Timid Bride Struggles To Stand Up For Her Princess Dress Vision | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta 

Amen! They will feed off of her until all her sweetness is taken and she is a bitter shell

I feel kinda bad for her, TWO super involved moms that appear to get along great...damn double teamed...she has a great figure & could wear almost anything. 😊✌💜

Aeria Cross RIGHT the first one is the best by far

Yes!! The first dress was EVERYTHING. And she really does have a nice body. That dress fit her so perfectly!!

... Agreed. That first dress was absolutely gorgeous and (in my opinion) suited her the best.

The problem with being in the family caretaker role is that when you finally want to do something for yourself everyone around you tries to make you feel selfish for not doing what they want you to do. Both her mother and future MIL should have been making sure she walked out of there in her dream gown instead of the compromise dress that put her firmly in her role of the designated family caretaker.

@@gardenplots283 I totaly agree!

@@gardenplots283 Thank you!

If you find an adult that always lets others get their way, it's usually because they were mistreated as a child. By all means, encourage kids to be nice to each other, but don't teach them that they have to let someone else's wants go before their needs. Emotional abuse has a long-lasting impact.

@@hauntedshadowslegacy2826 Oh Lord I am getting more no no vibes about the Mom

Moms always say Yes once the veil is on! 😄

IT WAS SO BEAUTIFUL

same

Agreed

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I hope she eventually learned to stand up for herself against her selfish mother and mother in-law.

She is not being selfless, she’s afraid of confrontation and feels guilty if she doesn’t please them. I can tell they’re just making her feel guilty on purpose. I wonder if it’s people pleasing aspect on her end and the mom and mom in law feed off it and think they can get whatever they want from her.

@@christine3941 You nailed it. Two narcissists, one empath. They prey on people-pleasing empaths.

After all she has done for them they still were so selfish

i agree..shes gorgeous..and dont even know it.very grounded young lady but lackin confidence..i hope she finds her voice

Slap, slap...☺👏👏👏

You betta say that Julia!!! Let them know!!!!

So awful with these mother-in-laws and others who think they are the one to decide what the bride is supposed to wear. So full of themselves, so stupid and selfish, it is awful to watch. Me-me-me always me first.

You and Cindy need to go sit down somewhere and shut the hell up!

Yup, yes indeed !! Dayum why they need to "talk about" between themselves anything without the girls imput is beyond me

How do you think she became such an 'angel'? Most of the time, adults who are overly kind and selfless were bullied into that frame of mind as a child. They were stepped on, insulted, and/or yelled at for 'having needs' (as if needing things is a bad thing when it's a kid in need). I'm not saying that's definitely what happened to the bride in this clip, but the possibility is extremely high (especially when you consider her own mother's reaction to the bride having an opinion on the dress).

HauntedShadowsLegacy Thanks for throwing that or as a theory because other people on here have just assumptions and that feels a bridge too far. I doubt they are selfish woman by nature but they really needed to listen to the bride more than worrying about their tastes. She has a wonderful figure, she’ll look great in whatever they put on her. You love so just let her have her 3.5K dream

She's such a pushover that's why. I know people who's been in her shoes where they give and give, but get taken advantage of for being good.

You are handsome 😊

Wtf they where not selfish!!! They just said what they thought and that's why she brought them with her! At the end she had a dress that she loved so wtf are you talking abnout? Saying what you think of a dress as a mother is not selfish lmfao

Exactly!!! It makes me so mad how would they like it for their special day someone controls YOU and your choices. That’s not ok. They won’t be wearing it so yes she wants your opinion not a demand.

It is WEIRD right?

@Sidney Jones She has had her wants and wishes disregarded her entire life. It's really *hard* to stand up for yourself when everyone around you has trained you from a very young age to do what they want you to do all the time.

Her: I always wanted a princess dress. Both mums: WE want her in a form fitting dress.

Not only do they care so much about what the bride wears, they expect to make the final decision!

I know, I had an older(several)sister get mad at me for dying my hair blonde. She didn't like that I had it too light in her opinion(doesnt like me getting attention) but she and another sister had put blond highlights in my hair years ago when I wasn't too sure about it.🤦 I told her you just want to use me as a Barbie doll, to move me as you please. She always love to give my stuff away and yell at me if I stand up for myself. I'm the youngest and she thinks she can boss me around, while expecting my other sister 2 years older and I to do the things the oldest should do... They want the respect of age but behave like a infant/toddler. 🙆

Let's hope they move away QUICKLY before those two mothers decide the rest of their lives for them.

Trash.

more like alil over protective & alil selfishness..but not on purpose.sometimes people dont even realise their flaws until you point it out..i think theyre both lovely moms..it came froma good place of love & care..(in my opinion)

@3amaintpretty i agree

It made her waist look even tinier tjan it already is - it looked gorgeous.

First dress was beautiful, really suited her the colour was beautiful,

Agreed

ikr

The first dress was the best!

Honestly after everything this girl's done for them & how sweet/nice she is to everything.... they can't keep their mouths shut on something which doesn't even really affect them.

Hayley Morrin I thought it you said it. Like y’all love her so much, let her have her dream dress at the very least

Let's make a deal, shall we? The mothers can choose the bride's dress, IF the bride can choose the mother's dresses. No exceptions.

I know

shrgh 18 “but i invisionned you in a form fitting gown “ oof

I feel like her beauty intimidates them. Sucks because she looked beautiful in the first one

The mother and mother in-law were incredibly selfish!

that's the thing. when you are a giving person, others take it for granted; when you stop doing that, people will actually think "wow you are so selfish"

I had a dream dress and was pressured into a totally different style that I did not like. I have regretted that for 40 years now and still feel cheated and upset about it. When my daughter got married I made sure it was her choice all the way. This is a once in a lifetime choice. It has to be the brides. Family members should never push their own preferences. It is selfish.

I'm regretting it for her.

@@kellydesilva6733 I am happy you are a healthy person and did not take “revenge” choosing your daughters dress… sorry someone was not kind to you, but you are the better person

This was a ad episode. Her dress was the one she tried on first. That is what she wanted, but settled for the mothers. Shame on the mothers for the selfishness displayed here.

Everyone always bitches at moms. I think having a vision for your daughter's wedding dress is pretty normal. But that daughter not having the strength to stand up for herself and pick the dress she likes most is not normal to me. They wanna start their own family but they don't even have the guts to tell their mom they want something different. THAT'S where the problem is, not moms just being their overbearing selves but daughters being too meek to speak up

VirtualForeseer it's all about the respect for parents. Good girls, angels as mom said, are raised that way to be kind respectful and missing their own opinion. Most of the time it is all about parents. They raise their children not being able to say no. Such parents manipulate their children or they are so imperative sometimes you simply can't say what you really think and want. That's the way my mother-in-law is. She manipulated her son as long as she could until he moved away as far from her as possible. They almost don't speak. I mean she's fine but she simply doesn't understand that she pushes too much, that there are some limits. So sometimes the only way to be nice to your imperative relatives is to stay far from them, live your own life and see each other once a year or so.

I don’t want to make any assumptions about the parents. I really am surprised Lori didn’t jump in and say let’s focus on what she wants. She might have but we don’t know

@@Ysmir. It's fine to have ideas about what you think your daughter's wedding will look like, but it should come in the form of 'what do you think about's and 'have you thought of's. Suggestions and suggestions alone. As soon as the words 'I want' come out of a mouth that isn't the brides, something isn't right. Also, as for her not standing up for herself to her mom, there's a high chance she was emotionally abused as a kid just so mommy could get her way all the time. "Mama knows best." "Because I said so." "Do what I tell you." Seemingly harmless phrases (in small quantity they may be less harmful), but extended exposure to such mindsets can do significant damage to a child's self-esteem and confidence. Watch what you say and how you act around kids. They DO remember.

VirtualForeseer I absolutely don’t have a vision for my daughters wedding, let alone the shape of her wedding dress. How bizarre. I don’t care if my daughter wants to wear a damn tux. My vision for my daughter (and sons) wedding is for them to be happy and feel great in whatever they would like to wear.

Amen! I wish people would stop using their kids as something for their image

Cuz they think she's a push over and know she won't bite

L Mcmoney that’s the saddest part.

The bride and her mother-in-law, their happy day is over (as a bride). But they acted as if they were going to wear the bridal gown.😂

I wouldn't say they have bad or manipulative intentions. But if a person has always done what you've asked them for, and put themself behind, it's really easy to get used to. You know have someone fulfilling your wishes and needs. The bride needs to learn how to step up and the moms have to learn to step down, even if the bride put them in that spot.

She looked beautiful in the first dress, like it really suited her.

Whats her ig

It was a shame that she didn't get what she wanted. But am glad the marriage seems to be doing well.

Any idea about the brother in law with cancer?

@@rachelwilliams2896 They said he passed her away

@@Natalie01nova oh I missed that. 😓

Me too...being giving your opinions about dress is good but not just imposing your choice on bride ...its a big No🚫.

I thought the same thing..

This 👏

For realness tho You’d think she’d be all like “I just want her to be happy because she’s done so much for us, I don’t want her to be swayed but what I want” She looked good but I’m not a fan of that sort of trumpet-Esque style and she pulled off a sort of rare queenly grace with that ballgown... If there anybody that was suited for a ballgown, it would be Cecelia... many girls get that fitted look hoping for an ounce of the elegance she naturally had with the ballgown. I really wish she bought that dress

Mama wants to show off her daughters body. It wasn't about the daughters dream, it's about Mama doesn't have the figure to wear sexy anymore, so she'll do it vicariously through her child.

Hazel Juanita Millan-Hoffman oddly enough, I can see that. That’s a weird form of wish fulfillment

She looked like a fairytale in the first dress thats her dress

This comment helped me understand why my sister who is older than me by one year, is such an angry person to her core. She was always the perfect child, indulged, favored and considered superior to me and my eldest sister, always given everything she wanted. The fact is she wanted none of that - she was subtly bribed and manipulated into those choices - being much more dependent on parental approval than either my eldest sister or I was. She is angry at me because I did what I wanted regardless of what our parents thought, and our parents didn't love her any more (or less) than they loved me. What a revelation to me at 70 years of age.

I love Lori,she always puts the Bride first,it's just a pity these Moms didn't follow suit,very selfish of them.

When I read this comment while watching the video, I knew it was Lori before I saw her actually saying it 😆

Maybe they think she's not good enough for a big dress

@@mclauren1844 nah she just has a great figure

I was thinking the same thing!!!

Exactly... What I was thinking

I was going to say she looked like a Disney princess in that first dress too....💜✌😊

People say Cinderella with those dresses probably not even conjuring up that image but that sort of naturally came up with this dress... it captures the sort of dreamy, romantic essence of the classic Disney movies and I work at Disney right now so like certified put a stamp on it she is the new Disney princess 🤪

Mallory Newcomb 😂😂😂 I think she is beautiful in all three, but the first was my personal favorite too!

@@annehorrigan570 Yeah, loved that first dress! I had no idea wedding dresses came in lavender but omg, it really did feel like a Disney Princess dress.

she looked amazing in that ballgown... shop with your best friends that know you well and support you not people who complain that its not the look they wanted her in.

I wanted to hear her say she felt beautiful not that the dress was beautiful.

She is a natural pleaser so the opinions of others will always count. Poor girl! The first dress was the best even though she has the body to rock any dress and garbage bag.

XeaRae ikr I was thinking the same

EXACTLY!!!

She would look stunning in a plastic bag and her smile is radiant. I'm glad she got her princess.

Yes the parents taught the child to be a victim.

Right on!

MrsBrit1 I agree. The first lilac gown was beautiful and unique on her. The third dress looked like any other dress. Seen it before. The first one was a true gem and it’s a shame that they manipulated her into not going for what she wanted. She put her life on hold to support family. The least they can do is support her and put their opinions aside. Poor girl. I hope she found her dream dress.

I would of loved to have the lilac dress , my bridesmaids wore lilac. But it looked nice on her

It was her dress and they took it from her

I think she looked amazing in that first dress because *it was the one she really wanted!* The last one was a compromise. She only picked it for that reason. The one that really made her light up was the first one. That joy showed and made her look amazing for that reason. The mothers need to be slapped upside their heads with a big, dead catfish-a bullhead to match their bull heads. (for those of you not familiar with the various catfish species, a "bullhead" catfish has a much larger head in proportion to its body than any other species of catfish, so much larger that it's really noticeable)

Magnificent!🌹

@@bunnyslippers191 💜 YES, YOU COULD SEE IT IN HER EYE'S! SHE WAS SO HAPPY IN THE FIRST DRESS, SHE LOOKED STUNNING 😊 SHAME ON THEM! THEY TOOK THAT JOY & DECISION AWAY FROM HER. IT'S HER WEDDING, IT'S HER DAY 😢💜

Good for you !! Glad you stood your ground!!

💜 VERY PROUD OF YOU YVETTE 😊 YOU MADE YOUR CHOICE & HELD YOUR OWN. EVEN IF SOMEONE OFFER'S TO PAY, TO ME, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THEY GET TO CHOOSE THE DRESS. IT'S YOUR WEDDING 😊💜💜💜

I wish I had had the strength you had. I felt bullied into the dress I wore and have suffered for it ever since.

And this is exactly how it should be. I just don't understand this process. The bride should choose 3-5 dresses she really likes and then put them for her family/friends to see and help her choose which one looks best on her. That's it.

I'm so upset

agree. the dress she chose was ugly

@@juliaharl No, it was perfect on her!

Its what she wants its her choice shes the bride and everybody has there opinions and frankly nobody gives a shit about any that aren't hers

Mothers, and sisters in law... No no no

Yeah you can't always compromise just to make people happy, not their wedding

She looked the best in the princess dress

It seems to be a thing on this show. Like they get a lot of brides who can't stand up for themselves

She should have chosen the first one. She shouldn't have rewarded the mothers for their selfishness. Now they will never learn.

@@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 hence the reason why they can't find their dress and sign up for a show like this

@@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 To be fair, they shouldn't have to stand up to their loved ones over what they want to wear on their own wedding day. These two mothers shouldn't be putting her in a situation like that, and should let her choose without such a fuss

😤😤😤😤😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Mohammad Anggi Nugroho Uh there’s lots of shotgun marriages by immature teenagers so what’s your point?

@@nil-8026 True. Though, "maturity" is not exclusively synonymous with "age". 😬

@@nil-8026 He didn't mention age. He said "mature enough."

Trendy Golbin247 I don’t think they were trying to be mean spirited, but they were being really all about their wants for all their lip service to concern for her happiness

Yeah my mom I absolutely adore my mom but she does the same manipulative kinda crap with me. She did it when we first went shopping for a wedding dress, and she was pointing out things that she knew I was self conscious about. I said yes to a dress she loved because I really wanted to make her happy since she and my dad were paying fo it. I really regretted it. I went shopping for another dress months later and found my dream dress without her. I sold the other dress and returned her money but she was so angry with me than she finally realized that what she wanted wasn’t what I wanted. When 8 was young I always had that problem when it came to speaking out for myself. I have always been quiet and passive and my mom has always been the exact opposite we’re like night and day. So it can be very difficult saying no to her. So I felt bad for this girl, moms have to realize that it’s no longer their time, it’s not about them but their daughter. Now that 8 have a daughter I absolutely will let her pick out whatever dress she wants for her wedding. I mean she is four years old now and I let her pick out her what clothes she likes from the store, she definitely has her own style.

A Temperamental Baker That’s a great story! Good for you! So you got the dress you wanted in the end right?

Mallory Newcomb yes I did! My mom was upset with me, I think she wanted to be there for the moment but she like her own style which is so different than mine. But she agreed and calmed down after a few days. She does want me to be happy and she is an awesome mom she just has a very strong personality and I do happen to be a people pleaser. My husband was so happy too because he hated the first dress I picked out with my mom. also the second dress was much light and flowed better it made with organza fabric. The first one was so heavy and made with satin since it was a very hot summer wedding I would have died in that dress. But yeah I think mothers absolutely should have an input but in the end let the daughter decide. My daughter has her own style and even though it’s the opposite of mine, I am more of a Tom boy and she is more girly I want her to be able to express herself. Thank u!💜🙏😊

Beautiful soul... here,s hoping she doesn,t have as much interference in her marriage... but the in laws seem like a large clan!!! Hope she can rise above them!!

She reminds me of Carey Mulligan a bit!

Ikr it was everything :(

❤

True but you shouldn't have to worry about that with family. Your own mam should love you enough not to take advantage of this side of your personality

Putting other people before yourself is a noble thing. If only those mothers had put the bride's wishes and feelings before their own ideas of a perfect wedding dress... Self-sacraficial love is a beautiful thing, and it's a shame that they couldn't demonstrate that even in the smallest matter. The bride is not in the wrong for putting other people first, the parents are for not doing so themselves. Her selflessness is not the issue, their selfishness is.

that's how she was raised, why do you think she's such an 'angel'?

@@eduhnz3464 I didn't say she was an angel, but I admire her selflessness and patience

@@Line... oh no, that's how they described her lmao

This should have been a dad shows up appointment and let these hens just stay home until she’s bought the dress & they have to deal with what she picked Nobody has ever looked so good on this show in the ballgown and you guys are all but making her pick a worse dress? For real?

Garden Plots thank you I really don’t tend to like those trumpety gowns

People pleaser

All moms are annoying in this show

True...

Never sending my mom wedding dress shopping

There's a UK version of the show where the bride said exactly that ! 😉

@@TheScarlett618 I need to see how that went 😂

Well how it went is that everyone thought she wasn’t very nice about it and everyone in the comments hated her 😂 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5uPs4MrS3qc.html

@@guuurlforreal4734 WOW!

😃😃

Exactly!

I disagree it was kinda weird fitting and didn’t look right

Skylynn Lara they always are weird fitting because it’s a sample size usually clipped in the back

These are just samples they are not the actual wedding dress. They build the dresses from the ground up and the brides choose the style they want from the samples

Yeah it fits her perfectly and its sooo beautiful wow

It amazes me how you can say things over and over and some people just don't listen. It seems the only way to get through to those people is to be harsh, and then they get mad.

min min right!! and not a “Princess gown” at that. Was in SYTTD Twilight Zone. Lol!

That was the dress she really wanted and her happiness showed that. I think that's why she looked much better in that one.

Hi olga how are you my dear

I truly wonder how this brides`life will be with these two dictators running all over her all the time. Poor girl, hope her husband supports her in life.

that's what I was thinking