giving them a hard time. Grow up !
Honestly, I’ve been an outed ftm transgender since 11-12 years old (currently 19 years old) and yes, navigating the world is rough but 100% understandably so. I went on testosterone, and even though I see a boy in the mirror, I know that not everyone views me or anybody the same. You will be misgendered, both unintentionally and even a lot of times intentionally but the world doesn’t revolve around me. It gets to me from time to time but I don’t take it personally. In fact, I never announce nor reinforce my pronouns, and I do not demand or, expect respect and understanding from every individual I come across. I view and address myself as male, and I leave it at that. Never have I told my coworkers to refer to me as he/him but they do because they know that’s how I view myself, but it’s their choice to respect me and they don’t have to. Some are conservative and would probably have never cared to give someone like me the time of day, but they do because who I am as a person has nothing to do with my gender identity. I exist just like anybody else and I don’t expect the world to cater to me or my feelings. I am a good coworker and friend, never talked about being trans, and yet my coworkers have chosen to respect me. I no longer like being associated with the LGBTQ community because of how aggressively they push for and expect acceptance. Yes, by definition I’m transgender and fall under the term but to me it’s just a statement adjective, just like saying what color my hair is. it’s not the whole encompassing description of my entire being. People who get to know me, will know me as a person despite what I may look or sound like at the exterior, but they don’t have to, and I’m not expecting them to.
I work at the register in a trampoline park and most of the time it's moms bringing their kids in. So of course I'm saying "ma'am" most of the time. This basically became a reflex and I'll sometimes accidentally say "yes/no *ma'am*" to a dad. Obviously I'm not doing it on purpose and always correct myself.. so why doesn't this woman use the same logic for employees just trying to get through their shift instead of going after them and complaining??
Wow, now we can't say anything because we're going to be called out for mislabeling and be berated for it. I think I'm going to call people thing, person or something along those lines. This is why I don't like being in public anymore
Guy with long hair that partially covers my face here. Have a small twink build and wear the occasional womens jacket simply because they fit better and compliment my physique. Get called maam all the time in restaurants but it doesnt bother me one bit. They usually realize their mistake when they hear me talk and we both get a good laugh out of it. No drama is needed for these situations
😂 he could not have been that offended. I mean he set up a camera and went live. 😂 I think he needed the tiktok morlocks to all tell him “sorry that happened to you!” 😢
I don't understand why people assume random strangers know someones pronouns or even cares what their pronouns are. Personally I don't care about pronouns because they have zero effect on my life.
I've actually been through a very similar situation with one of these people. I, matter-of-factly told them that I wasn't going to participate in their illness, and if this offends them, then be offended. The "be offended" part is something I learned from Matt Gaetz and ended the conversation on the spot.
So many people think if they carry a situation, especially in a retail setting, to the point where they are "offended" they'll get some sort of pandering or compensation. The number of times I saw irate customers blue-screen because I told them I was not going to emotionally invest in their "issue" was golden. Just because someone is at work does not mean customers have them at some social gunpoint to act the way they want them to.
I new someone whos a guy who has long long hair, they wear heels and dresses sometimes. Even kinda talks a lil like a female, someone called them ma'am and after they left he mentions how he's not a ma'am So just because you look like something doesn't mean it's obvious. Someone in her same boat doesn't really like being called a female pronoun. This is also why I avoid saying any pronouns now lmao
That last one was only playing a game to see how many places would give him a free meal. There real names should be I'm here to con as many people as I can.
“She’s” the one being ignorant and rude. This person is clearly an immigrant and doesn’t know the language well. To expect someone who is in their own uncomfortable environment to recognize and react “correctly,” (in the mind of the person recording), is ridiculous!
A bullied child identifys with the perpetrator. They take all their impotent rage and hug it tightly, compressing it. They feed it their pain, waiting till the day they can unleash it and make them all understand them. A bullied child identifies with victim. They sit with themseves and stay there through the pain dont look away. The vow that they do their best to make sure this never happens to others and tend wounds for the ones who suffer.
i would love for them to go to a different country and tell the locals how it "feels like a knife in the heart"......I'm sure they would show you an example.oh nvm they only would ever try this in "ally" country's they know better.
