Also not all women are attracted to status and money. Maybe the type these guys have been around and morality has definitely been on the down slide the last 25 years or so, but there are a lot of women who want a good man and certainly don’t need him to be rich or famous or powerful. The women who are all about that give women a bad name. And yes I know they’re out there. Looking for some man to pay their way through life and throw money at them and all they have to do is spread their legs, there are a lot of them. But not everyone is like that.
I believe it's called temptation. You could say you would never do this or that for a million dollars, but let someone ask you in person while they hold a million dollars in their hands.
It's still somewhat true. I say someone is only faithful if their fantasy is impossible. Meaning, if a faithful woman had a chance with her favorite rock star or something? If an sexy actress was trying to seduce a faithful guy who was a fan of hers, he'd do her
I don't go that far. When my gf tells me about guys who keep trying even after she tells them she has a man. I tell her it's because she didn't reject them or ignore them. When the guy asks why, they're not owed an explanation. They don't really care why you're saying no. They just want to overcome your objections and keep trying. When they want my advice, I tell them they can say something like, "No thanks, my man is the only guy I'm interested in." If the guy ignores the no. Say something like, "okay, I said no, you're starting to harass me at this point." If he tries again, then at that point say something like, "You're ignoring the answer 'No' from a woman. That's rapist vibes." Believe me, he'll probably get away as fast as he can. If not, act scared and pull out a can of pepper spray
That is not only absolute facts you speak but what should be and should have ALREADY been the standard in society with dating that's why it's so messed up now. I met a girl and was in a similar situation as you said at the beginning of your comment when you described how men don't care if she says she has a man, because nowadays men think she just lying or playing hard to get. Or even like you said if she even responds and gives him an opening it won't matter to him after that. That's what happened to me because I tried again and she acted like it was no problem. Long story short it led to things which of course she lied and was sneaking around on her man which by the way she lived with him in HIS Mom's house with her child smh. The last female I dealt with was a similar situation to somewhat but I ain't trying to go into that because she was looney lol.
My ex cheated on me while I was deployed. I kicked her out and moved on. My oldest son says she now lives in a run down trailer park in Texas. Good riddance.
My wife was beautiful, friendly and , like all women, sometimes crazy. She was also dedicated, honest, and faithful and we trusted each other. Dated six years, married forty until she passed. Women are human before marriage, and their still human after and the number two thing in marriage is trust, true love is number one and this has to go both way.
@@kevinsturges466 it’s absolutely lovely and beautiful to hear men speak about their ladies in such a honourable way. Especially, in this day and age. It gives me hope and consolation that there really still are some beautiful souls of men who are still out there, not looking over their shoulders because they have/had a great and enchanting woman just there, stood/standing right beside them, not over their shoulder. I truly believe that God looks down on such men preciously with fatherly pride. In this, I am certain.
@@dellclouds3090in 1924 people were saying the same thing. Times change, culture changes but people are still people. Disloyal people aren’t a new phenomenon, and loyal people haven’t gone extinct.
People like this I don’t listen to advising us men on relationships….I listen to my parents or elderly folks that have been married for years…they got the remedy
But in their day, they didn't have smart phones where your woman could be contacted by any man on earth. It's like when they would tell us, "Go out and pass your resume around town, you'll get a job."
I was raised to have respect for people and not ignore and be a bitch for no reason so nah lmfao. “I’m flattered, but I’m happily married” works every time and they’re almost always SO respectful about it and apologize. I’ve never had a guy be pushy after saying that. Women are the ones who don’t respect marriages and relationships more often than not. You don’t have to be rude to be a faithful and respectful partner or spouse. Silence and ignoring dudes is what might get you harassed or put you in a shitty/dangerous situation. It pisses people off for no reason And if you’re only as faithful as your options then you’re not faithful at all. Any man (rich famous etc) could show up at my door and offer any amount of money and I would never cheat on my husband. Real women and real men wouldn’t break marital vows for anyone. It’s called self control. If you don’t have it, you’re not a man (or a woman). You’re a little boy or girl in a man or woman’s body.
Thank you for saying so! What you described is the reaction I typically receive. It works every time. When you’re rude and disregard others as though they’re not human beings and don’t matter, that’s what can anger a person!
Saw him in a vid before this one Refer to women an "B" He fail as a bf and wld never make a good husband 😒Side Note: Men referring to women as Bs...does this apply to the women in their fam?
In the Western world, we don't acknowledge our neighbours. In other parts of the world, the kids of a whole suburb get together every day to play soccer on the street. Big difference.
One thing I appreciate about Kevin is he’s secure in his manhood & he’s not afraid to admit if someone is handsome. BUT sometimes he should learn to backdown when Keith suggest it.
And that's why I don't speak to my neighbors wife and vice versa, and would cut it short if she ever tried. If you love your neighbor, you do everything you can to keep the peace and make sure there are no misunderstandings
Usually things lead to other things. The key is scouting properly, drafting the right pick, and watch the flags. As soon as the lights hit yellow floor your way out of there. Biology and nature makes it hard for men and women to have platonic relationships. One side is going to get curious, then we have the curiosity and the cat situation.
Totally insane to be dating someone who YOU feel like is a complete simpleton and can be led to have sex with strangers because they said good morning? 😂 this seems like a reflection on you...
I think you need to set boundaries but don’t keep women under surveillance, that’s no way for either of you to live. If a woman cheats, I rather her do it, so I can know to leave that situation.
Regardless of how it's perceived or if it hurts feelings, this man is speaking the truth. There's a reason other cultures aren't dealing with rampant infidelity, promiscuity, and unfaithfulness from their women, but we, especially African-Americans, are. Feminism lied. There's a reason things were the way they were for centuries.
F they are not loyal they are not worth it! I been with my husband 30 yrs n never strayed! So not all are only faithful as their options if they are not faithful they are not urs
His remark about a fish that never opens its mout never gets caught. Ever heard of netting? Plus a fish that never opens its mouth dies due to not eating.
You can talk to other women, just don’t get too friendly with them. You can have female friends, but once the flirting starts, cut it off unless you aren’t happy with your current relationship. Most chicks have tons of male friends and most are backup dudes.
@@sincityinfinity6255 Thats an extreme that noone is going to abide by. If you havetha little self control then by all means. Im married and i speak to my female coworker on occasion. Doesn't mean i want or have to sleep with her.
there used to be a harsh harsh social pressure to anyone talkin' across the lines in a relationship the shame would keep 80% of ppl in line say what you want about freedom but people treated each other better and were less lonely
He's a horn dog and his appearance makes it clear. A thief will assume everyone is stealing from them. Silence speakes volumes & non-verbal communication is more effective in shutting someone down.
Faithfullness depends on a persons character and a lot of other things. If you study psychology you will learn all about that stuff. There are women that are fiercely loyal and others that will get swept away by stupid things so make sure you pick the right girl for the typa relationship you want.
He is correct about the ones that think outside the relationship, he's correct period. Control, No, but showing dominate attitude helps keep her straight and faithful. Eve ate the apple, remember
As a woman living in Atlanta, I feel safer by rejecting men in a friendly way. I have been cursed out for not speaking and women have been physically attacked for not acknowledging guys.
A man should never expect his woman to something for him that he is not willing to do for her. If he want her to ignore the men he will need to ignore the women.
I've seen over and over again men having np giving their significant others their phone but the woman doesn't want to. Most women run over "nice" guys but fall head over heals for narcs and pookies.
@@peronlc Based on the man in the video he is saying he don't want his girl saying anything to another man, not even I'm not interested I have a man, what I'm saying is he need to give that same energy and ignore any women that say anything to him but most me want to that. It has nothing to do with protecting a women because if a man can't handle rejection he will feel the same way about being ignored and dismissed.
I got it HODGE TWINS..........If i look for a submissive wife and find a submissive wife then i am CONTROLLING HER when she is submissive. But when you look for an adventurous wife and you find an adventurous wife then you are NOT CONTROLLING HER when she is adventurous. Got it. That is some nice DOUBLESPEAK there !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So if i look for a wife who thinks her having male friends is not good for the relationship and then i find a wife who thinks having male friends is not good for a relationship then i am CONTROLLING HER by not letting her have male friends even though i PICKED HER solely based on the fact that she does NOT want male friends while in a relationship. NICE!!!!!!!!!!!!! REAL NICE!!!!!!!!
If you don’t trust her it’s not the relationship for u. From the moment I met my man, I have never even glanced or wanted anything else. It’s unimaginable. Find Godly women.
1:22 Dude is way off. Mark 12:31: “And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.”
Context matters for loving thy neighbor boils down to if you come across someone who is on the street and you're to give provide them with what is needed for the body if you have more than what that man in need has henceforth the story of the Samaritan which Jesus gave after being asked what it meant to love thy neighbor. Another thing you'll find in the Bible is that it was forbidden for a man or woman who is married to be alone with the opposite sex .
Only those in the Kingdom are our neighbors - as you should know from the 1st greatest commandment just before that Otherwise you're throwing your spiritual pearls before swine to love those outside the Kingdom as if they were one of us
Disagree with the twins on this one , I don't want my woman talking to strangers especially men who she doesn't know and are approaching her to start a conversation , only one reason men approach women.
A distressingly high number of black men are obsessed with their wife "submitting" to their "leadership". They evidently think being a husband in a marriage is like being the dictator of a totalitarian country.
*Dude's on point, though.* That's how women used to respect their man. You can "imagine" it in some kind of crazy control freak way, but in reality it is just behaving with respect for your husband. Everyone on the crew agreeing by saying "I get it" shows exactly what the guy was saying.. If it was just "craaaaazy control freak psycho", there'd be nothing to agree with. *Men will sacrifice their happiness for the family.* *Women will sacrifice their family for happiness.* Men have to stop pretending men and women are the same. It goes down to the very way we think and behave.
Facts just like for men respect their wives. Would be coo get some pyt occasionally and just say it was mistaken or not a big deal but if you married it’s different regardless of gender
You speak as if men don't abandon their families for other women, that's 2 of the biggest issues in the black community.... I know ppl like you will immediately say it's the woman that keeps the man away, but those men go to procreate with multiple women and create multiple broken homes.
@@LukeHimself to me, I’m ‘just sayin’, he’s so *insecure* about his manhood that he doesn’t ‘allow his woman’ to go about her business big and strong like a lionesses! He needs to pander to his physical insecurities by dressing like a slick pimp that is unable to keep and satisfy his woman without coercing her to be antisocial… and THAT, that right there, restores his manhood and lack of male confidence. He’s truly pathetic.
