When the husband is capable, he handles the big bills while the wife handles the small bills mainly kitchen and nanny. Then decisions on medical covers, education policy etc are made together. Risper is right, respect comes from the woman showing that she can also handle things
Risper you are very wise love how calm and collected you are. This was realistic Mwanamke have your own money even if the man is rich he will respect you even more do the small things together you do so much. It is important people learn submission does not mean you are less than man you can be strong, independent but still submissive. Also when A Man leads his family and provides submission comes naturally. Friends who respect marriage muhimu.Really enjoyed this conversation esp now marriages keep breaking down good to see those who still believe in love and marriage. God bless your marriage.
I discovered this channel today and I'm already hooked.Wise tips here,Risper you are calm and collected,I love how you connect with your hubby. I've learnt a lot.
Risper I love how you are respectful. You are my friend in my head. And I agree with you guys on the friends part. I wish you both a lot of channel growth and tell Brian I do not skip ads😄
Love you guys xx i dont think living together before marriage is necessary as you can never quite know the other person fully. You can learn each other's behaviour even in marriage
On the part of living together, I think it depends coz you may live with the person before and you end up separating later and vice versa. When both parties are transparent enough to one another it will work, eg being introverted I really don't like people in my space and therefore living with someone before can give me the opportunity to adjust, but if we were to move in after the wedding I'll have to be intentional being with someone in my space. My point is we both should be intentional and ready to do what is best for us.
I'm a very active person, I love meat and clean spaces so it resonates with me when you say you were called. I've always felt I'm a homemaker but my friends are the opp so I always feel like I'm extra or I'm doing the most. Thank you for letting me know it's actually a thing 😌
Brian & Risper, you're wise. I appreciate the fact that you're real and true. Thank you for powerful kinda testimony & insights. I disagree on one thing however true it may sound but it's not advisable, "Living together before marriage". You can know someone without necessarily living together. Enjoying marriage benefits before marriage is not right. It's a short cut. It's out of order. It's a fail of test of time. Rlnship, engagement, courtship then marriage.
Hii concept yenu ya marriage aaah, roles za nyumba are split unless mmoja wetu hana job so they hold down the house, wanawake huchoka pia, hapo kwa friends I agree kidogo. But as you said this can't work for everybody
Hapo kwa 50/50 i agree , am dating right now and i feel like the girl is the right for me she makes effort to support her career and helps me when my project are stagnating, the issue is we are both too young am 24 she is 22 is it healthy for us to be in a such situation ?
I luv u guys, have learnt alot from you, may God bless you marriage, Risper why cant you change your name to "Brisper" like adding half of Brians' first 3 letters to mix it with your name. It becomes " Brisper" please think about it☺
So my question is that do you guys pray together at home? Go to church on sundays ? Thanks 😊 your marriage is an inspiration to us who are on the way of getting married soon,
Put God first not tips and the rest will fall in place. The first tip you have was monies, how many couple with lots of money but not happy or they divorced? God should be your number 1.
Faith who hurt you, they said it's their marriage, now go make a video and give us yr tips. This is a lovely couple, stop hating clearly yr projecting heal Mama
Ask her if that marriage will work if u go broke and homeless! Till she answers that man ur love is purely standing cause u are rich! If u doubting watch ur first videos !
