I've had a struggle with clothes in the past. So, I came up with a method that has helped. The 1st of every month I go through my clothes and pick out what I could wear that month (checking the calendar while doing this is helpful). Every top I wear when I hang it back up I turn the hanger the opposite way. The next time I'm choosing an outfit I look at the hangers facing correctly first. On the last day of the month I take the hangers that are still facing the correct way and get brutally honest about why I have the item and why I'm not reaching for it. If it's a definite no I donate it. If it's still a maybe I'll give it one more time in rotation or place it in my "time-out" drawer to see if I miss it (and this drawer isn't that big). The surprising thing that happened after doing this method for a few months is I stopped buying clothes on impulse.
Yesterday I was reading a book on the porch. I told myself after each chapter had to go in and declutter for 10 minutes. In three sessions I got it all done.
One strategy that helps me declutter regularly is always having a donatable donate box in my house, so when I come across something I'm ready to let go of, I just place it in the box. When the box is full, I put it in my trunk and drop it off at a donation center as soon as possible.
My favorite piece of advice from this video was to JUST declutter. I think a lot of people are overwhelmed with all of the tasks for a room they don’t even touch it. Great advice!
Great tips. Remember, you don't have to do everything in one day or week. Decuttering doesn't have to be painful but instead helpful and rewarding. Stay positive !!
Not just "clean and organize" but why don't we paint the space while we're about it? No! I had to stop myself from doing this recently. I just wanted to reorganize my office but found myself thinking about painting it too while I was about it...... making a big enough job a massive job. Luckily I caught myself in time!
I decluttered my Living room, dining room and kitchen counter. I sweep, pickup and spot clean the floors every morning. My house is always ready if someone comes to the front door now. It’s a great feeling. I have started in our bedroom and got stalled. Thanks for all the good suggestions for getting me back in forward gear again. The decluttered rooms have never stayed this clean ever. So glad for your channel. Thank you!!
Decluttering is great but useless if you continue to buy stuff because it was a great deal, pretty or in style. We have become such a consumer driven society. Avoid the doors and make do with what you have.
This was incredibly helpful - thank you ❤ Although my own apartment is well under control my father died recently and i am in the process of clearing his very large home. I had no idea his closets were crammed full of clothing and I have approximately 30 large sacks to donate to charity and another 10 to be recycled! I have donated all unopened food and toiletries but had to bin large amounts of rubbish also. Today my plan is to label the sacks so they are organised for uplift, then sort photos/documents/ornaments etc into large storage bins. I have arranged to take all the towels to our local pet rescue centre. Will also sort all bedding/linens/cushions. Im keeping the garden under control until house is sold. When my sibling returns from holiday she and her husband can organise the garage, shed and loft. Ive been sat here procrastinating but your video has inspired me to get moving ! Its challenging to resist the urge to tidy and clean whilst decluttering but its essential to stay focused as otherwise takes much longer. Have already decluttered other relatives belongings and it is not fair on those of us left behind ! I keep my home super clear and organised and wish everyone else would also! Minimalism should be taught in schools 😊
My condolences. I went through this almost two years ago for my mum and even though I made a large burst of decluttering at first, I’m still working on it. It is a process.
@@MsBubu26 it's really only the photographs and very personal items I'm left with now. Have stored them in a box just now but plan to digitize them later and just keep favourites in an album. It definitely gets more difficult to declutter as one gets older- psychologically as well as physically. My father was someone who liked everything to be neat and organised and did express his frustration with having too much clutter in the last few years. I offered to help (but like myself!) he was very independent and said he would tackle himself. It came as quite a shock to discover how much he had squirreled away ! However I completely understand how difficult the task can seem. Although I stated that my 'own space is kept clear and under control' I realised when packing for holiday recently that I am far from perfect 😅 I will be having yet another declutter on my return - it is most definitely an ongoing process ! My excuse is my ever fluctuating weight- but when I return I am also aiming to return to a healthier lifestyle and hopefully this will allow me to clear more clothing 😊 It's never easy losing someone and you may have regretted clearing ALL your mums things too quickly- However I honestly believe our loved ones are happy for us to let go of physical reminders! We keep our loved ones forever in our thoughts and hearts ❤
I love the third category idea - I keep a couple of baskets around specifically for things that I am not sure about and after a few weeks if I haven't pulled anything out, they get donated or given away. Its a game changer.
My tips: 🧺Donate box by the back door 🧽Declutter one drawer/cupboard at a time unless you enjoy it like me! 🧹Inventory of any supplies such as toiletries/stationary and only buy what is needed 📝Inventory of food in cupboards to meal plan and I gain only but what’s needed ❤also small things like a set amount of towels per person (we all have our own colours) and 2x bedding per bed..one in wash one in bed. Simple
I pull everything from one room (except the furniture that will stay) onto the front lawn to sort into 3 sets of boxes: Throw Away, Sell/Donate and Keep. Make sure you pick a dry sunny cool day. Very pleasant!
I cancelled all my appointments for a month so that I can do this and finish in one month and today is day one and I just found your video. So grateful to you for sharing. 😊
Great relaxing yet encouraging I am trying to live in a tiny apartment from a house! It is very overwhelming! Prayers please can’t wait to listen to your next pod - less is best if I can ever get there. I want that! I spend so much time looking for my Stuff and burn up my energy! Thank you for sharing your ideas and caring enough to take the time to help others I am proud of your style!
I have to say your videos are so soothing no matter the content. The visuals (different clips) of the plants, sunlight etc is very pleasant and your voice is very comforting. I become more relaxed while watching your videos! 🙂 I love to listen to a podcast or one of my favorite content creators while decluttering. Makes the time fly!
Excellent tips! I've never thought of my wait-and-see bin as a tool for *speed*, but that makes total sense! Decision fatigue and analysis paralysis are major impediments to decluttering for me so cognitive tips really help!
RU-vid randomly started playing minimalism videos for me last week, and I'm hooked! I've donated two garbage bags worth of stuff so far, as well as put things up on free groups on Facebook. I'm actually enjoying the process a lot!
I try to give myself a reward after reaching a goal when decluttering. Even if it’s a small goal, I still reward myself. That seems to keep me going. 😊
Oh Girl! A mix of psychology +how to+peace out life coaching at once! Shared with everyone who could use a little encouragement after a hard week. Cuz a tidy space feels zen & u just made it seem so easy!
Thank you for the tip of the "safe basket" to keep for some time where we can always pick something that threw away. Probably it won't happen, but it is a safe jacket for me that help a lot and lessnen my mental burden and let it go easily
I was only going to go through 1 drawer a day, but i was so proud of getting rid of 5 things that i ended up doing 4 drawers that first day. Bag of clothes to donate. And good quality of course.
I am adopting the progress, not perfection, way to declutter. I made a list and began working on different areas, and it feels great to make progress. Instead of doing this annually, I plan to hit different areas more frequently, so decluttering is part of my monthly activity instead of a huge annual project.
Has happened to me only one time I donated some boxes i had taped up Did not look in them afraid I would keep more clutter What was in them I'll never know 🤔 BUT so thankful for the extra space 😊
Your video is the BEST one for de-cluttering. You were one of the very few who didnt come up with meditating and ‘forgiving yourself’ 😂 Thank you so much! xx
I always listen to a podcast while decluttering and doing the dishes. I agree with most of what you said but I'll just say that while decluttering a cupboard or a drawer, I think it's wise to clean it up. I usually focus on a particular area at a time and keep on decluttering throughout my regular life. when I start the process, I empty the drawer/cupboard. Since it's empty anyway, I find it helpful to clean up before putting stuff back. Great tips! Keep up the good work ❤
Totally agree!! .. decluttering is a 3-part process I call ECR .. E empty the space C clean the space R rearrange the keepers into the space. One part without the other two parts is pretty much a waste of time. I tried everyone's method of "just declutter for now and go back again later to clean and then go back again to organize" in my fridge one time .. I'll never do it that way ever again!! I purged the fridge contents but there was a big smear of jelly on the top glass shelf. I wanted to wash it right then and be done with it but nooo I put it off until the cleaning phase which didn't happen for months due to my failing health. I was so disgusted by that smear everytime I saw it. When I finally did wash it, it was rock hard and took ten times longer to remove than if I'd just washed it off in the beginning. Sometimes online advice doesn't make much sense and it's best to stick to what works best for ourselves.
Progress, not perfection. Unless you’re moving in a few weeks, there’s no rush. Be consistent, but don’t stress, because you’ll give up. Think of pacing yourself like getting caught in a riptide. You can either struggle to get to shore as quickly as possible, or swim gently, but consistently, parallel to the shoreline. Once you’re done decluttering that room, don’t let it build up again. I have a set of rules that I live by, which have made housekeeping easier and have reduced stress from clutter. Rules of the house If you bring it into the room, take it out of the room. If you drop it, pick it up. If it’s empty, throw it out. If you make a mess, clean it up. If it’s a dirty item, put it in the sink or the hamper. When you’re done with something… If it’s a blanket, fold it up. If it’s a glass or a dish, put it in the sink. If it’s a game, put it away.
Thank you very much, I have already started decluttering, and as you mentioned, I saw that it would be great to associate it with cleaning, and indeed I did it in the bathroom, but I felt tired and imagined how difficult it would be to repeat that in all rooms.!! Which made me start procrastinating and being lazy about completing what I started, but now you inspired me and encouraged me that I can really declutter first and then do the cleaning after that and it will certainly be easier and faster.!
Great tips, I always listen to decluttering content prior and during my “purging“ sessions and find it very helpful. Knowing I’m not alone in this helps alot. I just need to put systems in place to break the vicious cycles.
Thank you for the tips. I feel you really understand the declutterers mindset and tge transition to a simpler & more minimal mindset. Also your voice is calm, sympathetic, easy to listen to and soothing. Your narration voice isn't hyper, way too fast nor is it shouting at us. I really appreciate that. Thank you! 💞
I have too much stuff..so i researched charities that help new refugees by setting up their living space w furniture..kitchen stuff etc.lnowingbit s going to a good cause helps me to get rid.
I find decluttering and tidying to this video and similar decluttering/minimalism videos encouraging. It helps me keep momento and keep going. I find this content both realxing and inspirational. When I clean to music I can get distracted but having this content, I feel like I have motivational speaker to keep me focused and although I'm far from being a minimalist, I have thrown out so much stuff which is a big thing for me because I've always been a bit of a hoarder. I love how big rooms are when there's less junk in them. Thank you :)
I 99% of the time have declutter or minimalist videos playing when I am decluttering as you mentioned. Motivates me to do it. I also look at a space a d picture in my mind what I want it to look like or feel. I work it in my mind first and then when I have the time I go and just do it. I was struggling with clothes decluttering and a couple of weeks back I packed most of my clothes (not underwear, pjs and socks…) and now I go get as I need it . I have pulled about 20 pieces between work and home wear. I will do this till year end therefore basically all seasons and then I plan to just donate the rest. I have eliminate a lot over the past couple years but now it will be the final stretch. Clothes out of sight ,out of mind , out the door? Well we shall see. ❤
I put on some cheesy music that I grew up with in the 60's, 70's and 80's and groove to them. Sometimes if someone like my niece, granddaughter are around, I ask them if there is anything they would like before donating. If I can't get to a good will place, I will leave a box of stuff at the curb. You'll be surprised how fast that box empties. Mission accomplished. 😂😂😂
I have been on my decluttering journey about two years. One thing I’ve learned is if I have a hot spot (that area in the house that continues to stay out of sorts). I know where I need to focus..
If you have an item or items that have a clear memory attached, I read take a photo of it before you give away. But some things you keep. You can always hang unto it & see after a time do you stil want to keep. I have one memory container. You can always give it away at another time.
I absolutely adore your whole vibe in this video. It totally takes the stress out of decluttering for me and actually makes me look forward to doing it for myself! Your high level of intelligence really shows and for some reason makes me want to laugh out loud because I’m so delighted to discover you! Looking forward to seeing more of your videos and I hope my enthusiasm doesn’t scare you! Lol!
Great tips! The visualize what I want my life to look like helped as I have a bunch of new craft stuff my daughter was gifted for her birthday that I currently don't have a space for! Which means it's time to declutter to create space for this new chapter of crafting in our lives.
I did that this week. Break down the decluttering tasks. So much less stressful. I gained more momentum and accomished more. I'm. Going to share this video with my Professional organizing colleagues. ❤
Just wanted to share: speaking of setting your mind frame, I listen to this while spackling my laundry room wall during a major home renovation because this is part of my dream life and how things are going to be on the other side of this home renovation. I've been working toward a more minimalist and essentialist home, schedule and routine for a few years now but this home renovation, which started as a water-damaged insurance claim, has really opened up the floodgates of possibility! Thank you for your calm tone and inspiring perspective!
Thank you so much for this piece of motivation in the decluttering process. When living with a family that I have no control over and have no right to talk about the abundance of stuff is difficult for me. But I can try to control myself. Hopefully, it helps my bedroom space at least.
This is a great motivational video to declutter. I’ve went through my school items I’ve had for years, also other books and clothes. It has helped. I need to get more book cases or for storage space. I like doing a corner each time.
I've naturally been doing some of what you mention in the beginning of the video so it's nice to know I intuitively landed in an area you've realized is helpful. I appreciate your points on something like doing a Marie Kondo thing with one category and time issues. For me, I have very limited space. It's so tiny in here that if I took out all my clothes and put them on the bed (which is the only place I even could put them) I'd likely not be able to finish the task in one sweep and then my bed would still be covered with whatever is left. I have no where else I could do it and so I'm a little stuck with not being able to do anything in a full Marie Kondo manner. I sometimes use the strategy, though, with modifications. Great video! Thank you! 🥰🥰
Using the Onion Method with a timer helps me a lot. Searching for just the easy things/garbage throughout the house is immediately rewarding, and motivates me to tackle more difficult items later.
I found your video very helpful and aesthetically pleasing. Thank you! PS. I always listen to podcasts when decluttering, it's helping to keep on track.
This is just what I needed! I have been “planning” to de letter a large room downstairs, and turn into a exercise/relaxation quiet room. This morning was the day, but with rainy weather, I was not at all in the mood, until I found this video. I took few early hours to rest and visualize what the room should look like and watch few videos on decluttering, and this one just did it. I got up, turn all the lights on, played some energizing music, and started following your tips! Thank you very much!
#3 is what I do on a regular basis. I’m a minimalist anyway, and moved into my apartment a year ago this month. As I’m going about my day, if I open a drawer or closet and think, “hmm…too much stuff or disorganized”, I’ll take five or ten mins to declutter/organize right then.
ok i'm goo this is exactly the steps i do i'll save this video to lisen to while i am working, i agree with everythig and her voice is very soothing-thanks
When it's time to declutter I put 3 bags in the foyer. One is donate, the second is worn out can't donate, third see if anyone wants it. If no then it goes into the first bag This goes fast when it's a change of season, and your changing over things in your home. It's slower but after a few seasons you can see the difference. It's especially helpful for people who find it hard to part with things
I think it's important to make getting rid of the stuff as easy as you need to. For example, if there isn't a donation center nearby or you don't have a car, just toss the stuff in the garbage. I know it feels wasteful, and that it is always better to donate or sell, but for someone who has a chronic illness and can't move outside of the home a lot, this has kept me stuck. I don't feel great tossing stuff because I want to donate, but it's just the reality I live in. I can either accept tossing stuff in the bin or live in a stressful, cluttered environment. The choice seems clear.
I have found that early on when you have vastly too much stuff. Think hoarder or near hoarder level a few major cleanups are probably very needed just to get the home functional enough to finetune your decluttering. In this phase probably Maria Kondo or any similar method probably will be helpful, and maybe some will need to do it several times to get the house functional enough to develop a more finetuned method. After that I think a real plan for maintaining control over input and output of stuff in your life starts to be more important. The way I now view stuff is the lifecycle of the item through my life, and through the items life.
For me its been 2 years or so I tried my best to minimize stuff around.. I have learned that wasting my time categorizing stuff to do is another time consuming.. I even pay on someone selling their categorised plan.. yet.. I dont follow it.. realistically just go to that area you think that space needs to be tackled.. yet yeah.. until now still its a mess😂 overwhelming..
I keep a charity bag by the front door. Its handy to just pop things in as I discover them. Every few months I empty it at the local op shop. Feels good.
My house is in desperate need of some good decluttering. At almost 31, I am still storing (unsorted) things from my teens, my mom's youth, old keepsakes, boxes and boxes of papers. Add to that all the things a 2.5-year-old, a baby and a dog add to the household, plus all the things from both pregnancies I haven't gone through yet. I just don't know how to do it! My toddler is all over the place every day and running after him is a full time job. And whenever he eats or sleeps (which are the only times he sits still) I try to get a moment in with my little girl. We have no family around to help. I think I will have to live vicariously through all of you 😅 Thanks for the video!
I just started listening to you, and I like the options that you shared in this video. I also think I'll use this video when decluttering. I usually have to go through an area of my house several times to get to a good level of decluttering 👍🙌
I love your suggestions. I like to take it one section at a time, small amounts of time a few days a week. Also, the idea of listening to music or a podcast works good too.
