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To Cook or Not to Cook for Your Husband? 

Gabriel Al Romaani
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Are wives responsible for housework?
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The Prophet (ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wasallam) said:
“Each of you is responsible and will be asked about his responsibility…The man is responsible for [maintaining] his household and the woman is responsible for [the upkeep of] the house and children of her husband.” (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī, 5200)
Imām al-Khaṭṭābī explains:
“As for a man’s responsibility over his family, it [means] supervising them, managing their affair and fulfilling their right of maintenance and [good] companionship. As for the woman’s responsibility over the house of her husband, it [means] good management in the upkeep of his house and minding those under her care like [his] dependents, guests and servants.” (A‘lām al-Ḥadīth, 1:580)[1]
It is reported that the Prophet (ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wasallam) determined that Fāṭimah (raḍiyallāhu ‘anhā), his daughter, is responsible for the work inside the house, while Alī (raḍiyallāhu ‘anhu), her husband, is responsible for the work outside the house. (Muṣannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah, 29677)[2]
‘Ᾱbid al-Sindī explains that work “outside the house” refers to things like “collecting firewood and water, and acquiring maintenance”, while work “inside the house” refers to activities like “grinding, baking and kneading”. (Ṭawāli‘ al-Anwār, 6:410)[3]
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@alromaani
@alromaani 3 года назад
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@arifsyed9688
@arifsyed9688 3 года назад
I want to talk to you.
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад
@@arifsyed9688 The 4 mathhabs many (Batini Sufi) imams use to push bid'a, they themselves said refer our statements to Quran and Sunnah! ! Clear Sunni unity over blind bida'a division to beat liberalism on inside and colonies on the other side. 1) Abu Hanifah : "It is prohibited (23) for someone who does not know my evidence to give verdicts (24) on the basis of my words." 2) Imam Malik : look into my opinions: all that agrees with the Book & Sunna, accept it; and all that does not agree with the Book and the Sunnah, ignore it." 3) Imam Shafi : "Muslims are unanimously agreed if a sunna is made clear to someone, it is not permitted (33) for him to leave it for the saying of anyone." 4) Imam Ahmad : "The opinion of Awzaa'i, Maalik, of Abu Haneefah: all of it is equal in my eyes. However, the proof is in the narrations (in the sunnah)." This is from the beautiful work of Sheikh Albani's Prophet prayer... *When we say Muhammadur Rasulalah it means our isnad ends with Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him whenever able!* The best interpretors of the Quran and Sunnah are the Sahabas, see Quran 9 :100!
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад
encourage Sound Aqida Manhaj. Do you know Salafi Manhaj? Allah ties Tawhid to safety in Q 24 :55. lands where nisa are oppressed tend to be grave worship colonized lands due to sufi bida leads to feminism. We as an ummah need to return to Sunnah & teach it!
@beautylover786
@beautylover786 2 года назад
Subtitles please?
@arifsyed9688
@arifsyed9688 2 года назад
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 As salaam alaikum, Alhamdulillah l know whatever you have written. How about talking to you? Since l am an old man it's very difficult to write. Though I am not Shia but your targeting them is not correct. Syed Arif, Madinah.
@stevves4647
@stevves4647 3 года назад
The best kids I know are the ones who had the best mothers who actually took time and invested time, love and effort into their children
@blackflagarmy5010
@blackflagarmy5010 3 года назад
This why the west is so badly trying to corrupt the women in Afghanistan and get them out their homes to chase a career. They know that the Afghan women are raising well grounded men that will protect their honour dignity and won't give up their land to anyone period! 'If you won't to destroy a nation destroy it's women'
@tiac3589
@tiac3589 3 года назад
And those mothers is supported by their husbands. When husbands do not support then the wife will support them self.
@piqueny8872
@piqueny8872 3 года назад
There’s also a negative side to moms babying the kids My brothers grown married man he married an Caucasian “of Faith” Women He has violent tantrums when food is not on the table He grew up chauvinist never learned to cook bcuz mommy always feed him his meals His wife grew up with both parents equally sharing kitchen chores especially cooking She has not been taught or brought up to be in the kitchen 24/7 So now he demand his Elderly poor health mom still feed him when his wife is not able to
@trying3650
@trying3650 3 года назад
@@piqueny8872 thats not the case, its depend on the mother. Thats why feed baby only is not a things. Marry women that 1. Intelegent if not, 2. Rich if not, 3. Atleast understand read Qur'an and Math if not, 4. Beautiful and teach him.
@stevves4647
@stevves4647 3 года назад
@@ibrahimbaghdadi2187 no I didn't
@masbel7709
@masbel7709 3 года назад
I really love to cook for my husband Alhamdullilah. Sometimes he cook and we cook also together.
@Anon-uv9mj
@Anon-uv9mj 3 года назад
May Allah unite you both in the highest rank of Jannah and your kids with you too
@muneebibnimtiaz9879
@muneebibnimtiaz9879 3 года назад
Asslamoaliakoam warahmatulah he barakatuhu sister dont write these comments here people do hasad
@sekinaansari
@sekinaansari 3 года назад
Masha Allah ❣
@esthellakomerl8084
@esthellakomerl8084 2 года назад
Same here. But I don't love to cook. Sometimes, I have to.
@JahannamHellfire
@JahannamHellfire 2 года назад
Jabir reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: I have done this and this. Satan says: You have done nothing. Another one says: I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife. Satan embraces him and he says: You have done well.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2813 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim
@fatimajaan9815
@fatimajaan9815 3 года назад
I would love to cook for my future husband
@fatimajaan9815
@fatimajaan9815 3 года назад
@@werenotfriends6243 in shaa' Allah
@shafiullahnoory2268
@shafiullahnoory2268 3 года назад
Jazakomollah khair
@fatimajaan9815
@fatimajaan9815 3 года назад
@@kabulibnafghanistanalkhura7794 hahaha it's okay that's fine
@Donotcare6
@Donotcare6 2 года назад
Inshaa'Allah
@aninfinitelyvixxedvip6
@aninfinitelyvixxedvip6 3 года назад
I live with my sisters, we are not married. But I am the one working as the oldest sister. My sisters take care of my food, as I work as a midwife in a hospital, I do irregular shifts. Now if my sister said i cannot make you food, I would realluy be hurt, because I go out and make money to keep our house and bring food to the table. People need to focus what is important and let go of the useless stuff.
@user-zc3tn2we1g
@user-zc3tn2we1g 3 года назад
May Allah make it easy for you my dear sis amen
@DEEJAYNH10
@DEEJAYNH10 2 года назад
my questin and concern would be not are you obliged to cook , but rather if I have a husband that demands not food to fill his stomach but pick and choose on menus that sometimes take so much time and effort and you have to take care of the kid . Those cases, am I obliged to cook for what he asks for ,because let's not forget a man's shift ends when he gets home,whereas a woman it starts at the time before the husband wakes up to after the husband goes to sleep . It should be taken in to the consideration that it's tiring for her to , so I can cook you what you want but somedays you wont get to choose what meal I'm going to cook , just like I wouldn't be obliging you to buy me something when I know you are tight on budget nor am i going to tel you get a job in this company and not in that company cuz it's presentable in front of ppl or something .
@DEEJAYNH10
@DEEJAYNH10 2 года назад
@King Sultan Thank you for the perspective , Mash'Allah
@FlammablePunch
@FlammablePunch 2 года назад
The vid isn't about that
@Water321g
@Water321g 3 года назад
Salam alaykum brother, cooking is so important, to keep a household happy.and stonge and it's convenient for the woman to cook as she is at home most of the time. some men do like to help some of the time. but it shouldn't be left to there husbands unless he wants too. my x husband loved to cook Italians it's part of their culture. so I had the best of both worlds, and he didn't make me go out and work Alamdulillah. my marriage broke down, because he didn't want to practice the deen. although he did become Muslim. it's a shame! life goes on. Alhamdulillah
@hannaha7304
@hannaha7304 3 года назад
Sister, pls say the dua umm salama said when she lost her husband, then went on to marry our beloved prophet (peace). Im sure, without no doubt, Allah will give u better. I am a witness to that!
@Water321g
@Water321g 3 года назад
@@idrisaabdillahibpxkijykbs4162 sorry your wrong, he didn't want to divorce me even when I tried for 4 years practicing the deen I struggled so much , then he said he wanted a to get a mediatior, wich shocked me. then I realised he wasn't happy with me practicing the deen. the I left my house with my 2 small children know where to go but to set in a homeless office, cry making Du'a begging Allah to help me, and by Allah I was found a temporary place for my children and I. I loved him I didn't know this was going to happen to me.
@Water321g
@Water321g 3 года назад
@@hannaha7304 jazakkum Allah kharian sis , I'm doing that, but it's taken me 12 year to start make the right Du'a. ❤
@hannaha7304
@hannaha7304 3 года назад
@@Water321g when Allah wants to give u something, He will inspire you to start making dua. Sister, pls avoid talking about your story online, as people will judge you without knowing what really happened
@Water321g
@Water321g 3 года назад
@@hannaha7304 jazakkum Allah kharian, sis I place my trust in Allah subhana-wa ta Allah, and I only speak the truth so I like to show people it's not what they seem to think all to the time. walakum Salam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
@DefrimIsai
@DefrimIsai 3 года назад
TODAYS LESSON : WHAT YOU WOULD DO FOR YOURSELF YOU SHOULD DO FOR YOUR SPOUSE.
@bintbint1316
@bintbint1316 3 года назад
Exactly. End of argument👏
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад
even though they maybe different things as well...
@nabilataha2913
@nabilataha2913 2 года назад
Perfect commemt
@blue.orangeade
@blue.orangeade 2 года назад
LOVE your pfp. very creative.
@esthellakomerl8084
@esthellakomerl8084 2 года назад
Very good point.
@satti80
@satti80 2 года назад
Women want to cook for their husbands, their children and those they love and care about. It’s in their nature to be nurturing. When she’s calm and at peace that what she wants to do. If a man protects his wife, make her feel safe and go out to work and bring the essentials, she will want to nurture him.
@satti80
@satti80 2 года назад
@Alessandro F. you don’t know women.
@sole008
@sole008 Год назад
@alessandrof.6546 and all men dont want to work yet they do because it is their duty, so is the duty of the woman to take care of her man and house. please their is a great reward in serving your husband, you will be granted jannah with that alone
@satti80
@satti80 Год назад
@Alessandro F. well unless a woman is toxic and ill mannered this is what she wants to do in her heart and soul. Women are nurturers by nature. Men are hunters and workers.
@satti80
@satti80 Год назад
@Alessandro F. some people like goodness some people like evil. Yes people are different. Are you a man?
@satti80
@satti80 Год назад
@Alessandro F. if you are a man why are you so upset by this? Females are females, some are good women, some are toxic manipulative and disrespectful. Choose your wife with attention to detail and clarity of mind.
@Ricestlover
@Ricestlover 2 года назад
Dear sisters, cook for your husband and feed him with love and care. Give him a hug when he’s back from work, join him in shower 🥺🥺 cook with him, go fish together, walk together, cuddle, and put your head on his chest as if he’s your everything and he will hug you too. Share your concerns and your thoughts. If you are getting hurt or you don’t like something while being intimate then tell him. Tell him things that you love in bed. We men aren’t loved unconditionally so when we see our wives loves us from her heart it will make us feel the luckiest wallah. When we see she wants to be happy in bed it makes us happy and reminds us men that I have to be expert. These are the things I would say to any sisters
@esthellakomerl8084
@esthellakomerl8084 2 года назад
Just going through the challenges of looking for a potential spouse for my daughter.. And I'm telling you sisters, if u are married and have a good husband, who goes out and takes care of your main bills, food and shelter - then you are a very, very lucky lady. Take care of your husband's needs - so cook for him most of the time (if not always). 😊 But if you are a working woman, then your husband can give you breaks from the kitchen cos you're tired from work as well. ❤️
@magly8040
@magly8040 3 года назад
…. Do not forget to boycott Indian and Chinese goods, my dear ones, for the sake of God, to support our vulnerable brothers in India and the Uyghurs.....
@bintbint1316
@bintbint1316 3 года назад
Why India?
@hardcoreholly1161
@hardcoreholly1161 3 года назад
@@bintbint1316 Hindoodoo tax
@majestic6303
@majestic6303 3 года назад
@@bintbint1316 ….what they are doing to Kashmiri people
@bintbint1316
@bintbint1316 3 года назад
@@hardcoreholly1161 didnt muslims specifically tax the non muslims in the past too?
@hardcoreholly1161
@hardcoreholly1161 3 года назад
@@bintbint1316 Jizya is less than 2.5% whereas Western countries tax 1/3 of people’s income. I know which one is better
@absbi0000
@absbi0000 3 года назад
MashaAllah, well addressed.
@amirakazi2366
@amirakazi2366 2 года назад
The most Shocking experience for me is UK's Muslims culture. Jummah is weekly Eid and there is no food in their homes, brothers attend Jumaah and straight away enter restaurants. During Ramadan there is no food for Suhoor/iftaar, we have just two major celebrations that is Eidain, our Sisters are busy in marketing and applying Heenah. And on the day of Eid, there is no Eid breakfast, in the evening there is massive crowd at restaurants. If we follow West then they have lavish Christmas Dinner, I grew up watching their Table spread 🦃, Christmas log, pudding etc. What are the duties of Wife? Serving In laws is not Fard upon us, cooking is not fard upon us.
@tokasab8684
@tokasab8684 3 года назад
1:00 وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا We be ma enveqou
@faijano
@faijano 2 года назад
I cook three times a day with no complain.
@aliadnanchowdhury
@aliadnanchowdhury Год назад
It's common sense. Husbands are obligated to provide for the wives, they have to work outside. If wives are not obligated to cook or take care of the house then what good is having a wife for? What's her obligations towards the husband?
@calonstanni
@calonstanni 3 года назад
Cooking, cleaning, yard-work, outside jobs, ...why do people always divide it up between women's work and men's work? It's all work and any of us can do any of it. I cooked, my man mowed the lawn, etc. It's not rocket science. I'm a MUCH better mechanic than he'd ever be so I worked on our motorcycles. He fixed electronical stuff around the house. I never was forced to wear a burqa though. That would have crippled me and I couldn't have learned or performed the skills that I have.
@Mark-go7qm
@Mark-go7qm 3 года назад
Why would your have to force you to wear burqa ? Is not mandatory ?
@OnePunchMuslim
@OnePunchMuslim 3 года назад
Yes all these things are work. But not all work is equal. Cooking and cleaning is generally better suited for women. Physical work, manual labour etc is generally better suited to the men. You may be a better mechanic than your husband but the majority of mechanics are men, not women. Men are simply better equipped for these kinds of physical things. Your exceptions don't make the rule. There's some work that men in general are better equipped for and there is other work that women in general are better equipped for. Physically and mentally. And this is why we divide certain work between the genders.
@BlackJack-lg3vx
@BlackJack-lg3vx 3 года назад
So materialistic .
@shafiullahnoory2268
@shafiullahnoory2268 3 года назад
@@Mark-go7qm It is mandatory.
@Mark-go7qm
@Mark-go7qm 3 года назад
@@shafiullahnoory2268 they are making it like they are doing it for men
@Jorjina.hayatt
@Jorjina.hayatt 3 года назад
Exactly, most of the women I know love to cook even if they are professionals or have careers, they cook regularly and feed their families, I dont know which muslim women this video relates to they must be a minority that I have never come across having travelled most of the muslim world, this is not an issue in majority of the Muslim nations. We have the most manly and confident chivalrous men in our family, providers protectors and warriors, and they love to help the women in household work cooking cleaning and washing. Only narcissistic men, emotionally bruised and arrogant men don't like to help women in the house, and some of them mis-use religion to justify their dominance and aggression over women.
@zaraahmedov3456
@zaraahmedov3456 2 года назад
Agree..have yet to meet that woman who does not cook for her family..
@SDSen
@SDSen 3 года назад
Oh man, just get on with it, arrange your family dynamic how it best suits you
@hellocello4931
@hellocello4931 3 года назад
Frr 😭 they’re all tryna force one specific way of living your life that we all have to follow. Women and men do what you find works for your marriage!
@SDSen
@SDSen 3 года назад
@@hellocello4931 simple as that, just live life
@aqanni
@aqanni 3 года назад
@@SDSen according to what? How u see fit? Then we should all be making own standards!
@SDSen
@SDSen 3 года назад
@@aqanniI mean just get on with it these are trivial things generations after generations sailed through this like it was nothing and got productive with more pertinent things
@hermano6793
@hermano6793 3 года назад
@@SDSen You refuted yourself because previous generations never had these new wave ideologies to deal with
@chamanara8743
@chamanara8743 4 месяца назад
Aslamoalikum I am not against cooking for my husband. But in case of cooking being a legal islamic responsibility or not that is not as simple as the brother described. The obeying of parents can not overlap the rights of children. A few Rights of children in example: right of marriage by choice, right over personal income, right of not being verbally abused, right of boy going out of the house after adulthood. Parents are to obeyed within their circle of rights Similar rights of wife include: Providing food to her, Giving her separate accommodation, Treatment of kindness and respect, dealing with her according to her status, protecting her emotionally and mentally physically. So the cooking of food is the issue of dispute among scholars. And Hanfis don’t consider cooking as the duty of wife bcs provided with food is her right and not her duty to provide food.
@MuhammadFaisal-np7tc
@MuhammadFaisal-np7tc 4 месяца назад
We dont follow hanfi we follow quran and Prophet sunnah.And also Prophet say it is obligatory to women to obey husband.This is a general matter that you (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) have included in it that a woman will do cooking and cleaning.
@baganthekerannaghor8161
@baganthekerannaghor8161 18 дней назад
Cooking cleaning is not part of the marriage contract. Marriage is a contract right?These are the things we all men and women should do to live on this planet earth. Who is doing it is not important. Problem is when it’s being forced on women only. Women are earning for the family now a days . Giving husbands a hand in this high demanding society. Both are tired . In this situation can a husband order his wife to cook for him? Because she is the wife?Is this what Islam teaches ? As far as I understand the answer is No. they both should cook and clean together.
@2Sarah
@2Sarah 2 года назад
We live in different times, both parties will go out and work so it really is 50/50.
@squidproxy136
@squidproxy136 Год назад
That is not islamic and will not work and even so it is the wife duty to make food as it is the husband duty to provide not the wife even if she work
@MH-bf4uu
@MH-bf4uu Год назад
@@squidproxy136 wdym its not Islamic? If it's not prohibited then np
@squidproxy136
@squidproxy136 Год назад
@@MH-bf4uu it is not islamic way of life, i did not say anything about haram/halal
@squidproxy136
@squidproxy136 Год назад
@@MH-bf4uu if something not prohibited it does not automatically mean we can/should do it
@frankiecal3186
@frankiecal3186 3 года назад
Homer was never the bad guy. That was Mr.Burns and Sideshow Bob
@realhass
@realhass 3 года назад
the point he was making is “Homer” as a dad, has been portrayed as damn and stupid which can brainwash children thinking men shouldn’t lead the house.
@SunShine-iy4ik
@SunShine-iy4ik 3 года назад
What made it worse was when a number of speakers started to say that it wasn’t a daughter-in-laws duty to serve her husband’s mother. Now feminists have moved onto husbands and not long they might say why should they look after their own children
@alghurraba
@alghurraba 3 года назад
If it's your wife's duty to serve your mother, then you have to go yo your wife's mom house and cook for her everyday too.
@SunShine-iy4ik
@SunShine-iy4ik 3 года назад
Actually a lot of the Saudi scholars advise that looking after in laws is a good thing, to be encouraged and part and parcel of living kindly with one another.
@alghurraba
@alghurraba 3 года назад
@@SunShine-iy4ik exactly. So I hope you will cook for your in laws every day ☺️
@Mark-go7qm
@Mark-go7qm 3 года назад
@@alghurraba for what ? Wife is obliged to obey husband. First of all, if husband says to look after them she can't deny that. Because, that does not go against Islam !!!
@Mark-go7qm
@Mark-go7qm 3 года назад
@It doesn't Matters in what sense ? By teaching islam ?
@razinfa
@razinfa 3 года назад
Academically, girls perform better than boys (asian background-they tend to be more studious), and they eventually get better tertiary/job oppurtunity, and later earn better income. Hence inbalanced expected responsibilities in a household 🤷🏽‍♀️ How do we overcome this dillema/conflict?
@Mark-go7qm
@Mark-go7qm 3 года назад
Who says so? Are not women complaining they don't get paid as much as men ? Women do better in school. It has reason.
@fahimfuad9326
@fahimfuad9326 3 года назад
men earn more on average. I have no idea where you found those data. but yes, women do get better grades on average. but it doesn't mean they earn more
@Mark-go7qm
@Mark-go7qm 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-qloY4OJxBoQ.html
@blueflame3531
@blueflame3531 3 года назад
Men in general aren't going to university anymore. For every woman 60% will have 2 degrees while only 40% of men will have a degree. Most universities are pro socialims, feminism. Men are leaving society, this isn't much a problem in the Pakistani culture, but is happening on a much larger scale where women are out performing men. That's why in 2030 40% of women will live alone. The Hadith of more women than men is slowly revealing itself.
@md.shahadathossain8880
@md.shahadathossain8880 2 года назад
But accidentally 99% of world's most Dangerous jobs are still done by men..... Unlike female a job for men is not necessarily working on desk in an air conditioned room....and there is a gender bias in today's liberal feministic society to facilitate "women empowerment "....it's easy to say these crap while sitting comfortably on sofa....good men are working and dying to keep the world functioning and building up the civilization.....
@cfr01
@cfr01 Год назад
Husbands and wives WORK these days. Now what?
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 11 месяцев назад
Lmao he’s working .. mate he ain’t working no fields. He’s most likely sitting in an office on his bum all day, chatting with his colleagues and going out for coffee with his mates …. It’s an easier job then manually cooking and cleaning all day and doing school drop off/pick ups, Madrassa drop offs, pick ups.. grocery shopping etc etc
@Azhar_shaikh1
@Azhar_shaikh1 3 года назад
Please add subs
@tuibird7992
@tuibird7992 3 года назад
🤣
@just_janen_1196
@just_janen_1196 3 года назад
Am totally old school when it comes to marriage I'll always cook for my husband that's parts of my duty as his wife even though am so westernised, cooking for him will always be my pleasure.
@masbel7709
@masbel7709 3 года назад
I agree. Its like you write about me. Alhamdullilah sister that there are still woman like you and me. May Allah swt bless you and your husband.
@masbel7709
@masbel7709 3 года назад
@It doesn't Matters yes I am. Why?
@jadreeeioull2102
@jadreeeioull2102 Год назад
@@masbel7709 yeah you are special women we other are not sorry
@alihammad3590
@alihammad3590 Год назад
@@jadreeeioull2102 Yes! They are special because they understand the work of their husband and are grateful
@TheTruth-fully
@TheTruth-fully 2 года назад
Cooking is one of the many ways a wife can express her appreciation and love for her husband.
@TheTruth-fully
@TheTruth-fully 2 года назад
@Alessandro F. Occasionally, yes. But generally cooking is more of a feminine expression. Men can show appreciation to their wives in other ways.
@TheTruth-fully
@TheTruth-fully 2 года назад
@King Sultan Yes, I agree. A wife should be obedient to her husband. But my point is that it will be more enjoyable for a wife to look at it as a joy to please her husband rather than an obligation.
@TheTruth-fully
@TheTruth-fully 2 года назад
@King Sultan I agree.
@varietybooksalla3823
@varietybooksalla3823 Год назад
What about the ladies who can’t cook?
@TheTruth-fully
@TheTruth-fully Год назад
@@varietybooksalla3823 If she loves her man, she will learn.
@Amongus_ventred
@Amongus_ventred 3 года назад
My heart will not allow me to say to my husband, (who's out there working hard to provide for us,).. Cook yourself or serve yourself...
@Bhghih
@Bhghih 3 года назад
Brother Gabriel, in the midst of all this bad words towards you, I want to give you strength to continue your good work; I'm not that knowledgeable but who knows maybe my two cents can help somehow. Its not about knitting being feminine it's about giving good examples to the Muslim Community mainly considering these gender confusing times we live in. I also want to tell you that I'm into gymnastics rings and hiking rather than knitting! xD I see you and agree with you 100%. You are doing a great job. Don't forget to give a good example yourself. Show some manly interesting stuff and I suspect that you can win more people into the right mindset. Like arriving on a horse imponently yet humbly. It's an idea Assalamu Aleikum brother. Stay focused, you know what they will say if you don't. If you do to much force on the wall it might fall to your side instead, since they have all Western culture backing their side with them... which would be worst for the ummah and even for you. Use all the different chess pieces in the board, not just words although they are most important For the rest continue the good work brother! I pray that some better leaders will head the Muslim community
@HabrenOdinsdottir
@HabrenOdinsdottir 3 года назад
I used to be a chef. I would love a husband to cook for.
@HabrenOdinsdottir
@HabrenOdinsdottir 3 года назад
@The Alpha That's so sweet. Thank you. Nice to see you. Asalamu Alaikum.
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
@The Alpha Husband is not for coolness of eyes. That's wife's purpose. Husband is to provide security and protection in exchange for his coolness of eyes i.e. to console him. This is from Quran. Your username is Alpha. But you talk and walk like a beta. Fake Alpha, in other words.
@ryanmwanza5439
@ryanmwanza5439 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS you make no sense
@alvirarahman2690
@alvirarahman2690 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS dude, what is wrong with u? Why r u attacking people left right centre? And I have seen u do this sort of behavior before.
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
@@alvirarahman2690 Dude!! Really? Is this how you call stranger men in your country? Why are you so triggered? Did I do such behavior with you before? I don't remember. 335 subscribers with no contents in your channel. I wonder how? Instead of complaining about my behavior, refute what I said, if that's wrong.
@Anon-uv9mj
@Anon-uv9mj 3 года назад
Cooking is fun, today many people just wanna take and not give anyways
@summerflower4058
@summerflower4058 3 года назад
I don't even find men that can cook attractive lol I prefer him to think it's rocket science 😅 he can stay admiring my skills rather than dare to match my cooking ....
@Anon-uv9mj
@Anon-uv9mj 3 года назад
😂
@مدثر-م2ض
@مدثر-م2ض 3 года назад
😂😂
@aqanni
@aqanni 3 года назад
Thats how i used to act but she was better cook then me anyways 😂
@Zzucia
@Zzucia 3 года назад
Looool ukhti
@xAmiin
@xAmiin 2 года назад
Hahahahahaaaa, as a man i find this funny. Bless you sister.
@moombapoomba6036
@moombapoomba6036 2 года назад
- If a mother tells her son to cook and clean, he *MUST* obey her. -If a husband tells his wife to cook and clean, she doesn't have to obey him. Lol the double standards of women 😂 May God protect us from being dishonest people 🙏
@MH-bf4uu
@MH-bf4uu Год назад
You are a woman
@leb2455
@leb2455 Год назад
A morher must be obeyed, by daughter and son, her power can not be transmitted to the wife, don‘t get things twisted. Her cooking/cleaning is sadaqa and is voluntary, the prophet(with all his responsibilities) he still used to do housework. The only problem I See is that, people look down on housework like it is degrading, but that is untrue. Home should be pure and peaceful and both should contribute, if men want there woman to do voluntary work they have to do so too. Work is not voluntary, but a duty. It is the bare minimum and if he works a lot and sacrifices a lot of his time to earn money for his family, inshallah may Allah raise him in status and grant him jannah, but if he works maybe 8h a day Monday-Friday, and he won‘t do anything beside that, that is not advisable.
@med7789
@med7789 Год назад
The wife does not have to obey her husband in what is haram and also in what goes against her rights that Allah has given her. For in theory, Allah has given her rights and in practice, men do NOT have the right to take away the rights that Allah has given to women. For example, if the husband asks his wife to work outside the home, to have a job, the wife does NOT have to obey (she is not obliged) because this request goes against her rights (that her husband should work for her and provide for her and her right not to work if she does not feel like it) Just as the husband has no right to force his wife to work outside the home, he also has no right to force her to work inside the home through household chores because again this request goes against her rights as given by Allah. It is her husband's responsibility to provide for her and this does not only involve bringing in money but it involves providing for ALL of the woman's needs. Islamic marriage places this responsibility on the man, not the woman. Marriage does not imply that the woman works, either inside or outside the home. She may do so out of love and kindness, but she is not obliged to.
@artemis1127
@artemis1127 Год назад
@@med7789 she is obliged to give the evidence from the quran and sunnah that she is not obliged or shut up
@artemis1127
@artemis1127 Год назад
@@leb2455 bring evidence that it is not fard
@atifrehmanfarooqui1429
@atifrehmanfarooqui1429 3 года назад
If the sister has a mobile phone Facebook and whatnot how in the world do you expect her to clean the dishes and take care of the house. You need a women who loves you more than her mobile phone.
@ibnamanot
@ibnamanot 3 года назад
it’s 50/50 ibn Farooq *laughs*
@springleaves4958
@springleaves4958 3 года назад
Traditional homes where there is a traditional mother and father doing their jobs properly, will have stability for the children. Children love when the mother is at home.
@etcwhatever
@etcwhatever 3 года назад
For me it was grandma. But yes its very important to have that feminine love and dedication. My mom worked a lot and still i felt a bit sad over this. But grandma made it less harsh on me. I agree
@springleaves4958
@springleaves4958 3 года назад
@@etcwhatever yes, having one female carer in the family looking after things is good. One of my best memories is coming home after school and entering a home with the smell of dinner ready. The routine of washing, getting changed and sitting at the table for meals was just to good. Seeing both my parents play their role made it easy for me to pick a husband who was more of an leader. I love looking after the home, cooking the meals, making everything tidy and clean. I also cook extra to send round to other people. I have a stress free life, my husband focuses on what he needs to and not worry about how the home is. Honestly there is something very cosy and natural about a traditional home. We should revive it and make our families and communities strong.
@etcwhatever
@etcwhatever 3 года назад
@@springleaves4958 yes the office is very violent and many women get sick in such competitive environment.
@Marwan-fz8nx
@Marwan-fz8nx 3 года назад
@@etcwhatever Is not a natural environment.
@Marwan-fz8nx
@Marwan-fz8nx 3 года назад
@abbas abdullah Satanic system on work basically
@hanzalaomar9915
@hanzalaomar9915 3 года назад
Feminists incoming 3...2..1
@mustafakarimi9
@mustafakarimi9 3 года назад
No one takes feminist serious. Bunch of wack jobs
@_4zad
@_4zad 3 года назад
@@mustafakarimi9 true feminism is the quran
@Anon-uv9mj
@Anon-uv9mj 3 года назад
@@_4zad Astaghfirullah, do NOT say that
@_4zad
@_4zad 3 года назад
@The Alpha You misunderstand, I am saying what is in the Quran is as far as feminism should go. Like what Allah has written is what should be followed, not these new feminist beliefs that arise these days.
@_4zad
@_4zad 3 года назад
@@Anon-uv9mj You misunderstand, I am saying what is in the Quran is as far as feminism should go. Like what Allah has written is what should be followed, not these new feminist beliefs that arise these days.
@Waleed67-vp9xm
@Waleed67-vp9xm 6 месяцев назад
It's simple if you follow quran and hadith man has been told to spend money from his wealth on his wife and children there is no amount settled to how much ? But he has to spend similarly it is settled that a woman should obey her husband in all means which are not against will of Allah almighty because rights of a husband are greater than those of wife so don't follow europe and America they are destroyed nations just follow hadith and Quran simple and your life here and after both will be great
@bintbint1316
@bintbint1316 3 года назад
"Where does it say that you have to let your wife know what isnt fard on her" subhanallah some people whether men or women love leaving out information that might instead serve as a plus in their own personal gain. "The more you know" protects you and the "Less you know" protects them. Regardless, sisters/brothers be aware and knowledgable of your rights, because people love profiting off of what your bank of knowledge is deprived of. Just as how people love breadcrumming onto you what you may not have. Youre more susptable to be infatuated by what you lack yourself. If you dont fill your cup, you hand it to others for it to be filled by what THEY want to fill it with.
@bintbint1316
@bintbint1316 3 года назад
@The Alpha never denied that, or are you putting words in my mouth?
@bintbint1316
@bintbint1316 3 года назад
@The Alpha Just that as husbands, wives, men, women, the youth, the elderly and the in-between get mostly taken advantage of when they dont know their rights. Not knowing your rights serves in favor for those who want to take advantage. Perhaps you did. But its all good.
@bintbint1316
@bintbint1316 3 года назад
@The Alpha All Good. Ameen. And for you.
@jubairomar2676
@jubairomar2676 3 года назад
@@bintbint1316 "women" and "rights" I'm literally fed up hearing those two words together. It's in the newspaper, it's in the mainstream media outlets, it's on the banners, it's everywhere. When a nisa speaks, especially the western ones, all she has to say "wahmun roights and muh victeemhud". Ugh You're going to be judged based on your responsibilities and not "ROigHtSzzz". So, focus on your responsibilities.
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад
@@bintbint1316 "Regardless, sisters/brothers be aware and knowledgable of your rights, because people love profiting off of what your bank of knowledge is deprived of. Just as how people love breadcrumming onto you what you may not have. " - so true, so many weak women and men are like this. Jazak Allahu Khayr!
@esthellakomerl8084
@esthellakomerl8084 2 года назад
Why are women asking this question?? 😕 Just be civil, be reasonable. Take care of your husband, cos he takes care of you. 💖
@MH-bf4uu
@MH-bf4uu Год назад
Women are also very busy all day, with kids and cleaning
@Thepathtoguidance
@Thepathtoguidance 3 года назад
I invite everyone to get more knowledge about ISLAM🇹🇷
@Layya-m3
@Layya-m3 2 года назад
Feminism has ruined it for us whether we are single or married... Allah grant us Hidayat and ease
@iqadeer
@iqadeer 3 года назад
The trend in the west (at least US) is both parents now work. The traditional household paradigm where man works while woman takes care of children isn’t the norm any more. This is increasing every day as more women are getting college level education and joining the workforce. Please speak to that also.
@thunderbear0
@thunderbear0 2 года назад
When i was a kid back in saudi arabia in early 2005 there were many Pakistani and Indian and Bangladeshi people who worked there as engineers technicians and doctors etc I had friends there their mothers were doctors nurses and medical teachers and the law was their husbands can't do jobs so they used to drive private taxis around different cities And those poor kids used to come to school without anything to eat cuz mom and dad are at work they lived their whole life alone at homes doesn't matter they are sick they are hungry they have physical or mental problems and their akhlaq were so bad they didn't know how to speak and how to sit and how to act how to dress they knew nothing for me it was surprising honestly i felt bad for them they lived their whole childhood alone when you needed your mother more than anything, to this day when they became adults they are at different colleges and universities in their home countries away from their homes And i was really appreciative to my mom she stayed with us gave us full time taught us akhlaq and religion and morals and values raised us well she didn't left us and gave her carrier more priority than us and the best thing was she cooked delicious meal for us
@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557
@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557 3 года назад
سلام عليكم.. I can't believe This is an issue 😳 Of course its hard for women having kinds and working.. Its different individual context of course.. But my sisters friends never had this issue.. More being taken for granted and not apprisiated.. Nice Talk..
@royajahani1
@royajahani1 3 года назад
Brother Gabriel, with all due respect...this kind of topic being repeated and continously a one-sided makes one wonder exactly what kind of a message are you trying to send out to our brothers and sisters 🤔 I believe in the system of both roles being known by each spouse...however for some reason most of the people make it sound as it's only "black and white" when in reality there's a whole big grey area that no one really speaks about...may Allah guide us all. Ameeen!
@royajahani1
@royajahani1 3 года назад
@@ik5441 waalekum assalaam brother, it still baffles me that one can't make a simple comment without someone like you stating "well if you don't like what you're seeing then move along" why? Why must it always end up to that response? And if that were always the solution then WHY all the dawa and attempts to make people understand one thing or another? They could just simply move along and do their business. Look brother, just like I don't know you or anyone else here likewise you don't know me or others as well so please drop the assumption of you thinking you understood what I said and with all due respect I have a but of knowledge of the many cultures I've been either born in, raised in or introduced to that made me make such a comment on a video such as this. True, it does takes hours to talk about a certain topic but my reasoning for my comment wasn't to accuse Brother Gabriel for being one sided, however I have seen many a videos similar to this and it does send out the wrong message to either non-Muslims or others who think differently. You may say who cares about them, then again what's the point of this video if people who disagree can't even make a comment without being attacked or told to not watch the video?
@royajahani1
@royajahani1 3 года назад
@@ik5441 people like you make me wonder what kind of a sad life one must be living to respond in a passive aggressive way. I by no means said any offensive words to brother Gabriel nor you yet you go on and on about my "closed minded, hardened heart"....and so on. Ponder over your own words and actions before pointing the fingers at others...THAT'S the true meaning of humbleness, so no brother don't even try coming off as if you know what you're talking about because clearly you don't and neither did you even attempt to ask me what I meant and at that I'll say the same for you. There were alot of comments that I didn't like but I chose not to comment on them, why? Because I know my words mean nothing to them and yet you took your sweet time writing long paragraphs to insult me in the name of "explanation" haaaaa...give me a break and at that I'll say to you the same...I'm done responding to an "arrogant" person such as yourself. 👋
@royajahani1
@royajahani1 3 года назад
@@ik5441 really?? I need help? May Allah give us all sabar and guidance as I can clearly see some of us need it more than others but may he give us All guidance and forgive us for our shortcomings, ameen.
@md.shahadathossain8880
@md.shahadathossain8880 2 года назад
None of the words spoken here is wrong......and one sided......may be it contradicts with your femenistic world view....facts are facts.....don't expect everything to be sugarcoated....
@FlammablePunch
@FlammablePunch 2 года назад
He doesn't want to waste time with exceptions and knows people are smart so won't insult their intelligence
@pjq420
@pjq420 3 года назад
glad to see both of you having exchanging views. for me it's the tolerance that is important
@piqueny8872
@piqueny8872 3 года назад
Unfortunately 99% of wives are told they must work outside the home to help towards the household. So they too are working the 40+hrs a week Brother married a women made sure shes does work and earn and income full time job. She is expected to do all the cooking and other house chores she unfortunately does also have health issue Yet her husband refuses to cook at all and becomes violent if his food is not ready doesn’t accept he should help her at all He’s has grown up with Muslim mom all his life feeding him because she was a stay at home old tradition wife He’s fails to realise his wife is playing both roles so she’s needs help in the home While his mom had 1 role
@piqueny8872
@piqueny8872 3 года назад
@It doesn't Matters in the western world both genders work and do household chores But the fobs men in culture refused to help at home yet demand the wife also earns. 70% of Muslims marriages end in divorce after the 3yrs these days because of This gender role swap
@syence_nird
@syence_nird 3 года назад
Mashallah great discussion. Would love to see the entire video if someone can provide the link.
@Soyodi
@Soyodi 3 года назад
السلام عليكم brother Gabriel You should invite brother Daniel Haqiqatju
@mariyamn445
@mariyamn445 3 года назад
In Asia men only come to eat wen the woman cooks..its not a problem its our culture that ladies do house chores cooking and cleaning also looking after children..😊
@pjq420
@pjq420 3 года назад
my father cooks better than my mother.it's not overall
@Mark-go7qm
@Mark-go7qm 3 года назад
So what ? Most asian women don't work. Can't men say that women are lazy they only stay and eat the food he brings ?
@imaslowlerner
@imaslowlerner 3 года назад
Hopefully you don't get poisoned. Believe me, it happens more than you know.
@ilhamh4359
@ilhamh4359 3 года назад
😲😲😲
@Anonymityfan
@Anonymityfan 2 месяца назад
The propaganda of father's being idiots has been extremely damaging to our ways of thinking and is probably the reason why we see so much disdain for men and opposition to men being head of the household.
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 11 месяцев назад
Well it ain’t really 5050 when she’s been at home all day working on domestic duties … if there’s still dishes left that’s more work … so doing 5050 from 6pm onwards isn’t really 5050 for the whole day … a real man wouldn’t expect us wife to be working for 8am to 10pm while he thinks he can switch off at 6pm and be waited on
@MuhammedDenix
@MuhammedDenix 6 месяцев назад
Even though there is a difference of opinion on whether the Wife is supposed to do the cooking, if the Husband orders her to do that, then she must obey that order whether she is working or not. Not disputing the fact that providing for the family is the responsibility of the Husband.
@Adeel1830
@Adeel1830 2 месяца назад
Mash Allah Shaikh … you elaborate very well. May Allah give you long age and health.
@violetanyc3007
@violetanyc3007 3 года назад
To cook !!!!!
@svartvist
@svartvist 2 года назад
Any time a man spends on domestic chores subtracts from his ability to nurture children, AND review his strategies for increasing the overall prosperity of the union. Women are inherently lazy, and anywhere they find an opportunity to shuck domestic duties upon her man becomes a process of creative incompetence. Further, women today no longer have good endurance. They tire easily. My experience with nearly 50 yrs of marriage. Women today do not have anything to bring to the marriage because they do not know what their basic responsibilities are as wife and mother.
@med7789
@med7789 Год назад
The wife does not have to obey her husband in what is haram and also in what goes against her rights that Allah has given her. For in theory, Allah has given her rights and in practice, men do NOT have the right to take away the rights that Allah has given to women. For example, if the husband asks his wife to work outside the home, to have a job, the wife does NOT have to obey (she is not obliged) because this request goes against her rights (that her husband should work for her and provide for her and her right not to work if she does not feel like it) Just as the husband has no right to force his wife to work outside the home, he also has no right to force her to work inside the home through household chores because again this request goes against her rights as given by Allah. It is her husband's responsibility to provide for her and this does not only involve bringing in money but it involves providing for ALL of the woman's needs. Islamic marriage places this responsibility on the man, not the woman. Marriage does not imply that the woman works, either inside or outside the home. She may do so out of love and kindness, but she is not obliged to.
@svartvist
@svartvist Год назад
@@med7789 That's nice.
@ElizabethHurtado-py8ur
@ElizabethHurtado-py8ur Месяц назад
No money for cleaning supplies? No clean.
@liberallooney6830
@liberallooney6830 2 года назад
I am not Muslim, but I have been told when a Muslim couple go out to eat, the man always pays. It seems only fair that the wives should cook.
@Yahia08
@Yahia08 3 года назад
Ain't it this funny at first? To cook or not to cook? How perfect Islam is. Everything has been laid down for us to a good life. E-ve-ry-Thing! Do your best to follow it, but not your whims and desires.
@ElizabethHurtado-py8ur
@ElizabethHurtado-py8ur Месяц назад
No money for food? No cook.
@rab251
@rab251 3 года назад
We are living in different times,where the woman is working. The issue is both should help each other.Simple!! ☺️😁
@alghurraba
@alghurraba 3 года назад
@@ik5441 sorry, but women nowadays are forced to work, either by their husband and family or by circusmatnces. To provide their kids nice life, or at least average life. Especialy in the west, rent is sky high and in case couple has 2+ kids, you cannot afford to live in poverty. Social services can also take kids away if they see something is off.
@alghurraba
@alghurraba 3 года назад
@@ik5441 I agree with you But look at the times we live in. You need to keep up with the world, at least little bit. Look. We live in Norway, I don't work alhamdulilah, my husband earns enough. So I'll focus on our kids, with the blessings of Allah. But in the future, with more kids, we will struggle. Even now we love quite simply, we cannot afford new technology, we save as much as we can. Yes, our beloved Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, lived in poverty. Sahabas too. If I live in poverty, social services here will take away our kids. If our kids won't have nice mobile phone, nice shoes, clothes, teachers will notice. Doctors will notice. And they will report it. I'm saying that we should move to Muslim country, but where? Living there is also very hard in another hundreds aspects. I have my whole family here as well, I cannot just move across the world. It's not that simple. Every mom wants to stay home, but nowadays we need to keep up with the world, at least until certain level.
@Mark-go7qm
@Mark-go7qm 3 года назад
@@alghurraba lol why do you have to in that society ? If you have priority for Islam you will go to any muslim practicing country.
@rab251
@rab251 3 года назад
@@wanderer318 No one is saying gender roles should be compromised. Look at this way,If the man isnt earning sufficient money to meet the needs of the house hold & the woman is educated and holds down a better job...she is doing it to help her husband and household..cut out this backward thinking.If my husband could maintain everything properly...which is difficult in these days with one salary....I would stay home and be happy..but it's not viable...I want to contribute as a team.Women do most of work anyway in and out of home...we not complaining. 😁Stop moaning!!! Life to short☺️
@rab251
@rab251 3 года назад
@@alghurraba Force!!! Circumstances dear...that makes a woman to work...if the husband salary can manage to maintain the household then fine...what's wrong with a woman working????
@justCommando
@justCommando 3 года назад
Only the cookers deserve good working husbands.
@privatesigma-dc4xv
@privatesigma-dc4xv 6 месяцев назад
what about the wife which can't cook?
@missbmissb1024
@missbmissb1024 Год назад
I am a black woman and I got married to the wrong man 12 years ago,,I remember how I will try to be a great wife to him cooking, cleaning,,he just didn't care,,I am so glad it's over.
@noormuzamil9850
@noormuzamil9850 10 месяцев назад
So you left him
@muskaan1987
@muskaan1987 3 года назад
If she don't cook food you don't bring her money 💰💰💰 simple. She will learn lesson. Its a 2 way system.
@saacidsahal5588
@saacidsahal5588 Год назад
@Alessandro F. then why are you women complaining that the man don't bring money?
@med7789
@med7789 Год назад
The wife does not have to obey her husband in what is haram and also in what goes against her rights that Allah has given her. For in theory, Allah has given her rights and in practice, men do NOT have the right to take away the rights that Allah has given to women. For example, if the husband asks his wife to work outside the home, to have a job, the wife does NOT have to obey (she is not obliged) because this request goes against her rights (that her husband should work for her and provide for her and her right not to work if she does not feel like it) Just as the husband has no right to force his wife to work outside the home, he also has no right to force her to work inside the home through household chores because again this request goes against her rights as given by Allah. It is her husband's responsibility to provide for her and this does not only involve bringing in money but it involves providing for ALL of the woman's needs. Islamic marriage places this responsibility on the man, not the woman. Marriage does not imply that the woman works, either inside or outside the home. She may do so out of love and kindness, but she is not obliged to.
@nidajamal7850
@nidajamal7850 Год назад
Lmao. Providing your wife is fardh for a husband, while cooking and cleaning is not a fardh act to be performed by women. If a woman don't cook, she wouldn't be sinful, but if a husband dosent provides he would be. Stop seeing both of them from the same sight, both are different. Although I believe if a husband is providing for his wife, she must definitely do the household chores.
@defenderofdecency7218
@defenderofdecency7218 2 года назад
Yes, women have to cook for their husbands even if they also work outside of the home. As the saying goes, the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. When a woman cooks a good meal meal with a lot of care into it, it creates bonding with her spouse. However, men need to help out with their wives with some of the household chores as did our beloved Prophet (PBUH) for his wives. It’s a good Sunnah and it also helps bring the spouses closer together.
@MH-bf4uu
@MH-bf4uu 2 года назад
Actually two of the madhabs disagree
@med7789
@med7789 Год назад
The wife does not have to obey her husband in what is haram and also in what goes against her rights that Allah has given her. For in theory, Allah has given her rights and in practice, men do NOT have the right to take away the rights that Allah has given to women. For example, if the husband asks his wife to work outside the home, to have a job, the wife does NOT have to obey (she is not obliged) because this request goes against her rights (that her husband should work for her and provide for her and her right not to work if she does not feel like it) Just as the husband has no right to force his wife to work outside the home, he also has no right to force her to work inside the home through household chores because again this request goes against her rights as given by Allah. It is her husband's responsibility to provide for her and this does not only involve bringing in money but it involves providing for ALL of the woman's needs. Islamic marriage places this responsibility on the man, not the woman. Marriage does not imply that the woman works, either inside or outside the home. She may do so out of love and kindness, but she is not obliged to.
@Seruna9
@Seruna9 Год назад
@@med7789 yea but the wife must also provide sexual needs for the husband, not going out of the house without the husbands permission, treating her husband in a good manner, submitting herself, etc
@jonikfirst9760
@jonikfirst9760 Год назад
As-salamu 'alaykum wa rahmatullah Fear Allah brother and don't allow ads on your channel. They contain haram things. There are other ways to earn money
@etcwhatever
@etcwhatever 3 года назад
What if the husband is a cook? Im not trolling ok. I like to cook and to clean the house thank God.
@zakirnaikahmaddeedat3651
@zakirnaikahmaddeedat3651 3 года назад
Nothing wrong insya Allah. Cooking and cleaning is doable by both men and women.
@etcwhatever
@etcwhatever 3 года назад
@@wanderer318 yes indeed not obligated off course for men. But mine doesnt let me cook because hes a cook 🤣
@angelp4724
@angelp4724 Год назад
Problem with the mom being at home/readily available to take care of the kids' needs is the children can easily assume she is less busy than the husband and value the mom's time less. Even when this is not true, and the mom is doing many things, this is a matter of perception imao. I think women working part-time is good 👍 it shows the children her time is valuable.
@muslimempirestudentofknowl8650
@muslimempirestudentofknowl8650 3 года назад
Mash’Allah 🤣
@safynwaislam7111
@safynwaislam7111 2 года назад
Asalamu Alaykum Warehmatullah What was the name of the book that Sheikh Uthman mentioned at the end please?
@yousefshehata6330
@yousefshehata6330 3 года назад
I think I'd prefer cooking in a restaurant for customers, cooking for my husband tho? Naaah
@fahimfuad9326
@fahimfuad9326 3 года назад
what more to expect from narrow minded people
@ZaineBization
@ZaineBization 2 года назад
Husband? You have a profile picture of a man but say husband? 🧐
@yousefshehata6330
@yousefshehata6330 2 года назад
@@ZaineBization I was quoting what feminists say
@ZaineBization
@ZaineBization 2 года назад
@@yousefshehata6330 ow ok, yeah that's true bro.
@hirakomal8639
@hirakomal8639 2 года назад
He is so wrong when he thinks what ever man says, women needs to obey. A man can only ask politely and respectfully for things only allowed by Allah. Not what he thinks pleases him. And it is the other way around, if a women have any need, she need to ask politely and respectfully. She can’t ask what Allah did not allowed.
@hirakomal8639
@hirakomal8639 Год назад
@@mdjosimuddin4244 only those what Allah has asked women to do for him. Not every order!
@renatad.2554
@renatad.2554 3 года назад
Man comes home after 8-9 hours of work? I woke up the first and go to bed the last. My work starts at 7 a.m and finishes at 11 p.m. 7 days a week, 365 days a year. No a single day off, no sickness leave
@jeremygonzalo6649
@jeremygonzalo6649 3 года назад
That's your problem feminist, keep that to yourself. Also, stay single with that attitude
@renatad.2554
@renatad.2554 3 года назад
@@jeremygonzalo6649 I'm feminist only because I dare to say that I work more than my husband taking care of 3 kids? :D Go educate yourself and find out what feminism is
@renatad.2554
@renatad.2554 2 года назад
@Syed Rafsan Imam the problem is that a lot of men don't recognise women's hard work only because they 'stay' at home. This is not my individual case. This is the case of the vast majority of mothers.
@Blaze72sH
@Blaze72sH 2 года назад
The answer is simple, don't do it. If you like it then stop complaining about it on internet and boasting about how you work "more" than your husband. Your comment is disrespect to all the mothers.
@renatad.2554
@renatad.2554 2 года назад
@@Blaze72sH in your opinion I complain only because I dare to point out that... women also work and many of them work even more than their husbands? And what 'all the mothers'? I'm a mother of 3.
@fleurea9575
@fleurea9575 3 года назад
Assalamu Alaeikum, a question: if the woman accept to be' a house wife and gave up her sudies... does the man have to share everything with her ? For example take her advice about the guests and who is coming...?
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
He may or may not. Decision is up to him.
@sweettea1193
@sweettea1193 2 года назад
He doesn't have to, but a good husband will take his wife's opinions into account if she's intelligent and reasonable
@saacidsahal5588
@saacidsahal5588 Год назад
if she gaves up her career is up to her as long as she wasn't forced and the man is working for her
@majestic6303
@majestic6303 3 года назад
Men and women are good at particular things. Woman are good at cleaning and organizing the kitchen. I knew an aunty who never taught her son how to clean and cut chicken and do laundry (which is normal). When he newly got married and his mom called and asked what he was doing, she got upset knowing that his wife making him cut chicken and laundry. She feels like it’s a woman thing culturally way, taking care of the house. Even though the wife works too.
@sb_1389
@sb_1389 3 года назад
It's not the mother's job to interfere in her son's marriage. 🙄
@unknowninvisible2519
@unknowninvisible2519 3 года назад
I see men should cut up chicken and meats. In my family, it's known that men knows how to cut up meat and most times they're the one who does it because it takes so much strength to do so. (not necessarily chicken) That part I don't see a problem with a woman letting her husband cutting up chicken/meats. On a side note, a mother being involve in her son marriage most times would create problem that's unnecessary. That mother is doing something wrong minding other people business as well. Edit: also I should add, that woman is working outside of the house. I don't see a problem with him "helping" with "just the laundry" I mean, if he doesn't want to do it then don't let his woman work outside, but perhaps she might be needed in the society, and if she is, then he should understand that and try doing his part in doing chores in the home as well. That man is spoiled if that's how his mother thinks.
@jubairomar2676
@jubairomar2676 3 года назад
@@sb_1389 The only woman that truly and unselfishly cares about a man is his mother.
@jubairomar2676
@jubairomar2676 3 года назад
@@unknowninvisible2519 Nope.
@LazyPepe2359
@LazyPepe2359 3 года назад
Lmao then why did he marry a working woman, he will literally never get a single penny from her work anyways. Guys stop simping, be a man, just an attractive chick is not worth it if all she provides for u is s*x.
@saacidsahal5588
@saacidsahal5588 Год назад
nowadays women also work and that is none of my problem ; she works for herself and her parents not for me and i work for her,kids and my family and she has to cook unless she is sick without forcing
@mr.ak-facttech9856
@mr.ak-facttech9856 7 месяцев назад
It shouldn't be 50\50 if a man is obligated to provide for his wife even she is a millionaire in the same way a wife is obligated to obey the husband even if she is a working women..which may include cooking and cleaning only for the husband not for the entire house...but helping ur wife is a sunnah
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