Being a teen girl I totally understand the faults at our end... And want to tell you people that yes we are standing for modesty and against so called feminism disease that is unfortunately widely spread in our culture as well... Just a little support from our side can make really easy for the other side to have self control... We will be standing and will train the coming generation to hold on inshaAllah... Even I would love to be at the front row protecting our deen and modesty.
--- TIMESTAMPS --- 00:00 - Is Watching Pornography a Major Sin? 01:28 - Hopelessness 04:02 - Productivity and Feedbacks 06:02 - Overcoming Pornography Addiction 07:55 - Channelizing The Energies 09:27 - Let's Talk About Triggers 11:34 - Boredom and Loneliness 14:07 - Environment 14:51 - Contrarian Nature 16:40 - Audio and Visual Cues 18:08 - Don't Let Go Of the Guilt 21:11 - Lowering the Gaze 24:15 - Gist of Two Solutions Discussed 27:16 - Bad Companies 30:14 - Recovery Story of a Sex-Addict 32:23 - Getting Help From Others 34:42 - Accountability Partner 36:34 - Save Your Today 36:55 - Allah Can Expose You Anytime 39:09 - Sane Mind and Building Confidence 40:52 - Self-Realization 42:29 - Knowing the Traps of Shaitan 44:01 - What If You Die While Watching Porn? 46:04 - Go Against The Flow 47:30 - Lust and Love 48:47 - So Called "New Researches" 54:29 - Taming the Desires 56:13 - Advise to Married Women 57:46 - Advise to Married Men 59:10 - Diet and Exercises 59:59 - Sincere Tauba and Du'as 1:04:00 - Last Words 📌Please pin this comment! Jazakumullah Khaira
These people really know the serious problems affecting our society badly. They are focusing more and more towards the solution to these problems. May Allah be happy with them!!
Duaa at 1:01:13 يَا حَيُّ يَا قَيُّوْمُ بِرَحْمَتِكَ أَسْتَغِيْثُ ، أَصْلِحْ لِي شَأْنِي كُلَّهُ ، وَلا تَكِلْنِي إِلَى نَفْسِي طَرْفَةَ عَيْنٍ. Yaa Hayyu Yaa Qayyoom bi Rahmatika astagheeth Aslih lee sha’nee kullahu wa laa takilni ilaa nafsi tarfata ‘aynin. O Ever Living One, O Self-Sustaining One, by You Mercy do I ask for your support in setting all my affairs right. Do not leave me to my soul for so much as a the blink of an eye Duaa At 1:01:27 اللَّهُمَ حَبَّبْ إِلَيْنَا الْإِيمَانَ وَزَيِّنْهُ فِي قُلُوبِنَا، وَكَرِّهْ إِلَيْنَا الْكُفْرَ وَالْفُسُوقَ وَالْعِصْيَانَ، وَاجْعَلْنَا مِنَ الرَّاشِدِينَ Allahumma habbib ilayna al-imaan wa zayyinhu fee quloobina, wa karrih ilayna al kufr wa al-fusooq wa al-esyaaan, wajalna min al rashideen. O Allah make our faith beloved to us and beautify it in our hearts and make hateful to us disbelief, wickedness and disobedience. And make us of the rightly guided.
One of the duas I ask for is: "اللهم اني اعوذ بك من شر نفسي" Allahumma inni auzobika min sharri nafsi Translation: "اے اللہ میں اپنے نفس کے شر سے تیری پناہ مانگتا ہوں۔" "O Allah, I seek refuge in You from the evil of my Nafs"
“YOU ARE WHAT YOU CONSUME.” That can be food, i.e. your diet, the content you follow on social media, the things you watch and the company you are in. All have prominent effects on you.
Jazakumullah khair ✨ One of the tip for resensitization is that you make promise to Allah for shorter period of time like 6 hours or 3 hours depending upon your addiction that I am not gonna watch that thing for that time period and when period is going to over watch Islamic stuff and again make promise for another time period. This will In Sha Allah help in overcoming that addiction ✨
Youth Club is presenting real Deen, you guys are fantastic. Jese Dr. Israr sb ne Farmaya tha k Parhy likhay aur Ameer Gharano k bchay deen ka kam kren, ap woi log hen. Jazak ALLAH
I really have no words. MashaAllah, JazakAllah for this amazing discussion. Being a woman I can also relate to this issue as I have also struggled with this in my teens. It takes a part if you away and some parts of and leaves you broken. Even after so many years the images haunt me even though I was Alhumdulillah not an addict. I can’t imagine the struggles an addict goes through 😔
@Witty Witty you are right but the point is one should fulfill his sexual desires from his or her spouse not with anyone he finds..Islam understands desires more than anyone..it doesn't kill your desire rather it discipline ur desires. We must need to differentiate between halal and haram.
00:00 - Is Watching Pornography a Major Sin? 01:28 - Hopelessness 04:02 - Productivity and Feedbacks 06:02 - Overcoming Pornography Addiction 07:55 - Channelizing The Energies 09:27 - Let's Talk About Triggers 11:34 - Boredom and Loneliness 14:07 - Environment 14:51 - Contrarian Nature 16:40 - Audio and Visual Cues 18:08 - Don't Let Go Of the Guilt 21:11 - Lowering the Gaze 24:15 - Gist of Two Solutions Discussed 27:16 - Bad Companies 30:14 - Recovery Story of a Sex-Addict 32:23 - Getting Help From Others 34:42 - Accountability Partner 36:34 - Save Your Today 36:55 - Allah Can Expose You Anytime 39:09 - Sane Mind and Building Confidence 40:52 - Self-Realization 42:29 - Knowing the Traps of Shaitan 44:01 - What If You Die While Watching Porn? 46:04 - Go Against The Flow 47:30 - Lust and Love 48:47 - So Called "New Researches" 54:29 - Taming the Desires 56:13 - Advise to Married Women 57:46 - Advise to Married Men 59:10 - Diet and Exercises 59:59 - Sincere Tauba and Du'as 1:04:00 - Last Words
Songs, movies, late marriage, stress, less active friend circle, boredroom, abusive(narcissistic) father, bad relationship between parents are some of the basic causes of falling into this addictive sin.
Best Session ever.. ❣️ YC members ko daikh k lgta ha k wakai ye bt sach ha. K "Ulama Nabion k Deen k waris hain". Allah tala ap k ilam mn or barkat dain, achy log shamil hoty Jain or karvan bnta jaye. JazakAllah hu khairan kasira.
Yet the most effective tadbeer that helped me getting control of my nafs was fasting, & it is also stated in a hadith that wo log ( especially youngsters) jo nikah nai krskte, they should prefer fasting on a continuous basis. Believe me its not that hard to fast as we think, its the month of july here in karachi and the temperature is hitting 33° to 36° & might increase with time but though ive started fasting its like being habitual of a particular thing, jab roza rakhne ki adat hojati hai then you automatically start to feel good while in the state of fasting, and in addition to that it boost your spirituality plus your connection with ALLAH swt increases and worship becomes a matter or peace and enjoyment for soul. MAY ALLAH SWT PROTECT AND GUIDE US ALL. The most effective things that in my perpective are necessary in todays era for a person to get protected from sinful acts are: 1: A person should have a company of a shaykh a murabbi that has the ijazat from any one from four orders of tasawwuf or all. 2: Fasting.
what i like about youth club is they talk about bad addictions in details and this is what brings us more closer to ALLAH SWT i wish i could start doing dawah too and soon ameen
if you feel guilt in ur heart after you have sinned or done something wrong be grateful, it's the almighty way of telling to u to repent and do good he's offering u way after u have gone what he has prescribed . that's his mercy
Mohammed Ali bhai 😍 U point out the trigger ,the first one is really really connect with youth bcz Koi bhi ldka/ldki Kisi bhi tarah se mayoosh hote hai (Parents se dant sunna, Koi game me beat ho jana , padhai me mann na lgna ,Exam acha na jana , Brk-up hona Etc) Saitaan Unko/humko part time pleasure ki aur le jana chahta hai Aur iss time Mostly youth iss trap me fas hi jate hai 😔😔😔 May ALLAH SWT PROTECT US FORM EVER MAJOR OR MINOR SINS 😍
Narrated Abu Huraira: I heard Allah’s Apostle saying, Allah divided Mercy into one hundred parts. He kept ninety nine parts with Him and sent down one part to the earth, and because of that, its one single part, His Creations are merciful to each other, so that even the mare lifts up its hoofs away from its baby animal, lest it should trample on it. Sahi Bukhari, hadis No (6000)
21 Tips To Help Erase Sins - Prophet Muhammed SAW 1) Repenting 2) Performing Prayer 3) Performing Wudhu (ablution) 4) Attending the Jumu'ah Salah (Friday Prayer) 5) Waiting for Prayer 6) Doing good deeds 7) Performing Umrah and Hajj 8) Saying ‘Ameen’ after the Imam 9) Calling out Adhaan 10) Walking to the Prayer Place 11) Giving charity 12) Asking forgiveness from others on wronging them 13) Reciting Salawaat (Blessings) on Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.S) 14) Being kind to animals 15) Praising Allah after Eating Food 16) Removing Obstacles from the Road or Way 17) Hide Other’s faults and sins 18) Observing Patience during Hard Times 19) Making some dhikr 20) Saying ‘Subhan-Allah’ 100 times 21) The best duaa for seeking forgiveness is to say : اَللّٰهُمَّ اَنْتَ رَبِّيْ ، لَا اِلٰهَ اِلَّا اَنْتَ خَلَقْتَنِيْ وَاَنَا عَبْدُكَ ، وَاَنَا عَلَی عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ اَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ ، اَبُوْءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ ، وَ اَبُوْءُ بِذَنْبِي ، فَاغْفِرْ لِيْ ، فَاِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوْبَ اِلَّا اَنْتَ. “Allahuma Anta Rabbi, la ilaha illa Anta, khalaqtani wa ana ‘abduka, wa ana ‘ala ‘ahdika wa wa'dika mastata'tu, a'udhu bika min sharri ma sana'tu, abu'u laka bini'matika ‘alayya, wa abu'u laka bidhanbi faghfir li, fa innahu la yaghfirudh-dhunuba illa Anta.” (O Allah! You are my Lord. There is no god except You. You have created me, I am Your slave, I hold to Your Covenant as far as I can. I seek refuge in You from the evil of what I have done. I acknowledge the favours that You have bestowed upon me and I confess my sins. Pardon me, for none but You has the power to pardon).
#1Jab koi najas khiyal ai to vuzu karain #2Jab koi ghalat kaam krnay ka Dil karay to uth kr do rakat nafal parhain because namaz behayai say rokty hay..... #Be busy because khaaly dimagh shaitan ka Ghar hota hay or bekaary main ishq Bazi yad aa jaty hay #4 Develop healthy hobbies like writing diary and planting, means anything that improves mood #5 Have control on sleep, and hunger .
Don’t waste your valuable time with people who have nothing but negativity in them. They criticise everything and everyone in the most damaging ways. Unless you know you can help them, choose to stay away from such toxic people. Do it for your well-being.
Just started listening.. u people r guiding teenage ..plz keep putting more efforts in it Pray for all of us 🙏 mashaaAllah JzakAllah Never stop such sessions it dire need of time
Mai dr hoon. aor mai 27 years old hon... mai nyy Allah k fazal syy control kiaa hua hyy jis din mjhy esa lagtaa hyy k mujh syy ajj control nahii hogaa us din sham ko gym jaa k apnyy apko etnaa thakaa detaa hoon k raat ko energyy hi nahii rehtii
sir please we need a full lecture on 'Jihad', being an Indian, or a muslim of any country today the word Jihad is mostly misunderstood and especially misused by the non muslims to defame us, please enlighten us with some hard facts and example like you guys always do on this matter, JazakAllah!
For understanding jihad listen khadim Hussain rizvi and Ahmed musa jibril on internet I team RU-vid,these youth club is not worthy of telling the truth ,the are cowardice
Hats of to you guys mashaallah you all help today's teens to follow our deen in an easy manner May Allah SWT make us firm on deen and make all of us successful in both this world and HEREAFTER Ameen❤🤲🥺
Assalam walaikum to the whole team.. Jazak Allah for this podcast.. i dont have words to thank u all because i can only say that Allah haa sent u all to save us from these fitnahs you all are and the whole team are the real life evengers for today’s generation and youth thanks a lot… Allah aap sabko slamat rakhe aur hume ap sabse. Jode rakhe ameen summa ameen
I am very glad to see it that youth club are excellently hard working for our Young generation to show us right path from Allah subhan o tallah ..❤️ 🥰 keep it up Ali Bhai..Allah apko jazae kher de ..
Ma sha Allah Hazrat Yousaf ki example bi detail say discuss Hoti to Acha tha. Aaj kal har tarf but sari zulekha hain hammin hi syedna Yousaf ki Tarah banana ho ga
Assalamu Alaikum. I watch your video regularly. You people are doing an excellent job. It's Really helping me, Now I try to pray not in rush. Take my Greetings from Bangladesh.
MashAllah, I'm half way this podcast right now and MashAllah my brothers have given a really good analysis/solutions on this issue. May Allah guide and protect us from this and every Fitnah and bless youth club members who are spreading solutions and positivity through deen. JazakAllah.
Masha Allah, brother, spoken from the heart. Aisa kyu lagra hai k aap yeh Kisi Apne k liye dekhre hain? Aur phir unko Whatsapp bhi kia hai k dekhain? Might be wrong tho. Jazak Allah
Commendable Please start a parents club as well Because parent doesn't understand their child or even doesn't support their child Child suffers a lot due to uneducated parents and lenient parents..
Ali Bhai, Mugheera Bhai, Hammas Bhai and everyone that contributed to this video's highly appreciated and I pray that ALLAH accept these highly helpful efforts of yours and provide you all with an unimaginable Arj for it (In Dunya and the Hereafter, i.e., Jannah). Ameen. Jazak Allah u Khairan!
It's soo sad that people are okay with having a gf/bf at a young age when they are just a college going student but feel shame to get nikah done when they are 20-23 . Our society has made nikah extremely difficult. It is has become soo difficult to protect one's chastity until marriage. The age of doing nikah is increasing day by day.Nikah was supposed to protect our chastity and help us protect our gaze and build a better future, but sadly it has been reduced to mere formality.
Mera personal advice hai ke namaz ki pabandi karein bahut sakhti se pabandi karein Allah bhi 21 para me farmaye ke beshak namaz behayi Or buri chizo se rokti hai.
●10 Tips mentioned by a recovered person in this video : 1. Get help from others 2. Tell your progress to a person looking after you daily. Actually give that person a report 3. Dont think about the future. Just be in the present. ( Dont think you will actually fail again ). 4. Exercise coz it gives self control and boosts self control 5. Diet Helps ( Fasting ) Avoid Junk Food 6. Sincere Touba Crying your heart out in front of Al Jabbar 7. Duas already in the comments section 8. Web filters 9. Smartphone avoid before bed doin wuzu before bed 10. Stop Chatting with opposite gender **Happy Recovery Journey**🎉
A most important topic which relavant to our today society issues , your explanation have given a good way out from this lustful desiers o Allah give us hidayah 😭😭😭
Assalamu alaikum...very thankful of your team...u guys r doing great work...May Allah swt bless you all immensely.... especially Muhammad Ali bhai ...gr8 fan of urs 😍
MaashAllah MaashAllah MaashAllah MaashAllah MaashAllah MaashAllah MaashAllah 🥰 ♥️ Very Very important and useful information 👍 👌 JazakAllah khaira my Deeni Brothers
Beautiful program, v informative and helpful, JazakAllah khair Just to add, one major factor for controlling lust and desires in this era, is to promote early marriages, making the process of marriage easy and affordable, allowing and encouraging multiple marriages, Insha Allah if we work upon these aspects of ijtimaai Deen, Allah will be with us and v can overcome this fitna Insha Allah May Allah guide me too......
I have no problem if my husband goes for multiple marriages, so is the case with my sons, as I being an individual should sacrifice my comfort to facilitate the women of Muslim ummah.... Alhamdulillah.....
May ALLAH bless you Ali Bhai, when you talked about emotional reasons & anger or fight etc. could be one of the reasons - you surely spoke the truth. Shaytan awaits our weak moments where it can misguide us & emotional trauma, that too from our loved ones could be a key moment where Shaytan could take over and push you off the edge.
JazakAllah Allah ap sab ki mehnat ko qabool kry is fitny k door mn b ap log youth ki Muslims non Muslims ki help kr rahy ho to prevent them from jahanum and to love Allah and Islam
MashaALLAH MashaALLAH Well Done Brothers Well Done. May ALLAH Bless your word your life and your hearafter and of your parents . MashaALLAH you guys are doing the real Job . This is what Deen is all About This is how Ulema Groom a nation. MashaALLAH Subhan ALLAH . Love , Support , Dua , And Whole heartedness From My side. JAZAKALLAH HU KHAIRAN
I am a psychologist and Homoepathic physician practicing since 22 yrs. So Homoeopathy has a lot more to do with sexual disorders, becoz we treat the patient not the disease, The Hompath who use mind method to treat they have made the life of people like a heaven. So currently Homoeopathy is the best option to heal yourself. It has no side effects. Becoz patient is patient, he can't control his desires so has become a patient. Just counselling is not sufficient made is the need. The blockages u have that too are removed with constitutional remedies. So definitely try homoeopathy. Insha Allah. Best ever results you can have.
I am not coming from my main account because of regret and guilt that has overwhelmed me. I hope Allah(SWT) will forgive me. Make me a better person. Thank you Ali Bhai and Team for opening my eyes. I was too blind to notice what I have been doing to myself.
Thanks Ali bhai for guiding me to the right path and for increasing my self confidence. In sha Allah one day I'll be the da'i . May Allah the Almighty bless all the members of YC with great rewards in this world and hereafter.(ameen).
